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A nice guy is someone that the girls can use as a backup when the 'real' guy bleeps up.

peelovee:
A nice guy is:

* A guy who is God fearing
* A guy who treat his girl with respect (not matter what how she might look, whether she look like a model or not)
*A guy who tells his babe what she will want to hear
*A guy who has sexual cautiousness
*A guy who has a good sense of humour
*A guy who is honest and trustworthy
*A guy that accept his mistake and quickly re-adjust it without pride (humility)

these are my few definitions

Ur definitions are way too cool, but the real question is. . .is that what girls REALLY want? To that's i'd say a capital NO! At the end of the day, a nice guy is. . .

scottN:
. . .[are] people that are being heavily cheated or used unfairly by those who call them by that name

MrPrsdent:
. . .an unrepentant MUGU,who thinks women love him.

And the list goes on and on and on and on. . .

justwise:
Just-wise

debest1:
ha ha ha, applied maths was one of my fav. subjects, all the best with ebony, she's a woman and a half

Wow! Seems like am in the spirit . BTW, i've never said that ebony's the person have i? It could be Miss B for all everyone knows. . . although she doesn't think there's an iota of possibility. . But come o, u said ebony's a woman and a half man? U sound like you know her. Or are you just using your expertise in applied mathematics in this one too?

y me:
lol
goodluck with the falling in love dear

Gracias. . .

POSAKOSA1:
shows how massure he is.

Thank you my brotha. Don't mind Ujujoan. I wonder if she has any beef with me. I knew someone would say something like this and am not surprised she's the one that did. . .

Missy B:
T'is not rocket science.
Some of us can tell when a conversation is 'harmless' or has some lovey dovey to it.

Really now? *wonders*. Don't you think you're imaginations have gone hay wire?

justwise:
I put my money on Ebonyeyes

Are you trying to be wise or justwise?

Missy B:
The Question is . . . .Is Ebonyeyes the Lady?

Are you asking what your mind is saying or what you really want to know?

debest1:
in dat case i'd say the mystery lover is ebonyeyes, she has that effect on men on this forum, man go for her big time

What did you study? Or are you studying? Applied Mathematics? . U sound so sure

skfa1:
I put my last fiver on ehm ehm Miss A B 

Hope to get Tener if i get it right   

U go fail woefully . Perhaps not. . .perhaps. . .

Ebonyeyes:
Really chemistry? is that what NL calls a conversation between boy and girl?

Why is everybody after you like journalists? .

debest1:
she still sees it as a mirage so dnt yet, but with time the mirage fit become marriage

Mirage and marriage. . . nice concept, i like it . But be careful little mouth what you say. . .

Wow. Didn't think the response will be this fast  . But seriously. . .

Ebonyeyes:
Boy now you know you better spill out the name .

Although you may not comprehend
Every riddle has an end
Search your mind for that which you know
And the answer soon will show

debest1:
what is his username? How long have u known him?

I'm a he and the person should be a she don't you think?   How long? Well, just a coupla months. . .

chic2pimp:
Berra take am easy ooo. Some peeps with the 'F' moniker next to their username are Men.

BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!!

Gracias amigo. I didn't know that. But i want to keep my fingers crossed that this one's a woman. If that turns out to be no. . .i'll leave Nairaland indefinitely. . .oh what shame (covers face in hands and shakes head).

Missy B:
I think the Lady in Question is Ebonyeyes.

Oh what makes you think so?  

Fellow NLers, although i don't know if i should have said this here, but i think am getting to like (with emphasis on like) someone in here more than i should. Is it possible? Considering the fact that i haven't seen the person's face, nor do i know the person's name.

Pharoh:
You are likely thinking i don't trust you to tell that to you which is not true.

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Ebonyeyes:
Ha you say what you think I might be thinking

?

Ebonyeyes:
People stray away from the topic after a while thats forum life

Yea its forum life. Most often, the poster already has gotten what he/she wants after the first page, but the post goes on and on

na2day?:
are u saying the primitive world was lucky not to have a misguided soul like u?

Bros take am easy on her

Simonwal:
WHICH WERE EVEN CONTRIBUTING AS A SAINT TO THIS TOPIC

Please can you name one? U're a suspect.

Ebonyeyes:
Ha nice rhymes

Merci, merci, tu est tres gentil.  

puskin:
Why the deviation.
Anyways, one nite stands r simply AWESOME.

What's up with deviation?
This is not a posting competition

ifiyoma:
@ Dr. Lorenz u must be a woman cos

any guy who calls a girl a skinny bit*h, is just a downlow guy( gay guy still hidding)

well i dont blame you, in nigeria being gay is not accepted yet

Me a woman!? Fancy you should say that when i asked you if you were woman. Me a downlow guy? What planet did you come from? Pluto? FYI, i hate gays with a deadly passion so don't even try pulling the gay stunt on me.

ifiyoma:
and FYI skinny means[b] thi[/b]n, cos its weird you call someone you have never met skinny

Oh, i didn't need you to tell me that skinny means thin - i very well know what skinny ass b**ch means. I knew i haven't seen you before i called you that - I only said that becus i din't want to sound too insulting.

@Ebonyeyes
Yeah they nosy lol. And they posy too. .

I think they jealous, cus
when we talk they nervous
some even try to be devious
but we dangerous

Ebonyeyes:
Awwww hun . Im afraid you may fall in lurve with me _{jst kidding}

If i do, then i'll gladly sing "I'm in love with an angel" by - i don't even know who sang that song - but you get my drift . Seriuosly speaking, falling in love with an angel aint a bad idea. . Joke aside querida, tell me wats up.

Ebonyeyes:
You shouldnt stereotype you know

I don't. I say what's on my mind i dont have time to edit.

Ebonyeyes:
Spill it out

Depends on whether she's gone to Italy before

Ebonyeyes:
My guy I dear fear o! People here dey nasty no be small. Hmmmmm about my pic I think I would rather remain anonymous its exciting

Aww maaaan! This is where the story ends - U're breaking my heart, you're breaking my heart again
Synonymous is more exciting than being anonymous. But come o, why are you afraid to let me see your face?

Ebonyeyes:
on?

On and on

Ebonyeyes:
I cant do that hun Too much nastiness in here for that so I would rather be Miss Anonymous .

So u dey fear the nasty ppl in here? I thought you were nastier . I guess angels don't get nasty eh? . Wat about sending it to my box? That'd would make us synonymous and still make you anonymous. What you say querida

posakosa:
and how OLD do men look for phucking every girl that they date ?

Can't say, since it's us men that makes the aging come fast *scratches head*

Ebonyeyes:
So is a married woman worn out then?

Depends.

Ebonyeyes:
I keep telling you im an angel

Okay let me see ur face - by their face you shall know them . I already know you got ebony eyes

Ebonyeyes:
You crazy

U think? Then meet me upclose and personal sugar

ifiyoma:
@ Dr. Lorenz

who gives a flying fu*k what the one night stand guy and his friend thinks

i don't live in the primitive world like you

a guy should count himself lucky i considered him for a one night stand

One, are you a female?

Two, count himself lucky? U think you're the most beautiful thing to walk the sands of the earth? I don't think you're even quarter as beautiful as my youngest sister duh!

Three, you don't give a f*k? Then go stand on the roadsides and do whatever you want. Skinnyass b**ch!

Four, i wasn't even talking to you in the first place!

Ebonyeyes:
And im the queen of Africa . Anyhoo both parties should not run their mouths.

U no believe me eh? . Like i said earlier, i don't see the essence in doing that. Haba! Btw, why is it that some people won't keep their mouths shut when we're talking?

Ebonyeyes:
Hey sexy I think he may have siad what I wanted to say so wrote that instead .

Sexy ni darling ko . That doesn't explain his intrusion into our discussion.

@poster

Are you sure you're real? Cus this ur post sounds like an attention seeker. Even if you're serious, wetin come concern us?

Ebonyeyes:
Goodluck with the search. I fear you may be too desperate and Bleep up the session sha!!!

Session? U wan enroll? *shakes head and says "this girl is something else"*

michelin89:

U don't believe? Ask those girls that went to Italy for prostn! Most of them are in their 30s but look like they're in their 50s!

TheSeeker:
Ebonyeyes, don't mind the guy

What's ur own concerning me and ebonyeyes? U don't even know what brought about the angel talk. U wen know whether angels have sex, please tell me i pray thee. Abeg mind ur bu! And do like this

Ebonyeyes:
What THE SEEKER said

So seeker listener is your mouthpiece?

Ebonyeyes:
Haba wetin? it no dey different to the way other girls/guys dey talk for here

I thought you said you're an angel @ hrt? Angels don't talk like this

Ebonyeyes:
Yes they were Hot and did the do. That should be that rather than bad mouth her all over town like some men do. If she gave it up within 2hrs of meeting the guy, I pretty much doubt thats playing hard to get

I quite understand you sis. Thank God you said some men. I personally wouldn't do it cus i don't see the essence in doing that, especially as am still a virgin . But the truth is that it happens and she should have thought about whether she actually wanted to do it or not and whether she gave a hoot if he should run his mouth or not. Girls play hard to get - that's certain - it's what happens at the end and how long the playing lasts that matters.

Ebonyeyes:
Yes since it was mutual and the girl didnt "play hard to get" as you guys always say

See, fact is, both parties as you put didn't exactly agree that it was going to be mutual. They shagged becus they were Hot. If you look at my earlier posts, you'll see that i said something like 'after effects'.  

Talking about it like the guy would do, is one of the after effects. Secondly, the girl didn't say that she played hard to get or not did she?  

Ebonyeyes:
It will be playing as you are doing the do

. U see why i dey watch you with one eye?

Ebonyeyes:
I doubt it, the girl thought it was a mutual oneoff shag-fest so both parties should not blab about it to their friends.

Can anything gotten that free be kept silent for long?

@topic
It depends on what your perception of it is, and who you are. But whatever the case, it's not a good thing cus most often than not, the after effects is not what you ever thought of.

olusolami:
Well, i flirt a lot, harmless, bt i duck when d SHAG sign turns on, i do run

From ur statement, u're someone who likes to think she's too smart when flirting. Why run? U forget that for every action (flirting) there's an equal but opposite reaction (f*king).

ifiyoma:
to avoid the name calling, after a one night stand

don't call the guy

one night stand is called one night stand for a reason

it means getting Hot and fu*king

and no strings attached

Bold 1: U make me laugh. You think that's not going to make him talk to his friends about what happened?

Bold 2: And what does that make one?

Ebonyeyes:
Dont mind them oh, these Negros will seat down in their secret meetings and castigate the girls that do it.

Perhaps she doesn't mind being castigated

naijalove:
Magum has protectn?

Have you been hit by one before?

whiteroses:
is not about conciense f{} that, its about having a principle your body is a temple and yours to keep not a device some drunk guy can use to scratch their itchy prick lol

Not to sound profane-prone , i thought it was the girl's thing that itch?