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niggereyez:
that's impressive!

....if they did deserve it, then congrats to both 'em and d lecturers.

...modified. ..
back then in school, during my clinical exams, a Professor of Paediatrics said to me... "we are doing Nigeria an honour by failing you students"...
I still passed the course wit a gd margin (though not distinction).... but it left me asking whether these lecturers are truelly out to help students' academic performance


just noticing ayam FTC...
buh dats non of my business

keypad1:
ashawo na im dey niaja now oooo.....no decent girl again

*spits*

DeeMain:
Ma'am, you appear intelligent and good so I'm going to address u as one.

Your options are not A or B as you've made it seem. Have you had a showdown or open communication talk with him? Have u gone to pastors, counsellors or coaches/therapists? I purposely used plurals ma. Have you drawn boundaries with him and kept them if he crossed them? Have you asked him what's missing in your marriage now that's making him want to ruin everything? Have u told him the cost? Have you told him how deeply you are hurting and asked him where he is hurting in your marriage with a view to both of you retracing your steps?

Note: I have listed these few options believing you are a good commnicator or will learn how to before you talk with him.

My point is Smart people know that options are not just 2, they are actually many. List your options, work through them. If nothing else works, which I doubt, since you said he is a good man, then you can come to other 'risky' options. Till then try to save it first before destroying it as you are planning to.

I say No to cheating by either men or women. I only gave u this advice because you are the party looking for a solution. If your husband was the one who posted seeking for help, my advice would be different.

bemyguest:
Men make up is cheating whether married or not. I will do same to my husband. As he did not think about my feelings while indulging himself.

sweetylicious:
Do you know that this is the reigning tin now,or maybe it has always been happening but I haven't been aware.If you go to the court, you must always see a case of molestation.It is normally a little child who hasnt fully attained puberty.All these so called uncles that calls them 'my wife'. Running to hug the uncles with only pant.Pls parents be careful

sweetylicious:
Do you know that this is the reigning tin now,or maybe it has always been happening but I haven't been aware.If you go to the court, you must always see a case of molestation.It is normally a little child who hasnt fully attained puberty.All these so called uncles that calls them 'my wife'. Running to hug the uncles with only pant.Pls parents be careful

Clone2020:
Suits them well... Women love to throw themselves at male celebrities especially musicians... I don't get it really, its not as if the guy will date u or give u his money. If he wasn't famous, u wouldn't even look at him, so why do girls throw themselves at celebrities even the ones who aren't good looking?

skentelelady:
A serious dude should not even disclose how fat his account is to a lady he wants to date. This will enable him to know how materialistic the girl is

Some guys that do such dnt really have serious intentions while some serious ones feel money can buy love

Be wise

wristwatch:
World richest people
1. Carlos Slim Helu (Telecoms Engineer)
2. Bill gates(Comp Engineer)
3. Warren buffet( Petroleum Engineer)
....
5. Laskhmi (Mechanical Engineer)

checking d list frm 1st - 100th, U wont see any medical profession. Infact Agriculture is among .. Meaning Engineering and Agriculture rule far better dan Medical field.

Dont envy their chicken change of 60k sal. With time u will overtake them and they wont see d flash of ur brake light.

Damlesky:
I'm studying Architecture still new though. 300L students are already having clients sef. Guys in 600 levels are already comfortable. Wetin concern us, na to design hospitals or industries. You can work as an architect, lecture and go into business at the same time. No need to cry over salary.






I REP ARCHITECTURE!!!

Elantracey:
The disparity is displayed everywhere , though the usefulness of the medical field cannot be overemphasized they can't function properly without the help of engineers , take my school for example , the there are two medical hostels with are the best in the school while engineering has none and now even the newly built hostel is still being deliberated on whether it should go to the medical field.

dridowu:
@op, when medical student are busy reading during/after session , where are engineering student ?
Whe Doctors are busy at work during strike, public holiday and night duty, where are the engineers ?
Where are the engineers when the Docs are using part of their hard earned money to cater for some patients ?
Where are the NSE/COREN , when NMA/NVMA/NMDCN are disucssing the future with govt ?
Where are the engineers when the Docs are been woken up in the middle of the night to attend to their enemies/friends ?
Where are the enginners when the Docs have an accidental injury ?
Where are the engineers when the Docs are giving real bite from relation of the patient that dies ?
Guy, no time for story , just face your work and leave the medical field alone.
Jah Bless