Ya gazie o!!!

anything Anambra is a hit. Imagine how this is already creating traffic. Sheun is must get Igbo blood running in him

Why was the policeman not on duty to open the gate? why would he delay the governor? Such delay could pose a threat to security considering the state of things in Nigeria. Am no Rochas' apollogist, but am only looking at the same incompetency that abounds in Nigeria police force.

What if Rochas' enemies attacked at that point of delay?
That policeman should properly investigated. I smell a rat. Just being plain

*Ileke-IdI:
My babies will soon thank their grandmother for taking me out of that hell hole.

Never bask yet my dear. The entire world lies in the power of the wicked one -- 1 John 5:19. No place is exempted. Read if you are truely a christian.

I don't usually see this in our society. Are men exempted from wearing engagement ring?

DailyNews:

If truly you love Nigeria and you want to help the ever increasing number of unemployed graduate youths in Nigeria, then make the training free!

on point. Or better still reduce the about

and they view the topic, see their kinsmen names all over, they bolt in disgust. Mtshewwww!

where are the tribal war lords, esp from the wide-wide west

kutchs: onye eke igbuo madu ebe a. Ikpu onye k‘ana ekwu okwu ya biko? Nke gi k‘obu nke onye ozo?

kpomkwem!

gwam-gwam-gwam-gwam tum tum ge ge?
Asisa: oso mgbada n'ugwu.

mike404: Gwam oti nwata n' ihu Nne ya?

Hey, easy pls. Welcome everyone

Policewoman: Gwam gwam gwam, gwam onya (wound) na ekweghi ala ala? Ikpu

Nne you bad ooo! No wonder you no gree translate. Ikpu? Hmmmmm! what of otu? Ok now

I been dey think say Igbos hate themselves and are
not united as we are meant to believe here on
nairaland. Hmmmmm!

I been dey think say Igbos hate themselves and are not united as we are meant to believe here on nairaland. Hmmmmm!

As if this woman will appreciate this mumurism from this goat searching for who knows what for yunder.

Controversial people

AnodaIT: The funny thing is that during breakup , she claim to have been used and dumped. As if she was the one doing the ' caring ' .

lolzzz!!!

vivian chinaza:

Nwannem nwoke rapu kene ife a, a lot of women are breadwinners in their various homes. Forget the mpompo wey many of them dey do when they were single. Once they sign the doted lines on that marriage certificate is goodbye fantasy and hello reality! Unless the very foolish ones that don't want to build their homes.
If u doubt me, come take a ride with me I have got a lot to show u. Na when dey enter man house ka ha ga amata na otu bitter kola si ada n'onu aburo ka osi ato. Ekwusigokwam ka ora m n'onu!

this is wisdom.

vivian chinaza: @malaria: Nne okwu gi kwu oto ka cigar!

Okwu ya gbagoro-agbago. She is yet to make any sense!
We are talking of bring something to the table and somene is coming with her moribund mentality of Odoziaku, can you imagine! Nawa for some women sef.

malaria:
Yes dear , now women are now Odoziaku, oso di eme, even some are bread winners. Poster u always attract ur kind of person. It is as simple as dat.

which one is Odoziaku? Was I not a very wealthy and organized man before I married her? what is she coming to dozie sef?
And talking of women as bread winners, I can only say 'a handful'. Insignificant number of Naija girls can be said of that. This culture is really bad.

Vivian Chinaza ...And this "financial security?" is a big fraud!
now is the time to think and work. Women should no more seat as oriaku(wealth consumers). The reality remains that things are no longer as they were.

vivian chinaza:
No, I ain't bred abroad! I was bred in Nigeria and so are some ladies out there! And I wasn't up to 7yrs before I understood that life is not a bed of roses; there are good times, bad times and tough times.
And this "financial security?" is a big fraud! Cos within my short stay on earth, the things I have seen and experienced I can beat my chest and tell u that the life of a man is a mystery! A man's story can be re-written in a blink of an eye!
So if a lady capitalises much on this "financial security" she could be disappointed big time!

someone truly understands the reality of this uncertain life. I wish many girls can think like this and quite their wishful utopian thinkings.

tai2: The summary of a typical Nigerian woman and contributions in a relationship is : "of no mean value"

They don't seem to understand that the best way to secure yourself in a relationship is to come with value. Because a woman of value is hard to discard.

Rather the concept of value these days is artificial: Brazilian hair, fake Louboutin's and co. My dears these things aren't adding value to any relationship and can easily be replicated by any woman out there with a budget. Real value does not wash as easily as makeup. A woman with real value is the main woman a man keeps even if he crosses the line occasionally, the rest will just be eye candy, babes of no real value.

Get value. Gather your degrees, get a good job, get alternative hobbies other than "Kim K and E! Entertainment", build your bank account, develop manners, learn how to cook a great deal, be receptive and giving to your partners while having a healthy sense of self-respect.

Show you have real value and a man will seek you out and if they don't seek out find someone with potential and contribute to that project.

Men respect true value. Chances are that if you are still single, you either have an overbloated sense of value or no value compared to the rest out there.

Babes who always wonder why fine young men get married to babes who might be ugly or average, it's all about true value.

very much on point. Shows me you assimilated this issue very well. But, the question is, how many Naija ladies are willing to go by what you've stateD? Could it be that most are too lazy to think for themselves or something? You will discover that most of them have avoided this topic cos they hate the home truth. Only a handful may end up commenting on this issue.

Nino De Dios: @OP. Women need SECURITY end of story. They need emotional, relational and most definitely PECUNIARY/FINANCIAL security. Any man who isn't ready to provide all these shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. So as a man, rather than whining about women wanting this and that, I try to get my own act together so I can provide a stable and fulfilling relationship for my lady.

Afterall were gonna have daughters someday and I wonder if any of us guys would our daughter out in marriage to a guy who won't provide well enough for her...

you don't sound like you really understand the topic, do you?

190: Vivian - nice points u made there


Ure blessed indeed

she must really be a different breed of Naija gal. Probably bred abroad. What do you think?

vivian chinaza: People differ, families differ and so are the ladies they breed. Teach a young girl how to be independent, teach her that life is never a bed of roses and when she grows into a lady those things will never depart from her.
I have met friends who depend on men for everything, not because they can't afford those things but they are always like "if I do all these things for myself then what are these guys doing around me?" And its been working for them, it might not work for me, things and people like that don't inspire me.

I don't know what an average Nigerian girl has to offer but I know what I can offer. And I'm grateful for the kind of women around me, the single and the married. Whenever I come around them I feel challenged and I just know the kind of wife I long to be someday.

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190: Just a quick note


How many Nigerian girls have/has anyone seen that takes themselves
Out on a special/weekly special treat (just as we guys normally do)

I could bet/sum it up 2 - 0% or 1%

Anywhere u see these gurls out there on a special treat, there's always a guy nearby and of cus
Paying d bills

Hmmmmm!

190:

Esppecially d new generation single ones


Notin 2 write home about, notin 2 offer becos they simply have notin 2 give
Wud u exppect money from d beggers on d street #think about it that way#

Nope! How then can this change?
They should just come out and have their say on this or we'll accept it just the way you've stated it.

My case remains, why is the average Naija girl not bothering herself with being an asset in a relationship but a liability just as it has always been.
Wherever I see their excitements after meeting Mr Right have always been about counting what they stand to benefit. A good relationship should be a give and take thing. Garbage in garbage out. But why otherwise? Do they ever stoop to count the weaknesses of their relationships and how to convert these or build on it in order to make a meaningful and successful relationship?
Do we simply accept 190's postulation that they(Naija girls) don't have anything to offer in the very first place? If so, what then should contemporary mothers change in their system of raising their female children in order to make them more functional in everything, not just in relationships?

D-Explorer:
OP, things aren't the way it was those day. The institution is well defined to alot of girls via the help of various informations around us. Ladies understands better now, gone are those days where Adaeze will tie wrapper and wait for the prince by the river side.

did you really check very well to make this conclusion. Honestly, your family may be an exception but that may not really change anything.

190: To be honest,

what do a NIGERIAN GIRL REALLY HAVE to offer

freecocoa, slimyem, sijo, shollypopz etc - what do you ladies REALLY OFFER to your respective men

lets be logical here, apart from the fact y'all are on nairaland 247 when do you people have time to cook, clean, and take care of him in bed!!

does he have you ladies respective bank accounts?

and what and how have you changed his life (Please dont give we men all that LOADS of advice crap) anyone can advice anyone!!

Begin answer!!


back to post!

To be honest, A NIGERIAN WOMAN doesnt really have ANYTIN TO OFFER -
because they dont even have anything to OFFER in the first place!!

Im not bitter am only stating the facts, cos other women out there have more tins to offer including sex and advice which Nigerian women always claim
they have to offer - if you doubt me date french, norwagien or swedish girls not UK ooh cos UK aint so different from NIGERIAN GIRLS

Nawao!!! Serious!

wonderful comments. Let's hear more reasons