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River? No o. A push in the right direction. . .

Oh yes i will cus i don't know anything yet

Time it's all it'd take my dear. . .time

100years? LOL. Aww come on! How old are you? 300 years?

Really? Well that;s nice to hear cus u can be real sweet when you're mellow, ya know that?

So u remembered that one? Wow! I'm speechless

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Haha [/color]

U know what i wnted to say right?

Surprised me by your comments. When am expecting a normal hard response from you, you go ahead and give a very mild one . Like in this case, i never thought that'd be your feelings

I don't know you enough. . .am still learning

IMO. . .thanks for the tip  

They aren't cemented. . .i just need a little push from you  

Once again, i don't know anything about you yet.  

Yea, that's y u're complex  

No stone is unbreakable don't forget  

ayomidej:
Neither is better

Question: Which is harder, not better. . .but i agree with you though

@OP

It depends on the girl as you've seen from the posts. A couple of years back, i met a girl who became my friend later on. On a certain day, i asked her if she could go out with a guy or even get married to a guy she's older than. She said she could only if he can act like he was older. The answer really surprised me, and i respected her for it.

debest1:
aha u cant just say no, what r the mitigating factors

Typical debest1 . What's goan? I thought you were supposed to send me your email addy.

iice:
Hmmm, maturity is what is important to me not really the age. Some people can be immature at an older age, others can be mature at a young age. So long as the gap is not too much i could date one. If na like 8 years gap, chaiiii that one go hard oo!

Twice you've surprised me today. Are you sure this is not a cloned iice?

@ayomide

That's one real handsome guy!

LMAO!!!

Well well well. Y aint i surprised? I told you you always run your mouth.

Yes, yes, you're right once again. . What's IMO? Please do forgive my intellectual deficiency in that regard

Getting somewhere? U think? Am still trying to raise my legs!

I'm happy you're beginning to see things my way!

Hmnnn i know the answer? I don't. Don't forget what you said. . .

iice:
[color=#9900ff]LOL don't most people not really know how the other person will respond unless you really really know the person? [/color]

I don't really really know you, so i can't say i know the answer you'll give

Pharoh:
Naaaaa i am not pulling legs here neither will i hide behind my PC to present myself as a gentle man or a saint.

From your post, u didn't present yourself as a saint at all.

Pharoh:
I am not in anyway endorsing it but it is something we never planned for. Saying it is not justifiable does not give us the room or opportunity to solve the problem from the root.

Of course, it's not planned for, but can be managed. Solving the problem from the root doesn't necessarily has to go to the extent of abuse dont' you think? It's like saying just because you hate the fact that your wife or gf nags, give the right to abuse.

zuuby:
Everyman needs a lot of self control SO see the woman as helping you to achieve that control yourself with her , you can control a lot in your life.

^
Exactly my point!

maedan:
Hmmn. Guys with the good looks abound. The question should be, where are all the responsible, good natured and God-fearing handsome men/boys?? We need to qualify these things . _{I dey lol ooo.}

May God bless you richly. It's people like this that base their relationship on characters from novels and movies, and when the so-called handsome men/boys break their hearts, they'll be the first to run down here and run their mouths abusing nice guys like us.

Sisi_Kill:
Cute guys aren't bothered by such trivialities, yanowarramean. . . .Tee hee hee

Only cute guys with no brainz. . .esp. d ones that are too full of themselves, forgetting that no matter how handsome a guy is, there's always another who's more handsome

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Post doesn't match thread title [/color]

Wow! That was really nice of you. I was expecting something more. . .u know. . .

What? What kind of friends? Please expatiate LOL.

U were the one that said they'll still be shocked and now you're saying that they know you beautifully pretty well. . .

am still trying to know you, and i don't think i'll ever know you. . .am hopeful though

I didn't say fear of rejection doesn't take control of you, but there are different levels to it. Oh really? Just like i can't tell you i love you because of rejection? And in this case, is it rational or irrational?

Alright iice, i agree with you. . .but only for the seeming lack of response for now . Basic necessities? For example, the kind that takes control of you, regardless of the rationality or irrationality.

Nope they don't and am sure they're still trying to

Ebonyeyes:
Yes hun

No wahala. Carry go

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Nope [/color]

Y am i not surprised?

victorazy:
Sorry ma iice lol

U must either be confused, or so foolishly in love with the girl. I've read your earlier posts (responses to other people's posts) and i must say you got me really confused.

sista-jay:
You've heard a man with no enemy has no character!!  Bad boys live on the edge, risk takers, they don't give a damn what your heart/body's for, the good part is it always, always ends in tears!!! I'ma stick with the good ol' borin good guy!!

May God bless you richly!

Nezan:
@OP; why refer to a player (if there is something like that in ladies too) as a good girl. She is definately not a good girl . . . good girls dont misbehave!

Like i said, the man's confused

sandee575:
Bad guys are interesting/exciting to the good girls.

And when the bad guys break their hearts, they run to the good guys. No be the girls fault at all. They've taken good guys as fools.

dgreatrock:

i am in warri for sure!
come over to YIM and we ll discuss how to meet.

Cool man! YIM? Give me your ID and we'll chat.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]LOL, i had that one coming didn't i? Ok i get you. . .the Bible.

Sorry ooo. . .my mind is supreme. No weak flesh anything for me. . .i've been accused of being too detached Not that they are wrong. . .i just pick who i want to get attached to Yes they are related, but it's possible to control them and separate their actions.

My good man, fear of the unknown and rejection is still basically fear.lol
Verbal heat wave? You are welcome to try I've weathered 3 yrs here
Haha. . .well they can only psychoanalyze the milder version of me Even then. . .lets just say, i still shock those who know me quite well Not happening lol.

You said it [/color]

Yea u had that one coming! U even had the decency to write the B in capital letters .

Accused of being detached? I should say more like psycho-embashed. And yet they still won't be wrong, only they don't know yet . Please pick me as the next person to be attached to .

It might be possible to separate the two, but not after some communication between the two of them. . Fear of the unknown and rejection is basically fear, but doesn't have the basic necessities to be called fear in the real sense of the word.

Hmnn. . .of course i'll try but i'll do more than try. Like i said, a personal consultation would be needed. If i can pass through the milder version of me, then that's my own fat luck. If you can shock those who know you, then they don't really know you

ATWAR:
FELLOW NAIRALANDER,

IT IS HIGH TIME YOU SPEAK AGAINST THE ABUSE OF POWER BY MICHELLIN89, IT HAPPENED TO ME TODAY BUT TOMORROW MIGHT BE YOURS, BECAUSE SHE IS PART OF THE MODERATORS SHE HAS USED HER POWER AGAINST ME.

I WON`T STOP FIGHTING AGAINST INJUSTICE BY MICHELLIN89

SHE HAS BANNED MY CHRISHED ID AND ALSO LOCK MY WONDERFUL THREAD

HERE IS THE LINK ON THE THREAD I POSTED AND IT HURTS HER TO THE BONE MARROW

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-347640.32.html#bot

I've been following your two threads meticulously, and i must say you quite surprised me cus i don't really see any real reason for your anger.

There's nothing that was said that hasn't been said before, even though it was said differently. You should have realized that this is a forum. . .words fly about . . . the truth, lies, sense as well as nonsense and at the end of the day, we're all .

My advice, just let it go so that we'll all be .

Ebonyeyes:
Truth hurts I guess. Why threaten her with diabolism? its not that serious, its just a forum. I swear folks take this place too serious .

The females are out to defend their fellow gender and Miss Ebonyeyes and my sweet sugarpops doesn't want to be left out

michelin89:
At least you didn't post my picture on this one so carry go.

PS: You were not banned so stop making unnecessary noise.

Michelin wo ye e? Relax nothing do you.

Ujujoan:
Is this one of those Men Vs Women posts

Sadly, yes . And it was started by your fellow female

Gabry:
^^^ U are mean!!! Where have you been!!!!!

Nice rhyme girl!

Let me add. . .

He's been trying on his new jean
Didn't want to be seen

@poster

First of all, i don't know what initiated as well as prompted your posting what you posted. But i do know you have a reason, and i'm guessing it goes way beyond what you said.

In any case, you should realize that this is a forum and everyone on it has a virtual him/herself. Perhaps, they were/are just exhibiting their virtual self.

OYINBOGOJU:
have u guy taken an oath?

Guy? 37 posts and you're already laying yourself down for the English purists in here to crucify? I sorry for you o. . .

WarriBoyz:
YOU ARE DOIN IT WRONG!

Oya watch me carefully small boi. Dere are three holez, two are input and one is output. You must not plug output to input, unless input is next to output. You don get AM?

Ok go forth into the world and spread the gospel.

U dey wan show yourself abi? Na so warri boys dey behave. I'm not surprised. . .

@poster

I guess what you're asking is

1. If we'd marry someone we can and would marry someone we love who will become very boring later on, or

2. Get married to someone who makes us happy whenever we're around them.

To answer your question, personally, i would like to get married to someone who's a friend. At the same time, i also would like to get married to someone i love. So it's kinda difficult to answer your question.

If i get married to someone i love who is not a friend, i'll get bored later on. On the other hand, if i get married to my friend, i might grow to love her. Well i guess i'll wait until then  

iice:
[color=#9900ff]That's the title of the book? The title will keep my away sef lol.
I see the mind and heart as separate entities: logical and emotional respectively.  Sometimes we want something emotionally though we know logically it's not needed. 
So fear is different from fear of the unknown or rejection?
I'm not different from here. . .unless to say i'm a milder version on here lol. Are you attempting to psychoanalyze me? Lmao, good luck with that Hahaha, iice doesn't do people

Me copy? My first post on this land was green and green started to pop up and i changed it.  I'm not much for oneness when it comes to certain things Kinda like my nail polish. . .i don't like matching it.  [/color]

First of all, i meant the Good Book. And if that doesn't strike a chord, then the Bible lol.

They might be separate entities, but they are so so related. Perhaps you feel that way cus you're a girl lol. Someone might be playing with your heart, but your mind will know he's playing with your heart, and your body is weak to act. . .get it?

Fear is different in the sense that, when you fear, you fear fear LOL. But fear of the unknown is like being afraid of what you know might be the result.

A milder version? Then i guess i'll have to get a verbal heat wave to thaw you out! . I ain't tryna psychoanalyze you at all. I'll leave that for debest1. He's a real pro when it comes to that. I can do that, but i'll have to meet and talk with you first. . .is there any chance of that happening?

Okay, i get it. . .people copy you right? LOL.

tithe:
Just a thread not a belief

Oh really? In this case, am tempted to believe the saying "Out of the abundance of the heart. . . "

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Hardly lol. [/color]

Hardly?! Aww come on! Can't you just accept a little?

Ebonyeyes:
Fellows why tell a girl you love her when all you want is to dip your STD infested deek in a hole?https://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/rolleye/rolleye0001.gif

I guess this topic or the responses irked you enough to post right?