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Thank God for Life

APC wailers right now are like...

PDP all the way!!!




Lets join hands and send Buhari back to daura

Cyoung4real:
Why? Is it wrong to visit a female soldier?

I'm not saying it's wrong but you better not open a thread about the negative aftermath of the encounter... Goodluck!

Cyoung4real:
The young shall grow is not for Aki and Pawpaw. Meanwhile, I met a female soldier online. We quarreled
and I even insulted her, but now we have
settled. Guess wot? She asked me to visit
her at her barracks. I can't wait to meet her
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I'm wailing for you in advance

The Elders have said it all

senatordave1:
Him,ntem ekpang,Patrick Adie and maryann okon are my favorites.he's one of the few crbc staffs that have remained behind while others left to join hit and sparkling fms.

Immanuel Adie you meant
Anyways I pray he is released soon!
Calabar my Calabar!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
lol. Fell for that same scam. Which branch were you invited to?

Calabar branch oo
can you imagine these people

Jerryembassy91:
This people dealt with me... All the way from Okokomaiko ,I woke up as early as 5am, made my way to Ojota, all because I got a text of a job interview scheduled to hold 9am.
I got there around 8am ...i hated myself when the job interview started....
They started asking me what kind of car and house do I want to drive and live in... Long story short.
They forced me with words to pay 10k to register and be a member of GNLD... told them I want to go outside and make withdrawal, they told me don't worry we av Pos and ATM inside the compound....... I saw far that day

POS and ATM machine ?? The devil is a liar.. they really meant business

Nonsense people, that was how I found myself. 3 days ago listening to presentation about Neo Life International... and thinking I came purposely for Company Interview

Was so upset with myself after spending close to 3hours there!!

They texted and called me two days ago why I didn't show up for subsequent presention

in my mind - They want to be Unfortunate!
Anyways, May God help us to tackle unemployment and grant us better jobs!!

YourCoffin:
Money. Lots of money

won't he be termed less of a man if he can't perform in the other room ?

Well, I have been thinking of what the society or the other gender expect of a man and what they use to distinguish or rate a man in this our contemporary world and In Nigeria to be precise.


As you hear all kind of stories, insult and gossips flying around pertaining on how to be a man most Especially from the opposite gender calling a grown man "Not man Enough" or "Is this one or that one a man" and so on!


So my fellow N'landers, I want your opinion on what really makes a man; Is it the ability to make MONEY, or Does it come with AGE, MATURITY or how COURAGEOUS he is ? Or ability to PRODUCE CHILDREN or perhaps is it his ability to Perform WELL in his CONJUGAL OBLIGATION ?


The society has placed a lot of pressure on Men, now if he achieves all but one or two of the "Supposed Criterias" of being a man; Does it make him less of a man ?? Or are there more criteria for one to be termed or referred to as a "MAN" and are they Justifiable ?


Nairalanders, Your Opinion is Needed.

Narijoel:
hard truth
OP, Nice write up
but please try to reduce the content of your write up next time, some people dont really have the patience to read a long epistle.

Noted

When that popular Nollywood actor Muna Obiekwe died some years ago, the story that went round was that he had suffered a kidney disease and needed funds, but was too scared of mockery to reach out to people for help.
Some of you blamed him for dying in silence.
Some judged it as pride......

Few days ago, a popular Lagos DJ committed suicide.
Some have condemned him already, saying, "na because of ordinary woman you go kill yasef?"
Some have also blamed the death on the woman for not having 'spirit of forgiveness'!
I have also observed some microwave- overnight-motivators posting things like "speak out, don't die in silence, we are here for you, nonsense!
And, I laugh!

Over time, I have come to find that we as a people are far from being as kindhearted as we want to project ourselves to be.
The average Nigerian is not a philanthropist but an opportunist!
There! I said it!
Oftentimes, it is all about 'showmanship'.
That is why your neighbor knows that they'd rather eat their cold food in peace than come to knock your door to ask for a box of matches, on that rainy afternoon when theirs suddenly goes too wet to strike or finishes.

That is why your friend who has had a bladder failure and wet her bed, would rather keep the mattress indoors (even at the risk of it getting rotten!), than bring it out to airdry.
That is why some would rather lock themselves indoors, drink garri without sugar for days and keep smiling-pretend, than tell you exactly how it is doing them!
You, yes you, that says you care, do you really care
Are you not just saying it to sound relevant?
That woman (single mother of three) that approached you for assistance last term towards paying her children's school fees, didn't you turn her down after preaching a long sermon about why women should keep themselves? Didn't you throw some 'useful' advice her way about 'how not to be lazy'?

That pregnant girl that died having an abortion, would you have taken her in had she come to you for shelter, in the event her parents threw her out?
That young man who has approached your gate severally to give you his CV, did you not haughtily turn him down, while murmuring, "Am I Buhari that is responsible for your suffering?"

But, you went on RantHQ to throw around a few thousands of naira, forming philanthropist, because over there, more people will "see" you and "hail' you and " pray" for you!
You organise free-giving events, give out publicly for all to "see" because it will "sell" your "brand" not because you really give a hoot whether those poor people live or die!

You can donate cartons of juice to charity but are ready to beat and design your househelp's body with koboko, over a cup of juice!
If your intentions for the dying world are truly genuine, look around you: there is always someone, in your hood, your family, your place of primary assignment, your office, whose smile looks out of place.
If you look closer, it is easy to trace the track of tears on that your friend's face, no matter how much she masks it...

So, before you go forming 'defender of the depressed universe', ask yourself:
If friend A is in distress and needs a quick helping hand (without public announcement) will she come to me?

If friend B has been diagnosed of a terminal disease or a life threatening one, will she confide in me? Has she confided in me before and I let her down?
If neighbor C is cooking and suddenly exhaust her gas, will she have the boldness to knock on my door, pot in hand, to finish her cooking? If she does, will I oblige?
If Church member D has a pressing need, (or an insignificant one as little as not having transport to go home after service), will he/she be bold enough to tell me about it? Will I respond without judgement or will I even help out at all without a sermon?

If Mrs E, who has suffered a temporary misfortune, comes to me with her pressing need to feed her children or pay some basic bills, will I give without reminding her of how her mates sell pure water or fry akara to eke out a living?
These are the pending issues!
If your answer to the questions above are in the affirmative, congratulations, you are a philanthropist!

If not, it does not matter what image you project to the world, you are nothing but an opportunist, seeking to be noticed by the 'right' eyes, in order to use others misfortunes to enrich your greedy self!

Written by
Steven Ken Damola

Happy New Year Mr Easy
Fast, Efficient and Reliable
It was nice doing business with you!

Useless Government. .

But your Aides earn much more higher than this workers yet doing little or no work compared to the Civil Servants

Workers deserves better wages!!

I weep for this country at times

@ Op
you've a rare talent
pls don't let it die or waste
May God help you and order your steps
Goodluck!!

Flee bro...
Issa trap! get that shit outta ya mind

May God Help us

RIP to the Dead ones

Nonsense and ingredient

Hahaha
Christmas Hair cut

I want to sincerely thanks you folks for your meaningful insight and contributions towards the topic...Indeed we learn every single day!! Thank you once again and be watchful too..Scammers plenty especially for we naija

FTC Finally on a Christmas day!

The guy below me should try again next year!!

allytinted:
Bro, its pure SCAM. Don't, i repeat Don't send him any money. Something of such happened to me some months ago after my pop from NYSC. A guy called me on phone claiming to be a friend of mine in NYSC(he knew my name, my NYSC reg. no, my platoon no also) that he has gotten a job at an oil company through his sister's husband who had three slot to employ anybody from his end. He said that is the reason he called me if I had interest in the job. All through the conversation I was't convinced cos I don't know him in NYSC but I smelled and confirm Scam immediately he said he would give me someone else number so I can speak with the person.
The question you should ask yourself is doesn't he have any close relative to give the job? Why a distant friend? By then you will know its all a scam.

You've said it all bro. your last paragraph came to my mind yesterday night too as i was pondering..It's all Scam but how they get our contact and factual details really marvels me

Stop going to Church Late
Stop Procrastination
Stop Having lots of Girls around
Stop Being unnecessarily Lazy.
So help me God!!

Ekehwinz:
SCAM_ANKWE… Been there

Experience is the best teacher! Thank you

Israellionel:
Bro I Just Have To Be Blunt.
Can't You See It's A Scam,
Y Are People Still Stupid This Days.
The 110k Isn't A Problem ABI?

You Can Use That Money To Venture Into Something Useful That'll Pay You Dividends At The End.

Bro,
Wisen Up Pls.

Lol..for this buhari Regime ? The monetary commitment from my end would have been proceeds from the job after 3month.

Anyways Thank you!
I appreciate

Lovely Family!