₦airaland Forum

LenaJon:
I'm not. I can show you his text this morning. Asking if I can come to his business area so he can get me something things. But, I'm yet to reply because I'm currently not chanced. Are you saying these things don't happen? They happen a lot if you don't know. But I know you know though. And I'm sure you've been guilty of this many times. Even though you would try to deny it.

I am guilty of it you say?

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

Yes, you can chose to pay for the bill or not, but insulting your wife and mother in law is the height of it.

You didn't like her, but you went ahead and had sex with her.

ValCon888:
To the guy talking about trying it in the US, if you like tear your hard earned dollars in the states, they don't give a flying fùck. They don't have restrictive rights like naija.

People here where camo everyday.

U are ignorant about what you are saying.

In the United State, squeezing the dollar is a crime, talk more of mutilating it.

You can't mutilate any currency of any country and get scot free.

LenaJon:
I don't know why most men do this. That was how I went out yesterday night to get some fruits. After getting them, I was about to leave when a guy stopped me and demanded for my number. He said he saw me buying something and was waiting for me to be through before approaching me. I thought him I wasn't interested. That I don't want to give him my number. He held me, started pleading that I should please give him, that I won't regret it. I told him no.That he doesn't mind kneeling down if that will make me give him the number. He said many things in order to convince me to give it to him, but I didn't. I even told/lied to him that I don't have a phone that my phone has issue just to make him leave me, he said there's no problem that he'll get me a phone, that it's not an issue, that I should give him a number that he can reach me with.

But I later felt pity for him and gave him the number after minutes of pleading. I then told him to get me some fruits. So, we went and got some fruits. Because I like fruits, he said he'll get them for me in bulk by tomorrow, different types. He said by December, he'll get me things for December. And I know if I push further for a phone, he'll definitely get it for me. Maybe tomorrow, I'll tell him to get me a small phone that I can use for just calls. Ahow I went out yesterday night to get some fruits. After getting them, I was about to leave when a guy stopped me and demanded for my number. He said he saw me buying something and was waiting for me to be through before approaching me. I thought him I wasn't interested. That I don't want to give him my number. He held me, started pleading that I should please give him, that I won't regret it. I told him no.That he doesn't mind kneeling down if that will make me give him the number. He said many things in order to convince me to give it to him, but I didn't. I even told/lied to him that I don't have a phone that my phone has issue just to make him leave me, he said there's no problem that he'll get me a phone, that it's not an issue, that I should give him a number that he can reach me with.

But I later felt pity for him and gave him the number after minutes of pleading. I then told him to get me some fruits. So, we went and got some fruits. Because I like fruits, he said he'll get them for me in bulk by tomorrow, different types. He said by December, he'll get me things for December. And I know if I push further for a phone, he'll definitely get it for me. Maybe tomorrow, I'll tell him to get me a small phone that I can use for just calls.

I mean why do they do this?

I know you lying, but continue

Bizmind95:
What of the hundreds of millions some fools donated to him to use and help Borno flood victims We sabi make useless people famous in this country eh...

Too early to see or ask where the money went

Coldspice:
She called Yorubas Ndi ofemma.nu. That's the classic igbo slur for Yorubas.

Her children are Yorubas and her late husband who gave her all she has was Yoruba.

You shouldn't be this daft to know that wasn't her account.

Hmmm

EmperorCaesar:


I used to do this from 2015-2019 during the days of 1960bet with colored slips after my first two accidental wins, and i became very serious with it in 2019


In 2019, I played only 1XBet and since i used to think I'm smarter that the rest, I usually analyze my games with the aid of some bet analytics like Windrawin, soccervista, Afootballreport and Statsarea yet nothing show


I finally stopped the day i used this 1xbet option 'Player not to score a hattrick" on Bernardo Silva and the game was Man City vs Watford.

City flogged them 8-0 or so and Silva netted a hattrick. Funny thing is, that was his only ever hattrick for Man City till date

Its a curse abeg. Stopped since 2019

Joker

In cases like this, the club will have pay for the consequences of their fans.

Plateau United will be fined & points deducted.

brosiye99:
Eat a lot of meat especially offals(Kidney, liver, gizzard) and also take lots of yoghurt and full cream milk. There is this milk called complan milk. It is a high calorie milk and good for weight gain

Kidney, liver and co you mentioned contains less calories and doesn't make one add weight.

Richtaiwo:
I agree it is wrong to exclude a sitting gov from an inauguration ceremony in which he is a key stakeholder. It is indeed very despicable and unhealthy for the incoming administration which will also handover one day.

Having said that, can Obaseki himself tell us what his administration, which is still in force, has done in preparation for the handing over ceremony coming up in about 72 hours from now?

Secondly, Obaseki should realise the gov elect is responsible, to a very large extent, preparation for inauguration ceremony ushering in his administration. Yes, the outgoing gov can express his displeasure on some arrangements and indeed remove them, but he is also responsible for inviting the incoming to brief him on the plan. Did he do that? Additionally, the incoming is completely free to invite whomsoever he wishes to grace his inauguration.

Lastly, he borrowed some expressions from Peter obi "stolen mandate." Can the gov explain how a mandate was stolen? Or is it that any election that doesn't favour you is automatically a stolen manhood?

Ipob miscreants have introduced a concept in Nigeria electoral system. When election doesn't favour you, it becomes a stolen manhood. Okay oh.

Neither you, nor your lineage, up to the 10th generation will ever enjoy dividend of democracy, since you prefer evil doers in power.

yarimo:
The agulu fraudster Donating money stolen from labour party

Man, nobody from your state can do half of what Peter Obi has done.

And Peter Obi can feed and cloth your lineage, up to the 10th generation.

Richtaiwo:
What the agulu packaged fraud could not do in 8 years but was able to build beer factory from scratch to finishing.

But he is still popular and has achieved more in private and government, than any of your state governor ever.

If you think otherwise, i am willing to bet you on any amount.

We know the reason behind it, make i no talk fess.

Evil party are using their power to force themselves on Nigerians.

Jokes apart, 95% of Nigerians hate APC, and you will wonder and ask, how come they still win elective positions.... The answer is simple; They rig themselves into power, since they control INEC and all the security apparatus in the country, and the judges/judiciary is also in their pocket.

Hope is far far far away from Nigeria.

PressMyButton:
Quickly jumped on it and congratulated her because the news has already gained traction. Has he congratulated Bianca who's living close to him?. If hypocrisy was a human.

Omo your problem be like overload, and the thing dey heavy you, abeg try drop am.

Fireworksx:
Dear everyone, please, i won't be doing this if only there's a glimmer of hope. please forgive me, but it seems that I have no choice. I'm typing this with tears in my eyes and with a very heavy heart. I'm doing this for my little girl who is asthmatic, I have exhausted my savings to buy her Seretide inhaler but at this point it has become too expensive to afford. I work two jobs to provide for my family but it never seem to be enough and as it stands I have exhausted all channels with which I can borrow money to buy it. It is sold for 18,500 but anything we can lay our hands on is perfectly okay please. Even 1k will go a long way to keep my baby girl alive please. Please my family, am on my knees, I am pleading for assistance to save my daughters life. I beg you in God's name please.. Any well meaning Nigerian whom God has touched their heart to help us, please help us. May the Almighty GOD bless all you lay your fingers on, amen.

10 25 02 57 87. First City Monument Bank (fcmb)
May God bless you immensely ❤ 🙏

Scammer rest naaaa, nobody will fall for your antics.

Fireworkx:
Dear everyone, please, i won't be doing this if only there's a glimmer of hope. please forgive me, but it seems that I have no choice. I'm typing this with tears in my eyes and with a very heavy heart. I'm doing this for my little girl who is asthmatic, I have exhausted my savings to buy her Seretide inhaler but at this point it has become too expensive to afford. I work two jobs to provide for my family but it never seem to be enough and as it stands I have exhausted all channels with which I can borrow money to buy it. It is sold for 18,500 but anything we can lay our hands on is perfectly okay please. Even 1k will go a long way to keep my baby girl alive please. Please my family, am on my knees, I am pleading for assistance to save my daughters life. I beg you in God's name please.. Any well meaning Nigerian whom God has touched their heart to help us, please help us. May the Almighty GOD bless all you lay your fingers on, amen.

10 25 02 57 87. First City Monument Bank (fcmb)
May God bless you immensely ❤ 🙏

You wey never marry, u dey use ur future daughter lie.

Ttalk:
SE are drawing the entire South down with their protective and overpampering of their governors who just pay salary and bolt with the remaining money.

Rather than concerntrate on generating revenue, they prefer to dance gwo gwo gwo ngwo and spend the rest of their time blaming Tinubu and SW people

Just imagine Kwara state is generating more revenue than Anambra says more about the priority of those who have ruled the state.

Their love with IPOB and anything mediocre is worrisome, as many of them detest Soludo who is trying to clean up the mess of Peter Obi.

It is high time SE people talk to themselves and think home rather than turns SW to their home

From your write up, it shows how pained you are like a sadist.

58yrs old helicopter.

PeterObi4Presid:
Just less than 7 days o.....
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I'm going to compile hard evidence against him today....I will act normal like nothing happened
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Then I will get him arrested.

For you not to lose, because involving police will cost money, and if you arrest him, without charging him to court, brother you will lose more, because it is not the duty of police to recover debts.

My take; Involve a lawyer, and find out how much it will cost to process a court case.

Then calculate both the money he stole, the money it will cost to involve police, lawyer and court, add it together and lay claim that, that was what he stole.

Then his family will come in, and would want to settle out of court.

PeterObi4Presid:
Business is really hard in Nigeria if you are not there 247,
We are too wicked, greedy and dishonest.

Less than a week, I employed this boy o, to manage my gas filling retail business and POS.
He displayed passion, initiative and experience about the gas filling business and handling of POS....so I just took the chance, we also speak same language. I've been acting nice and all but I think I now know why most Nigerian bosses are mean to their workers by default
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Now from first cylinder we couldn't account for 10kg
Second cylinder was started today by him......when I told him to calculate everything sold from first cylinder based on daily record book ....it felt short of 10kg
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From the sales from second cylinder that started today, The account book does not tally with what is remitted through ATM/POS mode of payment .....I dint know this until I checked my Moniepoint acct as I got home now cos my phone was dead before I went to the shop this evening
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Even the POS part of the business does not tally with the cash I gave him this morning for people who need cash withdrawal
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I'm boiling right now realizing the boy had lied to me when balancing the account this night using the record book, only to get home and power my phone to see cash fell short of 23k in my monie point acct linked to the POS
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How do you handle boys who think they are smarter than you because theyve been in the business before?
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And what are your experiences with dishonest workers in your business , especially this gas retail business or POS business
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Modoified: how do I handle this case now....cos my mind is just boiling ....how can a new business fall short of 38k in less than 7 days...

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If you can't manage it yourself, your name is otilo ooO.

Ever8090:
you will be killed or kidnapped anywhere you work, it is a prophecy I am given to you this day..

I said pray, but you decided to wish for me so.

May all your family members be victims.

Ever8090:
I don't know why this Japa of a thing doesn't freek me a bit......Shey na external life I dey go look for abi na money, if na money there is plenty of it in my country..

I have already started a process to farm 20 hectares of land to plant maize and cassava....watch out for the next millionaire right here in Nigeria

Pray you don't get killed or kidnapped in your farm.

Na even white people.

Ntigha:
30million to 40 million Naira depending on the quality of your finishing and fittings

For a bungalow like the one OP posted?

You clearly don't own a land, for you to have over estimated the cost.

The girl behind this travail isn't up to 24yrs

6 months into the marriage, her true nature will take effect.

She is only trying to sell herself to the public, portraying as a good lady.

OYO STATE is one of the most primitive state in Nigeria 😂😂😂

yyba:
Most of the senators from the east don't even know why they are elected as senator imagine the rubbish he was saying

The senator representing your constituency, what has he done for you and your people?

Abi you just want talk?

Flamemignon1:
Are you the prime definition of stupid or have you not been following the case since inception? A lot of women and men are accusing him of rape and sexual assault but your bigotry only sees the gay one as evil, your country deserve the president you have

When you finish hovering around the world, you will still come back and meet Nigeria the way you left it, if not worst.

Upon all his wealth, and could literally afford any woman of his choice, but he chose this nonsense way of life as Gabriel.