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godunia:
Marital rites varies according to traditions. For instance in my place, introduction means coming with your family to d girls with your people to formally inform d parents of d girl of your intention to marry their daughter. The girls consent would be sought and if she agrees,her family accepts whatever d groom to be and his family would present. At this stage technically, she becomes your wife.this is also d case of Joseph n mary in d bible.d angel of God refered to mary as his wife despite not been married officially.A responsible msn takes over d responsibility of his woman even before introduction. Why should a girl even want to marry a guy who's not showing any form of response-ability?I tire for girls of these days o.selfishness everywhere.guys, let's all act responsibly.

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The person who asked this question is very irresponsible.

I wonder how the lady in question reasons
You agree to marry a man and take him to your parents yet he hasn't shown financial responsibility towards your education,He is skeptical and shys away meanwhile ordinary "toasters" and boyfriends are paying fees and assisting in other needs

Hmmmm,whoever marries this poster should be gainfully employed and ready to foot her bills n take care of her kids. He is a stingy man.. Next question will be "After marriage, whose responsibility is it to buy food,pay rent and children's school fees..My wife or I? "

peedeeasobie:
Its only a stupid man that will disrespect his wife just because he paid her school fees.

If he disrespected her for paying her school fees, he will also disrespect her even he doesn't pay her school fees.

So, blame the girl for marrying a stupid man because there are honorable men out there.

Most men are actually SILLY... nowadays, husbands disrespect wives because they bring money for feeding n pay rent for the house their wives live with them. Honorable men have gone into extinction. What remains now are STUPID men

NeduLuiZ:
Introduction and marriages are two different things. It's her parents responsibility since she hasn't been handed over to the spouse

But the spouse can bleep her before the handing over but he can't assist in paying her fees?

It's sad how and why you even started loving somebody in the first place.
That was a costly mistake. Take heart

JUST HATE HIM... FOR NO REASON.. JUST HATE AND HATE AND HATE!!
Get busy. Make new friends!! You will forget it

Waohhhh! It's been a busy day Have been at Aso Rock Villa, helping Mama Piss pack her luggage

Chei! We women sabi get load o See Ngwo ngwo! Anyway,she is set for the trip back Otuoke.. Loading....

This Jona is a failure Charity begins at home but he failed his people


Tufiakwa!!

Raymondenyi:
ok , can I PM You?

Alright

Raymondenyi:
I think I know you, u worked at BMSH Right?

Nope, never been to BMSH

Any child who loves his /her father more than mother


is






SICK



who can be compared to a mother?



Father that can abandon you at anytime, marry a new wife n have hundreds of you?

My mother first, my mother middle, my mother last


Father is just to provide money.. and once the child is able to fend for his/herself financially


Father is not of any use!

SSGUniport:
But she would have told the guy to use a Condom...

And what if he refused?

As if they like wearing condoms sef. mtcheeew!

marque:
I've tried my best to explain to her the best way I can. She's my mother and I can't be rude to her.

Guy,you better stop embarrassing your mother (even if we don't know her )...You should be thinking of how to be settled,make money n spoil ur mother with goodies.. Imagine ur mum is begging ur dad for money but he is forming he doesn't have cos he got other stuff to do.. stuff like what? it won't pass beers n girlfriends.....


Use ur head.. Mother is all..Good or bad,right or wrong. ur father can never be like ur mother to u.always support ur mother!

Whatever the case.. good or bad.. nothing will make me take sides with my father against my mother.

No matter the situation, no matter the condition, I don't want to know who was right or wrong


All I know is only my mother is important to me. I will always support her in totality, irrespective of anything.. I could talk calmly in private n try correcting her if she was at fault but never in this world, not in the next world will I take sides with my father..


Anyway,op is a guy.Am glad his sister is in mother's favour....

babyosisi:
Exactly
Especially if you know he will use it against you,you don't need to tell him about every man that has poked you
Unnecessary detail
If you worked as a hooker( ashawo) and has turned a new leaf,you are free to keep that detail to yourself
It's not necessary to share all that worthless tale in order to appear honest
Old things are passed away,leave them that way
He isn't telling you all of his so you need to keep yours too
Don't show out yourself in a terrible light and destroy your reputation by blabbing about details of your past,destroying yourself with your own mouth.
If you had 5 abortions ,must you talk about them with your man?
What for?
Has he told you how many abortions he sponsored?
O ho
So why the details

Wonder if ladies who suffer from oral diarrhoes will hear. talku talku. mtcheeew!

Miscellaneous:
lol…… whose fault is it? It's the female's fault looking at it logically…

It takes TWO to tango
It takes a man and a woman to produce a pregnany

Taylor86:
can TB Joshua help this lady in future to conceive again?

Father Lord pls prepare and grade hell fire according to our quality and quantity of sins committed on earth

Lol...The irony of the matter is such ladies are the ones who end up conceiving without stress,going through pregnancy and labour without complications..... The world is a funny place.. Karma is dead, That's if it ever existed... Have seen ladies who had 5+ abortions before marriage have wonderful kids sharperly while virgins n non abortion comitters are still fasting n praying.....


God is not man!

SSGUniport:
DrGroove you're sounding... Never Mind, I hope you're not the DrGroove I know from Choba.

And what happens if am that DrGroove... I know you Engr U U, former SUG Sec...
A lady gets pregnant and aborts it
nobody talks about the guy or did she impregnate herself

Akshow:
May the spirit of this innocent baby haunt down the evil woman who did this to an innocent child. This is blue murder and may d murderess know no peace. so sad......

And may the owner of the sperm that produced this pregnancy have no peace. May his sperm become infertile!

Raymondenyi:
dr. Groov; how u dey?

Cool

Very common in South Eastern Nigeria
Illiterate men be training ladies to become graduates for marriage


Don't be surprised the said lady comes back n marries him.. As long as he got the money


Go to the East,u heard Female Doctors,Lawyers, Professor marry primary or secondary school cert holders or drop outs


Money is the koko

kandiikane:
Nonsense. One can't take photo with even a friend again? Change your mindset mehn, it stinks.

One can take pictures with friends but uploading them on social media is not wise. The society reads "meaning" into every association btw a man and a woman.

Pop,good you ignored the fool

That's their style

Once they see a lady, their balls start scratching them and they start singing nursery rhymes ..



I always say any man who means well will take time,get to know with an open mind, be friends with you. Not jumping to romance n calling u sweet names. I hate it with passion

Her mum is right
There is nothing like serious girlfriend
I once uploaded a picture I took with a colleague, just a friend at school on my whatsapp. My parents saw it,all hell broke lose


It's shameful for a girl to be associated with a guy who isn't her husband in public

Relationship should be a secret till it materializes

A man can flaunt 100 girls as girlfriends, another 100 girls are waiting to marry him

But for a woman,once you have been identified with one man...sorry! Other men run away from you and if the relationship ends,nobody gon approach u..nobody wants a leftover.
moreover, It's not just nice to showcase who you are having premarital sex(That's what people do n call it relationship ) with to the world.

Strange things The other lady has a child on her back. Na wa o

Miscellaneous:
lol………

I followed cos u always use any slight opportunity to abuse men & I always find it funny …… lol

continue……

Learn the difference btw abuse and praise!

Does Flavour wear shirts?

sluvy4tune:
9.2/10






I am a Nigerian Lecturer , I can't score you 100% its against the rule

That's high
In medical school,it's 5/10 = 50%

Yoluba man That's their style #cowards

Men and rape

Now specializing in raping children.. una well done o

Akpabioooooooo!

Raiders:
you are ignorant. Thats someone's child and brother. how would you feel if that was your brother that was killed?

A cultist is a deadly killer.... He was sent to school to study, and shapen his life for a brighter future but he chose to join cult..... If my brother or son or anybody I know joins cult, and he is killed..serves him very right! No pity for demons!

They call themselves men and brag how numerous and valueless women are

How they can have as many women as possible

yet their jealousy knows no bounds when a relationship goes sour

When a woman leaves them,they start commiting atrocities


They feel bad.... It makes me wonder. so women don finish for the world?

empty barrels
weaklings

Youngpo413:
its lust lust and pure lust
Without the pusy and dick,I'm sure men and women will be real enemies.
The fact is that women love dicks and that why they try all means to get close to men and men on the other hand will take advantage of their pusy...for their mind,relationship don start but in reality,they are deceiving themselves.

It's actually money n pusy
Men want pusy, women want money

When both are getting that,no issues.. they claim to be in love.... Once one person stops the supply or hoards the product, the other person also stops supply n That's d end.... Love is scam n deceit