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ima1:
Men: why tell a lady you love her, when all you want to do is get in her pants, dump her and label her Ashawo?

@poster if you can answer my question then i will answer urs

LOL

madlady:
Sorry @poster, but what is it with you guy's and forever going on about how women are after your money, 99% of women work so why would they want to milk a man.

One, because the money's never enough
Two, because at the end of the day, they'll want to call us "mugu"
Three, y do you think 99% of women work?

@poster

For me, i prefer them because they're independent. And also, if i happen to get married to her, then i can be rest assured that she won't have to call me for any little thing she wants to do.

bubblegum:
yeah right!!

U think he's wrong? Well he's a little wrong cus some guys actually prefer girls that are not working class.

Felibaby:
@ oolateju

wow! that was some dressing down u gave that guy. Has he done sumtin to offend u b4?

Anyway, the poster asked a question and i think its a good one. i often wonder myself way guys think about a working lady cos wat most people say is that if a lady is comfortable on her own and is still single that guys will run away from her. I cant even buy a car now because i dont have a man even though i have the money to buy it.

Aww so sorry hun. For someone like me, i don't really care if a lady is comfortable and still single. As long as she's nt older than me and she's okay physically, psychologically, and physiologically . I for marry o but. . .

oolateju:
@ Jay-bee
Yuck! so FL GATOR is a she? and just yesterday, HE-SHE was telling me to come and suck his/her privates. That means fl gator is a SHE-HE.
Gross!

LMAO

iice:
[color=#9900ff]And i wasn't talking about you in particular. . .
To rephrase. . .so the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't he/she tell her/him?
LOL. . .well can't say i didn't expect that hell freezing over is not a nothing new to me [/color]

Oh really? Then sorry. . .my bad lol.

He/She can't tell him/her because he/she hasn't really done it before, is not too sure of the response, or he/she doesn't really him/her. Wow. . .

Am glad you expected that cus if it actually happens, you won't be surprised

idmoore:
hi nairalanders,
i know you all are of great and intellectual fellow pls will want your sincered opinoin. it about my fiancee,will both love each other so much but the problm is when i ask her to come to place for jus spending time together she feels recluctant or only come when she feels like unnotice, she claims will see everyday in skool campus and if will want to spend time and talk we can probably go hang out anywhwere pleasureable to discuss whatever. but where ever we can it can,t be as convient as my room so that we can smooch or ginger ourselves after our discussion.

Clearly u only want something and then u'll scram. . .apparently she knows that, that's why you're behaving like that. If i know her, i'll tell her to run as far as possible. . .that's my sincere opinion

justwise:
Maybe she knows your neighbour in more special way or still messing about with somebody who leaves close to u. She doesn't want anybody to blow her cable.

Hmnnn seems like justwise is trying to be just wise once again

IFELEKE:
Is it by force?
Dude,you have a bigger task to face. . .your studies!.
Concentrate on that and stop ''murdering grammar'' here.

I agree with you 100% ^ 100 and if anyone is against that, i'll turn that person to Dialo. . .41 shots by their sides

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Yes i'm always and have always been this way.
So the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't you tell her? [/color]

I wasn't talking about me iice. I was asking a general question. U don't have to be that way cus u just might make the phrase "When hell freezes over" a reality.

Ebonyeyes:
Hell to the NOOOOOO.

See person mouth

RedHotChic:
en they. . .

I think it's because we women have this inbuilt jealousy thing that is causing disunity among us. Women can form forceful air tight groups but it wouldn't last because of the stupid jealousy factor over trivial things including fashion. Some women make it a habit to check out their brothers wife and how she spends her money on herself, what for?

U made a very wonderful observation and a more wonderful point

Ebonyeyes:
I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far .

I can't believe you're saying such a thing. In any case, like i told you before. . .i'm learning and it's good cus it's better to know so that one does not make mistakes he'll regret . I'll like to ask you one thing though: In speaking about the general concept of love, where was the entertainment and advertising industry when Jesus Christ said "Love your neighbour as yourself?".

Shola2009:
but if i had to pick one, it'll be "To see the one you love, love another. "

Hmnnn. . .true

FL Gators:
Search engine is not there for no reason, you know

What the hell are you talking about?

Negro_Ntns:
This is more painful for women than it is for men. Men are generous to many, women are generous to one.


This is more painful for men than it is for women. Women are expressive and demonstrative in love, men are not. . .often we do not appreciate what we have until it is gone then we painfully regret not loving her when she was around. We mope around for few hours and then attach to the next ass that come strolling by.

Thanks man. . .u said what exactly i expected some [/i]people to say

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Are they painful?

You love someone, he/she loves another = happy he has someone he loves and who loves him

You love someone, you can't tell him/her = He's already in another relationship/not for relationship (relatives yuck) = Duh move on.

Ok, i'm mental about things [/color]

Are you always this IICY? . In any case, what i meant by the second question is this: You love someone, and you can't tell her. The person is not in any relationship, else why bother? That'd tantamount to what my Waffi people would call "[i]Killing body"

ThoniaSlim:
I think it comes natural. . .cus you can be an expert in kissing. . .but if there ain't that chemistry or attraction between both of you. . .then the feeling can't be compared to kissing someone your attracted too!  

Yea that's what i'm saying. But come to think of it, what about cases where girls had chemistry flowing cus after the kissing (dat might prolly end up in bed), something would come out of it?

@Abbey

The above comment is for you too. What do you say?

@poster

There's no question of if because i can never be a girl. If, however, i were a girl, i think i'd do the same thing Shola2009 would do . God knows that i wouldn't want to be a girl that's y He made me a guy

abanna:
Hi,

Kissing comes naturally if u are attracted 2 n love d person b/c nature made it dt way.But if u are involved 4 some other reasons, u got lots of work 2 do

adeboo:
Well kissing does come naturally,
but when it comes to the extras like tongue kissing etc - well, u need some training and skills for that cause u gotta do it well otherwise its just nasty.

I agree with both of you. It does come naturally, though not everyone knows how to.

@adeboo
What's the difference between kissing and tongue kissing? Are you talking about kissing on the cheeks and deep kissing?

For me, nobody had to teach me anything. My first kiss was WOW! The girl had to stop and stare at me like i was a pro. And come to think of it, she'd had plenty of practice before me. Girly couldn't believe that was my first time.

All those people posting links on the topic, how many of you can actually do what's on those pages? I wonder. . .

Chimonie:
Ewu!
u pounded her feraciously,irrespective of d length of your jt n 3rounds 4 dat matter.
abeg now!she ain't a LovePeddler who has taken several sizes of it.
next time,be gentle until she's used to your tool den u can throw her up n hump her in d air.HUMPER!
UNTO U TOO mess OR WETIN ?

I concur

Jk-carz:
Anytime my girl is with me, i keep recycling the same questions. I seemed not to even know what to discuss with her if we talk for more than 10 minutes on phone. It's time i expanded what we chat on. Any clues on what to discuss ?

It may be that you're not a very talkative person, else you wouldn't be having this ordeal in the first place. It may also be that you expect your girlfriend to always do most of the talking.

If that is the case, what if your girlfriend is not someone that talks much? What do you expect her to do? The issue of compatibility should not arise because relationships exists where one of the couples don't talk much and they still get on fine.

What i'll advise you to do is to look for a topic or topics that you both can discuss. I'm sure there are some. Very soon, you'd stop being tired of your relationship.

I personally don't talk much and sometimes i can seem a little boring, but just say some magic words, and you'll have to stop me from talking. . .

I hope this helps. . .

muffins:
Please be honest for the truth shall set you free.

I have known the truth and the truth has set me free already . To answer your question, yes, i have been attracted to married women before (pretty ones though), but i never did anything about it.

I can't do anything about it too cus it's bad. One thing i've noticed though, is that i'm quite close to so many of them, but the hussys know there's nothing going on and that am just a friend of the family

@poster

I think your question is what i'll like to call 'stale'. But to answer your question, If i want to be rude, i'll simply walk away, but if i want to be 'nice', i'll go ahead with the wedding, but after the wedding she'll see my other side. I won't touch her, but what i'll do will be more than if i touched her at all.

agathamari:
beat the shit out of them both

It isn't worth the stress. Even if you do that, the pain will still be there. So i'll suggest you beat the shit out of your pain  

@Rita

Abeg forget about what all the haters are saying. U're cool with what whateva you want to do. Now am not saying that revenge is the best option, but then, what he did is not right.

As per revenge, i won't ask you to wait for someone else to do to him what you want to do to him cus your mind is made up. Just keep in mind that "Do unto others what you want them to do unto you". In your case, twice will be done. . .

virgie:
how stupid can one really get to be?
@poster, the more u justify your actions, the more stupid you appear to be.

Pls stop!!

Hey Fergie Virgie, does that mean Virgin? . Sorry to ask o, it's just a question

Ebonyeyes:
They must think we have short-term amnesia https://www.thescubasite.com/smile/happy/happy0071.gif

Short term amnesia. . .hmmnn

@post

Do girls really have a 'dream prince Charles' these days? When talking about such concept, criteria and standard comes into play. I guess my counter question should've been "How many girls really seek and finds their prince _charming Charles?".

jay bee:
sorry to burst your bubbles KG, u got competition  

*folds hands across chest and wonders. . .*

190:
na ebony tree una dey fight 4
Nonsense

shes busy fightin 4 my signature sef!~

*Still wondering. . .and starts thinking. . .*

Ebonyeyes:
Hunny I was defending your comment i.e comments like what that man make drives girls to marry any useless goon just because idiots are counting down her biological clock.

Really now Ebby? I knew someone would make you angry when i saw that you've posted in here. This is a confirmation

Morning, I have strong feeling in me that the man has started to receive his punishment right from that day till now, and he will never have rest until is death.

Ebonyeyes:
Haba dont say things like that POSAKOSA1 will come and start his own

Am sorry. . .but seems he's started already. I told you what to do, but you didn't heed.

Ebonyeyes:
Its just you doing you I guess.

Yea thats me

bethangel:
obviously the first one is more painful cos there could be little or nothing you can do about it
however,not being able to tell someone you love him/her is your fault, never say never.

Never say never shey? I agree with you, but what if it's not exactly the person's fault?

POSAKOSA1:
NEITHER. No such thing as love.

Hmnmnnn

Ebonyeyes:
OOOO weeeee Im very scared

Don't be scared. . .am just tryna get to know you more . Whether make i run from you before its too late, or make i stick with you

Ebonyeyes:
Im just shocked that people are choosing to play with their lives in this AIDS infected age . Anyhoo, hope you are ok.

Those people don't think they're playing with their lives. If you're living the kind of life they're living, you wouldn't think so. . .

Ebonyeyes:
Thats you personally other guys here and in real life have said otherwise.

Thank you for agreeing. . .dats 10 points for me already . That's y am not among the "other guys' but these guys.

Ebonyeyes:
Common now, this is not that bad

But you agree that it's bad . Don't worry, i'll be sending you more. . .i dey watch you like vulture

Ebonyeyes:
Hey hun was busy today. Hope you are well

Hmmnnn. . . missed ya sha