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Basic123:
This is the SMAERTEST Advice.



As a man,DONT EVER BE PRESSURED!DONT EVER BE PRESSURED!DONT EVER BE PRESSURED!DONT EVER BE PRESSURED!DONT EVER BE PRESSURED!

Tell them!

AngelicBeing:
For posting this comment, l will tell those in the religious section of nairaland to banish you permanently to planet Jupiter for 700 billion years oooooo mucheche oooooo hahaha 😂

, you sure? Me think say UN and Nobel Prize go give me award for manitarian gesture of saving more than 10,000 men from bad women and bad marriages.

Jennyclay:
Another most dangerous man you must not date talk-less of marriage is a broke and stingy man

Then you now start coming near him when you see he is loaded and even ready to drive his fiancee or even marry him as wife no 2. No man hath seen what 🤕

pocohantas:
It is actually very untrue that some rich men casually marry runs girls. They might not necessarily marry the societal definition of a wife material, but definitely not a runs girl. Even Davido's family have done everything to keep Chioma amongst all the babymamas.

Your points are almost not controvertible cept that as the op has observed this fact is what is prevalent

IyaTola:
Nobody is defending cheating or saying the woman did nothing wrong. The issue is the convenient double standard in how you are interpreting the story.

You have already decided that because she was exposed as an escort, every reaction from the man must automatically be justified, while any discussion about the circumstances surrounding the discovery is somehow “deflecting.”..

In this case the man is not up for any blame at all as he conducted himself appropriately. So, there is no double standard here.

The only thing in view is the fact of his fiancee shocking him in his discovery that she's an escort

pocohantas:
There are different type of rich men;

- Illegal rich men, night life rich men and politicians.

- 9to5 rich men.
- Nepo baby and family wealth
- Lapo baby that hustled from the bottom.

Some can be a combinatiom of two categories listed, but they all have different kinda wives. The ones you see marrying what you described are mostly illegal and night life rich men. Which is okay as they can be clubbing and smoking wheed together.

Kai, this your half truth is dangerous, however, the real eyeity is exactly what the op has observed

IyaTola:
A person's current identity cannot always be reduced to their previous occupation.
Someone can leave sex work, build a legitimate career, become an entrepreneur and genuinely change their life.

Aunty stop lying na! Ehn, the way you defend ashalanba is too evil. The only time you leave is when you people gree your body has expired and that you have no market again

greatiyk4u:
From your description you are not a Rich guy and only basing you submission on conjecture

Real rich men have a circle, and the mingle and marry within that same circle

You are referring to those who struggled out of poverty and while trying to belong, they get trapped by the rebranded runs girls

You are talking about arrangee marriage of rich children who are still mummy and daddy's puppet. All self made rich people marry whoever they have calculated to marry

abayomi27:
Good sex is underrated. A skillful bed midfielder fit take any man.

Na marriage we dey talk not stealing or scattering someone's home because oga has low mileage

franchasng:
This is part of the reasons op.


The girls you call runs girls are usually good mannered, respectful, caring, great listeners and good in making a man feel special unlike your so called calm, career ladies who feel so arrogant, prideful and disrespectful to men. Every man wants to be respected. If I am to marry a second wife, I will go for a semi educated or uneducated super beautiful humble girl

If they are not these things how dem won take marry? Even rons girl won marry. This means that dem don catch you

Hungrychicken:
Women are fortunate sometimes to eat their cake and have it back… lucky daughters of Eve

That is because you think they have made it and therefore you do not see their tears. You no see Tonto Dike and her friend wey be the present wife? Dem dey hear am for dia oo

Stephen0mozzy:
Only irresponsible men go beyond the limit of a decent girl/good woman.

Or people who know that they don't deserve a decent/good girl.

You don't know that rich men and women are nearly the most filthiest people on earth?

IyaTola:
Honestly, I have a problem with this story, and it’s not even about the woman.

You said you were uncomfortable when your friends decided to bring escorts to the bachelor’s party. Fine. But what exactly did you do about it? Did you tell your friends it was wrong? Did you leave immediately because you didn't want to be part of it? Or did you stay there until you saw your fiancée?

Because if you genuinely believed bringing escorts to a bachelor’s party was disrespectful to the women you were about to marry, why were you still sitting in the middle of that environment?

Shatat woman!
I knew one woman must come and deflect attention back to the man to cover up how God sets up women to be caught.

The fact is a good event can suddenly turn bad and that would take any man by SURPRISE (And of course you women are experts in using SHOCK and SURPRISES as they are the best weapons you women love to use since you know that men get mesmerised and debilitated when shocked and taken by surprise.)

So, in shock the man would not immediately act adding to the fact that usually such evil is usually short lived and temporary and so he expects it to pass away hence why he takes time to act.

And this is why he gets to catch bad women like you as God helping and saving him from bad women.

So, the fact is that she is an escort and uncle did not know until God exposed her.

I am sure this is still the same thing you would have said if it was the guy's friend who caught her . Anything to defend ashie

MaxInDHouse:
I told you my own God differ from yours, bye!

It is not what you say but what you prove/what is proven. And it is proven that God of the Bible is, you and i and everybody's God whether you like Him or not! Ok bye

MaxInDHouse:
Who is the first sinner?

Adam!

Who knew God face to face yet rebelled against God?

Adam!

So where will Adam who brought all mankind into this situation be?

Heaven or your so called Hellfire?

That is what delusion is!🥱

C'mon Max, this is not rational at all. See, all the Off Point you are raising.

Let's leave this matter. The bottomline is that your personal and private wishes are not real eyeity and they can never become one. If na so street beggers for dey live for Lekki phase 1. Bye

Akir2025:
The Question

Now,Having known the Silly Mistake Adam made ,Why is it a Sin to Be Nude since that is the Creators Original Plan?

Why is it a Sin when a Lady Exposes her body wearing a Cloth We Call Indecent or men does

Don't Shift ,Just Answer a Direct Answer .Stop All these Bending.

I believe that if you are indeed a rational person you already know the reason why for surely even you have never carried your 16yr old daughter nude to go watch a football match aat the national stadium.

Peterrio:
Have you chook yourself with the stage 4 cancer?

Why are you deflecting? Is it not you who is pretending not to see? If a person does not believe that fire is hot and claims that fire is not hot, do we not put the person's hand in fire? So, stop running, come let them chook you with stage 4 cancer let us see.

MaxInDHouse:
Ọmọ talk about your own God i'm talking about mine who hates to see people suffer {Genesis 6:5-6; Habakkuk 1:13} in fact He can't bare the sight that is why He is no longer seeing most things instead He designed few angels to go about taking note of the evil people are doing to themselves {Ezekiel 10:12} and reporting back to Him. Genesis 18:20-21

So i'm talking about my own God please talk about yours who is capable of roasting people alive in the fire. Jeremiah 7:31

It is said if old man no know how to behave, small pikin go insult am.

What you are doing is what is defined as delusion.

"A delusion is a fixed, unshakable belief that remains firmly held despite clear, contradictory evidence or logical proof to the contrary".

it is already established that you are trying to force your personal and private wish to become a real eyeity. If na so street beggers for dey live for Lekki phase 1.

So, since you are have been talking Off Point and trying to talk Off Point it means that you do not have anything reasonable and valid to say, so this is a good place for you to keep silent rather embarrass yourself because of you want to force your wish to become a reality.

As I said, If na so street beggers for dey live for Lekki phase 1. So, enjoy the rest of the day. Bye

Have you not felt naked even though you were clothed?

MaxInDHouse:
Who will be tormented forever..

Revelation 20:10 already told you the answer and no need flying Off Point. it is very clear that you are trying to force your wish to become a real eyeity. If na so street beggers for dey live for Lekki phase 1.

bobestman:
Hahaha. Pointing out your errors will lead to adding more claims to claims. You are claiming. Soma is claiming. I am claiming. We are all claiming. Being able to sport the truth in all the claims is what is important 😂😂

If you really had any query against my presentation, you would have dropped it since 7
days ago, so you are just blowing dust since you real eyes you have nothing exactly as it now clear that your claims are false.

O God, how long shall the adversary reproach?

Remember this, that the enemy hath reproached, O LORD, and that the foolish people have blasphemed thy name.

Pour out thine indignation upon them, and let thy wrathful anger take hold of them.

For, lo, thine enemies, O LORD, for, lo, thine enemies shall perish; all the workers of iniquity shall be scattered.

May the op eat crumbs and drink teaspoons. May hunger and thirst be their portion forever. And may travails daily befall them in their way alway.

Consume them in wrath, consume them, that they may not be: and let them know that thou art God, The Lord.

Maximus692:
Jesus said they will be tormented forever. Revelation 20:10..

Since you just confessed that they would be tored up forever, then it is clear that you are wishing.

But anyway, to speak the Truth, that is the Judgement for and upon Satan and co, Only and it can be said that it MAY not apply to humans.

The Judgement for humans is Revelations 20:15 which also has the presumption that they too like satan would be tored up forever!

So, you see, what the Bible Said is very clear. Everyone is brought back and the righteous go to the new earth whilst the wicked go to lake of fire.

So, you are wasting your time wishing against what God has already Set and Prepared

bobestman:
Just like you proved your own claims? These things are older than the bible and since you base your knowledge on the bible you can't understand. Bible is a collection of many ancient works put together and retold by the wrong people

Have you pointed out any error in presentation that has gone unanswered?

No.

Therefore, my case is proved.

Claiming that those things you claim are older than the Bible is just you adding claim to claim which you are yet to give any proof of. So, you have nothing

MaxInDHouse:
Wicked don't deserve life so He said they will return to dust {Genesis 3:19} today righteous people dying are temporarily in their graves but God will bring them back to life {Job 14:13-15} as for the wicked they don't deserve life so they are best to be used as manure in the dust of the earth! Psalms 9:17

Revelation is from Jesus {Revelation 1:1} our teacher who always use parables! Matthew 13:13

That is why many parts of the book of Revelation is written in parables. Fire means complete destruction not life for wicked people.

Again, you are just resounding your wishes, exactly how atheists wish that there is no God. For John, Daniel and Revelation clearly said that all temporarily dead shall be resurrected to be judged and be sent to the new earth for the righteous and hellfire for the wicked.

So, no need repeating yourself.

MaxInDHouse:
Death is the wages of sin says God's word but life is the gift! Revelation 6:23
If people are to pay for their sins how many years are they to spend in your so called Hellfire to pay for sins they committed in less than 70 years of their lives?🤔

You are just moving post up and down repeating yourself.

The wicked give death. Sin causes deaths and gives death, so according to The Law, the givers of death MUST receive deaths they have given and pay them all to the last drop.

And God knows how many years in hellfire they need to satisfy all their payments, so, that is not a problem for God.

MaxInDHouse:
The highlighted is what the Bible is against, life is God's gift {Romans 6:23} so if anyone doesn't deserve to live such a person returns to oblivion! John 3:16
The Bible book of Revelation is written in SYMBOLIC TERMS that the reader needs to find the meaning of those symbols.
Fire represents complete destruction life is a gift only for the righteous {Psalms 37:29} but as for the wicked they will no longer exist! Psalms 9:17; 37:9-11

Now you have moved post to life is God's gift. Who said it is not. So, this is off point.

Secondly, you are not the one to decide how God is to treat the wicked. He has decided and Revelations shows that His decision is to cast them into fire to be tore mented day and night alive. So, this is your wish talking.

And of course, Christ Said, they shall not come out " till thou hast paid the uttermost farthing,", so it also means that running on your wish for oblivion, it still that the wicked will not go into oblivion until they have paid every farthing of torment they have given everyone to the last drop

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yusakins:
All of you are prodigal son and slave, una need to go back to una ancestors sick forgiveness and *practice your CULTURE, ANCESTORS,NATURE* *AND YOURE FAMILY CHOOSING GOD.*

Not when e don beta for me pass all of dem wey dey dia

Kennitrust:
Why is human such an unlucky being

To come to this world na struggle

To grow into a man na struggle

Being a responsible man na struggled

In the middle of the struggle

They show you another struggle that you don't even see

You have struggle again to enter heaven.

Why is human being so unfortunate?

Because you humans are 3 wicked

Old habits die hard!