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SpencerForbes:
Nah…. Instead of me thinking of happy endings, I rather think of worst possible scenarios and how to maneuver them. Reduces surprises

So if I marry a virgin, I don’t have to start watching if she cheats or not. Before I get married, I’ll make sure I marry someone that respect me and not necessarily love. She she respects you there’s nothing to fear.

If she values the marriage, she’ll behave. But if she doesn’t want to, she’s free to go. Shikena!!!

Ok.

Just that I would love to watch your own movie

dollypi:
A virgin is the best.

Come to think of it. Uncle Ned Nwoko married a virgin, and we can all see the movie that is playing out.

PolyGamous:
Marriage (be it monogamy or polygamy) can mean lust. That’s why I said the foundation of marriage should not be lust.

Monogamous man with a high sex interest will cheat and eventually have several baby mamas.

I’m not someone that will advice people to go polygamy without a tangible need for it, an instance of tangible reason is that of Abraham having another woman to have a child and there are series of them, that even the wife will be the one to push for it.

I’m polygamous for growth, just as I am doing my best to have multiple sources of income to be a better child and a better father, not to impress!

Like I said, we agree on the foundation of lust and no where do we imply that monogamy is lust proof. No

The point we are just pointing out is that polygamy is automatically lust founded. And that is where we stop

jmoore:
Another noise.

It is like mocking someone that bought a brandnew car fresh from the factory while you are driving a tenth hand car with 2 million km mileage.

Will the brand new car still remain brand new and mile-none after you have bought it?

Will you not over mileage that first 2 weeks?

Anyway, I am not even trying to mock you guys, I am just saying hot problems are waiting for you guys as the guy up has experienced. That is all

xareal:
If you like talk from today till rapture, I'll take my chat chances with a virgin

See, the broda up took his chance. Maybe you will do better

SpencerForbes:
Ladies are free to choose the high and classy wealthy men but if we men demand standard (just one) we’re the villains. I pity any man that doesn’t have self esteem.

Keep settling for less. Any woman that cannot respect you— virgin or not is not meant to be with you. Accept that!!! and that trait is mainly exhibited by women that have lost emotional connection because of what she knows she can get from another man.

You obviously do not real eyes that you are talking about marriage. Which means that you have gotten your chosen choice. So marriage now means that it is time to live with your chosen choice.

And that's when the movie begins and I love real life movies, so carry on let's see how you play this life.

SpencerForbes:
Why else do you want to marry, so she can help you in old age😂😂😂 wake up boy, wake up. If I read your post sometimes I just wonder which planet you’re from Just because you married a b2b midfielder doesn’t mean we all will do the same. And wash that nonsense thought that anybody is coming for you. NOT EVEN YOUR CHILD!!! That’s how you lot bother the next generation with your burdens.

Not everyone is as narrow as you are.

Secondly, no where do you see me forcing anyone to follow me and neither am I the one complaining about marriage.

So, keep on carrying out your plans, it is not me who will complain and lament when it does not play out as you planned it

PolyGamous:
The thing about people taking wives as a car wasn’t a tradition here, men marry wives as a partner in the African tradition. Which is missing today.

Show me a polygamous man of the past whose wives were his partners beyond sex.

PolyGamous:
Imagine marrying a lady that supports you in what you do brilliantly, women were part of everything here because their importance is well known....

See, you said "a lady", which is monogamy.

PolyGamous:
The main point is, marriage should be based on love not lust..

And we all agree on this but AdvanceDNA was simply trying to remind you that polygamy means lust.

https://www.nairaland.com/8563769/wife-still-talks-ex#137512743

We have all seen and heard this types of reports before. So anyone telling you to go and fornicate is a person who does not like you at all.

SpencerForbes:
Wait, just because I married a virgin, I'm supposed to suddenly start caring what she does? Nope. For a man, the core reason for marriage is to have children—procreation. Everything else is secondary or optional....

Is like nobody has told you that you are talking rubbish. I wish I could see you toasting a girl and your point is that you want her just because she has eggs, ovaries and a womb.

But, no problem. It's your show and our watching

PulaPower:
It’s virgin or nothing bro..

1,000 threads can not change that fact..

Don’t play..

Carry on ooo. I am not tired of watching you people's moves.

PolyGamous:
Lol, funny how you are the one that failed to do your research, why are women and their kids entitled to the properties of their husbands?

If they are slaves they wouldn’t be entitled to it, do your research well and know how polygamy works in africa not in the Arab nation!!!

Where did I mention that slavery was in accordance with Arab nation practices?

Secondly, it is God through natural law Who made it very solid and sure that wives and children must/should inherit the husband and father's property. So, this is off point.

And the main point is that you cannot counter that men acquired wives the same way we acquire cars. And funny, the wives are treated exactly how their cars are treated, which is reign today discarded tomorrow. Not to talk of where they now even said that women cannot inherit their husbands property.

https://www.nairaland.com/7476032/does-wife-right-husbands-property#119087975

To all the homies and sharp boys who think themselves very smart for marrying a virgin after all their disvirgining kerewas out there, do you see what has happened to your brother who had even done this earlier?

https://www.nairaland.com/8563521/mature-people-only-need-advice/1#137516008

See how the plan did not work and check his threads, he has been complaining and lamenting since, but now it is about to shëlē!

Wise men fear God!

This guy proves why it is not good to fornicte.

https://www.nairaland.com/8563521/mature-people-only-need-advice/1#137516008

If you check all his threads you would see that even though his wife was a virgin when he had her, he was not a virgin. And since then, he has not had peace. Always one problem to another.

And now today his faithful loving wife is about to go outside and uncle cannot bear it

I remembered that I have spoken with you before and after I had seen your threads i understand.

See how you have been complaining about your wife every year and it is only getting worse.

Sorry bro, i did tell you in your thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7504920/please-need-advice-thread-please#119612098

that
"'I guessed that you were not a virgim and now she is growing in hatred and resentment that you were not."

So you see, you have fallen into one of the punishments for fornication even if you married a virgin. And this is how it always plays out. And you knew which is why you are ready to dump her in your bid to escape. But unfortunately for you, it won't work. For the second she leaves, God help you that she did not even say anything, you would know that you have just entered into a worser stage of living. All these your gra gra and alaye will end.

RevenuesBoost:
Spoil her with sweet words, gifts and most especially, "give her good attention".

She won't even think of cheating anymore.

Don't use rash words on her, be calm and pamper her and she'll surely reciprocate the love.

So that she can go and finish riding the colleague before she comes back to reciprocate abi?

PolyGamous:
Lol, you were told to believe polygamous was all about cheat and lust.

According to elderly ones, polygamy in the tradition of Africa was not because of lust, but because of productive purposes. People with many wives are more productive (amount of land they cultivated or the amount of trades they own), people don’t just marry in African traditions if they are not capable to take care of wife or wives and the children.

If marriage is still based on the traditional knowledge, it will be far better.

Polygamy is for growth not for lusting around!!

And you did not have the sense to know that this was a lie and a stew ..... excuse to cover their lusts and greed and in slavement of women?

calabaman:
That she was chatting him doesn't prove she is cheating with the said man...

See devuuuuo.

How else does cheating start.

hunterezi:
This was how my BM cried and even fasted foe three days for God to forgive her. She still went ahead after i left town. It’s up to you but that feelings won’t die. They’ll even duck as soon as you lewve town.

My advice: send her packing as a strong signal, albeit be open to receiving her upon genuine repentance. If you don’t send this strong warning and use emotions, you will lose at the end.

Shalom

It won't work! In fact, he has laid the bed of adultery.

Whereas, the Truth is that he should have seen this coming for sex opens the eyes (that is why we all know that Eve slept with saytan); and the desire for it increases after you have had it.

So, Truth is where before sex God helped virgins to resist it, after sex, it is us who have to resist it.

And this is where all the people we have seen and studied comes to help us and the number 1 of it all is that things became over worse for a wife who was a virgin who now fell for the temptation of saytan by sleeping with another person whether man or woman. And yes, women love to sleep with women. And like men, all women want to sleep with a wife who married being a virgin. They are even hot cakes to them.

So you see, she is attacked constantly by both men and women.

And that it is just the beginning as he can never repent because God would permanently hatyeeee her. Which is why every woman is the way we see them that is they are c0r sd.

So, unless she hates herself, she could as well drink jik, for that is what it means to go fornicate and adulterate.

Then, if you both know a virgin who fornicated, point them out to her, I am very sure, you both saw that it was never good for them after that. Meanwhile it has been very very good for you two.

So, the question is does she want to lose it and change?

And my brother, hold your breath because, saytan is wicked and e no go let am easy

God help una.

dierich:
I've been with my wife for 7 years now. We dated for 3 years and got married 4 years ago
I met her a virgin which made me cherish her and respect her a lot.
We had a son together now and we are living well and I've seen her as been faithful and submissives even supportive a lot
Fast forward to this moment. We relocated almost 2 years ago and she started working. Recently I notice her moves with one of her colleagues at work which I notice they started having some kind feelings which I interrupted and I told her family which we all settle it. She was sobber and said it's the work of d devil. Though no sexual stuff between them, just some kind of colleague been to clinch which it's getting out of hand
I set some rules which one of it is that if she dare chat him or talk to him about anything not related to work or account, I will send her packing which she assure me.
I've been spying which I saw it that they've not even chatting though they don't usually see at work. The man is just doing part time which he comes 6 times a month.
4 days ago, my wife lock her fone, and said she doesn't want me to be spying that whenever I want to check her fone, I should tell her and she'll surely open it immediately for me.
So, yesterday, she's chatting on her fone and I playful collect her fone, check her WhatsApp and saw she message this Same man (Hello sir, good afternoon)
I was so annoyed and my heart broken totally, after several warnings.
Now I want to send her packing just for her to learn that, if she turned out to be a single mother, she'll got tired of men after they must av play her and turn her to trash
I'm confused and now I've packed her bag, waiting for her to come from work and send her away tomorrow morning
Or what advice can you give. What's your view

She isn't like this honestly. I've check her well for several years coz I'm a sensitive guy, until now that I saw some stupid act

Ah! You are not handling it well ooo.

Ah! But the solution is even harder because it starts with you understanding and accepting a huge unacceptable Truth. Which is, like everybody, and like you, your wife would like to eff other people.

And this is of course against the silly Lie sold that when you have a virgin, this phenomenon would be avoided. But it is a big Lie. It is worser for virgins as saytan disturbs them very badly.

Your wife is a human like you and everything you feel, she too feels it.

So, you are reacting in the wrong way and yes, it she is about to do it., but, this is where you see the importance of a God fearing woman and that since she is about to join and be like every woman out there, she should know that the day she does it, she would know what God's puni.....t looks like.

Skoonheid:
I encountered this brilliant lawyer many years ago in the law faculty of the university of Calabar. My mission was to get him to lose his grip off my lil sis who he had consistently failed then. Fortunately he was reasonable and responded positively. It's sublime to see him paying for his many sins after so many years. Truly he who sows the wind must reap the whirlwind.

True, the guy was very very brilliant and when he is in the mood, you would actually like him. I am certain that is why many girls did not come out to join the suit.

And aunty, talk true now, you are sister, abi?

SonOfWords:
Prof. Cee-y Ndifon's jail prospects have always been looming right from when I knew the wide aneemal in 2011. Man wey victimize my neegah shenkes cause she no gree spread am gbensh. Na once we slash him four vehicle tyres for back of library, him compose.

That man spent the last two decades swimming in coital juices of countless malabresses. He deserves to be jailed for 600 years !

The red Benz abi?

Seven more characters no dey

It is sweet when justice arrives.

Though he should have gotten more than that if other victims had joined the suit

Mrexcell:
What an advise, are u solomon? Do u even have any idea of the dangers in having sex with total strangers these days? Destinies have been cut short, some have been initiated into the marine kingdom just because of unholy sexual relationships i have personally seen many that has carried ghosts and ladies from the marine world that later turned into snakes and fishes in hotel rooms u can't be more wiser than the men of God in the bible that advised believers to run away fornication and adultery.

He knows! This is how sayt's children are recognised

thepathoflogos:
Every choice we make today shapes not just our future, but generations to come—how do you personally stay disciplined in these moments?

That is the meaning of discipline na. Especially as we even know that in this kind of issue it is right not to follow the crowd

AlphaTaikun:
Succinctly stated.

Whoa! I like the FACT that you added the "Samford and Son" sitcom to the list. "Good Times" featuring JJ "Dyn-O-Mite" and his family who lived in the Projects and "Samford and Son" were some of my favorite African-American themed sitcoms ever back them in the late 1970s right into the 1980s.

Even though some of us might be below the radar... It shows that we OGs (Boomers and Gen-X) are still very active and keeping it real on this discussion forum.

Yes ooo

Kaczynski:
rubbish


does not come close to this

This looks like Chucky 9.

Chucky 1 to Seed of Chucky is a blast. Make I talk True, it was last year I, as I am in between 40 & 50 I settled down to watch it jejely. Couldn't do it back then.

SlavaUkraini:
So none of you guys remember Willie Willie ?

What about Ultimate Power ?

With the likes of....

Ishawuru.... The Spiritual Man

Ayamantanga... The Queen of the Coast

The Three Witches 🧹🧹🧹

That was what we got from "Nollywood" back in the days

When you say wilie wilie, then you must remember Lynx, Hauwa, Abiku. Hated all of them and it was with one eye behind curtain I used to look at it, not watch them oo. Still, couldn't sleep after all that effort. Men, I hate horror films

AlphaTaikun:
Are you for real?

The oldest of these millennials are still quite youthful and they were born starting from 1981 (44 years ago) to 1997 (28 years ago) which is the end point for Gen-Y or millennials.

Most of the upper-aged millennials are still parents NOT grandparents although some of them who accidentally had kids as teenagers or in their 20s are now grandparents (who still crave for fun and excitement in their lives).

Don't mind it

It is is in painful jealousy

AlphaTaikun:
I'm older than that range so I've never seen "Baby's Day Out." I'm curious to know what the movie is all about and will check YouTube for any trailers of the movie.

The "Knight Rider," the ORIGINAL "Incredible Hulk," "Good Times," "Different Strokes," "Mind Your Language," "Robin Hood," and more are some of the sitcoms and movies I can recall watching from the late 1970s through to the 1980s.

Rent a ghost, Samford and son, Some mother's do have em",

Then in Nigeria we had Second Chance, Ichiokwu, Papi Luwe, Jaguar, the new masquerade