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EducationRe: NECO Releases 2022 SSCE Results by drfasam(m): 10:59pm On Sep 29, 2022
RomanceRe: Relationship Issues: Your Advice by drfasam(op): 6:19pm On Sep 29, 2022
Nemesis0147:
See red flags like North Korea military parade grin
Abort mission....she thinks she is doing you a favor by getting married to you or what?

Let her refund you the money that is if she hasn’t used it for something else.
Thank you Bro
RomanceRe: Relationship Issues: Your Advice by drfasam(op): 6:18pm On Sep 29, 2022
purehustle101:
life is too short to be involve in these kind of drama. Run from evil while you still can. Alot of men don't know that there are women with zero drama, just take your time and find that special one.
Thank you so much
RomanceRe: Relationship Issues: Your Advice by drfasam(op): 5:28pm On Sep 29, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
you did no wrong in all this issue, and now you need to be honest with us about what you want. if you want to get rid of her and her foul attitude, do it,.... and if you want to squash things then do it and accept her back.

...but know in the back of your head that this is something that can happen again, and again and again!
I really appreciate you �
RomanceRe: Relationship Issues: Your Advice by drfasam(op): 5:27pm On Sep 29, 2022
Kingozymandias:
Here is my advise.

Take your personal life off the internet. Stop asking advise from total strangers on the internet. Go to an aunt uncle sister brother cousin friend neighbor acquaintance colleague mentor life coach, setc

Anything else is better than this. Learn to speak to people in real. The fact I am exposed and speak well doesn't make me wise. So why would you listen to advise from total strangers on the internet when you have physical living breathing people in your vicinity whom you can talk to?

Bye
Thank you so much for your response. I hid this issue from my family members. I only informed the Pastor who's in charge of our marriage counseling and he told me to be very careful.
RomanceRelationship Issues: Your Advice by drfasam(op): 5:16pm On Sep 29, 2022
Relationship issues

I am having serious relationship issues with my fiancee at the moment to the point that she blocked me from calling her line and on WhatsApp.

This issue started when I politely asked her to borrow me money to sort myself for the weekend (Is not that I don't have the money) sometimes around mid-July. She read my message on WhatsApp and then ignore it. I decided to call her on phone and asked her about the money.

She told me that she don't have any money on her. I then asked her to borrow me from the money I sent to her in respect of the wedding preparation. This Lady told me that she had already used the money for the intended purpose. I asked her why she didn't tell me before buying those items. She said that it's not everything she'll do and told me. I said okay.

She then hung up on me and blocked me on WhatsApp and blacklisted my number from calling her.

I tried calling her line (by dialing #31#Number) and she refused to pick up. I kept doing it for more than a week and then stop. After like a month she did not hear from me (dialing her number), she decided to call to inform me officially that all wedding plans and preparations have been canceled. I said okay and she ended the call.

My response did not go well with her, she decided to tell her mother what was happening. The mother call me and I explained everything. The mother tried to persuade me to drop the issue but I told her that I'm just respecting her daughter's wish.

To cut the long story short, the family has been trying to meditate between us but I told them that I'm just respecting their daughter's wish. So, the problem is not from me.

I've sent my fiancee messages to refund back the money I sent for the wedding preparation and I've counted my losses and moved on.

Please, I need your kind advice.
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by drfasam(m): 8:15am On Sep 26, 2022
Ready100:
As a man, the day you mistakenly tell your woman your income rate,,,,,, you are finished
Can you explain more
RomanceRe: Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by drfasam(m): 8:29pm On Sep 24, 2022
Bradford111:
I decided to break up with my girlfriend because she has been too busy of recent.

Not too long ago she started working for a firm so it consumes most of her time she is always busy from Monday to Saturday which she closes late..

I have tried talking to her to make sure she doesn’t misses out her Sundays with me as is the only day we can be seeing in respect to her work but for 4 weeks(Sunday’s) she couldn’t meet up to come with excuses here and there


I’m so tired of the relationship as we hardly see so decided to cut it off


What do y’all think I’m i right in doing so?
Only 4weeks and you're already complaining. I've not set my eyes on babe for about 1year and 4months now
RomanceRe: Does A Sleep Over Mean We Will Probably Have Sex? by drfasam(m): 12:24pm On Sep 24, 2022
virginprincess:
No,but it is very difficult for a guy and a girl to sleep on the same bed without anything happening.
It's possible for a lady and a guy to sleep on the same bed without anything happening. It's a matter of self-control and discipline
EducationRe: ASUU: NANS Rejects FG's Black Market Judgement by drfasam(m): 2:59pm On Sep 21, 2022
Yankee101:
So una big pass courts?

Abeg withdraw their salaries and mass terminate them

I'm with students in this one. We have lots of graduates that qualified at home and abroad looking for jobs
You think it's easy to sack all university lecturers at a go? APC government would've done that since without thinking of going to court
EducationRe: ASUU: NANS Rejects FG's Black Market Judgement by drfasam(m): 2:53pm On Sep 21, 2022
TravelRe: Which State Has The Worst Capital In Nigeria? by drfasam(m): 7:02pm On Sep 15, 2022
Jashub:
Try visiting Minna , Niger state. You will think you were in 1934
Bitter Truth
HealthRe: I've Not Seen My Period For Almost 7weeks Now, Yet I'm Not Pregnant by drfasam(m): 10:28pm On Sep 10, 2022
Hormonal imbalance and infection can cause that. It's better you see a Doctor.

joyH:
Please guys I need your help.
@mod pls help me move to appropriate section.

I am confuse, needs advice on what step to take next.

The whole thing begins on 25th July when i had unprotected sex with my bf. before then my last period came on the 17th of July. so i had sex just about a week after.

Since then uptil now i have not seen my period. Initially I worried i may be pregnant but after several urine and blood test it all turns out negetive. what could be wrong here? This is the first time i am experiencing this.

I have done 4 test myself using pt test strips. but all came negative. Yesterday I went to a private lab an de used my blood and urine sample for pregnancy test, it still came out negative.

Abeg any medical expert or any one with past experience should assist with advice on next step please.

Note, my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he himself is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just incase my age will aid in the diagnosis.
EducationRe: 11 State Varsities Shun ASUU, FG Threatens Unions by drfasam(m): 6:38am On Sep 06, 2022
adenigga:
Those state universities are not ASUU members and or their lecturers are well paid. For example, in Rivers State University, a Professor is receiving almost 1m a month. So they don't have any business with ASUU strike.

Source: https://punchng.com/11-state-varsities-shun-ASUU-FG-threatens-unions
PoliticsRe: FG Slams ASUU, Insists On No-Work-No-Pay Policy by drfasam(m): 10:30am On Sep 04, 2022
Madmazel99:
ASUU should forfeit this 6 month salary and resume back for the sake of the students.
Then they'll start a fresh session
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 15 Jobs That Can Make Your Boyfriend Promiscuous by drfasam(m): 3:38pm On Jul 04, 2022
yusufmurry:
ThankGod you mentioned Police and military

For me, lecturers? Those guys will not make heaven at all
Not all Lecturers
FamilyRe: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by drfasam(m): 11:28am On Apr 07, 2022
Sekoni003:
I have a rule; regardless of the bond or memories we used to share as friends of the opposite sex, once you get married, I tone down communication between us to the barest minimum. It's a hard choice but I'd rather not see myself as the man who ruined another man's home.

About about being close friends with already married women, that's another big NO for me. We are humans with feelings and emotions, not pre-programmed robots. Women especially tend to fall for someone who's always there to listen and be a shoulder to lean on and all that stuff. I've had several instances where I've had to subtly and politely decline a close friendship with married women. Your husband's shoulders should be more than enough for you to lean on. If you have problems, get a therapist. Muchísimas gracias cheesy
We share the same ideology
PhonesRe: FG/NCC Directive: Has Your Phone Number Been Barred?? by drfasam(m): 6:52am On Apr 05, 2022
WhatsApp banned my MTN number yesterday
RomanceRe: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by drfasam(m): 1:40pm On Mar 31, 2022
Discuss the issue with your wife first.
RomanceRe: Beautiful by drfasam(m): 2:15pm On Mar 26, 2022
[quote author=Adelani12345679 post=111380987]He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD. Prov. 18:22.

Congratulations and happy married life in advance
FamilyRe: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by drfasam(m): 9:11pm On Mar 21, 2022
Carolcitycartel:
This is my traditional wedding list...to fulfill for my bride to be mine....This is Americandad...I deactivated my profile for certain reasons. Iv fulfilled the knocking on the door list

Front page pls
This is nothing compared to the one I collected from Imo State
PoliticsRe: Is This What Nigeria Has Been Reduced To? One Word For Nigeria In This Picture by drfasam(m): 11:49am On Mar 05, 2022
Is the same thing with POS vendors and ATM machines. You'll see POS vendors sitting in front of the ATM machines and they'll say "Oga, the machine is not dispensing". Very annoying.
FamilyRe: Is This Chemistry Or Is It Bound To Happen In Marriage/relationship? by drfasam(m): 3:38pm On Sep 17, 2021
Lamanii22:
I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....
It's a bond
RomanceRe: What Are The Most Heartbreaking Words The Opposite Sex Ever Told You? by drfasam(m): 10:09pm On Aug 03, 2021
vybzkartel:
I recall proposing love to one girl

And she replied:

'so u haven't stopped this your stupidity?'

I was speechless

Was really pained and heartbroken

Share yours
She said am useless, senseless etc
EducationRe: 'Greedy' Nigerian Professors And Their Fat Salaries by drfasam(m): 4:17pm On Jul 24, 2021
Assistant lecturer (N118,277 -N137, 334); Lecturer II has a doctorate degree (N129, 724 – N153, 563); Lecturer I has at least three years post-PhD experience on the job (N160, 809 – N203, 778); Senior Lecturer with at least six years experience on the job (N222,229 –314, 159); Associate Professor (with at least nine years experience on the job: N277, 179 – N350, 169) and a Full Professor with 12 and more years experience on the job (N332, 833 – 416, 743).

Is this what you called fat pay?


Thiwalade:
Dr Tade from vanguard.

Source : https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/greedy-nigerian-professors-and-their-fat-salaries/

I gazed on in amusement as a professor retired sometime ago in a rather unceremonious manner. I could see his melancholic face as he gave his retirement speech, telling of various tales regarding sufferings he had to endure while on the job as though he's trying to motivate the junior collegeaues. I could see his facial expressions carried the "what next" remark in the evening as the event came to a close. He didn't seem a man happy to be retiring, probably unsure if he'll get his pensions.
PoliticsRe: Lawmakers Fight Over Electronic Transmission Of Results (Video) by drfasam(m): 1:30pm On Jul 17, 2021
Show of shame
CelebritiesRe: Obi Cubana Mother's ₦30M Coffin (Photos) by drfasam(m): 9:48pm On Jul 16, 2021
That's is it my sister. The young ones need empowerment

Aafsat:
What if his friends had given him that 30million,he uses 1 million for a casket, divide the remaining 29 million into 500k or 1million and give it to young men in his community to start business,wont the world be a better place. I know it is their money and they can spend it however they like. So many young men are looking for funds to start a business. Lets help each other biko.
PoliticsRe: House Of Reps Passes Electoral Amendment Bill, Adopts E-Transmission Of Results by drfasam(m): 1:33pm On Jul 16, 2021
That's good news if it's true.
PoliticsRe: Intelligence Services Locate Sunday Igboho's Hideout - Daily Post by drfasam(m): 2:08pm On Jul 14, 2021
I don't know their own definition of intelligence. Their intelligence has host preference.
AntiBeEmCe:
They said intelligence? Intelligence unit that cannot track where Bokoharam is keeping Baptist students, that one na intelligence? Intelligent mor0ns they are. cheesy

What did Igboho do that they want to arrest him? Bandits are roaming freely unperturbed...and they want to arrest Igboho for simply exercising his constitutional rights. Cl0wns.

That "tactical" excuse they are giving is stale, all of the south, not just SW is already tensed.
CareerRe: Learning To Drive From Someone Or Going To A Driving School? by drfasam(m): 5:23pm On Jul 08, 2021
SportsRe: England Vs Denmark: EURO 2020 Semi-Finals 2 - 1 (Live) by drfasam(m): 9:21pm On Jul 07, 2021
Hahahahahahaha

CzarChris:
Denmark, please do us a favor and win this game.

If england win, we no go hear word for 2years.
HealthRe: Man Commits Suicide In Katsina (Photo) by drfasam(m): 6:16pm On Jul 06, 2021
Yes oooo
Reelmii:
And his kins man is the president


What a shame

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