Darven2:
All this while I didn't know I have been crushing on an ugly thing. Now my eyes don open. Help me rejoice

I thought Mrsphyno was beautiful, but I didn't know it's photoshop, omo see the babe new dp you go fear. She is ugly. the jazz done remove. I am now normal.

http://nairaland.com/mrsphyno

Help me rejoice please. sickstars come help me do dj abeg. Make we celebrate

Mutuwa:


Not really true.I am introverted naturally.But am the man of the people,both within and outside my work area.You are welcome to find out,anyday,anytime.
I have been married for 9years now.doing perfectly well with two kids.

Onijagidijagan:

Nah Extrovets tends to be more weak....it doesnt mean they dont talk at all o. If u percieve them as weak then you are the one that's weak.

Ask ursef y r most bad guys introverts?

INTROVERT:
I now see the reason for that your comment...... I suggest you go to "Introverts lounge" and read up and you will learn introverts are the best.

leke12:
The northerners are more patriotic than the southerners.....history shows it all.

Addicted2Women:
Another bullshit story/vision.
After having sex with multiple guys, God decided to reveal his second coming to you ??
When was the first time he came ??
How does he look like ??
Is he white or black ??

If i slap you now, them go say i dey wicked.

kaykash007:
Nairalanders please what can he do or if any of us is in this shoe?

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC)
in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on
one condition (NO S*X before marriage). I gladly
accepted. Our love was a major gist in town
because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved
her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so
much respected her for that…I spent 75% of my
allowee on her in addition with my personal
savings…
On several occasions, she lost control of herself
during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my
promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit..
Her love for me grew stronger because of my
self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in
search of greener pasture. Things got tougher
because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I
struggled to send her some money through her
father’s first bank account (she was 18yrs then).
Once in a month, I traveled from Lagos to
Owerri just to see her….Our love was so
strong..But since inception of this year, things got
pretty bad that I could not meet up with my
routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job
few days ago in an oil company and I was so
enthusiastic to relay the good news to her….But to
my greatest shock ever…She sent me an apology
SMS that she will be getting married next week…I
was preparing for Sunday service but the news
automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up
and feeling abnormal…She is calling but I can’t
imagine myself taking the calls…Pls i need your candid advice on what to do..


My people kindly save a soul today and God will bless
you..Thanks

kaykash007:
Nairalanders please what can he do or if any of us is in this shoe?

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC)
in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on
one condition (NO S*X before marriage). I gladly
accepted. Our love was a major gist in town
because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved
her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so
much respected her for that…I spent 75% of my
allowee on her in addition with my personal
savings…
On several occasions, she lost control of herself
during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my
promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit..
Her love for me grew stronger because of my
self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in
search of greener pasture. Things got tougher
because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I
struggled to send her some money through her
father’s first bank account (she was 18yrs then).
Once in a month, I traveled from Lagos to
Owerri just to see her….Our love was so
strong..But since inception of this year, things got
pretty bad that I could not meet up with my
routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job
few days ago in an oil company and I was so
enthusiastic to relay the good news to her….But to
my greatest shock ever…She sent me an apology
SMS that she will be getting married next week…I
was preparing for Sunday service but the news
automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up
and feeling abnormal…She is calling but I can’t
imagine myself taking the calls…Pls i need your candid advice on what to do..


My people kindly save a soul today and God will bless
you..Thanks

Khd95:
U cnt win a battle against ur family,NEVER


he should try and persuade them,or make them see reasons with him,thats the best he can do

MendeZ:
A friend of mine is in need of mature advice concerning his relationship. He is in a serious relationship with an Esan girl from Edo state and he intends to marry her soonest but he is facing some challenges from family members especially.

They are not in support of him getting married to an Esan girl so right now he is confused and does not know what to do.

He is wondering what could be wrong with marrying an Esan girl. Please I need mature advice on whether to go ahead with the relationship and propose to her or to listen to his family members and call it quit.

searching4l0ve:


SHE'S RIGHT THO ADEBOYE AND OYEDEPO ARE BIBLICAL SCAMMERS WHO CAPITALIZE ON THE GULLIBILTY OF THEIR MUMU MEMBERS TO RIP THEM OFF IN THE NAME OF TITHES AND OFFERINGS WHILE THEY FLY PRIVATE JETS AND BUILD SCHOOLS THEIR MUMU MEMBERS CANT AFFORD TO GO. THEY ARE THIEVES AND MURDERERS WHO TEAMED UP WITH GEJ TO DUPE NIGERIA VIA IMPORT WAIVERS . BUNCH OF BASTARDS

AceRoyal:
Very Nice!
Commissioner for Health dressing like a motor park tout.Too bad!

enstack:
I had to create a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.

When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.

Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.

I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.

If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.

I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.

I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?

Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.

Thank you all.

IlekeHD:


Who sent you after me?

Why are you following me from thread to thread?

ChuzzysBlog:
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Singer extraordinary, 2face Idibia was honored with the Chieftaincy title, Tafindan Kudenda which means ‘Ambassador for Peace’ by HRH Bagudu Galadima of Kudenda Kingdom at Kudenda Palace Palace, Kaduna State today November 24th. See more photos below.....


More Photos: http://www.chuzzysblog.com/2015/11/more-photos-from-2face-idibias.html much respect to 2 baba any day any time, this dude is truly a legend, you are the definition of greatness

Musiwa419:
Chidozie you no get sense walahi. The Yorubas really dealt a devastating and debilitating blow to the psyche and ego of the ibo man, so much so that you now see them as your nemesis. When did John Odigie-Oyegun, an Esan man from Edo state become a Yoruba ?

NenyeJay:
why on earth should you guyz judge without truthful details. Is it possible for a woman to beat a man dat strong. Of a truth, the woman hit him with her hand but her intention was not to injure him but to show how hurt she felt. Again, What led to the woman trying to show how hurt she was by hitting him. There was an argument, there has always been. The only problem they experience in their home, I mean the only problem is all about women, not money, not becos she does not love him, not becos of material things but women. She is always by him even though, they dont have enough but she is happy even with the little they have. She does not complain because the man in question cant afford much, she is supportive. I'm telling you guyz the truth and nothing but the truth. Even though we owe nobody that but posting such by him and seeing all these comments can be hurtful.

The man was wrong and instead of him admitting his wrongs, the reverse was the case. He always capitalize on the woman weakness which is "reacting so hard when there's issues like that". And you know how annoying that can be especially with women when the other party does not see his wrongs as wrong.

The truth of the matter is this, " the man in question was always chatting with his girlfriends, even the ones that know the wife through him, always calling and receiving their calls (in the midnites too) even when they are together, though he has not taken any of them to bed like he said, but their love chats was degrading and disrespectful to the wife. You can imagine where your husband would be professing love to another woman, telling them how beautiful and sexy they look. imagine where your husband of five years (Legally married) with two beautiful kids would tell one of his girl friends that the wife is his baby mama (Recent development, infact on the 2nd of Nov. 15 was when the cat was let out of the bag). Note: The woman was always confronting the ladies peacefully and they were responsible and reasonable enough to sincerely apologize and to relate their relationships with her husband. This man in question would tell them that he is not married. One of them had to cause a great havoc at the guyz office because he promised to marry her without she knowing the man is married. She had to spend 100 of thousands when the man had an accident with his car on the 26th of June, 2010. He lied he was travelling to PH when that accident occurred, when actually it was on the day of his wedding. This has been going on for the past five years now. The woman in question would always cry herself out at the early stage of their marriage while the man would say she was shedding crocodile tears. At a time, the woman became hard-hearted, instead of crying, it leads to exchanging of words and probably hitting him with her bare hands and not with any weapon, please take note. So many things which I cannot put in words here. Please don't be judgmental without getting the facts. I can only say that God is the only judge here and he knows all that has happened. The woman in question is really in pains and regrets. We read all your comments and its well. God knows the truth.

Niyiframes:


Perhaps you enjoy to hear it's the other way round right? your comment sounds like scenarios that only happen in "Drama movies". The op says the wife finds pleasure in beating him all the time, u saying things that practically usually don't work. Yeah he can hold her hands for as long as he can, say all the romantic reasons as u said, but he'll eventually let go right? what happens after, she lands him a very hot slap, or even two. That type of a lady who has guts to raise her hands to hit her man regularly won't listen to those words ok. she'll keep doing it as long the guy keeps taking it. our Op sincerely needs to stop it once and for all....i repeat, just one day revival is all he needs.

Dajugba:
Wow... Surprise to read such. Be the man of home! Except maybe you look up to her to keep your needs. But that shouldn't stop you from being de man. If you continue with such behaviours, without tackling it on time you girl child may feel it is appropriate to constitue such manner. Like we know, children grow to learn more from parents. But I can't imagine a situation of such. I don't pray to be a victim of such either, but if probably it happenes, I'm not a woman beater I don't mind spanking foolishness out of her, so she may receive sense in aboundance. The matured advice you seek is; if she continue doing this talk to her that you're not weak so she shouldn't make you become aggressive. If she refuse to change like you did specify in your write up, buy coboco without her concept. And if it continue give her a surprise and after that burn the cane, so she would learn that you did it to give her parental orientation because she lacks one. Take my advise, solve the problem. Continue with being patience with such, and your children will tag you as my dad is weak! And tell friends my mummy beat my dad and even injures him. Children sees their father as the first Hero, so don't be the Hero whose daughter will prefer to call her mum for physical defence rather than you. It is mandatory to choose spouse careful wither a lady or a man you determine to be a wife, or a husband to. who you tend to marry determines 90 percent of your joy and how compose you appear.

PassingShot:
It’s unfortunate that politics has made many to become irrational and illogical in their reasoning. This fact is more pronounced on this forum by many members from both sides of the divide (APC & PDP).

I read with astonishment, an attempt by TonyeBarcanista to stand logic on its head with a thread claiming that it’s illogical to say PDP destroyed Nigeria for sixteen years! What an absurdity and irresponsibility!

If any sane human being wants to argue against the fact that it was PDP that destroyed Nigeria for sixteen years, the person will need to at least provide the name of the party that did. It won’t be enough to tell us that some of those in PDP who contributed to ruining Nigeria in those sixteen years have either moved to APC or another party. Anyone who maintains that PDP is not responsible is illogical and is committing fallacy of Ignoratio elenchi (diverting argument to unrelated issues).

What is Logic?
In logic, necessity and sufficiency are implicational relationships between statements. The assertion that one statement is a necessary and sufficient condition of another means that the former statement is true if and only if the latter is true. That is, the two statements must be either simultaneously true or simultaneously false. 
In ordinary English, 'necessary' and 'sufficient' indicate relations between conditions or states of affairs, not statements. Being a male sibling is a necessary and sufficient condition for being a brother. Fred's being a male sibling is necessary and sufficient for the truth of the statement that Fred is a brother.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Necessity_and_sufficiency

Applying the above explanation, it’s no rocket science to understand that if President Obasanjo was in PDP in the eight years he ruled, PDP as a party is responsible for the outcome of his leadership in those eight years. This fact will hold true for eternity even if he changes party ten times thereafter.

From 1999 to 2015, the three presidents we have had in Nigeria (OBJ, Yar’Adua and GEJ) all belonged in PDP throughout their tenure and there is NOTHING anyone can say or do to change the fact that it was PDP that ruled in those years. To conclude otherwise (or attempt to), will only expose the arguer as an illogical, unreasonable and a mischievous entity.

Factors that determine success or failure of a party
The writer of the referenced article failed to consider the following factors that resulted in failure of PDP. Instead, he dwelled ignorantly or mischievously on occurrences (defections) that didn’t have any impact on the fact that those defectors were in PDP when the party ruled for the sixteen years under review.

Party’s Ideology
A party’s philosophy is very important in shaping how the party is perceived by the populace. At a point, PDP was known and addressed as a “killer party” because of the members’ attitude of settling their political scores by assassination of their opponents and foes within. Pa Alfred Rewane, Chief Bola Ige, Funsho Williams, Eyo Eyo, Marshall Harry, Barnabas Igwe and many others were brutally murdered during PDP reign. Not a single of those assassinations has been resolved till date.

Another prominent ideology of PDP is corruption. Whether the party sympathizers online and offline like to hear it or not, PDP took corruption in Nigeria to another level. During OBJ’s regime, it was not uncommon to hear and read how the NASS was bombarded with Ghana-Must-Go bags starched with hard currencies to bribe NASS members to do the biddings of the presidency. We were not kids not to remember how Ken Nnamani, Emwerem, and Okadigbo were all removed through bribing of senate members.

Under PDP there were high profile corruption cases that remain unresolved till date. Pension scam (30 billion naira); Oil Subsidy fraud in which many were arraigned for defrauding the nation of billions of dollars in subsidies they never earned; Nigerian Immigration Scam where many innocent souls were lost and no one was brought to justice; Stella Oduah’s N255m BMW and Kerosene Scam just to mention a few.

Implication of PDP philosophy of political assassination and corruption is that a person with different belief who finds himself in such a party can easily be swayed into taking up the party’s crude and wicked ways of doing things. An example is a case of a PDP senator in 2007 that rejected his share of bribery on three occasions but finally gave in on the fourth occasion when he had become overwhelmed by the incessant approaches by his party to toe the party’s line.

Similarly, a crooked politician can be straightened by the good ideology of his party if he soon discovers that his crude ways have no place in his party’s belief.

Leadership
There is the common saying that when the head is rotten, it affects the whole body. This saying aptly describes the type of leaders we have had in PDP. It is the type of leadership that determines how the followers behave. When PDP politicians knew that OBJ was in the habit of bribing his way in the national assembly, what and who would have stopped them from engaging in their own “lootocracy”?
Whence PDP politicians knew that “stealing was not corruption” under GEJ, and also knew that keeping “the goats and yams” together (the politicians and the treasury) was enough justification for them to loot with reckless abandon, who/what would have stopped them from stealing?

Absence of good leadership from PDP in the sixteen years it ruled is well documented such that no one can wish it away. No amount of articles or campaign can sweep those unfortunate years away from Nigeria’s history and it makes mockery of anyone attempting to re-write the history because Nigerians are largely no fools. Those with short memories will always be reminded at the right time.

Lastly, the corrupt politicians who have moved from PDP to APC cannot now be termed saints. They remain with stains and their corruption cases/allegations still hang on their neck and we hope they are eventually brought to justice. However, what is more important to Nigerians now is how they behave under new leadership and a new party with sane ideologies.

The question is, if PDP is not responsible for ruining Nigeria in the sixteen years it ruled, which party did?

Nigeria shall be great again!

WhoBeThisMan:
I met this girl last year december, beautiful, very comited to church, and she had all characteristics of what I want in a woman or so it seemed. I approched her, she liked me too, we started going out. I just got out from a very messy brakeup so I really was tired of dating, I told her I want to get married thats my intension and we should start working towards it. She said yes.

I met with our pastor, he basically warned me about the sister, she is nice but can be very arrogant, if I was sure this is what I want because there is no turning back, I said yes! (Love dey shark me).

Fastforward to now. This year has been a very challenging year for me financially. This she knows very well. She insisted we do the wedding by october, I told her it would be too soon, im not financially prepared for that. But I really love this girl, and I wnted her to be happy, and also I couldn't wait for her to be my wife (love still dey shark), so we finally agreed for december, even though its going to be a big financial strain on my part.

I had all the plans to raise money worked out, to cut the long story short suddenly things nose dived in business. My financial pathner had some personal challages and had to pull out funds.

She was able to raise some money from her office, but now she puts me down with her words, castigating me, feeling superior because she feels I need her. She says words that are do hurtful that I have to talk myself out of low self esteem.

The painful part is that all my friends and family members warned me about this, I didnt listen.

Now I think she has become a monster, I wish I could but a stop to all these, I really dont need to get marraid right now. I dont even know hownit will be like to live in thesame house with her.

I have always wondered why this very nice lady is still single at this age(age witheld). But now I think its her arrogance that has probably driven away all her potential suitors.

Pls I need advice, feel free to be harsh if need be

Ps this is not my story oo it is a friend

Jollybabs:
Money is nt d issue bt love, caring nd understanding. I Appreciate an intelligent man. God fearing. Jovial nd must be calming. Highly romantic. Huge nd good looking,

icedbeatz:
that's the thing that's is messing the world up today, little thing we can use the blessing that God gave us to solve we will run to pastors and whatnot, have you heard about natural science? the guy was too sissy to put his wife in her place and now she's gunning for his place. she wants to be the man in the relationship/marriage family sometimes is like a pack of wolves there needs to be an alpha and most times women will tempt you or wrestle to be the alpha or control you and when you oblige ? you're done for.

fullstreets:
May d gods burn dat six pack u claim to have n if u r lying, may dey inflate ur pot belly.

utenwuson:
have you ever asked her how she ll feel if u beat her same way she beats u? d theory dt implies dt a man cnt beat a woman doesn't mean u cnt flog her like a kid she is! she really wanna knw if yur strong to defend her if trouble arise n all u do is lament ur woes on NL? please do d needful n lock d door, put off ur shirts n beat, I mean really tk ur tym @ least 4 hours of constant flogging dt ll av mark all over her! next tym she nurse d idea of even tapping u for a convo, she ll b scared! but wait oooooo! wat if she s actually stronger than u? pls don't lock d door n throw d key away pls!

icedbeatz:
your friend must be an endomorph and in his case his body utilized all the reasonable things that his brain needed to develop, how can you tolerate being hit by a woman that's not your mum? please let him do unto others like they do unto him, basically let him give her a once in a lifetime surprise and ensure its a severe one. The wife knows his weakness which is not being able to hit her so she's capitalizing on that but it's time for him to give her a raw and possibly worse taste of her medicine so that she can also experience how sweet it is to be smacked.
#WhoopThatBitch

Niyiframes:


Absolutely man, just one day revival is ok... she go change, knowing that u can actually fight back and hurt her at the back of her mind, she'll definitely think twice before raising her hands at you again. I don't support hitting or beating a woman tho, but your case is quite exceptional bro, do it once and revive yourself before it's too late...Nigga!

LOVEGINO:
Ur dad!

faith551:
Op congratulations, very soon na your 12year old daughter will start beating you.