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F-monk:
Can the man survive it??

U'll have to expantiate on your question.

olusolami:
No woman is a boss, mst are jst opinionated. Its a tactic 2 impress their partner dt they cn take kia of thmselves

Speak for yourself sista. Some women can actually take care of themselves.

Radiant:
Both. . he has to

Oh really now? U sound like u're talking from 'the-man-doesn't-have-a-choice' point of view. And if that's the case, i hope your husband doesn't have to be in that position o

Igwe.:
it depends on what you meant by being ''the boss''  if you are talking of bossing the man around, nope, only a Calabar man can survive it, unless you meant the bread winner, with good understanding,the next door neighbor won't notice a jack, afterall, a bad woman is a bad woman even when the man is the sole provider in the family.

Yeah, you're absolutely right. I've seen cases where the woman is actually the bread winner of the house, but no one was ever the wiser. I only got to know cus i'm kinda close to one of the kids.

Ujujoan:
A. Its hard for a man to take orders from a woman at work. Especially if he's older!!

B. At home . , most women are the boss anyway!!

A. A man, but not all men. Especially when the woman is really doing her job and not intimidating the men around her.

B. Who says? Give me examples.

@Poster

How can sum1 be academically wise?

24volts:
please some one should help here I dont know why I love my babe more than my wife.
i feel more happy with my babe than with my wife. I dont have issues with my wife.
i dont know if some one else is feeling the same

First of all, are you hoping someone feels the same way as you do?

Secondly, if you don't have issues with your wife, you wouldn't be feeling the way you are feeling now.

Thirdly, are you sure she hasn't given you anything that's making you love her more than your wife?

Fourthly, if you were a responsible man (no insult intended, just facts), you wouldn't have a "babe" in the first place.

Fifthly, am sure your wife thought you were the best thing that happened to her when she met you and now she doesn't know what you're doing. Goes on to prove once again that good girls fall in love with the bad guys.

@Ebony

Once again it is proven that you're the first to reply

@Godmother
This is your second post am reading and am loving it! . I hope you won't disappoint me

@Ben-10

Moi aussi.

@poster

I forgot to ask you: Are you compatible sexually, psychologically, or physiologically?

@poster

Your post is synonymous to https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-336968.0.html. I think you'll get your answers there.

bawomolo:
what kind of kindergarten logic is this?

Where do you come from mr. man? Kindergaten logic? Please don't make me laugh. I'll tell you on good authority that some (with the emphasis on some) girls can't allow a guy they feel is cool or handsome if you want it that way to pass them by. They don't mind telling the guy how she feels. When another one comes along, she says the same thing, hence my logic.

Ebonyeyes:
You are making me out to be some Devil creature from outer space

Nah. You know me now. I can't say such. Not when you've said you're an angel.

debest1:
dr how far with ebonyeyes?

Brotherly i don't jus undastand enymore o. Some of her posts dey make me fear. I don't know what my position is . Perhaps, you'll help me talk to am.

nethacker:
Do u think we will all hv a steady relationship if ladies think d way u think as in d bolded?

On what perspective do you ask your question?

Dynamiq:
Basically, I see nothing wrong in it. The first relationship I have ever had was with a lady who asked me out, and the relationship was very stable and almost got to the altar, if not for her mother's opposition to our marriage in the nick of time. I have never loved or respected any lady as much as I respected  that lady ever after. I have a couple or so associates who are today happily married to ladies who actually approached them first. I think the attitude towards ladies who approach men first varies among men; some will see such ladies as cheap while others will be stunned or impressed by the boldness of such lady and give them respect. In the case of the lady who approached me first, I discovered within a short time that she was not cheap at all and that she took the action because she was only bold and very frank with herself about what she really wanted.

May you always be Dynamiq.

@Eshyy

How do i know you're telling the truth?

bennygee:
committed relationship my ass
a man does not need to give u the keys to his apartment for him to show seriosness talk less ofr marriage.
to all tha married nairaland ladies
how many of u did your spouses give their house keys to?
and to u funkychild
just as your name depicts,
your just a baby in the matters of the heart,
thats why people of your type never grow up to learn the ways of men.
why didn't he give u his bank account signature and make u joint signatory to show he wants
to marry you.
learn from the wise.
ive seen this things happen before

1 question or should i say 21 questions?: Does 50cent have only 50cents in his account? 

Ebonyeyes:
It means you are his unpaid cook/cleaner/sex slave, when he is tired he will change the locks.

Now ma cherie, i never saw you as an unbeliever  . Where've you been? missed you for a while

minute:
Ask him what the Key is for instead of looking for answers in symbolism's.

Just wait a minute! I agree with you there, since he's available for questions. . .

Vicboya:
Am 26yrs old.Nid a mariage bound rltnshp wit girl 4rm edo state resident in benin.Pls a christian is wat i nid.I dnt believ in pre marital sex.I nid sum1 i can talk 2 who is TRUE & GENUINE.Am an undergraduate.I prefer 1 who is plump wit gud body features.Just flash or txt me on 08091966263 or 07060658136

Are you serious? Man this is not the place to look for one. If you're talking about a nice, decent girl with good character and the usual perks that come with it, then i'll understand. But if you're talking about the kind of God-fearing girl am thinking, then ask [i]God [/i]to direct you. . . simple! Am not saying there aren't anyone in here that fits the descripo you want, but then you never know. . .

peelovee:
It is not the matter of being a philosopher in toasting a babe, the real fact is keeping it simple and interesting. too much grammer fit disqualify you , because some babes dey funny .

Gmam!

Ebonyeyes:
Not all threads though

But deff [b]almost [/b]all threads

Personally, i don't care if a girl asks me out. I'll treat her the same way i'll treat her if it was the other way round. Only problem is, i won't be 100% sure if she's serious because if she can ask me out, what stops her from asking another guy out?

Eshyy:
4 me 2 luk at a beautiful chic twice, her IQ level suppose dey read high oo. If she talk 4 lyk 30mins & I no find anytin new to me ZOOM or am lyk wats d name of dat guy dat acted soso movie, and she has not even seen d movie I bolt off.

Dont forget it depends on if you both watch the same kind/type of movies. Just because she doesn't know the guy's name or haven't watched the movie doesn't mean she's dull in other areas.

@poster

Looks is not everything. I've met so many girls that are not really that pretty (not even beautiful) but they are far better than most beautiful girls i've come across in most aspects.

Ebonyeyes:
I repeat men are visual creatures.

It didn't . . . before i. . .

michelin89:
Why are people so quick to be defensive each time I comment? Guys I am not a wicked witch. I am just a bitch.

Prolly.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Attraction is not solely physical
Personally, if there is no mental attraction. . .you can be Adonis for all i care. Nothing like a good face/body with empty mass behind the eyes [/color]

May God bless you richly. I feel you on that one sis. I thought all girls were after the looks.

@topic

Do girls really spend everything they have on guys? I'm yet to see a girl that can do that.

@POST

Not surprised.

cheexy:
@poster

Don't worry, once u start dating the right person it will come out. We are all differnet. Never let anyone make you feel like a bitch and NEVER GO OUT WITH SOMEONE WHO CALLED YOU A BITCH COS YOU REFUSED HIM. IT SHOWS THE KIND OF PERSON HE IS.

U think anyone will ever fit into that for her? I seriously doubt so.

Ebonyeyes:
Hunny, this is the ist thread today Also I can relate with this poster.

U sure?

Ebonyeyes:
Are you kidding me? is it not guys who pressure [i]their [/i]girls for sex? They even ridicule virgins and treat them like ish.

Haba Ebonyeyes. We dey quarell? . What do you mean by their? The poster wasn't talking about her bf. She was talking about girls generally. Even at that, if a guy asks his gf for sex how does that amount to pressure?

michelin89:
We won't conform to this sexist and anti-liberal idea of women.

Hark at her! And she's the one that asked what was wrong in sleeping with a boy on the same bed. Sexist ni, anti-liberal idea ko. Let me tell you, am someone who very much believes in gender equality and the liberalization of women. So don't start like you're the first woman to know about anti-liberalization

aomom:
nat all the time and sometimes the gal will think the guy is impotent when he is nat making any move

That's one of the fine traits of a nice guy. But do they appreciate it? No. After all is said and done, they cry foul about guys being bad and stuff. I wonder the day girls will begin to understand that all the time, its not what they're looking for that they actually need.

Anyone got a reply to that?

@poster
It may or may not be true. From what i know, it's easier for girls to 'go the whole 9yrds' with other girls, than for guys to do the same thing.

U'll soon do what you say you hope [/i]you wouldn't, cus you don't even [i]believe [/i]you won't. From my own analysis, you have [b][i]lesbianitic [/b]tendencies. . .

I think we'll have to call in the VOTP to use his analytical expertise on this issue

Ebonyeyes:
Are your cartel hommies putting you up to this? I smell a rotten rat here

No o. There's no rotten rat here o. Only dead fish

debest1:
no the dr. is enamoured by you now, abeg say "Qui"

Not only "Qui", but "Oui"

Ebonyeyes:
And im the Queen of Africa I dont trust NL negros. I know what they get up to.

My younger sister calls me her "African King". U see? We complement each other.

debest1:
aha thats a baseless generalization jare, 4 goodness sake the man is a doctor, surely he comes highly recommended,

Please tell her o. I forgot to say that. . .

I heal wounded hearts
Struck with destructive darts
I'm a doctor with much repute
Even though i never commute

newbride:
to put you all out of your misery, its me

Are you saying the voice of the people is wrong? I don't even know you o

Just because you answer 'new bride'
Doesn't mean i want you to be my bride
Now you've just hurt my pride
Trying to take me for a ride

rokiatu:
well give the guy a kiss and let the case close.

Hmnn. . .that's a very very tempting proposition. U think she'll accept?

Ebonyeyes:
Awwww how cute remember to invite us to the wedding

U see wetin you cause newbride? She don believe you already

megtin:
Ok likita Lorenzo y not jst spill it out eh,instead of keeping us in suspense.Abi house what do ya think?

Likita? Whts likita? The voice of the masses have spoken. What else do you want to know?

Ebonyeyes:
Same reason why guys play the game hun its a jungle out there and girls are catching on and not dumping all eggs in one basket.

Seems like they were right babe. . . u were the first to reply to this one

@poster
I should say not all, but EVERY lady has the tendency to double date.

noetic15:
why should anyone want to impress a woman?

I wonder? The next man's always going to impress her more. . .

Kunbee:
^^dats my darling for u

Are you one? Am not saying you're on, just asking. . .

Godmother:
We are not judging,we are only saying that we have the right to choose if we want a particular type of person in our lives or not

GBAM!

Ebonyeyes:
It means people who are coupling up and stuff

Oh i get it now  

POSAKOSA1:
Ebony must be enjoying all this attention. You better be careful before someone starts creating a fake thread using your name about you.  

Peace unto you.

Is that possible?  

debest1:
pokasoka just wrecked your chances Dr Lorenzo, i told u to move in fast u go dey slack,

U're very serious that's its Ebony o. Well we'l keep our toes criss-crossed. . .

POSAKOSA1:
Did you see what happened to HBABE ?  

someone might just start a thread they "slept with you and have naked pictures"  


anyhoo, enjoy it while it lasts.  

If that's possible, i dont think am too afraid of that cus i think my rep goes before me  

debest1:
am sure our dr.lorenzo is a man of integrity afterall he's a doctor(whatever field dat is noone knws)

Exactly what i said above. Infact eh, i will love to buy you a crate of beer for what you just said  . . .did you read psychology too?  

Ebonyeyes:
Apparently we are pieces of meat that should be devoured by men

Some people actually thinks so. U're not among them o . That's why the after effects of what happens when a girl does [the topic] is not cool. But then, will girls learn? No. Why? Because "They're expressing their sexuality".

@post

Whether she got some brains too in her head to go along with the beauty. If she hasn't, then what's the beauty to me? Nothing!

debest1:
my voice is the voice of the masses, go forth and conquer ebony, the force is wiv u!

The force. . .hah! . Do i look like a Jedi?

Ebonyeyes:
To be honest with you, I am kind of oblivious to the romantic get-ons in here so im totally clueless.

What do you mean by the above bolded? Please expantiate

debest1:
my guy stick wiv ebony, the queue for MissyB long no be small, have u seen her legs/thighs go check her pic ,

Serious? U still think it's Ebony? Y do you say Ebony? U know her well? Let me see Miss B's pic  

Ebonyeyes:
Ok so you started a thread about this mystery lady, finish it already by saying her name

So you wan know abi? Let's play the mystery game a lil. What do you think yourself? I mean who do you think the mystery lady is?  

debest1:
the masses have spoken 4 him now, read previous posts

The masses or you?