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Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Are So Wicked And Heartless by Dufil(m): 5:40pm On Dec 06, 2020

Takeit2017:
Hi everyone
My story

Fast forward to early this year

I met this Yoruba girl... Na person way never jam wahala na him thy broadcast English

Meh this Yoruba girl get mind tell me say make we break up...

The same girl that fell sick nobody could take care of her.... I pity her took every dam responsibility upon my self as a struggling guy hustling to make money I see add another wahala ontop my head... I spent close to 20k when she was sick... Not only that she still no get where to stay.. But I turn mr. Nice guy overnight took her to my office staff house to stay with me ...gave her everything she wanted... One thing led to another she fell Inlove with me. No I fell Inlove with her..another thing led to another we started dating living as couples...my intention was for her to stay a little while pending when she see another place wey she go rent. I was blinded by love.....all the whole Alfa male way I dey form before ..., die by fire.

I dey always notice her calling one particular number.. But as gentle guy I cool not until when I decided to check her phone while she was sleeping... This girl dey into 4years relationship with another guy she even they beg the guy make the guy no leave am say she go die... WTF

I no fit bear am I comfront her and she said that the guy is her ex that the guy is married blah blab blah .. To cut the story short

I promised to send her 20k to complete her house rent money

So yesterday I sent her 10k and I told her I will send the other 10 tommorow

This girl called me early this morning telling me that we should break up that me I no of her 4years relationship that we should go our separate ways.

Why she no tell me say make we break up yesterday Shebi my 10k for still dey with me

Please make una advice me cause I dey boil right now she must return my 10k

Abeg leave that girl alone, she no dey owe u, u hear, na ur fault. na d fuxk wey u need she give u

Romance › Re: What Will You Do If Your Partner Calls Another Person's Name In His/Her Sleep by Dufil(m): 11:48am On Dec 06, 2020

Misslilbootay:
What will you do if your partner calls another name in his/her sleep?

Ask him about it.

Romance › Re: The First Time You Had Sex , How Was It ? by Dufil(m): 8:29am On Dec 06, 2020

Preshieben:
It was so painful...
Shouted when I was penetrated...
I've forgotten the person that fvcked me but won't forget the day

This is purely a lie..
No one forgets d face of their first sex.

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Romance › Re: Bored In The House by Dufil(m): 7:40am On Dec 06, 2020

uni69:
Just bored alone in the house with nothing to do. Any suggestions

You are doing something already chatting here, if there is power watch movies and relax. I'm on the mainland too, I reside in Palmgrove

Romance › Re: Meet 92 Old Woman Who Dresses Like A Slay Queen by Dufil(m): 5:04am On Dec 06, 2020

Video or nothing.

Romance › Re: Advice Me, Which Of These Cars Is A Better Option To Buy by Dufil(m): 10:23am On Nov 29, 2020

Buy Lexus jeep for fuel economy but for prestige go for Benz 2009 but be ready for bills and fight with Keke n bike men.

Romance › Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Dufil(m): 10:10am On Nov 29, 2020

I had same problem, started having sex at 6, as a boy, before 10 I have slept with 4 girls and one boy. At 11 I began to form Christian, and became very shy. I grew up claiming virgin but deep down I was dying of lusts. Porn and masturbation was horrible, peadophiling nearly got me into trouble, now I gained control when I took freedom into my hand and started a relationship with sex, I was happy but I developed trust issues again. So we broke up. But, now to win, try keep a relationship and be mature enough to trust her and care for her. You will be fine. Simple solution getting married to a woman you desire not for sex but for companionship.

Family › Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Dufil(m): 9:47am On Nov 29, 2020

crackhaus:

Romance › Re: Ways To Make A Girl Love You Forever! by Dufil(m): 7:01am On Nov 28, 2020

Goldwura:
If a guy can do all these tinz, Mehn! I will giv my all nd love him foreva. This is just too interesting but i'm sure one cant find a nigerian guy that can do all

Oya let's start.

Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Have Sex With A Stranger. Please Advise. by Dufil(m): 6:34am On Nov 28, 2020

IntersexSherry:
also in same shoes. Sex is very personal for a woman not like men who never take it seriously. I loved my ex very much, couldn't imagine another guy apart from. I see his face in every guy i meet, can't get my mind off him
Since we broke up, still can't get him off my mind. Just that all guys are the same that's why i just prefer to stick with one.
I stayed without sex for a long time, wanted to meet a new guy but i can't. So i just decided to contact my former old bf and a big mistake i made.
Have you tried mastubating to feel better?
I think finding a new better guy will help you

The divorce is still on process and based on location, visit her profile and read her story.

Romance › Re: D Danger When A Girl Is Expose To Sex Too Early. by Dufil(m): 6:29am On Nov 28, 2020

Truvel:
D Truth Is Dat, Parents Are More Worried Or Trouble When Their Girls Engage In Sex Dan When Their Boys Engage In Sex.

They know she is got responsibility she may bear all her lifetime as the owner may not care if she exist or not.

Family › Re: Advise Me!!!!!! It's A Divorce Mess, Kindly Advise Me by Dufil(m): 5:23am On Nov 28, 2020

From your story, I understood. You were divorced based on relocation, your husband is childish and selfish. Actually for the love of his family, you would requested for a good job before you are argue with him about relocation and your studies. So, right now as the divorce still look like a threat, I feel you both can settle. He used you to help himself through school and also used your apartment to make you a baby. Well agreed he had no job yet. What I will suggest for you to move on, is to finish your degree, then hangout and feel young again. He is so mean to have left you and your 17months old son. Just finish the degree, be focused, find someone else to confide in when you need to share your heart pain and stories for the day. Some men can be very mean. Just remember never fall for his manipulations be yourself, and live happily ever after. He left his image with you. Don't worry he will come back for you but then inform him that you assumed he has died.

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Family › Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Dufil(m): 5:01am On Nov 28, 2020

Realashbobby:
Dear Nairalander,

How do you cope with your life after your spouse failed you and took the whole matter to the worse level by seeking for divorce?

I woke up everyday of my life in the past nine months thinking about this man. I heard he has moved on in Lagos, while I am still here bothering myself about him. This is the only man I have ever known in my life. He just left without looking back not even to check on his son.
What can I do to forget him totally?

I am down emotionally and it's affecting me.

Kindly advise.

If you want a different feeling, try a different thing. But be warned about guys or married men, who may use this against you in future. Discreetly have fun and avoid stories about your husband. The way to a woman's heart is her ears. Shut down your ears about things that make you crave for him. Open your ears to something new and you will get over it in the shortest time. I'm based in Ibadan.

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Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Have Sex With A Stranger. Please Advise. by Dufil(m): 4:49am On Nov 28, 2020

Realashbobby:
Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.

Hello dear.

Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Have Sex With A Stranger. Please Advise. by Dufil(m): 4:48am On Nov 28, 2020

Questions
1. What was the basic reason for divorce? Was it sex related? If no, don't you think you have been laced with thunderbolt to proof to his family that you were caught cheating?

2. If there is a reason behind the hate, then avoid going back and free your mind.

I understand how u feel in a relationship of 13yrs.

SOLUTIONS:

1. Take a vacation to visit new places, like weekend trip to lagos, barbeach, good hotel far from home.
2. Visit some family relations, who are so dear to you.

3. Please yourself but be very wise. Otherwise if you have properties, your nude maybe used against you in future.

Solutions:

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Programming › Re: I Need To Design an App:which Programming Language Do I Need by Dufil(op): 6:11pm On Nov 24, 2020

Jas80:
java or python to develop for Android, JavaScript (react native) to develop for both Android and ios

Thank you sir.

Programming › Re: I Need To Design an App:which Programming Language Do I Need by Dufil(op): 6:11pm On Nov 24, 2020

Unbiased1:
Swift for iOS app development
C# for Windows
Java for Android
JavaScript(Aurelia or React Native) for Web, iOS and Android.

Thanks so much, pls is it what I can learn on my own?

Programming › I Need To Design an App:which Programming Language Do I Need by Dufil(op): 4:56am On Nov 24, 2020

Hello, fellow nairalanders and senior men in programming. Pls I want to design an app which programming language do I need.

Assuming I'm a novice no formal idea on programming.

Romance › Question For Ladies, The Most Correct Response Gets A Rchgcard. by Dufil(op): 4:17am On Nov 24, 2020

How can a man tell when his woman is truly sexually satisfied?

Anything to notice? which is not faked?

Do I need to ask her?

What will be her reactions when she is truly satisfied?

How long can she stay without sex after she is sexually satisfied?

Romance › Re: Guys What Is Your Problem,what Do You Want After Nude Pixs You Still Expose It by Dufil(m): 7:41am On Nov 08, 2020

Hi, I'm in Lagos. Palmgrove.

Romance › Re: Should Prostitution Be Legalized In Nigeria? (My Opinion) by Dufil(m): 7:16am On Nov 08, 2020

If prostitution is legalized, other issues that will contradicts human rights will thrive.

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