annibro:


Prov 6: 16 - 19....."God also hates a proud look & a Lying tongue" etc but pipu go away wit ds all day & only remember 2 quote "God hates Divorce". D Bible says "d Letter Killeth but D Spirit gives Life". All ve sinned & fall short of D Glory of God. D woman with 5 husbands in D Bible was 4given.
My Dear, one mesage I ve 4 ur Friends is dat, Don't Condemn urself & Don't allow anyone Condemn U. Only God has D Power 2 Judge & He's Merciful 2 forgive.
Only d Sin of Blasphemy against D HolySpirit is unpardonable Luke 12:10.
Get ds books 4 dem;
1) Where is God wen it hurts by Philip Yancey
2) Divorce & Remarriage by Guy Duty
3) Marriage, divorce & Remarriage by Keneth Hagins
4) Wen u see d Invisible, u'll do D Impossible by Oral Roberts
Ds books help me a lot in my recovery process. 4get Naija pastors; dey play religion without D Word. Only D Word can make U free

truly experience is the best teacher. Thank you so very much. I'll ensure that they get these books.

Reference:


Why not find out why the marraige failed rather that stack up against the 'society' we exploit to our advantage when times are good and vilify when things go wrong. The 'society' expects you to get educated and advanced. Why don't you kick against that. The fact that a union has failed has nothing to do with society rather it has all to do with the couple involved afterall there are millions of unions worldwide having no problems whatsoever and when I mean problems, problems that well within the abilities of the couples to handle them. You are a product of such.

no one is blaming society Mr. What I meant was that society, especially the nigeran society expects a woman in an abusive marriage to stay put cos of the kids and cos of the stigma that comes with being divorced. But the lady in question put her life before anyother. If she obliged to the expectation of our society, I don't think she would be able to share her experience here. I have close friends facing this same problem. Pple tell dem" stay for the sake of your kids", "God is against divorce", "don't let another woman take your husband". Like its a do or die affair. We should all know when to stop. As the saying goes, "the dead cant speak".

annibro:


Thanks dear, its was trully an experience. D truth of d matter is, d signs are always der frm d onset but we tend 2 overlook it. Desperation made me do it as I felt all my younger ones were married. Also I was misled by Big Anties(advisers), who say der are powers dat don't want me 2 marry & its a usual norm in all marriages 2 ve misunderstandings, dat sooner dis tins will be over.
But one driving force dat pushed me 2 tek dat bold step was each time I remember d home I come frm & how my parents lived in penury just 2 see me tru d university & how dey mite never enjoy d fruit of deir labor if I allow some1 kill me in marriage.
One tin dat mek me laf each time I luk bak was d day d Judge gave d final verdict 4d annulment of d union, I went straight 2d market 2 sell my gold wedin ring & branch Mr Biggs 2 enjoy my freedom frm d cash
Am putting up a book on dis 2 save other souls.

I admire your courage. You tossed societal views and expectations into the gutter and took charge of your life. Bravo ma'am.

tuk2ato:
What would you like to see

lol, I'll like to chi chum chin...comething with the shape of a cucumber or banana or plantain. What's it called....I have no idea

chandli:

Lol...I waited patiently for #NoBraDay and see what I got
Naija girls you people are not fair at all

lolz, I did my nobraday......in the comfort of my house. Doesn't it count?

Hehehehehee....patiently waiting for #Noboxersday. *rubbng palms in anticipation*

Uniben4sure:
so we should follow the advice on your siggy

That's; let the girl go and then shoot her while she's running. Issorai!

lol, OYO is your case oooo.

Truckpusher:
But you can be a misandrist cum feminist rag head.

if the occassion calls for it, sure. Sometimes its necessary sometimes its worthless and by the way, you do know the meaning of the word mysoginist don't you? Cos you ain't flowing with my line of argument.

OP, your points are valid, but you don't have to be a mysoginist. Back to the post, such guys erk me...dey don't just get "NO".

[color=#550000][/color] still pretty,not withstanding.

ilobasama:
May God protect him for you. An hero he is

thanks so much.

firstEVA:
awwwwwwwwwwww

lol, ok I'm actually blushing....

Swagk101:
Early this year? I hope he ain't just after your KPEKUS...#JustSaying

whats wrong with "early this year?" We all must start from somewhere right? Anyway, time will tell what he is actually after. For now, #IaintGatNoWorries.

Well, I thinks its different strokes for different folks. I met my bf via facebook early this year. Prior to our meeting, he was stationed in the north east for 2 years. He is in the army by the way. So he added me up and we got chatting, taking it one step at a time. After 2 months, he was discharged from the north east due to gun shot injuries he received from those idiot terrorists. After some minor surgeries he got better. Couldn't see him cos I'm was prepping for my exams in law school. Anyway, I'll meet my war hero next week. So excited!!!!

kilmix:


"Emuejevoke"
Everything has its time, or there's time for everything.

thanks a lot!!

@ litearymathy, I don't know if I got the spelling right but the name is Mudjievoke. I need the translation pls.

Good one boys, most especially my sweetheart in damboa. Can't wait to have you back home. Meanwhile....KILL THEM ALL...!!!

asadike:
he will come back to u my dear. Just b strong ok?

thanks so much dear.

God pls all I ask of you is to bring him back to me safely.... God pls... may the souls of the departed always rest in peace. We won't forget your sacrifices for our dear nation.

Microflux:
y nt. Saying. I missed u on fb.

yea, I just pop in once in a while cos of my tight schedule

Microflux:
Mine
I wish one day dymondgurl will lay her head on my laps. I say this in a seductive voice 'I LOVE YOU'

hmmmmm

Serzly observing. Hmmmmm

RicKyRichards:

Someone's super-excited. Well, we all know what comes after "freaking", so cool down before you say something nasty.

like

Naijasinglegirl, always making my day. So freaking hilarious

What will you guys say about these. PS; thay are all cakes! Bon appetit!

I saw a movie about the Cherynobyl disaster....very scary movie, almost the same storyline as The Hills Have Eyes...

Lolz. Photoshop gone terrible.

StevinMorgan:


so what do you like?

a guy who is toned and physically fit. Not someone who has the body of a typical nigerian road!! Full of bumps in the name of muscles and six packs.

StevinMorgan:


wey wey wey...yans... calm down na

na truth I dey yarn so soo. Personally am nt a six pack kinda gal. Beefy six pack guys irritate me

StevinMorgan:



why pretend as if you don't like his six packs?

guy chill, a lot of naija babes are irritated by that dude eg me. To me, Bez is more attractive than he is.

havennie:
When it comes to handsomeness, dark skinned guys are even more preferable to many ladies.
I worked with a modelling group, so i know what am saying

Here are personal friends of mine who contested for Mr Ideal Nigeria (the first and 4th one). The four of them are all from Benue. The 4th is now even continuing with his modelling career in the US.

wow!! I know the dark guy in the black and white pix who is attired in the tribal outfit. we served together back then in Ogun state and he was our MR nysc.a professional model.

Awww, what a pity. It would go a long way if well meaning nigerians can put a smile on her face. Such a beautiful woman.