₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
I will be back to comment...

Why?

Diamond098454:
That's one thing with men

I won't even allow my husband find a job for me and won't work in the same organization or company with him , I like space a lot.

Oga Ade, try dey read naaaaw, no wonder you failed English in Waec

Most gen-z girls would have ran away, all in the name of forming big girl in school

AbosedeFalade:
I can understand your frustrations. Unfortunately, I'm not going to help you overcome them. Lol.

If not for autocorrect, you wouldn't have known how to spell the word "Frustration".

Just rest in Jesus name 🙏

AbosedeFalade:
Congratulations to her. Let her not allow the man turn her to a queen of ring though. I expect wedding to follow up immediately.

Meanwhile, it seems like the first daughter is a very reserved lady.

What they do, or how long they stay engaged is non of your business, focus on the engagement, congratulate them and move on.

Asin eh, Nigeria matter tire me, Tinubu actually destroyed democracy in Nigeria.

I hate Tinubu and anything that has to do with APC.

This roofing will cost at least N12m

It is not possible, besides there is no evidence to that, funny people.

yarimo:
But Mr onaiyekan and his other group went to meet president TINUBU as bitter politicians not as religious leader they claims

After 2027 what next, will your life change, or will you and your family continue to wallow in poverty?

Silentgroper:
A friend traveled and came back , met his ceiling like this with a missing pressing iron and a missing spoilt hot 5 phone ... Dumb thief right ..


His problem is , how does he patch this up and who usually do something like that ..

He should buy another ceiling naaaw

Samantha125:
I do know, my husband also doesn't like wigs and I too never liked them, I've only worn a wig once in my lifetime when I was a bridesmaid and immediately removed it after the wedding reception... I've also never worn weaves before and even if one day I eventually do, I'd probably opt for those clip on weaves just to give my natural hair some volume when I go out and remove them upon returning back home.

In fact, it baffles me how African women are able to survive under those wigs in this blazing hot African weather.

Nigerian women spend about $1b annually on wigs.

garykoeman:
They re political bishops and also Peter obi supporters.

You think the peanut you collect monthly will change the lives of your children, just to defend bad leaders like Tinubu.

Joe thinks worshipping and slaving for Tinubu will set him free.

When he is done with all these nonsense, he will come back to his ancestral land to receive the final judgment.

Our currency is very weak, too much money chasing few goods.

Thundafireseun:
I have said it several times and I will gladly say it again...

I have not seen any sensible Peter...

Peter Obi..
Peter Okoye 😭

You've lost sense of reality....

It is terrible and heart breaking to know that their elder brother is this wicked, he neither sings, dances, writes, nor own the record label, but yet he collected 40%.

Collecting 40% for doing absolutely nothing is sickening, and Paul seems to be a mumu to betray his twin brother.

The world would have been a better place

TemplarLandry:
It's not campaign period but they've already started cryingg wolf.

Obi China is a clown that will never become El Presidente.

Let him keep wallowing in the pigsty.

I diss him and his sympathizers with "Zealots" by Fugees.

Great jam!

You even had to use Ai to generate this nonsense

LordIsaac:
It is not, and it will never be!
Opening the matrix is non-negotiable; I do not entertain boreholes. Personally, I have (by the grace of God), all it takes to be with a virgin (I'm surrounded by them), so why should I go into other men's leftovers?

This your borehole you are talking about, do you think the penis is responsible for that, just dey play.

naptu2:
You saw me worshiping anyone? Where? Show me evidence of worshipping anyone.

Why are you asking me who killed Funsho Williams? You don't know where the police are?

OK, since you can ask, I can also ask. Provide the names of the people that killed Funsho Williams and also provide irrefutable proof that they killed Funsho Williams.

If you like, keep making the same mistake, and don't vote right in 2027, otherwise, you go cry.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Manchelors

Unclechelors

Brochelors

Babachelors

So which of them are you getting married to, because i am pretty sure you aren't married.

spiceadole:
Keep playing.
The men have agreed they don't need marriage.
With baby mama and OS, they are okay.
They say they have nothing to benefit from getting married.
And you are here advising them.
Hanty pick me, I see you

Yes, we will pick her over you that is still single, despite the fact that she is married.

Amarabae:
Growing up,I used to think that marital pressure is a feminine thing, like it is something you as a girl growing up in a conservative African home must brace yourself up to face and conquer.

As maturity and exposure beckoned, I discovered that it is not gender based, even young men especially in their 30s also face this "pressure to marry" though subtly to a large extent.

Getting off the phone recently with an old time friend, he told me how the economic situation in Nigeria has been preventing him from settling down admist pressure from family and friends about him getting married; mind you, he is 37!!

What shocked me is that a neighbor of his is even suspecting him to be gay!!!
You should know some amebo Nigerians especially in some busy neighborhood, the lgbt conscientiousness has thrived so high that any young man who is not a womanizer or yet married at some point gets suspected to be one of the rainbow people.

I have to take my time to counsel him because from the voice, I detected a young man slipping into the degenerative arms of depression!!

To all the 30+ bachelors here!
Listen to me.

We live life once!
Don't allow societal pressure to push you into taking a decision you are not prepared for.
Marriage is not a child's play, it involves both emotional, social and financial stability.

It is a 50-50 journey with unpredictable outcome
Just focus on building yourself, chasing your dreams and making your a bit financially stable.
I am emphasizing on financial stability because it is extremely important for a marriage to be smooth!

You don't have to be a millionaire to start, NO
But get to a point where you can sustain two people (new wife and potentially a baby) for 30 days.

What about the wife? Will she not contribute? Someone may be tempted to ask!
My dear, yes , a supportive lady ought to support but big brother, You should not take the risk of entering into marriage with a meagre source of income and be hoping on the lady you want to marry to support.

Many went this path and it produced mixed results
Grow your finances
Develop yourself
Take your time, don't make the move out of pressure , It is your life to live and your decision to make.

I have gotten to the point in life even as a lady that I will not live my life according to other people's wishes
If you are not ready, don't enter!
Enter when you are ready .
Love you all plenty
Oriaku cares

The 37yrs old guy finding it difficult to settle down was your ex, so stop covering it, by saying he is your friend 😂😂😂

dominique:
Everything is just upside down in this country. Those that are wrongly credited dey chop the money clean mouth, the one that actually refunded got arrested. Who do us in this country?

When you have very corrupt people in office, what do you expect, especially when the number citizen has record of drug, corruption and so many other wrong reasons not to be a president.

Tinubu is a cancer.

naptu2:
Why won't I like it and what's my business with it?

Because you worship a man with bad track records right from his youth days.

Who killed Funsho Williams?

These guys will not like this 😢

WizardOfNG
FreeStuffsNG
Madridguy
Naptu2
FSBoperator
Helinus
Seunmsg
Parachoko
DomPerignon
MagicBishop
Legendhero
Richtaiwo
Yarimo

DickenClarq:
This is very beautiful.

It is only people that don't have money or that are struggling that think Nigeria is not beautiful.

The nature of my Job have made me witness Nigeria beauty first hand.
If you have money to the level of their Dangote, Adenuga, Otedola, Rabiu etc. and the moderate Naira billionaire like the Obi Cubana etc., I can tell you if you have 500 Million in your bank account, living outside Nigeria will look like a burden to you.

Note they are Ghettos in Paris & Dubai too

God Bless Nigeria


May God Bless us

Aesthetically, Nigeria has poor infrastructure, the reason why rich people prefer to stay back, is because, making money is much easier, and they are almost above the law, aside from that, there is nothing interesting about Nigeria.

Show me one leisure location worth around $100m - $1b in Nigeria done by government or private investor.

A country with insecurity challenges.

TemplarLandry:
I've been there. It shares boundaries with the Atlantic Ocean.

I dedicate "Joha" by Asake to this; he referenced this resort on the song.

Great jam!

Before, was it suppose to share boundaries with Osogbo river?

Deo1986:
Marrying early with meager allowance as a police officer in the 70s and 80s
The man struggled real hard to keep his family of six together.
In the end he died broke and exhausted.

You guys exhausted him 😂

Can you imagine, then how many are left.