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 Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Odunnu Please Read Dis by ds700(m): 11:52pm On Oct 10, 2010 |
REALITY101:I wonder why some folks make a life only by means of "character assassination" Must you paint someone black before you make a point? |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Odunnu Please Read Dis by ds700(m): 11:28pm On Oct 10, 2010 |
REALITY101:expatiate pls. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Odunnu Please Read Dis by ds700(m): 11:07pm On Oct 10, 2010 |
23. 15,000 square metres of land at Okunade Water Front, Lekki Peninsula .Am intersted in dis one Two aircrafts worth $100 millionSo cheap, could it be made in China? |
| Romance › Re: Please I Beg For Your Advice by ds700(m): 10:41pm On Oct 10, 2010 |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Odunnu Please Read Dis by ds700(m): 10:27pm On Oct 10, 2010 |
190, pls which format you dey throw? [s]Come & marry, transfer, next of kin etc[/s] I thought as much you just exposed yourself, abi na local 419 u dey self? 190: |
| Romance › Re: Please I Beg For Your Advice by ds700(m): 10:22pm On Oct 10, 2010 |
Advice, Try and cut off the communication link between both of you. Any relationship that lacks COMMUNICATION is heading for the rock. |
| Romance › Re: Please I Beg For Your Advice by ds700(m): 9:50pm On Oct 10, 2010 |
Nobody can help you except you. Because you are under the influence of his love You don't want to loose him yet you are seeking for a visa for his If you finally leave him pls don't rush into another relationship as you may be subjecting the new person to a risk (remember he was once a cultist trust their sense of judgement) If you finally leave him he will either turn to be a serious person (for he will Once he crosses the boundary of Nigeria forget him. (except you deliberately want to settle him that way in other to quietly hook to another - ie playing save.) People like him even when you make them an ambassador of their country in a foreign land will definitely not achieve anything meaningful, ie. from his current take. IT IS GOOD TO BE GOOD, BUT IT IS VERY BAD TO BE TOO GOOD! STOP BEING TOO GOOD |
| Romance › Re: Will She Come Back? by ds700(m): 6:56pm On Oct 09, 2010 |
If you love somebody/something, let them/it go, if it come back to you it's yours, but if not it was never yours in the first place !  |
| Romance › Re: You Are Heartless by ds700(op): 2:21pm On Oct 09, 2010 |
Cutier:Am not stereotyping, if read my previous comments u will understand, but then i strongly believed that from the onset of man, (in the book of Genesis) women has indeed succeeded in folding up men. It didn't start today neither will it end today, We just have to be extremely careful. |
| Romance › Re: You Are Heartless by ds700(op): 2:01pm On Oct 09, 2010 |
NOTE: this thread isn't to paint anybody black, but to call Dyt:All thanks to God Almighty n to my God fearing mother, I was properly informed @ a very tender age, and by the special Grace of God, I haven't and will never fall such victim BUT |
| Romance › Re: You Are Heartless by ds700(op): 1:54pm On Oct 09, 2010 |
Eyah:My mom happened to be the very person to educated me on the dangers a woman can expose me to IF I ALLOW MYSELF TO BE DECEIVED. In her words, IF YOU GIVE YOURSELF INTO A WOMAN VENTURE, YOU WILL HAVE NO FUTURE. I've seen some men that lived a worthless life without any achievement but when they got married things changed for good. Likewise, I've also seen many men who after marriage deteriorated. QUOTE: A man is incomplete until he is married, after marriage HE IS FINISHED! |
| Romance › Re: You Are Heartless by ds700(op): 1:47pm On Oct 09, 2010 |
Sorry to say, many men lived and die without knowing the true paternity of |
| Romance › Re: You Are Heartless by ds700(op): 1:42pm On Oct 09, 2010 |
An average woman's heart is a deep ocean of secret. |
| Romance › You Are Heartless by ds700(op): 1:33pm On Oct 09, 2010 |
Women are indeed HEARTLESS, don't know a better word to use. Apology to womenfolks just have to be sincere |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: 190 Vs Omolola Relationship Gone Wrong? by ds700(m): 9:25pm On Oct 05, 2010 |
Hmmmmm, but wait o o o, if i may asked, WHERE ARE THEY (OMOLOLA & HER PARTNER in crime ) Could this actually be true? This is one thread that i've noticed an absolute silence from these parties. |
| Romance › Re: Distance Relationship Wahala: by ds700(op): 8:06am On Sep 24, 2010 |
likeme:  |
| Romance › Re: Distance Relationship Wahala: by ds700(op): 11:00pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
Called her, and thus goes our phone conversation; Me: Hello n how are u today? She: am fine. Me; you haven't call me since 8 days or thereabout, why? she: I guessed you were very busy and I thought i shouldn't bug you with my call. Me: me too busy to pick your call? Anyway i take it to be that you are either not serious about this relationship n dt u r either CARELESS, STUBBORN, WICKED OR HAVE GOTTEN ANOTHER PAL She: pls forgive me, u know it that i've got just only you. me: It's okay, but wot was on ur mind during this 8days? she: nothing, bla bla bla. SHORTLY AFTERWARDS SHE SENT A VERY ROMANTIC TEXT MSG (me come fall mugu as usual) THANK YOU EVERYBODY, AM HAPPY ONCE AGAIN. gudnite! |
| Romance › Re: Distance Relationship Wahala: by ds700(op): 9:50am On Sep 23, 2010 |
thanks for all d prudent advice, now let me go back to work and see how it goes. |
| Romance › Distance Relationship Wahala: by ds700(op): 9:30pm On Sep 22, 2010 |
Am always d one calling her(which I considered normal anyway) most times she gives me a missed call or send text, which i don't hesitate to send my feedback. But its almost a week now i haven't call her and she never care to know how am doing, this is actually the second time that this incident is happening, the other time I had to call her after about 7 days. Now its already 8 days, she neither send text nor give a missed call. (this is a girl that ordinarily we call ourselves like 3 to 4 times a day) PLEASE GOOD PEOPLE OF NL, WHAT SHOULD I DO? CALL HER OR WAIT MORE TO KNOW HER NEXT LINE OF ACTION could it be that she is very rigid, careless or wicked? Or is it normal that i should always be the one to set the first pace for the sake of peace? Please help a curious friend. |
| Romance › Re: My Mum Insists That I Must Marry From My Town by ds700(m): 5:19pm On Sep 18, 2010 |
My previous relationship was not fully supported by family and friends, but then i had an option to either quit nor continue, but my major problem was that the babe in question isn't worth the stress so I jilted the bullshit. MY QUESTION TO YOU IS THIS, DOES SHE WORTH THE MATERNAL DISOBEDIENCE? Don't listen to wot some folks will tell you here, its ur life, na your go carry d joy Now am happily going out with a girl from my place n everybody is happy. (NB: I JILTED MY EX. NOT BCUS OF ORIGIN O O ) she too dey form oyibo. to much of pretense |
| Romance › Re: Marry Her Without Testing, Wots D Possibility? (pls I Need Ur Comments) by ds700(op): 12:19pm On Sep 18, 2010 |
Loveaflame:Read and understand pls, I DID NOT SAY THAT SEX IS LOVE !!! Yes I love her, am making arrangement for marriage, BUT I WANT TO TEST. Haba. |
| Romance › Re: Dating And Marrying Older Women Or Younger Woman Which Is The Best by ds700(m): 10:19pm On Sep 17, 2010 |
hmmmmmm i will be rite back. |
| Romance › Marry Her Without Testing, Wots D Possibility? (pls I Need Ur Comments) by ds700(op): 10:02pm On Sep 17, 2010 |
is she not fooling herself believing that am gonna tie the nut without testing, Dear NLnders, wot if after wedding i discover that she gat no "hole" (or that she hate sex) what happens ??If she doesn't care whether am capable, me I CARE. (she fondles my hood at least she is sure about my CAPABILITY) |
| Romance › Re: Oh My Goodness by ds700(m): 9:17pm On Sep 17, 2010 |
If you should add more pressure on him, then he would Bleep you and still take his leave, so be careful and continue being "just a friend" |
| Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Person Older Than You? by ds700(m): 2:06pm On Sep 16, 2010 |
Let me re-phrase this question, You said and I quote: As a guy(Man), can you marry a woman that is older than you? General Men are meant to be a little bit older than their woman, forget those ladies that will want to acquire all the existing degrees in the modern day Uni. before you know it they are already old. |
| Romance › Re: When A Lady Tells U About Her Male Admirers: by ds700(m): 10:37pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
She is indirectly telling you that other guys are interested, that you should rather make haste and propose marriage! |
| Romance › Re: Is She Playing Me? by ds700(m): 10:27pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
Indeed you have fallen victim of NO CONTROL, tai2 of NL said and I quote , (read and be wise) I used to be like many of the whiners here on Nairaland, “Oh I'm so in love with this babe but she's treating me badly, what do I do? what do I do?”. That was a long time ago and now I am wise and believe me I learnt from the school of hard knocks, this women dealt with me mercilessly until I actually sat down to analyze them and their ways and figured out the language they speak. If you think maintaining a woman is about excess love, showing affection, kindness, forgiveness, religion and all that bullsh*t, you're dead wrong, treat a woman too good, she will find an excuse to leave ( “I was once dumped by a chick who later told her friend, I was 'too nice'.”). But they will stay with an “omo rapala” that mistreats them day after day after day. Even fellowship girls are still tempted by young men of the world and leave their fellow fellowship brothers to look for bad boys to convert. They are never satisfied with a squeaky clean good man. To them every guy that is too good is a nuisance. Even the ones that are married have only calmed down and become good in order to trap a husband that offers them security or at least a husband that has managed to figure out their buttons. Be wise, young men, be wise. Maintaining women of all shapes ages and sizes is all about control and remaining in control. The moment you lose control, you lose yourself and a woman will ride you till the very end. Some people say all sorts of rubbish, “Oh my woman is not like that, she's different”, all that one na story, Eve betrayed Adam, Delilah betrayed Samson, so who on earth is your woman that she won't act like those that came before her? There are different levels of control, there is no control, artificial control and true control. No control is the default situation most guys fall into. They love a woman and believe everything she says in the heat of passion ”I'll never ever leave you”, “I can't wait to marry you” etc etc, and deceive themselves into overconfidence and over love. A no control guy does not know how to tell his babe no and is always apologizing even when it is not his fault. When they start exhibiting too much attention and love, the chick gets bored and starts looking for “rude boys” somewhere. Then her mind starts wavering and she starts telling you “I need space”, “I'm confused”. When you hear these words you're in trouble. Unfortunately most young guy today no dey hear word and they will start reminiscing about the sweet nothings the babe told them when the going was good and continue to misbehave and show over love and over affection. Meanwhile one bad guy fit dey comb the babe for corner somewhere. In the end the chick leaves and the guy is in a wreck, crying, complaining to his friends begging etc and at that point the girl no go wan hear again, anything you're saying is a waste of time. A chick will bring up some of the dumbest excuses when she wants to dump you. She might regret leaving you later but all that one na Tales By Moonlight what matters is the wrecked condition she will leave you in at that moment. The next level of control is artificial control. Artificial control works a lot in Nigeria today, and people exercise this level of control primarily by having money. This is what the so called big boys and sugar daddies use to maintain their babes. Some poor guys starving on their pocket money and University allowances even try to maintain this level of control to their own downfall. With artificial control a girl might screw around but will not really leave you until she finds another guy with better control than you. The best way to use artificial control is ruthlessly, if you have money and control them with money make sure you take no crap from them or else they will turn you to a MUGU and you fall into the no control category even though you have money. Remember money is relative. Some guy has more than you somewhere. Some guys exercise artificial control through other means as well, such as being older, being in a bigger office, better school, living in a bigger house etc. Until the chick meets someone with better control she will not leave but always remember you are in control and use it to your advantage. Don't boast about it though as they really hate it when you point out that the reason they are with you is because of artificial control ( even though we know its true). All those threads written by sacked bankers on Nairaland who have lost their babes are a result of the artificial control category. Control go, babe go. Guys without money should remember this ( University boys open your eyes) the moment you start spending to maintain control, you will never stop and this is a problem when you do not have money so students, graduate trainees and people without money should avoid money artificial control as much as possible. You will only wreck yourself financially, because they will only get greedier and you will find out you cannot keep up and she will use the money you have used to better her looks, wardrobe and her life to find a replacement for you. They always want to upgrade. If you have money to spend it is okay to use artificial control just make sure you do it in a responsible way, not in a way chicks will use “MUGU” to replace your name on their phones. The last control category is true control. Maintain this level of control and you are the true guru. You are the Don Juan, the guy women trip and fall down for regardless of whether or whether not. The true control man is in control of EVERYTHING. He will not chase a babe he cannot control or who he knows will want to lord over him. Before he spends his money on a woman he makes sure that she knows who is in control and spends his money sparingly, in fact she might spend more than him. If she tells him she is in her male corpers friends house sleeping because she does not have light he laughs and tells her “I hope he knows how to screw well, I know you're probably lonely”. It might pain him inside but you will never see it, because he knows that if she finds out he is jealous he is finished, if she feels he is not jealous, she will correct herself and find call him 20 times a day to make sure he truly loves her. The guy who shouts at his babe and tells her what sort of nonsense is that ( why should she sleep in Mr Corper-With-Generator's house) is maintaining artificial control, she will tell him she won't do it again and do it the next day and for the next 10 months, and get combed mercilessly by Mr. Corper-With-Generator and his colleagues. It takes 10 minutes for a quickie and that place does not have a gauge you will use to measure who did and did not do when she comes back. Artificial control men and no control men should take note. In fact most of the accomplished true control guys have barricaded their hearts a long time ago. They show affection strategically and when a chick leasts expects it. They are not always complete bast@rds, they will send flowers and call a babe to check on how she is doing but they do it strategically and sparingly. Too much of ice cream and chocolate is not good. Too much visiting of woman is not good. Calling her more than she calls you is an equally silly idea. If she calls twice call once. What bothers other guys does not bother men of true control. Even if they love a chick they will never show it more than the chick shows it. They say I love you three times a year. This sort of guy might love a chick but still screw one or two around to ensure that he remains in control of his senses. Sex is sex, love is a different kettle of fish. Sex helps you keep things in perspective. Screw one woman too much, you might become silly and lose control. Fidelity is over rated my brothers, you can love a woman but don't confuse it with being faithful. If she suspects you are screwing outside, thats okay for them, just make sure you're never caught and she only suspects, suspicion is good, it keeps her on her feet, she knows she can be replaced. When she sees that text message on your phone, tell her “you are the only one for me “ and buy enough “ chocolate and flowers” and then leave her to think. But NEVER keep two chicks, you should have one chick and the occasional ones you are chopping outside to maintain perspective and self-control, that way you won't create unnecessary problems for yourself. If you are not on the financial capability of Atiku Abubakar, polygamy is a bad idea. If you can retain control without screwing outside, fine for you. But the day your woman is caught screwing outside, you will feel seriously cuckolded and feel like a fool. A true control guy will NEVER date a woman he cannot control. A woman who does not respect you is one you have no control over, these women do not understand equality, look at the divorce rate in America ! A true control guy has ALL control but he never uses money to control too much. He never makes it about money or how much he has. Most true control guys have more money than the women they control, other much more skilled true control guys may have less money but always make sure that she knows who is boss. Because once you let a women who's money is longer than yours gain control, you are finished. A true control guy also has koboko control ( meaning he knows how to give it to her in bed, if you do not know better learn by hiring a skilled Pay As You Go or else she will leave you for the first Mr. Magic Stick). In fact koboko control is way better than money control. Look at Kimora Lee Simmons and Djimon Honsou, you go no say na koboko dey at work, no be by fine face or too much money. ( No offense to Russel Simmons but he had artificial control). A true control guy also has fashion control, he knows how to dress and be neat ( it might not be the most expensive stuff he wears but he looks smart and neat always, he has fashion sense). A true control guy also knows how to tell his babe no and stick to his no. They rarely say “I'm sorry” and always make a chick laugh or some other tactic to avoid using those words. A chicks friends will beef this sort of guy in public and on forums like Nairaland and berate their friends for dating him but will secretly dream of screwing him. It even helps when the guy acts nice to the chicks friends, but not too nice (as in we are all age-mates level, respect must be maintained at all costs, chicks know how to disrespect a guy who plays with them too much). All men should strive to attain true control. True control will give you peace of mind and undying attention. Be wise, my brothers be wise, enough of these tears on Nairaland. These days more men come here to complain than women. This is a war we have to win at all costs. For the sake of the male reputation. For more advice, I am here all week. Remember I have been beaten before but I am now wise, I exercise true control now and take no nonsense from them. If you let them bring you down they will finish you and your village people will say it is the work of juju and your uncles and aunties. , link to d source https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-396243.0.html |
| Romance › Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by ds700(m): 10:38pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
niceG:You are not ready after 8yrs of dating, rite? But why? Are you still school, or still trying to achieve this & that? That some folks set out to achieve some certain goals in life and it worked doesn't mean that same formula will definitely work for everybody. Your breakthrough could be tied to marriage, you could get married today and some certain things that could not work initially will start falling in place. The bible says that (one)1 will chase 1000 while 2 (man & wife) will chase 10,000! Pls reconsider your decisions. It is well with you. |
| Romance › Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by ds700(m): 10:26pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
REALITY101:Banging ? how sure.I've been in a relationship for almost 2yrs, No bang (talkm more of Please don't insinuate. |
| Romance › Re: Marriage Plans (matured Comments Pls) by ds700(op): 10:11pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
kokoye:mmmmmm, desperate mother inlaw! |
