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Anvaller:
Too bad for the guy. But put tribalism issue aside, the reality remains that Ibo guys are significantly more aggressive at doing anything to get rich than any other tribe in Nigeria. From my assessment, I know that Yorubas also attempt crimes but they tend to consider safety very well while Ibo dudes don't. Only if I could tell them to just slow down please.

A Yoruba dude would not mind "a remote control crime" where he can stay at a point and control money off an account at a distance or any other means that I dont know as long as it is a completely anonymous move. Such crime often requires patience cos it takes time, and also intelligence. I am not saying that it is right in anyway but this shows that h knows that his action his criminal and would prefer to keep it safe and secret knowing that if he got caught, it means shame to himself, his family and his country as a whole. I wonder if Ibo dudes really care about all that.

Of course the Ibo dudes are also equally intelligent but they lack a fundamental thing, PATIENCE and it is driven by extreme believe in the power of money, they cant just wait. I am not saying it is only Ibo that commits crime but the Ibos are very less reasonable at how they commit their crimes. [b]They go as far as daring crime in the face, "hard ware" which is always senseless and a lose lose. [/b]Now the guy is dead and have also spoilt further the image of Nigeria. They never think of the consequences of their action if it fails, rather they prefer to think about the sweetness of victory if it works, an attitude that would not make me pity the guy that lost his life on his deadly voyage to India. He dared death and he was consumed.

Well said, but the thing is that Igbos are very mean when it comes to anything they finds themselves involved in. They tend to go extra mile when executing whatsoever they are venturing into (in extension crime)

I want to be very plain and also to avoid totally tribalism in my opinion.

Because the Igbos have the largest number of their people across the wherever they are expected to produce also the highest number of good and bad ambassadors of this great nation (of which they have so far done.)

No thanks to the negative side of the fame anyway.

If you believe in praying before eating, how do you pray, I want to learn.

kingsots:
Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, "how do they do it?" Yes, females are attracted to status. Yes, they are attracted to strength and confidence. The art of distracting a woman from all of your shortcomings and making her fall in love with you for who you are is called seduction. Read on to find out how to do it.
1. Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes.
2. Manage your reputation. While people around you begin to like you, you may start to appear phony or plastic. You must also subtly reveal your human side with talk of sexuality. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. Occasionally hint to people that you enjoy the company of young girls on a purely platonic level. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, "Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed" or "my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that's okay because they put up with me at night."
3. Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is dammmmnnnn toooo gorgeous, ignore her(though it’s quite difficult,bt if you are sure you want to get her-idnore her). After hearing about your tight reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.
4. Hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other's opinions very highly and they get jealous easily. Try and make sure she sees you and some female friends.
5. Wait for the sign that she is interested. The gorgeous girl was ignoring you at first and now she flirts heavily. The not-so-attractive girl was shy and hesitant at first, but now she drops (very subtle) hints that she wants you to make a move. Now when I see these signs I give her just what she wants, start calling often, and when she just begins to know me I withdraw for a while to surface after about 7-9 days with excuses of begin busy with work.(girls don’t like idle guys)
6. Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, , or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about history, astrology, dreams, fate,  sex (sometimes),and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don't express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things with a lovely facial expression and a wonderful smile. The eyes are very important. Never apologize. Never worry when you are talking with a girl, because it will be written all over your face and interpreted as a sign of weakness.
7. Show strategic weakness (optional). This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl's idea of "the one." All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don't talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about.  Don't lead her into a depressing discussion topic. Add a masculine angle to feminine subjects. I love this step, because am very ticklish and once a girl spots this little weakness she will always like to tickle me.
8. Give her plenty of space. There are bound to be things about you that she doesn't like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.
9. Ask her out. You will eventually learn what the right time is--not too early and not too late. If you flirt with a chick over a long period of time, you will notice that the slow, steady increase in the attention that she gives you is followed by a sharp drop-off. This is a signal that she is sick of waiting and spites you for it(she begins to avoid you). You have no chance after that. Girls are very picky about timing. Make sure it's an offer she can't refuse. It takes attention to detail, practice and luck to pick the perfect first date. I had a problem like this with a girl I once dated, I wasted time in getting into something we could have started long time, then she started avoiding me. When I asked her what the problem was to my greatest surprise she said she sick of waiting for us to Be Intimate, I was stunned.
10. Turn on the charm. She already said "yes." As difficult as it is to blow it now, many guys do by being shy. If you don't show that you're attracted to her now, you will be seen as unappreciative or weak. Girls typically give about ten "nos" for every "yes," so show (don't tell) your appreciation for it. It's OK to bend the truth. If she's gorgeous, insinuate how clever and charming she is. If she's not, insinuate that she is. A great deal of the conversation will be non-verbal. Use ambiguous physical contact. Walk close enough to her that you brush against each other often, touch her lower back when you are on queue making an order in a eatery . If you are nervous when you touch a girl, it will make her very uncomfortable. Confidence is the difference between touching her and molesting her.
11. If she is shy, send well crafted text msgs to her. There are some diamonds in the rough out there. When she is reading a letter, she can enjoy your words of love without worrying about whether you like the way she looks or acts. Each time she reads it (and she will read it over and over again so make it good) she will wish more and more that you are there with her. Make every word count and keep it brief. Whether talking or writing, keep it brief. It is better to say nothing at all than to say something that is not seductive.
12. Obey the correct sequence of physical interactions. Don't move too fast. Wait for her to touch you flirtatiously. Hand-holding is next. Then comes close contact and embraces. Then comes kissing. Then comes the making out and heavy petting and all the rest. The process should be slow, poetic and musical. There is no room for discomfort in seduction.
13. Establish an emotional connection. When you talk to your person of interest, find out commonalities, establish the moment, and you may relate to things she is passionate about or interested in.

Tips
• Seduction is an art. It takes as much practice as learning a musical instrument or painting.
• Empathy is essential to seduction. Every woman is different, so tailor your date, your words and your actions to that specific woman. You must know what she is thinking before you can offer her the pleasure she craves.
• Read poetry. Notice the imagery, the ambiguity and the sound. Notice how modern poetry uses colloquial language to achieve all that. Don't use big words or cliches. Your language should be "diabolic" (ethos and pathos) like that of a naija politician.
• If she senses that you are seducing her, she will run away. The pace of your seduction should be slow and the volume should be quiet.
• All women like power in at least one of its many manifestations: money, status, intelligence, strength, etc. You need at least a little before you can seduce the most beautiful of women.
• Many girls will tell you that confidence is what they look for, but nothing will increase your confidence like a successful seduction.
• Insinuation is a must. Only a movie star or a professional athlete could expect success with a brash line like "let's go back to my place and, "
• Don't be a doormat or a people-pleaser. If you are perceived as weak, you will never get a girl.
• Always be honest, meaning don't tell a lie. A lie is something you can get caught in. Don't lie about your income, whether you have a girlfriend or not, whether you are good at sports, etc. Girls can see right through lies. However, bending the truth to achieve a more poetic effect is absolutely necessary. Also, most of the time, the correct answer is to say nothing at all.
• Seducing a woman is like dancing with a woman. Sometimes you hold her close and sometimes you let her shine on her own and watch. If you are too clingy, she will feel suffocated. If you let her go and never come back, she will be insulted.
• Reveal yourself slowly and only when directly asked. Don't show more of yourself than she asks for. When the mystery is gone, the seduction is over.
• Girls with boyfriends make excellent targets. If you can seduce a faithful girlfriend without showing up on the radar, you will have no problem with a single girl.
• Seduction does not always end in the bedroom. If you seduce a faithful girlfriend or wife, she may decide to cut off all contact with you when she realizes that she is in love with you. Mark it as a success and be thankful that you didn't have to break up with her. Do NOT however, go around ruining lives, there are people out there who are happy with each other, and who really don't need you to ruin that.
• Not every woman can be seduced. Yunger girls want to feel mature and older girls want to feel young.
• If the seduction fails for one reason or another, leave a good space of time before attempting to seduce her again. She must completely forget about the bad stuff before you can try to revive the old feelings.
• Women can sense fear and weakness very easily. If you have shown fear or weakness (we all have), it's time to start over.
• If you use this technique purely for the end result, you probably don't have the patience to perform a seduction correctly. Pleasure plays a major role throughout the process. You are not offering her a chance to sleep with you, but rather a chance to FALL IN LOVE.
• Study the biographies, writings and speeches of the world's greatest seducers: Erroll Flynn, Casanova, Lord Byron, Charles De Gaulle, Gabriele D'Annunzio, etc.
Physically attractive seducers will be able to seduce much faster than unattractive ones, because the attraction is already there. However, unattractive men will have an easier time getting close to girls and gaining access to their hopes and dreams.

I wish you the best, if you have any problem along the way you can bell me on 07034512455 to help you out. Tushe.

What about " How To Seduce Any Man Of Your Choice "

If it takes all these processes to seduce "the weaker sex" I wonder what it will take to seduce a VERY STRONG SEX like me.

ITgurlie:
@ poster never knew you have to study to seduce a woman what degree would you call that

and me too

Seduciology.


I like this particular hint.

Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is dammmmnnnn toooo gorgeous, ignore her(though it’s quite difficult,bt if you are sure you want to get her-idnore her). After hearing about your tight reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.

tonardo:
wen Airtel com newly i thought they ll do well but luk at them now,
i 2 i stay at isolo, ire akari est. I use glo 1000-200mb fast and good.

I moved my contacts from MTN to Airtel not quite long, so i can't imagine relocating to Glo for just same reason.

Airtel internet service(My Nokia E5 as a case study) is zero

But for the cheaper call rate, i will press on hoping that it gets better sooner.

waoh! Am short of words, but the most important aspect of this story is that you realised on time, but your realisation will be in vain if nothing is done to avert the danger that will definately catch up with you in a very short time.

THE BITTER TRUTH = YOU ARE SLEEPING ON KEGS OF GUNPOWER !

Yes, he was here with my 10k, not urs. Simple!

What if some of these people that just committed suicide had narrated their dilemmas here and instead of helping a brother/sister you condemned them the more?

I'M NOT GIVING MORAL JUSTIFICATION TO THEIR COWARDICE MEANS OF SETTLING LIFE'S' CHALLENGES, AM ONLY BEGGING US TO ASSIST WHEN NECESSARY.

NOTE: AM NOT REFERRING TO ME BUT SOME OTHER POSTERS HERE ON NL.

THANK YOU.

ogugua88:
Chai. I can't believe someone is complaining about others being criticised about his or her command of the English language. The only reason people would take time to make such criticisms in the first place is because they care; if it didn't bother them, they wouldn't mention a thing. I point out grammatical flaws all the time. If I or someone else does not correct them, they will continue to make those flaws. Imagine if your parents saw you making flaws and they never corrected you. Would you have the ability to log onto this website and complain at all? I doubt it.

People can speak any language they want on this website. There are some language threads in the Culture section, are there not? My issue is people always forming like they know English but they start using words and tying phrases together by force. I al5o h8 wen ppl typ lyk dis. <----- I ignore these people, but as for anyone who is trying to type a coherent English phrase, I correct them. I appreciate it when people correct me as well. Do onto others as you'd like others to do onto you.

What anyone says is not fact, written in stone, a command, or law. If you don't like it, then ignore it. Simple.

By the way, "Its" needs an apostrophe.

This is exactly wot am talking about, before or after pointing out the errors please ensure that you say something about the solution to the thread, but a situation where your only contribution becomes grammatical critics isn't good.

As a child if i should use a wrong English to ask for a drinking water, i will definitely receive the water before corrections.

By the way, "Its" needs an apostrophe.

Ogugua onye-ocha. Oburo iwu, omasi m ntupoo ya, maka na ka m na atuporo ya ihe, ighotakwara ihe nkwuru. Inula?

Mynd_44:
Well what they/we try to point out is that with bad gramar, it is difficult to read through most of the questions. If your English is not that good try PIDGIN. Some OPs sometimes come here to ask questions my 12 year old cousin dare not ask. What kinda reply are they expecting? And of course you have to agree that the jokes makes everything a lot more intresting becuase a smile goes a long way

All IQs are not equal, after-all a very normal person will commit suicide that alone shows a big deficiency.

Talking about errors, am referring to very minor grammatical errors which only perfect speakers.writers can observe and at the end of the day all the comments under the very important issue that needs urgent attention will be making of grammatical corrections. IT IS WRONG!

Mr, Cork:
Brother. Did somebody thief your woman?

worst than that man.

Its either the commentators make mockery of the problem that the poster is expecting to get solution for or they look out for wrong spellings/use of English. (ESPECIALLY THE VERY POPULAR/BIG NAMES ON NL i don't want to mention names)

Must one be a perfect English writer before tabling personals problem(s) on here?

Almost all customer care lines in Nigeria accept complains in at least 3 Nigerian major languages so "not so well written English" should be entertained if the primary objective of this noble site must be achieved.

So many social ills that are not associated with Nigeria has so far been crippling in the recent times, of which i believed that proper addressing of important life threatening issues on NL can help minimize.

You must not contribute on all matters especially those you know nothing about.

Thank you.

This problem is mostly associated with ROMANCE SECTION, so let it remain there.

toba:
Never take anything here serious. I call Nairaland a Dramaland. ok?

But it ought not to be so, i hope people will not come here to seek for solution and still go ahead to kill or commit suicide.

Its either the commentators make mockery of the problem that the poster is expecting to get solution for or they look out for wrong spellings/use of English. (ESPECIALLY THE VERY POPULAR/BIG NAMES ON NL i don't want to mention names)

Must one be a perfect English writer before tabling personals problem(s) on here?

Almost all customer care lines in Nigeria accept complains in at least 3 Nigerian major languages so "not so well written English" should be entertained if the primary objective of this noble site must be achieved.

So many social ills that are not associated with Nigeria has so far been crippling in the recent times, of which i believed that proper addressing of important life threatening issues on NL can help minimize.

You must not contribute on all matters especially those you know nothing about.

Thank you.

This problem is mostly associated with ROMANCE SECTION, so let it remain there.

Lagosians watched in awe and consternation yesterday evening at the Leventis bus stop in Marina, Lagos, when a ministerial nominee, Mr. Al-Mustaim Alade Abaniwonda, aged 56, dived into the lagoon under mysterious circumstances at about 3pm. He eventually drowned in the lagoon.


Abaniwonda was the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) senatorial candidate for Lagos East in the April 9, 2011 National Assembly election. According to Abaniwonda’s driver, simply identified as Wasiu, the senatorial candidate, who lost to the incumbent Senator Tunde Ashafa of the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) and whose name was among the list of 10 nominees sent to President Goodluck Jonathan for consideration as minister from Lagos State, was coming from a bank on Lagos Island when he told the driver that he was pressed and would need to use the toilet. Wasiu added that all his entreaties and persuasions that his boss should wait until they get to his office, at the CSS Bookshop building in Broad Street, fell on deaf ears.

Wasiu said: “He ate his food after we left the bank and he told me he was going to use a toilet down there. That was all until I heard people shouting. He was still struggling to get out when I got there but he later went down inside the water.” Wasiu was promptly arrested by police officers attached to the Marine Police Division at whose backyard the incident took place. He was not allowed to talk to people afterwards and when National Mirror attempted to talk to the DPO, he bluntly said he was not position to brief the press on the matter.

Eyewitness account has it that when the politician jumped into the river, he was still able to stand upright but he deliberately walked into a deeper portion of the lagoon. A toilet operator, who does not want his name in print said: “We didn’t know what happened in the vehicle before he came down. But when he got to us, he told us he wanted to use our toilet. We were still looking for the key and water when he walked towards the river.

“He took off his jacket, wristwatch, wallet and made for the lagoon side. We were even telling him that is not the toilet, he insisted on going towards other direction. We called him again and he answered in Yoruba saying: Ani mo fe se gaa, meaning, “I want to defecate”. All of a sudden we just saw him in the lagoon.

“I saw him dive into the water. We threw a floater and a tyre at him but he wouldn’t use them. Instead, he struggled to a deeper side of the river. “He was there still floating for about three minutes and luckily a flying boat was on sight. We waved at the boat to help rescue him at the point he was still floating but when the boat arrived, he swam and hid under the last pillar; when the people saw that they went there.”

Another eyewitness account said Abaniwonda slipped and fell into the lagoon while going to the toilet. But she confirmed that he obviously frustrated all attempts at rescuing him. She, however, blamed the marine police for their inability to rescue the drowned senatorial candidate, saying they didn’t do anything special to help him.

Her words: “I am disappointed in the marine police. They had their flying boat and swimming jackets in the station, why can’t they jump into the water and pull the man out? At least that is their duty; instead, they were throwing tyres and floaters like ordinary people. Things like this could never have happened in civilised country.” Abaniwonda’s son, who rushed to the scene with some other siblings barely an hour after the incident, told National Mirror that there was nothing in his father’s mood or attitude to suggest he was not happy or was worried about anything. “My mother celebrated her birthday yesterday and he was there happy.

We celebrated together with other family members. If he is still in the water up till now, and you told me it happened about an hour ago, then he must have died because he is diabetic. There is a limit to which his lungs would be able to hold him under water.” Abaniwonda drove in a Toyota Camry car with registration number MU 555 AAA while his son and other siblings who came in two jeeps one of which has the Federal Government registration number FG 527 A52, could not stop crying but were not willing to talk to the press. The Police Public Relations Officer, Lagos State Command, Mr. Jinadu Samuel, who spoke to National Mirror on phone, said he was not aware of the incident but promised to contact the Marine Divisional Police Officer to get adequate brief on the incident.

The Epe-born politician, was a senatorial candidate for Lagos East under the Alliance for Democracy (AD) and the ACN before crossing over to the PDP in 2003 after he sought to contest the senatorial district’s ticket on ACN’s platform but was asked to step down for the eventual winner of the ticket, Hon. Olorunnibe Mamora, Abaniwonda holds a first degree from the  University of Ife, (now Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife). He is the founder and managing partner of Alade Abaniwonda & Partners, an investment company, with offices at the CSS Bookshop building, Broad Street, Lagos. The question on the lips of sympathisers was: “What could have made a supposed millionaire leave his family and wealth to commit suicide by jumping into lagoon?”

The answer to this question could only be answered by Abaniwionda himself. Meanwhile, as at the time of filing this report, all efforts to retrieve his corpse from the lagoon have not yielded any positive result as all the searchers have retired for the day, with the intention to continue today. Speaking on the development, the Lagos State PDP Secretary, Mr. Olatunji Shelle, told National Mirror that he was yet to confirm the authenticity of the story, adding that he doesn’t believe that Abaniwonda for any reason could jump into the lagoon.

He said that he was on his way to the police station where the complaint was lodge, adding that until he confirms the incident, he cannot make any comment. The state chairman of the PDP, Setonji Koshoedo in a telephone chat with National Mirror declined comment, saying: “I have no comment. The search is still on, but I cannot comment on that incident for now.”

slimyem:
op,my advice for you is try find a girl and establish a stable relationship with her then flaunt it so much those girls would see the signs and flee.
Would have volunteered to date you buh i dont do short guys.sowwy

caring hurts too much.it is much better to live for oneself alone

10x to all. LET ME GET BACK TO WORK. God hep me.

Seven Gbosa! for Seun Osewa (Mr)

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]@OP Your 30 make your own decisions, and don't create a problem where there isn't abeg.[/color]

How pls expatiate. 10x

pleep:
I think your list is kinda offensive and kinda innacurate at the bolded.

I must confess, am kidding by and trying to make my post funny by mentioning some of my favorable board members. NO HARD FEELINGS PLEASE.


Apologies Mr Cork, Mrs Chima,190, dyt.

BABE!:
Ehn---e no hard na. When they start asking for your hand in marriage--say No.

On a serious note--If you don't want to talk to them, then simply keep your distance. Stop smiling with them. Bone face. Don't give them your number--- etc.

Plus what if they're just being friendly (no strings attached)--?  #justwondering.

haba

am talking of people that know my house you are talking about phone number, i receive all manner of prayers, jokes, motivational sms and likes everyday on my phone.

But in church u can't believe they sent it judging but their very coded attitudes. funny enough they are all youth members (same) group but they don't know that they are aiming @ d same project.

but could it be that they just want Bleep, friendship or also marriage?

Am quite knowledgeable in so many areas, but i must admit that i am a novice when it comes to d matter @ stake

God,:
Oga go for your HND. I am a Real Estate Surveyor and Valuer. A chap was posted to my office for NYSC last week Tuesday but he said hes not interested in the service cos he has a business just like u and used money from same to fund himself. Despite that, he told us that he wants to do his masters straight away. He has foreSight. I will advice u to manage and whatever u believe in will see u through[b](either God or Satan)[/b]. As for the op, theres nothing wrong with white Garment church. I was a member till 2005. They are lovely pple. U can marry them if God so allows

Na God.

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BABE!:
YEE! God is good o. He's a miracle worker. There's this 32 yr-old lady looking for husband on here.

Here's the link:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-714139.0.html

Holla at her.  

There's no need of being "nice" to those small girls. Simply tell them leave you alone. Lion and goat no be friend. Akamu and Ewedu no go gel. It's as simple as that.

32 ke, am battling with the fact that am trying to put up a girl of same age (which my friends are frowning @ ) you are here talking of 32.

Am actually 29 (few months to 30)

pleep:
Lol, are you a short guy? If so how short, because 16 is young.

5"7 she is same height (or even slightly shorter)

BABE!:
YEE! God is good o. He's a miracle worker. There's this 32 yr-old lady looking for husband on here.

Here's the link:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-714139.0.html

Holla at her.  

There's no need of being "nice" to those small girls. Simply tell them leave you alone. Lion and goat no be friend. Akamu and Ewedu no go gel. It's as simple as that.

But i don't think that it is wise for me to call them and start blabbing when they haven't asked me to date, marry o fk them  (even when its clear)

How exactly do i go about it?

bhusayor:
Are you sure the messages are 'green lyt' messages? If yes,then there's no polite way about it.tell them to face their studies and stop sending you such messages, BUT if they re just friendly messages,then let the girls be and focus more on the 'one'

Purely green light, believe me.

M M M:
Op
Just nyash d small girls 4 dem 2 leave u alone,

&
Mind u if u dont nyash dem dey will say u re a jew man.

Good advice.
but.
I can't do that, not bcus am d holiest but bcus of my position in my church and my conscience.

God,:
sir im very sorry cos u didnt understand my point sir. People like u that are determined despite your challenges are the ones i like to associate with. Im giving the young man advice to be focused in life. At your age, if u arent serious would u achieve the OND? answser is no. Young men should learn from u. The 5 yrs i spent in School, i used 6 different cars, but i never did any silly thing cos i was focused. I want this guy to be focused thats y i had to use my self as an example. I dont and i pray God will never allow me look down on people

Well, i understand, honestly my business almost crumbled (same dt is paying my school fees, house rent, shop rent and seeing my younger ones in the village thru) during this 3 yrs of my pt in polytechnic.

Now that am refreshing after just about 6 months of my graduation, am afraid of going back for my HND.

@poster. White garment girls should be left alone for their male counterparts (my view), YOU PLAYING WITH FIRE. Wise-up bro.

Please felas, how do i cope with the fact that am 30 in need of a matured girl for a relationship that will lead to marriage.

All i get is little girls of 16/18 in my church sending me friendly and green light messages while this particular matured girl that am going after is looking down on me. (may bcus of my not too big stature)

Fellow house members, how do i politely put these girls off without hurting their nice feelings for me(esp. 3 of them) they are still in secondary school/writing waec and jamb. I need a graduate for a 6moths-1yr relation and then marriage.

God,:
24? Then u are still a kid. Pls face your studies like i do advise young men. First degree, 2nd degree and professional qualification. After achieving these, God will bless u with a good partner. Im on the trail of 3rd degree(if u understand what i mean)

so for somebody like me that just managed to complete my part OND programme @ 29 should go and commit suicide eh?

PLEASE SIR, YOU RICH MEN CHILDREN SHOULD NOT OVER RULE THE FACT THAT ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL?

Anyway, its ur luck, maybe i would have said just the same thing if am to be in your position.

nomsochris:
Pls fellow Nlanders i need your views on this;
I hav got this great girl. We re having a great relationship. The only issue i have with her is that she always wants me around,she calls me like 5 times a day and wants me to call her like wise and when i dont call, she complains dat i dont care about her. She wants me to visit her everyday . I have explained to her that i am from wealthy family and as my fathers first son, i have the familys buisness and other responsibilties. I have her on my payroll and make sure i see her whenever i can. And even when i visit, she doesn't let me go. Its as if she forgets that i have a life outside there. I cherish and care abt her dearly, but of lately its been interfering with other aspects of my life and its not fun at all. I want to straighten things out with her but considering i practically had to go on my knees and shed blood each time i wanted to see my ex in the past relationship. I dont want to spoil things with this doll. What do you all suggest? and care abt her dearly, but of lately its been interfering with other aspects of my life and its not fun at all. I want to straighten things out with her but considering i practically had to go on my knees and shed blood each time i wanted to see my ex in the past relationship. I dont want to spoil things with this doll. What do you all suggest?

Little wonder. You be point and kill fresh fish

You better tell her that if she did not slow down that you will get bored with her soonest.