Family › Re: Being A Strong Woman Isnt Remarkable, It's Normal - Adichie by dubylhover(m): 4:14pm On May 31, 2015 |
VictoriaBee: You mean only breaking of kolanut is all you could pick from her writeup?. Your short-sightedness is pathetic.  You can tow your path and definitely won't choke it on someone's throat.
So, requesting that justice should be done and respect earned is now envy. Your inferiority complex is pathetic.
I implore you work hard and give your own speech in Ibadan poly.  so,out of her own speech,its only breaking of kolanut yu cud comprehend or deduce..  smh... do yu even knw d meaning of inferiority complex..yu that implores her to give a speech in ibadan ploy,if dis is ur own form or manner of speech,dnt even cum close to my 4 yr old cousin in primary skul,cos she wud brainstorm you  |
Politics › Re: Onyema Responds To Buhari's Critics Over Assets Declaration Not Made Public by dubylhover(m): 4:06pm On May 31, 2015 |
Oduduwaboy: Messi come to ManU ? so you can wreck him like Falcao ? woo..messi neva gt cruciate ligament like falcao...abeg oo,make messi cum manu |
Family › Re: Being A Strong Woman Isnt Remarkable, It's Normal - Adichie by dubylhover(m): 4:02pm On May 31, 2015 |
repogirl: being single is definitely no sin but the love of money is, and the fact that you strive towards money says so much that I needn't waste my words anymore. The suffragettes (original feminists) achieved most of their aims and faded into oblivion after that, they fought for worthy causes, they fought for their rights which were being withheld, pls tell me what modern day feminists are fighting for..... That men be given same paternity leave as their wives, that they be allowed to expose their chest areas like men or according to Chimamanda, women should be allowed to break kolanuts, seems as if they envy the men. Mtchewww ..... Just being ridiculous but of course they wouldn't know they are.
Anyhoo, I wish all of you luck breaking out of your self imposed bondage. youre a realist nd i like that..calling a spade a spade |
Celebrities › Re: I Am Married But Would Prefer To Be Addressed As Miss Chiamanda Adichie(reasons) by dubylhover(m): 3:50pm On May 31, 2015 |
make i book space first |
Family › Re: Being A Strong Woman Isnt Remarkable, It's Normal - Adichie by dubylhover(m): 3:46pm On May 31, 2015 |
bukatyne: I wonder where we get This African marriages are better or last longer bullshit. our parents are living testimony and proof of dis..my mother cant train my sister with this deluded mindset of feminism |
Family › Re: Being A Strong Woman Isnt Remarkable, It's Normal - Adichie by dubylhover(m): 3:41pm On May 31, 2015 |
calista1234: Do u knw I actually have to copy some point down Great speech by a great writer Although don't totally agree wif the "gay part" nothing like equal right for dat cos the bible is against it okk..so the bible supports gender feminism,dats y the bible recognises women abi |
Romance › Re: Battle Of The Sexes by dubylhover(m): 3:22pm On May 31, 2015 |
dis op wants to unleash all dx feminists dem  |
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Politics › Re: Onyema Responds To Buhari's Critics Over Assets Declaration Not Made Public by dubylhover(m): 1:26pm On May 31, 2015*. Modified: 1:47pm On May 31, 2015 |
ehen all this anti buhari fanatics shud calm down,after 30 days,it wud b known..allow d man to work abeg in other news,una c messi goal ysterday?  ,that guy is divine  pls messi cum to manu  |
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Family › Re: Being A Strong Woman Isnt Remarkable, It's Normal - Adichie by dubylhover(m): 7:58am On May 31, 2015 |
craziebone: "you don't know what you are saying, you are a small girl"
seriously, doesn't this statement emphasize the "small" rather than the girl? They were talking about the privilege of breaking the kola, for crying out loud! We as africans know what the kola symbolizes. We know it is not too far from experience and wisdom, which is typically associated with age and grey hair.
So when chimamanda and the others at the party were talking about an issue of cultural significance and that statement was made, only chimamnda understood the statement to mean a demeaning of women, just because he identified her as a girl (female)! If no be "small girl" him go call her, na "small boy". Is she a boy/ man/male? Why does she want to be identified differently?
Just last week, i was refered to as a "small boy" by a lady i am three years older than! What should i say then? That i am being judged unable to have a sound opinion on the issue because of my gender?
The fact is, that statement the man made was in no way an attack on her or an attempt to keep her quite because she is female. To the most sensible of all minds, that statement only tells us that the man dismissed her view based on the fact he thinks she isn't old enough to have a sound and insightful opinion on an issue that is just superstitious at best and lacks any real life relevance.
This is another BIG evidence that the lady Chimamanda, like every other feminist i have come across, sees gender i all things there are and can be described as obsessed with the idea, feminism. We can't always trust the words of the one who is obsessed with a thing.
There are so many things i can pick out in her speech, but i do not have all of the time in world for that. I have quantum physics to study. The fact stll remains that the world will never run short of some kind of people. It is only natural that we will always have the smart, the dumb, the rich, the poor, the strong, the weak, the delluded and a Chimamanda in all of history and civilization. So why waste my time trying to correct what will always be there. Thats more like trying to cure the earth of its gravitational power. pls how old are you?cos i feel the spirit of socratess in you..wise words...  ,tho dx feminists ladies here on nl wudnt agree,do you knw d funny tin abt dx whole concepts of feminism,its that women dnt knw that they even have ummerited favours above men..only the trully wise nd enlightend wud understand |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by dubylhover(m): 2:14pm On May 30, 2015 |
hilsocial: u wan serve here? i still d consider  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by dubylhover(m): 12:32pm On May 30, 2015 |
hilsocial: V true but u know power has changed hands so i will wait for 2 months to confirm dat on dis new adminstration. hmmm...lets wait nd c sha |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by dubylhover(m): 11:58am On May 30, 2015 |
hilsocial: No p. One love.  ,omo i hear say una mountain pipo dy pay corpers 10k,hw tru is dat |
Celebrities › Re: Bruce Jenner Bags Vanity Fair Cover As A Woman For The First Time by dubylhover(m): 11:47am On May 30, 2015 |
satan had beta start building xtension for hell fire oo,cos d influx is getting much...americans no go kill us  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by dubylhover(m): 11:36am On May 30, 2015 |
hilsocial: Ok see excuse, na so u do no come invite me for ur bday in sch. walayi no vex abeg,yu knw say na dat period we been finish degree exams,everytin just d sharp sharp..no vex  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by dubylhover(m): 10:59am On May 30, 2015 |
hilsocial: Hbd dubylhover. Wullnp. Wia is it happening? Good morning all. 2el nice job. thanks hilsocial..yu dy mountain na,me dey capital territory  |
Family › Re: He Found A Condom In His Mum's Bag..what Should He Do? by dubylhover(m): 9:34am On May 30, 2015 |
ireneony: she is human after let her flex jare and I like d fact that she is with condoms unlike most single ladies that shagg raw.. @op I know by now ur father might have shagged more thab 50ladies, pls leave ur mum alone if it were dad, will u be asking us this question
smh...gender inequality feminist alert  |
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NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by dubylhover(m): 2:10pm On May 29, 2015 |
hilsocial: They wan share e-spouse . No time, no wahala I knw wat u like, rmfunky go fit U. hehehehe..e spouse ko??it is wa oo..make i go haus 1st,handover tins..nd im not for 1 person oo,i am for everybody nd nobody  thats d motto |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by dubylhover(m): 12:58pm On May 29, 2015 |
@hilsocial,dis one wey yu dedicate page to only girls  ,kilode abi guys no follow  |
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TV/Movies › Re: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by dubylhover(m): 3:25pm On May 28, 2015 |
rokiatu: I think you should watch wayward pines. i just watched it oo.2 episodes out..it seems cool,but wud it b renewed for season 2? |
Celebrities › Re: How Beautiful Regina Askia's Daughter Looks (photo) by dubylhover(m): 12:39pm On May 27, 2015 |
those lips though  ,need to introduce mighty dubby to it |
TV/Movies › Re: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by dubylhover(m): 11:36am On May 27, 2015 |
Talius: Nope, but I heard its cool. About the united states politics and stuffs like that yea..u said yu were looking for a good film..that series is so mature..you wud learn a lot frm it |
TV/Movies › Re: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by dubylhover(m): 10:13am On May 27, 2015 |
Talius: Just two weeks into the series holiday and I'm very very bored.... Series wey I never watch where una dey o yu don wach house of cards?? |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by dubylhover(m): 10:05pm On May 26, 2015 |
Dgunnerz: Lol, If it was him, Ex- Lord Tyrion would have been sliced into two. hehehe..dts tru sha |
TV/Movies › Re: What's Your Favourite TV Series Opening Theme Song? by dubylhover(m): 8:32pm On May 26, 2015 |
i dont wanna be..by gavin degraw one tree hill |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by dubylhover(m): 8:29pm On May 26, 2015 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Any Watchers Of Salem by dubylhover(m): 7:15pm On May 25, 2015 |
just watched epi 8..nd its one of d best episodes of salem ive watched... y cudnt increase just tell his son abt mary??  ...anne is gradually becoming a full time witch oo..c as she just beheaded that chicken nd used d blood to open that hidden room.... john jnr  ,shud i say that boy is a terrific actor or thats just how he is in reality,any time they show that boy,it give me the chills  , and for the best part of the episode...john snr nd titchuba f*cking... ;Dmehn that sex scene was xplosive..y did john c marys face to spoil the fun na  , mary and that doctor literally had sex that was out of dis world in d stars  abeg salem shud have more svx scenes like dis abeg lemme go nd rewatch that john aldens sex scene again joor  |
TV/Movies › Re: Any Watchers Of Salem by dubylhover(m): 3:16pm On May 24, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Tituba
Yes... the countess is mean
Lucy Lawless is her name.
in your own words.. describe Games of Thrones with five words... in 5 words  ?be prepared for the unexpected |
TV/Movies › Re: Any Watchers Of Salem by dubylhover(m): 1:10pm On May 24, 2015 |
actually following salem..mehn dx season 2 has some really scary sh**t oo...i love that dutchess *domina frm spartacus  *with her son..the character of her son intrests me..john alden don end b dat wo,cos only God knws what techuba has in mind...by d way lets c what increase wud reveal to his son.....didnt knw salem had a thread sef  ,but d post above me shudnt speak ill of GOT OO.its on another level  |