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soldierpikin35:
tnx! are you saying they should meet via phone? as in put a call thru for both of them to talk?

Go with my daughter? he'll kill me first!!!
I'm toying with the idea of saying NO to both of his requests, meeting his daughter and getting back to him!

Reason is, I don't know how he'll be in my daughter's life without been in mine and obviously one thing will always lead to the other and the hurts and pain cycle will start all over again....
my daughter is still very young, may be some more years to come, they'll eventually meet

Don't deprive a child of her father pls
Has she never asked about her dad?

Yes we single mums think we can all be both dad and mum but they need their father
A father figure
He has to meet her
You draw s line
There's a huge diff btw baby father and lover
My son sees his father almost every weekend
He calls and they talk almost every night
He's always so excited to see his dad
At least he knows he has a father even if they don't see everyday

He can be in her life without being part of your own world
Mt son even calls my bf dad even when he knows his real dad

Dunno if you get my point
Maybe that's how I built mine sha

I hope you can control the love
How sure are you he's not saying same thing he says to you to others
Pls don't make another mistake cos this time
You won't even be able get up

Good luck

Do you by any chance feeling attached to him cos you don't wanna be breeding kids for different men
Or are you scared next man will do same?

Well we all want that security of not wanting to jump around


Dude just wants to use you like he did
I know them like that
They are everywhere
My ex is same
We never stable
Always breaking up like a broken record and each time he came back, I forgive thinking he's changed
The last he did was a shocker and had to let go finally

My point is
He will always cheat
Forget him and move on

You sound like a woman with a beautiful heart
Don't worry
That man is close to sweep you off your feet
Just open your heart
There are men that still loves single mums even with our societal attitude

Maybe I am wrong
But I can fit into your shoes cos I have been there

As for meeting his daughter
Pls do
Doesn't mean he will still take responsibilities
Either way
Let her meet her father
Spend time over the phone
I bet he wouldnt ever ask to go with her
If he does
Abeg oo
No gree

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]Kilode? Óò bá sọ fún mi pe ọ̀fẹ́ fi mi bẹ̀rẹ̀ Ìṣe owó. Lol.

Because I asked you to give birth to one more, you had to demand for such amount? Lol

Btw, you never care to know if I understand your language before replying in Yoruba.[/color]

Well
You sha replied in same even if it might be copy and paste



Wo
Economy naija is something else
And kiddies education and upbringing is expensive
I cannot come and die
School fees for lil man alone na ways
Not to talk of feeding and doing fine boy

Oga
Make pikin wait
We will work on another soon but not now

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]No fear economy jarey. Make you born another one on my behalf.

If money wey I get no reach, I go borrow money from Lalasticlala give you.[/color]

Ehn oo
Iyen na da

Funmi ni 5 million naira cash in hard currency

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]Rem my password? How's that possible? Please say something else.

Seems you're now a tranny.

BTW... Your kid(s)?[/color]

Son is doing wonderful
Just one for now
Economy e no gree me

She's really sugar

ifyalways:
Hmmmn.


She has a phone in her hands.

Hmmmmmmnn!

Mama oooo

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]You're seeing my moniker, you're still asking how it's spelt.

You can question a stone.[/color]

So you rem your password?

Been ages man

She's got nothing to worry about cos she's gonna be under AC all the time
Make she waka for sun or make fuel finish for car na
She go know say not every shoe you put your leg

I don't have nothing to offer but a truthful heart of prayer
May she meet that God sent.

But I think for the mean time
She should get herself busy as she's a stylist
Yes I am a mother and know how it feels when your child is taken away from you
But I just plead with her to take her stylist job seriously
She can never lack even a day meal with her handiwork
When she starts making money then she can fight for her child
Fighting for the child now, she won't win cos she doesn't even have where to rest her head

Its hard these days to get helper
Just get busy in doing what brings money

donbenedict:
must u seek my attention? Will u just go and join ur mates and do chores please. Lazy thing

Suigeneris93:
seek your attention as you be who you need psychological theraphy to cure you of your delusions of grandeur. Btw I'm done with my chores for today

NL is fun
Damn

Come and send me
I can bring a whole shop to your house
All that matters is I get service charge


I am an online shopper too
Got my sons clothes
If not all, 90℅ from Aliexpress
But with dollar rates now
Dunno
Yes there are stores that won't send the quality you want but 80℅ of sellers there are after reputation so you need to read clearly the description

But you is one crazy online shopper
You should have been to ali

Happy shopping
May God make ease your delivery

Suigeneris93:
You lack respect, what's wrong with her feeling alarmed You should have just stfu if you had nothing else to say

Omo
Eyin the P ni ooo

Mindfulness:
So you want to adopt a child for the sole reason that you need help?

Funny woman


She meant a child somewhere out there that needs help

Congrats
May God use you as a point of blessings for those expecting

May that child grow with the love of God

Normal?

I hope my son is not abnormal oo cos he doesn't touch it like toy

*calls him closer, oya start touching your totoyo*
Just kidding but kids grow differently

Mothers of 4 and so many said its normal so just over look it

onegig:
They discuss celebrity marriages, the new pizza inn that just opened, gossip about friends, Premier leagus matches and whatnot. I don't understand how you would be planning a future with someone and not discuss the basics and preferences that might cause conflicts in that future. More like building a house with no plan. You might just find the toilet built in the middle of kitchen.

And more and more are committing the same mistakes over and over again. You hear things like "I didn't want to offend him prior to the marriage" ; " I thought she would change". Can two come together if they don't agree?

She's laughingly pissed
The pizza in and gossip got me laughing

Juxtified:
lol. smart kid.

I could be wrong, but I think ''chose'' and ''choose'' are both right in this context.

She was only trying tell her shes not considering
Chose in the convo means she considering but she made her understand
Young Lady even if you choose to buy ant
I won't buy

I love intelligent kids sha

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]Because of this comment, you decided to change from (f) to (m), so that they won't call you a lesbian.

Yeye![/color]

Is this flashdarin or how's that your username spelt set

Mizmycoli
Is that your bumbum?

But its easy for the women
Especially his wife

Smh

focus7:
Your situation is a different situation. In all sincerity it is not easy for a man to stay away from his wife for sixteen months especially for a man with high sexual urge. Call you wife and open up to her, try to make her understand the situation you found yourself and that you will need her understanding and cooperation to resolve this. Then let the other lady know that you will take responsibility for the baby but you will not marry her.

Let the tables turn
Your wife preggy for another man cos she couldn't hold herself

Whoop
Whoop
Whoop


Niche chef he chef he
Muchachachacha
Kio kio kio kio kio

raumdeuter:
So who's the T? Is it Timbuktu?

WHat do you mean by he's no gold digger, some gold diggers sef get people wey dey dig them for gold

Even your Boo get a boo, even your T get a T, Like T iwa's T eebillz sef get idaya T

Nice lyrics
Hehehehehe

The day I find our he's got another idaya
I peacefully take a walk
I cannot share

I left my useless stingy Casanova ex
Boboyen le do aja

Agbalagba ara e
Ole
Olojukokoro
Oloju wonko
I am glad he's my ex
Food poison
I am still praying for him and wish him well
Let him meet a woman like him

raumdeuter:
T hmm you mean Teebillz?

Soon we go begin read your story on Linda Ikeji

He's no gold digger
I am digging his diamond
Feels good

Every T is diff in their own T
I love my T

She's got beautiful body
Flaunt it girl
Even with Editting

raumdeuter:
Oya Idaya no need for long thing

WHe are you guys moving in together and start popping babies

I am not searching oo

I was searching but now I am fully taken
Ki olorun mapa T funmi

Acidosis:
Yes, I love kids

Willing to do anything huh?
Clown
Hehehehe

Acidosis:
Really?

The closest person to me on earth is about getting married to a single mom and they're getting my support 100%. While I don't remember opposing anyone on Nairaland, I'm sure I must have done that based on other reasons.

OK let's get to business
I am mothering more than 10 kids from different mother and father and I carry the bills alone
Can you cope?

Acidosis:
I'm eyeing you oo

Acidosis:
I'm eyeing you oo

You had to quote twice?


But you were condemning one gentle man for loving a single mum?

Acidosis:
I'm seeing things...!


I'll like someone with same belief system, a talkative I talk less, think & type/write more so a talkative like Idaya ( Dyt ) won't be bad at all.

Include both my middle and last name plus the previous I was answering

Clown

You are still eyeing me?
I will tell your babe