Romance › Re: My Fiancée Works But She Prefers I Pay Her Bills by drmikeadams(m): 10:30pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Hotzone: I always respond to my fiancée financial demands even when most of them seems like extortion. She prefer I pay her bills both rent and utility though I try to wriggle my self out in rare occasions.
Condition of marriage: No sex before marriage, I abide completely because I want her. She attends her friends weekend activity than finding time for us to stay close even when she constantly reports about how her female friends accuse her of lesbianism but I pray she’s not.
She works and her wages and daily earnings is a little bit above mine. I have told her my marriage intention and she openly accepted without the usual marriage proposals but I am thinking to make it official.
I am still considering if she is suitable and can make a useful wife because I am about to make an official statement which is going to change my entire course in life.
Please, my fellow Nairalanders, I need constructive and supportive words. Blissful week to you!  oga atm abi Mr atm machine |
Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by drmikeadams(m): 10:03pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
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Family › Re: God will come through for me by drmikeadams(m): 8:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Properties › Re: Cost Of Rent In Abia State by drmikeadams(m): 8:36pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
princeakinola1: Why high cost price?I see no reason why high cost of house rent over there,because there is no business over there that warant expensive house at least i known ohaifia very well&use it as case study,its only aba that warant such amunt  abia house no suppose cost,aba na dead town,my house still dey dere,i never decide wetin i wan do wit am yet |
Romance › Re: Tell Us About The Overly Religious Person You Dated Or Are Still Dating. by drmikeadams(m): 8:32pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
BabaIbo: Make I read comments... One common thing about some or most of them is that they always claim to lose their virginity through rape or someone took advantage of their feelings, they hardly accept they had the sex willingly. P.S- Some are lowkey hotter than those slay queens  . My sugar mummy those days tell me say "they raped her virginity outta her"later she come tell me say she don giv her life to christ  e Remain small make i knack em daughter join  . |
Romance › Re: Tell Us About The Overly Religious Person You Dated Or Are Still Dating. by drmikeadams(m): 8:25pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Motorcyclists burn buildings, NTA station in Uyo by drmikeadams(m): 8:41pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
 after élection dem ban okada,before élection they license okada  jonsing country |
Romance › Re: Advice Needed My Wife Wants To Abandon Me After All These Years by drmikeadams(m): 8:36pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
Vikky014: will they ever hear word? Some of them cant even give their siblings a dime bc of the so called girl that will be sleeping around with little guys in school
Op pls count ur loses and move on. Go get urslf a wife. Marriage can make u die young. Marrying this present lady means u will be signing ur death cert bc of HBP. Imagine a wife telling the husband a male that visited her isn't his business?hmm God forbid o  School environment wey fine boys dey,rich kids dey ,Yahoo boiz dey,politician kids, Even if the girl na virgin mary,any of those boys go use sweet mouth,efizy and flexing confuse am |
Romance › Re: Advice Needed My Wife Wants To Abandon Me After All These Years by drmikeadams(m): 8:32pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life After Visiting My Boyfriend's House To Surprise Him . by drmikeadams(m): 1:29pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
 . Evening news p........ |
Romance › Re: Please I Need Your Advice Before I Take Action by drmikeadams(m): 9:40am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Isaacnj: Come clean I don't get  please leave that lady asap |
Romance › Re: Please I Need Your Advice Before I Take Action by drmikeadams(m): 9:38am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Isaacnj: I have been dating this lady for a while now for years, long story short we are at the point we are both struggling to gain a stable job. But money is not the problem we don't have financial issue though we've had to be broke once in a while.
The main gist we quarrel everyday these days we get to disagree on so many things, nobody is accepting to be at fault and most of all she act irritated once we have these issues, she avoids my call. I don't know if I am too possessive but she seriously do not respect me. She always point out that I am not her spec she just fell in love with me, she doesn't see me manly.
I want something permanent with this lady should I end this now or it is just premature mind set.
Please nairalanders your opinion I need to decide  Please continue with d bus taking u to gombe,meanwhile ur heading to lagos  dont tell driver to reverse oo,,continue going to gombe |
Politics › Re: Sowore: How I Found Out I Was Granted Bail by drmikeadams(m): 9:34am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Oblongata: When I saw femi falana leading the defense, I knew sowore would be out in no time...
Falana defended fela and abiola successfully many years ago...
That guy is something else  yoruba great legend |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Elijah O. Daramola Is Dead! AGO, RCCG by drmikeadams(m): 12:45pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
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Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by drmikeadams(m): 9:58am On Sep 24, 2019 |
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Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by drmikeadams(m): 9:56am On Sep 24, 2019 |
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Travel › Re: The Irony Of Lagos Lesser Known Toll Gate: An Exposé Into Mushin Toll Gate by drmikeadams(m): 7:38pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
engrlarex: It is quite appalling that, that the smart city of Fashola’s dream was a futile exercise due to the lagos boys aka Agberos operating as an arm of Asiwaju Tinubu sacred boys. Fashola tried to tamed their activities like the current governor of Oyo state just did, but in lagos which portrays herself as the 5th growing economy in Africa. They extort Lagosians with impunity with security back up. FOR HOW LONG WILL THIS CONTINUE? The activities of these agberos in lagos is the singular reason I want another party to take over lagos state. There is no sense of modesty, protocol in their activities. This has made lagos state a lawless and careless state. The Mega city slogan is a scam provided Tinubu is still in charge of lagos politics.  . Lagosians are happy to be extorted,,from vio,local govt touts,lastma,police,SARS,frsc,toll gate..but what do I know? Lagosians call it good governance |
Family › Re: thank u mama by drmikeadams(m): 7:45am On Sep 23, 2019 |
sidben: Mama I sorry I took ma... life I couldn't just look u in the tell u DAT I have failed.... sorry 4 stress u went through Son,,still hold on,,you are not the worst being on earth,you will be fine |
Romance › Re: Advice Needed My Wife Wants To Abandon Me After All These Years by drmikeadams(m): 12:03am On Sep 23, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: Dear Nairalander I greet you all.Pls I need candid advice,I have dated my wife for over six years with an issue,and now that we have done traditional rites and about to climax with white wedding she is giving flimsy excuses that she is no longer interested in me.She is currently in final year and has drastically changed in her dressing and attitude towards due to influence of friends in school. Often I do report incidences of her recent poor dressing to her parents after cautioning her she will channel the grievances to me.The recent one made her so angry that she started recanting all my past mistakes which she and her family are aware of and have resolved since now using it as an excuse against me that she is no longer interested. She kept mute for over two weeks due to anger yet I still transferred money twice to her but up till now she did not acknowledged it,only for her to send text that she need money for our daughters school fees.I then decide to visit them off campus where they stay yesterday with lots of provision yet she could not say a common thank you.While I was still making peace with her asking her to forgive me for whatever wrong I have done to her by reporting her to her parents,promising not to do so again,a guy knocked the door,and she went out after the guy I asked a relation who was there who was the guy and he said he is my wife's friend,I quickly followed them on citing me the guy diverted after their discussion about me.when we then entered the house I asked her who was the guy and she said that's not my business. I kept quiet.after a while I called her parents to tell them the situation of things that their daughter said she is no longer interested they now asked us to come down to the village to see them this coming weekend.I know things are not alright somewhere and as such I need straight forward advice on what to do.pls no insult just help out.Thanks  Stop training girls in school in the name of u want to marry her  The story never ends well |
Family › Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by drmikeadams(m): 11:50pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Samolaogun: So I got married to my wife 10 years ago. She was 24 at the time and now we are blessed with 2 kids. My wife has always been one of those self centred all about her looks type of person but I just ignored it and saw the good side of it. After two kids and at 34 my wife still looks very good, I guess that’s one of the perks of marrying young. But one thing I noticed is that when she was pregnant with our first son all she ever talked about from day one was getting back in shape and losing weight, she was never excited about being a mother or bringing life into the world. Well She’s maintained her shape and when you look at her you will think she’s 25/26. I’m grateful for that however
Now the downside of this is that she gets a lot of Male attention which she entertains and I’m not comfortable with. On her instagram she’s following a lot of males which I’m not comfortable with. I addressed it to her and she complains I’m being paranoid that they are school friends. When she goes out with her friends she’s always over dressing and looking seductive almost like a single lady looking for toasters. She’s that over friendly type of woman, always on her phone, likes to do too much shakara and it’s just starting to irritate me. I checked her phone last week and theres one guy that keeps on addressing her as ‘love’. I’ve not addressed it to her yet because I’m waiting to catch her red handed so she will not be able to come up with any flimsy excuse. One day when her and her friends came to my house to meet up for a birthday party, they all dressed like a bunch of ashewos. The following day we got into a huge argument because I warned her to never try that again. She is still stubborn and she hasn’t changed. Im fed up of her attitude I’m thinking of separating from this woman before she gives me high blood pressure. She’s not a homely wife at all. All she wanna do is go out, to even attend to the kids effectively is now becoming a problem. I’m tired.  So when u dey throway money do wedding u no see all these signs? |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 3:15pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
fishbone11: 4pm to 11pm damn,,lol how person no go curse govt |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 10:28pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
[quote author=fishbone11 post=82447415][/quote]u mean eg from 12pm to 7pm |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 9:27pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
[quote author=Aurielfinizu post=82446148]bad govt and the eye service afonja pple[/quote  ] |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 9:18pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
qtx: I thought I heard Lagos State has created a portal where people can upload pictures and addresses of spoilt roads to be considered for construction? But am yet to know the URL. If you know it kindly drop it , I can go round certain roads in Lagos take pictures and upload. Am sure after uploading pictures of some of the roads , sanwo olu and his team will have sleepless nights and develop bp. Bc mhen some roads look rather like caves and practically impassable.  Edakun no waste ur data  Remember the slogan"7 point agenda"=we no later see 1/2 point , Remember "vision 2020"=then be think say 2020 no go reach  but 2020 na 3 months from now |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 9:13pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Aurielfinizu: las las lagos na scam...
if u open onitcha warf and others u will see that lagos is overrated  but y dem never gree open ham? |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 9:12pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 8:43pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
PureFace1: Lagos is also the smallest state in Nigeria therefore they should continue patching roads every year? |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 8:36pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
 the day I carry devil go Airport road,devil begin pray "make God bless ambode" Me sef shock |
Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 8:26pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Dem no get death traps as roads
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Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 8:24pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
PureFace1: You can not compare Lagos roads with Akwa-Ibom roads
The number of cars that ply Lagos road is more than Akwa ibom road due to the Population in Lagos state  if dem wan do road make dem do am well
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Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 8:23pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
PureFace1: You can not compare Lagos roads with Akwa-Ibom roads
The number of cars that ply Lagos road is more than Akwa ibom road due to the Population in Lagos state . The cars on Lagos roads pass new york?
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Politics › Re: Lagos Releases List Of Critical Roads For Construction After Rainy Season by drmikeadams(m): 8:19pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Godwin2am: WHY IS LAGOS STATE GOVT ALWAYS DOING SUBSTANDARD ROAD IN LAGOS? GO TO AKWA IBOM ROAD GODSWILL AKPABIO SINCE HIS FIRST TENUE IS FINE AND INTACT. LAGOS WITH SUBSTANDARD ROAD IS 5&6  . Every year dem dey patch roads |