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To maintain a healthy vagina you must know what to do to avoid infection and it is equally important to educate your sexual partner on some of them to also help you help the vagina.

Here are some few things you can do or avoid.

1. Fingering
During pre-intimacy or romance, as part of it some people insert their finger or fingers into the vagina. The question is, how many people wash their hands before sexual intercourse? Some people do not even keep their nails clean so it gathers a lot of germs and during the fingering, these germs are deposited in the vagina...leading to infection.

2. Anal sex
I want to draw the attention of those who engage in anal sex with the opposite sex that it is dangerous to have anal sex and continue having penovaginal sex. If this is done, the penis will pick bacteria from the anus and deliver them to the vagina even if you are using a condom....which will lead to infection.

3. Quest to make the vagina TIGHT
Some guys complain bitterly about the vagina of their sexual partners. They complain that it's too big and they no more feel any sensation during intercourse. Some ladies are therefore pushed to find a quick solution and in the process some use herbs or other substances in the vagina with the hope of making the vagina tight. Some of the substances cause infection or sepsis. Some of the herbs can cause the vagina to get tighter to the extent that penetration is no more possible. This will require treatment.

4. Douching
Some parents, when bathing for their baby girls put warm water in a milk tin or dip a towel in the warm water and pour the water through a hole made beneath the tin or squeeze the water out of the towel into the vagina of the baby. This is sooooo WRONG as it can damage the hymen.

Some parents also insert ginger or pepper or both into the vagina of adolescents as a form of punishment. This is sooooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

Some people are use to bathing by adding dettol or other detergents to the water and they put this solution inside the vagina with the help of sponge or towel or just the hand with soap to clean the vagina. This is soooo WRONG as it will change the normal flora in the vagina, leading to infection.

5. Use of water closet
Some people have the habit of not sitting on the seat of the WC when using it so they end up urinating on the seat. The possibility of picking infection when using it in that condition is high. Don't let your pant be at the thigh level when using the WC especially the public ones as the inner of the pant may rub the surface of the WC. Where the water is not running and people have used but have not flushed and you don't have any choice but to also use it, use enough toilet roll to cover before using the WC to avoid any splashes on the vulva.

6. Washing and drying

Develop the habit of disinfecting your panties frequently...depending on the number of pants you have. Keep exclusive panties to wear whenever you are menstruating and don't mix those panties with your regular panties. Pay particular attention to those panties when washing. Ensure that the panties are made of cotton and are dried in the sun or well ironed to kill germs.

7. Change sanitary pads

Some people try to economize the use of their sanitary pads so during the period they tend to still wear the pad because there is little or no blood. This is soooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

NB: If there is any bad scent from the vagina or there is a discharge coming from the vagina then it might be an infection which you have to have it treated.

Help save the vagina by ensuring that you get the message to as many friends as possible. Help save the vagina by getting the message to your spouses, mothers, friends and sisters.. Let us all join hand in saving the vagina.

helinues:
Person wey get cap no get head while the one with head no get cap. Lol

chai!!! Brotherly

Yesterday I had to visit somewhere and it was raining so I did not want to drive there since I was not too familiar with the road, so I parked my car somewhere close and used a keke (tricycle).

While I was there I got a call from a long time friend reminding me of my promise to her husband over a job, so I quickly told her my location, and asked her to tell her husband to meet me up ASAP since I will be leaving town soon.

I told her to tell her husband to meet me up where I parked my car since that place was a popular land mark .

I don’t know her husband and we have never met before.

As I sent her the address, she called me back and was so excited that I was even around her area which will make it easy for him because he did not even have transport to come out, things was that bad.

So I told her that he should pick a drop and I will pay.

In other not to keep him stranded I had to start rushing back to where I packed my car.

God, I even entered under the rain, cold, just to meet up with him so he will not be stranded.

As I was walking under the rain I saw a keke and stopped it.

The keke man asked me to beg the man inside so he will allow me join him since I was drenched, so I started begging.

The man refused and said I was wet and I told him I will sit to one side, and he refused, saying except I pay for both his fare and mine.

I agreed, then he allowed me but as I entered this man kept me uncomfortable, saying if my wet clothes touch him again I will get down.

I just kept my cool until I finally got to my destination.

I did not even reach when I stopped at the junction and paid then used my legs to walk to my car, since it was very close.

I was inside my car warming myself, then I got a call from my friend saying her husband was around, so I described my car and he came.

I saw someone knocked on my car glass, wound down and it was this same man in a keke with me. Gosh!

I was supposed to pay the keke man, and recommend him for a job?

Tears rolled down my eyes, I brought out N3,000, gave him, started my car and zoomed off.

My friend has been calling and sending me messages, I had to block her.

Be careful, many times men of gold don’t wear gold.

Be nice! Angels do not wear ID cards.

*Attitude is 100%*

How I wish a lady somewhere will volunteer herself to bath with me....

Something I have craved for, lounged for and dreamt of.

No woman to call mine, no gf.... nothing nothing....


Just me and my deeeeeeeki

When men want sex, they can say and do the right things; but how he feels about her is revealed after the sex.

Many women get great sex yet feel unloved by the man they are building a future with, many wives feel used by their husbands.

Some men start the sex well, get the high and conclude it poorly; they doze off as if their objective has been met and have no need for her anymore, making her feel it's always about him.

Women want more than the sexual high, to them it is an act of intimacy, they long for affection. Man, what she needs after the climax is...

1. To be held to sleep. Cuddle as you talk loving words to each other

2. To be gently kissed on the lips, forehead and closed eye lids. This shows even after the love making, you still yearn for her

3. To be told "I love you". This confirms to her the love making was done out of love. She is the only one you desire

4. To be touched on her belly, especially if you two are trying to make a baby

5. To be prayed for. This shows that what you two have is sacred. You are proud of your love before God

6. To be told she is beautiful. Praise her physical and inner beauty, destroy any negative self-conscious thought she has

7. To be looked at with focus. Look deep into her eyes, study her; a woman glows when she feels wanted before, during and after the sex. Search her soul through her eyes

8. To be told how amazing she was. Women often feel alot of pressure to be sexy and to be great in bed.Tell her how awesome she was, allay her fears and arrest her questioning whether she is good enough in matters sex. The more you praise her, the more she will do for you

9. Play with her fingers and the wedding ring. Fingers speak love, touch her fingers, run your finger on the wedding ring you gave her. Tell your wife you are only hers

10. Apologize or forgive, if it was make up sex. Don't let the issue go unresolved and swept under the carpet just because you had great sex.Too many couples are in problems but are hiding behind sex. Let the make up sex be the start of a new chapter

11. Stroke her skin. Many men concentrate only on the boobs and what is between the legs. But a woman's skin all over her body longs for a love sensation. Stroke her gently on her arms, back, neck, hips; escort your touch with kisses planted on her skin

12. Cover her with the blanket. Protect her even in bed. Pull the blanket over her and tuck her in. Make her feel protected and cared for by her king who minutes ago made her body tremble

13. A shower together, if the sex was morning glory or a quickie before you leave. Jump into the shower together, laugh, wash each other. This warms her heart.
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Please counsel me on this.
My husband slept with my mother. I gave birth and needed my mother to nurse my baby. But my husband started having affair with my mother and they did it not only once but for all the six months she stayed with us.

They first did it in the bathroom of our guest room my mum slept in and it continued. Amazingly, I never discovered it. A year after she had left, my husband confessed to me. He just said it didn't feel right so he wanted to confess and ask for forgiveness because it was a bad omen and he could be accursed.

I have forgiven him but have been unable to confront my mother. He also pleaded not to confront my mother so I agreed. But I want to confront my mother or cut her off. For sometime now, I don’t call or answer her calls.

Last week, she called my husband to ask if I had found out about the affair. He was with me and put the phone on loudspeaker so I heard everything. He answered no and she told him not to disclose it to me. She was not ashamed to tell him afterwards that she misses him and his kisses and their sex.

Nairalanders, I want to confront my mother. I want to cut her off forever. If my mum can do this to me, I will never forgive her. Ever!

I hear women complain about how they are not enjoying their marriages. One thing I notice is that they blame everyone for the struggles in their marriage but themselves. Do you really think you are not to blame for the problems in your marriage?

Below are 10 mistakes women make in marriage

1. USING SEX AS A BARGAINING TOOL

So many women use sex as a bargaining tool in their marriages and this is absolutely wrong. It’s wrong to deny your husband sex because you want money to change your wardrobe or maybe you want a new car. Using sex as a bargaining tool in your marriage is absolutely wrong.

2. NOT TAKING GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF

I see so many women make this mistake in their marriages. Before you got married to him, your appearance was so important but you neglect how you look and stop taking good care of yourself the moment you get married. Just because you are now married is no excuse to stop being beautiful. Your husband expects to continually see that beautiful woman he got married to and you also have to look beautiful for yourself too. Try to keep that body he fell in love with.

3. NAGGING

No man loves a nagging woman. Stop justifying your nagging, it’s wrong. You can’t complain about everything your husband does and expect peace. There are better ways to handle issues in your marriage and nagging isn’t one of them. Quit abusing and shouting at your husband; he is your husband and not your son.

4. BEING INSECURE

Being insecure is another mistake women make in their marriage. I understand you don’t want to share your husband with anyone but if you can’t really trust him, why then did you get married to him? I see women fighting other women over a man and that’s bullsh*t if you ask me. The other woman isn’t the problem; your husband is the problem. Instead of fighting the other woman, try to find out why your husband still have you and fancies her. Never bring yourself that low to fighting another woman publicly because of a man.

5. TREATING YOUR IN-LAWS AS STRANGERS

You don’t expect your husband to cut all ties with his family because he got married to you. It’s wrong and I strongly believe that if you truly love a man, you would love everything about him including his family. Learn to respect his family and don’t treat them as rags. I understand mother-in-laws can be annoying sometimes because they feel you are taking their place in their son’s life but disrespecting her won’t solve the problem.

6. DIALOGUE IS IMPORTANT WHEN THERE IS ANY DISAGREEMENT

There are bound to be times in your marriage when you and your husband would disagree on certain issues but bringing down the roof or broadcasting your differences to the world solves nothing but only worsens it. Learn how to pass across your point to your husband peacefully and respectfully. Respect for each other is needed for any marriage to work.

7. BEING IMPATIENT

This is another mistake women make in marriage. Patience is needed if you want your marriage to work. You have to learn how to be patient with your partner. I believe if you can’t be patient with your partner, then you are not ready to get married. Patience is needed in marriage.

8. IGNORING HIS STOMACH

I understand you are a busy woman and it’s really not easy combining managing a home and your career but I still think application of wisdom here is important. I understand your busy schedule means you need a cook at home to prepare the meals but I still believe the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Ensure you man is well-fed and don’t just leave everything to the cook. Cook your man his meals when you get the chance to.

9. WRONG FRIENDS

This is another major mistake most women have. I believe you need to choose your friends properly because not every one would mean well for you. Don’t just pour your heart out to anyone. It’s really wrong discussing the flaws of your husband with friends. I understand sometimes you just need someone to talk to but you should ensure you choose the right person and you also need to watch what you pour out.

10. SECRETS

Keeping things away from your husband is really wrong as it’s the fastest way to destroy trust. You and your husband are supposed to be a team and a team won’t work smoothly when there are secrets.

Men also make mistakes in marriage. Check the next post to read: 10 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE.

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1) GIVE YOUR EX HOLY SPACE

2 People you should not be too careless around:

The Ex that still loves You.

The Ex you still love.

To Avoid "I don't know how it happened?"

Tha ex that keeps sending you flirty messages, showing up where you are, when your partner is not around.

He or she will tell you different things.

"I just want us to hang out, nothing will happen". Lori Iro

"I won't bite, just a peck, for old times sake". Lori Iro

Run oh....

Before your X becomes Y your Relationship or Marriage crashed.

2) AVOID "BESTIE" OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER

Your Partner is alive, breathing and kicking, you're doing bestie with somebody else from the opposite gender, your Fiance/fiancee/Husband/Wife is not bestie material?

You are looking for trouble.

"He's just my Prayer Partner." Oshei oh, Prayer Panther.

"She's just my Confidant"

"We are just hangout buddies."

Egungun be kaiful.. Express is not far oh.

3) DON'T ALLOW YOUR HEART CATCH FEELINGS.

The moment you notice that you are getting attracted physically/Sexually/emotionally to someone else other than your partner,

You can't wait to see them, hear them, hang out with them, touch them and vice versa, Withdraw from such an individual.. Before your Relationship/Marriage will withdraw from you.

7 REAL REASONS PEOPLE MISS GOD'S WILL

1) SMALL BREASTS.
Yes, some guys actually over look Virtuous Sisters with enough wife material yards, because of the size of their chests, I kid you not. Awon Manchester lovers.

Most Men are naturally attracted to ladies with big breasts, even after salvation/sanctification,
and Many brothers intentionally or unintentionally allow this natural instinct to dictate their choice of a life partner.

Dear Brother in Christ,
You see those things, they can grow.

Yes, even the Bible says "despise not the days of humble beginning, for though your beginning be small, your latter end shall GREATLY INCREASE" so also it is with this things we are talking about

Marry her if God is bringing her to you Sir.
Don't reject true love,
Don't let go a Jewel, a Help Meet for you, a favor bringer because of something as mundane as this.

If she starts eating and sleeping well growth can happen.
Haven't you seen ladies who are like 1 before Marriage, after marriage they become like O.
I have

They say "Don't judge a book by its cover.
I say 'Don't judge a Woman by her chest"

(Same goes for the Backside, she may be flat, my brother, Marry her, if the size is really bothering you, kuku put it in Prayer, Luke 1:37)

2) SHAPE.
She's not well shaped.
It's Figure 8 or nothing.

Bros, May you not marry a Woman with shape and figure that will now later disfigure the shape and figure of your destiny.
I say Amen on your behalf.

Now I'm not saying don't seek a woman with shape, I'm saying don't reject God's will if she doesn't have the shape you want.

Because God has given her to you to shape your life, shape generations with you, shape kingdoms, and you are saying she doesn't have shape. Shape fall on you Sir.

3) COMPLEXION
This one is Self explanatory.
Initially I used to dream of a fair Jane, but now ehn, as I am, if her color is even the one they cannot see in the night, straight to the altar.
As long as its God's will.

4) COLORED DENTITION/SCATTERED DENTITION

For Pete's sake, this is something a visit or two to the Dentist can fix.

Many Men and Women do not want to stand by anybody and work on them to become the kind of Person that they like.
We just want already made food

Dentition can be fixed
Teeth Color can be fixed
Try fixing a bad Marriage.

5) DRESS SENSE
You love Her,
She loves you
God says yes, but your own is that she/he doesn't know how to dress, how to mix colors,

it's that Brother, that sister that always wins best dressed in the fellowship that you want.
God forgive you

Dress sense can be learnt
You can repackage/rebrand him or her since you have the dress sense.

6) NO BEARDS/BALD HEAD
Aunty beard gang lover,
I'm not condemning you oh, but don't because of no beards or bald hair Miss God's will for your life, it will be a mistake that will cost you gravely

7) HE'S TOO BROKE
Pastor Adeboye was once broke
Mark Zuckerberg was once broke
Two Face idibia was once broke,

Every young Man out there has a future,
Don't reject God's will for you because he's not very rich now,
That young Man drinking garri and jumping taxis today can so be promoted by God tomorrow that he'll be buying estates.
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Some of the Married Women/Men you admire today were not half as beautiful when they got Married as they are now.
Their Partners worked on them, with love, money, patience. Etc.
*****
Dearly Beloved,
I'm not saying Marry someone that you do not fancy,
I'm simply saying relax, find out God's will, and give it a try.
You'd be amazed how you'd soon be enjoying the friendship with that person you wrote off on the very first day you met them or discovered they were God's will for you.
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Whatever you do,
Marry God's Will.

candygist:
Go to a govt genaral hospital and conduct proper HIV test.

what if it's HIV, what would u have him do, Kee himself? Since it's incurable.

How can a HIV patients be fine.

How u need bro is only God..... different intake of wrong prescribed drugs will cause u more harm than good.

In this life my brother, there's only one way to strange illnesses.....which is through lord Jesus Christ.

Run to Jesus and thank me later.

I have engaged in several arguments with different people capitalizing that everything that happens in life has been programmed spiritually and it has been signed and ordained to happen that way and that particular time.

People went ahead trying more in convincing me that people die as a result of their time and purpose in life.

Some went as far as giving references about themselves and other people.

A military man told me about his life and what happened to him which made him believe that his time has not yet come.

He said, they were on a battle field with Boko Harams firing guns at each other ....and he was at war front while others are at the back including his beloved friend, but to his greatest surprise, the Boko Haram gangs threw a grenade which killed so many of their soldiers including his beloved friend, but he survived the incident...with only ear problem which was later taken care of.

Back to the topic, this man went ahead to tell me many incidents that has taken many lives which he escaped, he told me that anyday his time comes, that both of us might be gisting and something may happen...we all will survive or escape but just him will die.... that is time for me.



Please nairalanders, how true is this statement or phrase about death with time.

Please, from the time immemorial till date, we only hear/see great miracles performed by our lord Jesus Christ.

So as people claims we have more than 1000gods and goddesses all over the world,now comes my question.

These other gods, can they heal, save, redeem, provide and protect their subject just like our LORD JESUS CHRIST?

MechanicMike:



Wordsfrombimpe....YOU AGAIN AND YOR THREADS...WE NO ITS YOU!!!!!!

what the hell are u talking about

I will be 34 this year but still single. This was because I made a decision to abstain from sex until marriage. This has made men run away from me after one to three months of dating because I won’t give them what they want. I am not 100% clean because I have kissed few frogs and it has not exceeded that because I have never been sexually involved with a man. There is one particular guy who has always been off and on for almost three years now, hoping that one day, I will give in to him. He even said I should not use my abstinence rule to lose the man God destined for me. I told him that if he really valued me, he should do the needful, then he would enjoy the package all his life. He said that he needed to taste what he wanted to buy and if I got pregnant, he would come for my hand in marriage. This present generation of men want tested, okayed, and certified women before marriage. Why I am telling you all this is because sometimes, I want to give up but I remember God’s promise in my life and I brace up.

Also, when I see my friends or younger ones getting married or just being delivered of babies, I tend to question God or want to reason giving in to advances. Most times when I reason agreeing to their terms, I always get scared, like what if I get pregnant and he refuses to marry me, then I will become a single mom left to cater to my child and myself. Ma, please I need your advice and prayers.

I don’t pray for such to happen, but if it does, I will not let it affect the union. I will first ask him why he refused to tell me. He has to tell me a reason. When he does, we will discuss the welfare of the child and how I, as his wife, will take care of the baby as well.

21. SHE DOESN’T TAKE INTEREST IN YOUR SOCIAL LIFE ANYMORE A cheating wife will strongly suggest you spend far more time than usual with the boys. By pushing you aside, she buys herself more time without you around. Alternatively, she could be uninterested in hearing about your fun time at the concert or the game. Sometimes tensions like this go away, mainly when children are involved, but it’s also possible she’s switched teams.

22. SHE ACTS CHIRPY Not all unfaithful wives will have an icy attitude. Sometimes, a cheating wife dressess more attractively, purchases more provocative or sexual attire, and acts more outgoing and giddy than usual. This is because she’s having an exciting time with someone new, putting her in a good mood.

23. YOU FIND YOUR WIFE HAS BEEN LYING TO YOU You’ll have no trouble with the larger lies when you become good at telling little fibs. if your wife is dishonest about little details, like where $50 went in your joint bank account or why she arrived late because of traffic when the roads were free is among the signs of a cheating wife. How can you put your faith in her for the big stuff if you can’t even put your confidence in her for the little stuff?

24. SHE CHOOSES TO BE IN ANOTHER ROOM One of the signs of a cheating wife you’ll notice is that she wants to be alone more often. You will likely find her in a different room, preoccupied with her laptop and phone, and there isn’t any compelling explanation for why she is not sitting with you.

25. SHE AVOIDS FAMILY EVENTS One of the outward signs of a cheating wife is that she avoids family gatherings. This is because she isn’t emotionally involved with you when she cheats. She will constantly find reasons for missing family events using work or other commitments she has made.

26. SHE TELLS YOU SHE’S NOT HAPPY As much as it hurts to hear, it’s for the best that the spouse hears this. It is common knowledge among men that a dissatisfied woman may bring misery to her whole household. While her statement may come out as sudden and unexpected, her discontent has been building for some time. When your wife says “I’m not happy,” they sometimes say “...and I’m seeing someone else” right after. It’s among the common signs your wife is cheating.

27. SHE’S IGNORING YOU Keeping up the appearance of a healthy marriage is something a cheating wife may be able to do (at least temporarily), but it’s harder to do than it seems. If your wife is ignoring you every time you speak, it’s among the signs of a cheating wife. She is probably daydreaming about her new boyfriend instead of paying close attention to you.

28. IRREGULARITIES IN BANK STATEMENTS When your wife spends money behind your back, and you are entirely unaware, it is one of the most reliable signs of a cheating wife. In contrast, if she is getting cash and gifts and you do not know where they are coming from, this is another sign. Marriage is a time when two people usually speak up about their financial situations. However, you should check things out if there are issues in the marriage.

29. SHE TALKS ABOUT CHEATING… A LOT Even if a cheating wife doesn’t come out and tell you she’s involved in an affair, her behavior and words may give you pause to suspect that something is happening behind the scenes. As thoughts of adultery will undoubtedly muddle her mind, a cheating wife may ask, “What do you think about open relationships?” or “Did I mention to you that Tina at the workplace is having an affair?” Those questions are among the signs your wife is cheating. Even though she doesn’t say it outright, these can be signs your wife is cheating and that she’s thinking about another person.

30. SHE STOPS BEING JEALOUS WHEN ANOTHER WOMAN FLIRTS WITH YOU If you were the focus of attention from another lady in the past, your wife could have handled this like a game and gently placed your large head in its place. Rather than behaving that way, a cheating wife may now be using it as an excuse to tolerate her infidelity or to accept flirtation from others.

11. SHE IS DRESSING SEDUCTIVELY When your woman suddenly starts taking more care of her beauty and dressing more seductively, it might be a hint that she’s a cheating wife. Somehow, a woman who is both in love and inspired has a magnetic quality as well as changing the way they dress. They’re full of life, attractive, and self-assured. Someone has manipulated her into feeling this way, and it’s among the sure signs your wife is cheating.

12. SHE’S PAYING MORE ATTENTION TO HER APPEARANCE A cheating wife spends excessive time and energy on her appearance. Has your wife been trying to improve her appearance by paying more attention to what she wears and how she applies her makeup? Observing sudden, unexplained shifts in her fashion sense is among the signs of a cheating wife that requires open dialogue and investigation. It’s lovely to assume that your wife is getting ready to reignite the flame in your marriage, but if things have been rocky for some time, it’s usually just wishful thinking. It’s more likely that your partner has met someone else and that they are trying to impress them with the way they look at this exciting time. Your wife may be attempting to charm another person if she suddenly becomes more concerned with her appearance. This is seen through impulsive purchases of expensive clothing and increased use of makeup, by doing so it’s among the signs your wife is cheating.

13. PARTYING MORE THAN USUAL Acting out of the ordinary is also among the signs of a cheating wife. If you notice that her group of friends has expanded and she spends a lot of time partying with them, this may be a sign she is avoiding issues in her marriage. Ideally, couples may communicate without saying anything to one another. Still, if your wife is partying without telling you, these are clear signs your wife is cheating.

14. SHE ISN’T CONFIDING IN YOU A good spouse can be counted on to be there for you as your lover, closest friend, and confidante no matter what. If your wife starts confiding in other people and less in you, it’s among the signs your wife is cheating and that she no longer sees you as a trustworthy confidante. She may be finding comfort with someone other than you.

15. SHE TREATS YOU LIKE A GHOST Do you suspect your wife could be having an affair? Noticeable signs your wife is cheating is that she will act like she doesn’t see you anymore. A cheating wife doesn’t do anything to help you out, doesn’t care if you’re sick, doesn’t want to chat while you’re together, and doesn’t even offer to cook for you.

16. SHE NO LONGER SAYS “I LOVE YOU” ON A REGULAR BASIS It’s often easy to see that she’s withdrawing her affection when you no longer hear her say “I love you” and is among the clearest signs your wife is cheating on you, whether it’s physical or emotional cheating. At the same time, what you’re missing isn’t her verbal declaration of love but the accumulation of little gestures she does on your behalf that amount to the same thing. It’s normal to feel frustrated after an argument or a busy day at work. Still, it might be among warning signs your wife is cheating when these feelings persist over time.

17. SHE ACCUSES YOU OF CHEATING Ironically, the frequency with which a cheating wife accuses her husband of cheating easily indicates her loyalty. Frequently playing the blame game with their partners is also among many signs your wife is cheating and this is to help shift the focus away from themselves and their infidelity. Accusations like these may be a symptom of guilt on the accuser’s part, and they serve only to shift the focus of the conversation onto you and your actions. It’s deceptive since they may have already cheated on you despite their outward display of distaste for infidelity.

18. SHE’S AS COLD AS ICE An icy attitude is a telltale sign of a cheating wife. She won’t want to connect on any level and doesn’t smile anymore when around you. A cheating wife avoids talking to you, touching you, or even being in the same room as you. Ask her out for coffee and see where the conversation goes. Whenever possible, she’ll try to stay away from it.

19. SHE INSISTS ON TAKING SOLO TRIPS Every Sunday, you and your wife would typically go grocery shopping together. However, a cheating wife will have started giving you various reasons why she has to do it by herself. Maybe one day she mentions getting her nails done, and the next, she mentions having lunch with a friend, but none of these things have anything to do with you. This is also among the clear signs your wife is cheating. If you’re worried about where she could be going, insist on coming along with your wife on one of her solitary outings.

20. YOUR GUT FEELING You could be right to suspect your cheating wife of infidelity if you have persistent suspicions about her. Our personal experiences and assumptions color our intuition. Therefore, it is not entirely accurate, but it does make a lot of sense. If you suspect your spouse of cheating, you should approach them after you have solid proof to back up your suspicions.

1. SHE CALLS YOU ANOTHER NAME IN BED Everyone makes Freudian slips from time to time, but you should pay special attention to this one. If your wife repeatedly addresses you by a different name while you’re in bed, it’s among the signs your wife is cheating on you.

2. SHE SPENDS LESS TIME WITH YOU When you were first married, your wife was your closest confidante. Perhaps you two had a blast participating in a wide range of activities. Maybe you went to cheesy romantic comedies at the cinema and college football games when you’d rather have been doing anything else. Infidelity in the physical realm often begins with an emotional separation or mental divorce. It’s natural for partners to lose interest in spending time together during a relationship, but it’s a whole other ballgame when one partner intentionally seeks to avoid the other. Emotional separation and spending less time together is among the signs your wife is cheating.

3. NO INTIMACY AND SEX A decrease in intimacy is one of the big signs your wife is cheating. A cheating wife may reject your efforts to get close to her or have sex with her. When a cheating wife gives in, you’ll notice a change. Rely on your gut feelings; even during intercourse, you should be aware of the act she is putting on or the missing emotions. A lack of warmth and passion in sex is among the signs your wife is cheating.

4. SHE GETS MAD AT YOU ABOUT EVERYTHING Conflicts arise among the most committed couples, but the issues at stake are often worth fighting for. Partners who aren’t invested in the relationship as much could discover that their significant other’s every action is appalling, resulting in petty disputes that the other spouse doesn’t understand. Constant irritability and poor mood are also among the signs your wife is cheating. A cheating wife gets so dependent on the high she gets from her affair that she no longer has affection she once had for you.

5. SHE GUARDS HER PHONE WITH HER LIFE If you ask someone, “What are signs your wife is cheating?” this is the response you’ll get. One common characteristic of a cheating wife is a sudden and intense need for privacy when using her phone. Among them are passwords, her phone’s “do not disturb” setting, and hidden files. She may also have a second phone stashed away somewhere.

6. SHE’S STAYING LATE AT WORK — OFTEN You should exercise caution if you notice that your wife is putting in more hours than usual at work. A cheating wife uses the excuse that they must work late to conceal their extramarital encounters from their spouses. Another reason for your wife suddenly starting to work late might be because she wants to spend more time with a colleague with whom she has developed romantic feelings.

7. SHE IS ALWAYS BUSY ON HER PHONE Have you ever woken at night to find your wife missing? A cheating wife is often seen outside late at night texting or on the phone. Or perhaps she is using her phone much more than she used to. This is among the clearest signs your wife is cheating.

8. HER RELATIONSHIP STATUS HAS DISAPPEARED Altering her relationship status on her social media profiles is among the clearest signs your wife is cheating, and because of this, you may want to reevaluate the stability of your marriage. A cheating wife uses this technique to let friends know they’re open to making new connections.

9. MISS INDEPENDENT A cheating wife may transform into Miss Independent. One of the worst signs of a cheating wife is when she no longer feels the need to go home with you or require your help while doing errands. Common signs your wife is cheating is exhibiting this overall sense of independence from you and proving she can live happily without you.

10. SHE’S HANGING OUT WITH HER SINGLE FRIENDS MORE You’re thrilled that she’ll have time off to spend with you, but alas, you learn that her schedule is already jam-packed with many other commitments. If you notice your spouse suddenly making plans with her single friends more often, this is one of the signs of a cheating wife. It’s been said that one should behave like a Roman while in Rome. For a cheating wife, the temptation may increase significantly when a group of single women get together. This is because single women are more likely to attract males actively seeking relationships. A cheating wife will remove her wedding band for the evening, so anyone she meets won’t even notice that she’s married. A woman who forgets to put her wedding ring back on after coming home is among the clear signs your wife is cheating.

This is coming days after Yul Edochie deletes his verified IG photos of second wife Judy Austin and their son, Star Dike following the unfortunate demise of his first son, Kambilichukwu Edochie.

Few days ago, media personality Daddy Freeze disclosed in a video that a celebrity has discovered through a DNA test that he is not the biological father of the son he welcomed with his second wife.

After this disclosure, a lot of people suspected Yul Edochie because he had earlier deleted the photos of his son and second wife, Judy Austin from his verified IG page.

In a fresh disclosre, Kemi Oluloyo has taken to her Facebook page to reveal emphatically that the DNA test that was conducted on the second wife of the actor showed her son did not belong to Yul Edochie.

She wrote below 👇
“l just heard that DNA tests revealed that Judy Austin’s son was not fathered by Yul Edochie”.

Nnamdi Kanu Tells Supreme Court What To Do Over Ihedioha And Uzodinma’s Case In Imo State

The Nnamdi Kanu-led Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB) has told the Supreme Court to nullify the election of Senator Hope Uzodinma as Imo Governor and order a fresh governorship election in the State.

Kanu, in a broadcast via Radio Biafra on Sunday, warned that nothing short of a fresh election would be acceptable by the people.

The IPOB leader said the apex court judges should respect the wishes of the people and reverse itself in the judgement or cancel 2019 election in the State.

“No matter what their plan is, Imo (Supreme Court ) judgment must not stand. We are warning the whole world, I do not know who Emeka Ihedioha is; frankly speaking, I do not care, but what happens in Imo affects everybody. It must not be allowed to stand to avoid disaster and chaos.”

According to Kanu, who has been broadcasting from abroad, the only reason the Federal Government wants to have Imo at all cost is to have the governor as stooge to perfect its secret plans in the state.

“It is very clear why they are not looking for any other place in Biafra land, but Owerri,” Kanu added.

“What they wish to occupy Owerri for is spiritual. Those of you who are blind in spirit cannot see that the caliphate needs Owerri very much, they believe they can strangle us.

“Bayelsa is not important to them, what they are looking for is Imo. I do not want people to be led astray by the judgment that was obtained in Bayelsa case,”

He said

This is mystery

I never see mad aboki before
I never see mad albino before
I never see obituary picture of albino before(abi dem no dey die?)

Who have seen

Do u know that albinos are the best wife material any man can get..... Most of them respect their bodies..... U can easily find virgins among them... They don't mess around like other women who are after big dicks and money, most of them are intelligent and brilliant..... They prefer education than prostitution. Pls go for them.... They hardly slay like other ladies. Pls love them

Itooweak4una:
Wow, you're now a man. You made her attained orgasm twice. I'm proud of you. Your ancestors would be proud of you. What you achieve is what so many Nigerian men would never achieve in their lifetime. Only few of us can relate

I don't understand what I have achieved, am telling u that a lady showered me with unimaginary hot and disgusting urine and u are here talking about achievement.

Please there's a girl I have been chyking for long now, so fortunately for me we agreed on a date today.

So after service I took her to a beer parlor close to my area, then after drinking and eating...I took her to my house for the main game.


Now, we started caressing and romancing.....all of sudden we started making love.


But something strange happened, as I was busy b@πging the shit outta her, I noticed she poured out urine out from her v.g....i thought my eye was paining me until she repeated it again and again,so I had to pause.

So confronted her to tell me what those hot urine was all about.
She told me it's normal that she's free ....that I have nothing to worry about.

But am still worried up till now, cos I have never experience such in my entire life.

She poured those urine all over my laps and my stomach, am scared if she must have infected me with a sort of disease or something.


Please, is there anyone with such experience...cos my mind is running 300metres per minute.

I thank God for ur life bro, if not for anything but for the fact u re financially competent enough to solve ur problems half way.

What of millions of people living with dreadful diseases without a dime for medical support?

I have lived my life and I have equally understand that there's nothing in this world as priceless as God and health plus money, but health worth trillions much more than money, I rather die poor than to living to die.


So if that guy in question is not sick, tell me what else could make him commit sucide?

If there's any reason for one to commit sucide, it should be on health challenges, but not....... there's no other tangible reason.thank u and remain bless.

warlord24:
When i see someone commit suicide.. i understand with them cus it's crosses my mind every week.. but guy I can't die here and coman enter hell fire...🤪

Am currently both diabetes n hypertitic.. taking expensive drugs everyday.

I thank God i can afford those drugs..

It's not easy, sometimes I cry, I pray to God.. i beg God.. but i won't give up.. I'd keep praying and believing God..

And you see people tink it's easy.. because they are not told "hea, medically.. no cure."
You will have to keep taking drugs everyday.

This statement alone is enough to get you depressed.

But we will keep believing in God..😞 and put me in your prayers.. clocked 33 last 4days.

My question is, since he is hale and hearty and he has a bright future ahead of him, so why would he commit sucide?

He has no reason to commit sucide, maybe he was manipulated by some sort of evil forces...or was murdered and framed up.

Hahahaa, I laugh at u in Swahili, my brother, there are conditions worth dying for.

There are so many conditions human can't endure.

Our prayer na for God to protect us so that we won't fall victim to those conditions that will query our lives.

RamseyKush:
Sometimes you feel death is the solution which is absolutely wrong..

Hope dey as far as life dey..

Nothing fit make me kill myself..

I love my Life.

My brother, start praying and fasting everyday cos, there are so many factors that can make someone kill his or her self.

Pray that God should not allow any evil to befall u and ur family.

Pray that temptation bigger than ur power should not come near u.

Pray..pray..pray bro.

RamseyKush:
Sometimes you feel death is the solution which is absolutely wrong..

Hope dey as far as life dey..

Nothing fit make me kill myself..

I love my Life.

This movie no even sweet, them say na new movie.....but eniola badmus come fat like wetin my head no fit comprehend.

Please ooo, I thought this movie is new in town.

Why eniola badmus come resemble hippopotamus while she's currently pretty and moderate.

[b][/b]if u find out that ur spouse had child before marriage, will u still continue with the marriage or put an end to it?