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Racoon:
A government that has invested Nigeria into all manners of unimaginable problems never seen in histroy?

They are suffering from "Dunning-Kruger Effect-a phenomenon in which an incompetent person is too incompetent to understand their own incompetence Yet always apportioning blame. Bunch of dumbasses idiots.

Rossiminku:
Narcissism is not an ''explosive or a bomb''.

That is typical narcissist deflection and avoidance.

Narcissism is toxic behaviour that poisons the social environment and destroys relationships.

Narcissism is very different from ''self-love''.

Here is how experts differentiate the 2 concepts:

Need for Recognition

Self Love: Those who have high self-esteem and practice self love don’t need recognition or congratulations for their accomplishments. They are well aware of their efforts and their success, and that knowledge is more than enough to feel adequate.

Narcissism: If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? If a narcissist accomplishes success and no one is around to witness it, is it truly a success? The answer in this case is no. Without recognition and praise, they may as well not have accomplished anything at all. It makes the win feel empty, because they only receive satisfaction from the admiration of others.


Identifying flaws within one's self

Self Love: Everyone has flaws and idiosyncrasies that makes them an individual. Those who love themselves accept their flaws, and work to improve them if need be. They understand that those quirky little bits of themselves are what make them unique.

Narcissism: They act as if they do not posses any flaws. Everything they do, they do it better than anyone. Everything they have is better than what you have. If someone notices that they exhibit a flaw, it must be a misconception, because there is no way that any aspect of themselves could be anything less than perfect.


Knowing who you are-and being comfortable with it

Self Love: In lieu of self acceptance, these individuals are totally comfortable being themselves, and appreciate who they are and what they offer. They do not feel that they need to make any vast changes to themselves or their lives in order to achieve happiness, because they already are.


Narcissism: They are never happy with who they are and what they have. They often find themselves fantasizing about a more ideal lifestyle, job, or appearance. They never truly feel satisfied with any aspect of their life. They think that they deserve better, but put no effort forth to achieve their desires.


Humility is a virtue

Self Love: They have a strong sense of empathy and humility. They support and encourage others to do better, and are proud of their successes.

Narcissism: They can’t handle seeing others doing well. They cannot help but feel jealous, and will find a way to undermine their success in order to feel that they still have the upper hand. The common phrase, “misery loves company,” is all too appropriate in this circumstance.


Perception of other's emotions

Self Love: These individuals are receptive to others emotions, and can level with their struggles and pain. They will offer advice and assistance if they can, and genuinely care about the outcome of their struggling friends situation.

Narcissism: Although they may fake concern, they genuinely do not care about others struggles. In fact, they feed off of it. That’s one less person who is doing well in this world, and that makes them feel better about themselves.


Perception of others as individuals

Self Love: Appreciation of others is a strong attribute of those who have high self esteem. They see other individuals as valuable, and celebrate their existence. These people tend to be good friends, because they are incredibly supportive and understand that it takes all sorts of people to make a fully functioning world.

Narcissism: They do not view others as valuable. The only value they see in others is an opportunity to use them for their own benefit. Narcissists tend to surround themselves with other narcissists. The “special” people. The “elite.” No one else is worthy of their time. Gag.


Competition with peers

Self Love: With high self esteem, it is easy to view others as your equals. Each person is just that, another person trying to make it in this world and try to achieve happiness.

Narcissism: Narcissists always need to be doing better than their peers, or at least give off the illusion that they are. They thrive off of dominance and manipulation. They are not truly happy unless they feel that they are in complete control. They need for all of their efforts to be celebrated, and for themselves and people to be worshiped. Typically, narcissists will gravitate towards careers and hobbies that exhibit themselves as the center of attention.

Narcissists spend most of their time alone, because most people can identify their toxic behavior.
Signs of narcissistic behaviour tend to rear their ugly heads in the early years of adulthood; typically in men. 50-70% of those who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder are male. The cause of this is unknown. Perhaps it is a combination of chemical composition, upbringing, and experiences during childhood.

Narcissism is incredibly toxic behaviour, and will repel anyone from your life who can identify these disturbing features. That’s why people with this disorder tend to have few friends, and spend the majority of their time alone. They distort this rejection from others as their own personal rejection. Because they are better than everyone else, and no one is worthy of their precious time.

Find a happy medium. It’s okay to love yourself, but don’t let it turn into obsession.
With the introduction of social media, it is easier to spot narcissists because they showcase themselves daily. You know that girl or guy who posts multiple selfies a day, and is constantly changing their profile pictures? They are doing this for the recognition. They want people to see them, and to celebrate their beauty. The likes and comments they receive feed their innate need for worship. Outlets such as Instagram and Facebook has made it alarmingly normal to constantly demand attention from peers and strangers alike.

Unless those who suffer from NPD seek therapy, it is unlikely that they can amend their behaviour, because they are oblivious to the fact that they suffer from this disorder. That kind of reflection would prove that they are imperfect; something that does not compute in the mind of a narcissist.

https://www.lifehack.org/596475/how-we-are-confusing-self-love-with-narcissism-in-this-generation

gwafaeziokwu:


Oga you are quarrelling with SELF LOVE? Unbelievable!

Is it your love? Did anyone force you not to love your heritage.

Igbos are busy selling their image, if your like you buy if you don't like the product face your front.

Or rather carry mega phone and market your heritage. This life na once abeg.

Rossiminku:
DEFINITION OF NARCISSISM

''Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them.

Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy (psychotherapy).''

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662

This defines the igbo ethnic group 10000%

And this thread is a shining example of Igbo narcissism.

ggood:
Adamu your daft who is betraying who you fulani ass licker you suppose to be ashame of your self, see who is talking about betrayal. You Adamu betral Nasarawa Christians and you swear that a Christian can never Rule Nasarawa State as long as your Still alive. Nasarawa State is majority Christians and minority Muslims, 65% Christians and 35% Muslims.
Go to Nas Poly Area , Nasarawa Eggon, Keffi, Maraba, Karu ,Akwanga, Agyaragu,Wamba and many more places and see it yourself.

EndNigeriaNoow:
They learnt this strategy from Britain. They spread lies against Igbo's and would use a Yoruba man to spread such lies or even attack/arrest Igbo's, they would also use an Igbo man in high position to attack a Yoruba man or spread lies against the Yoruba people.

These guys vomit whatever the Fulani Miyetti Allah tell them just to divide and conquer the south, yeah thats Fulani leaders strategy, u see how they joined IPOB and Oduduwa head together so they can fight each other lols. They won't use an Hausa or Fulani police to run their package but would use either an Igbo or Yoruba police man...then Igbos would fight Yoruba and Yoruba would fight Igbo's, meanwhile, they are the one pushing the Igbo or Yoruba police officer to take such moves. Sometimes they bribe Yoruba/Igbo senators in national assembly to say thing that is against Oduduwa/Biafra or the Yoruba people, meanwhile they are the ones who paid the senator or threatened him to say such things.

the earlier we know the Fulani divide and conquer strategy, they better for us. This is the time for Igbo's and Yoruba to join hands and end this country once and for all. Oduduwa and Biafra will be the best countries in Africa, there will be employment and massive development and less crime. Let's do away with this northern terrorist.

We also have many of their paid agents here on nairaland who claim to be Yoruba or Igbo but are not. they are from the northern terrorist region and are Fulani terrorist. example of such persons on nairaland that are used by fulani northern leaders are;
Helinus, Oyigboupdate, Asgard, Burtonj, KahlDrogo, Adadike(recently joined them, she was recruited this year)
and many others. Their goal is to cause misunderstanding between Igbo's and Yoruba both online and offline.
#UnitedIgboYoruba
#EndNigeriaNow
#ReferendumNow

limeta:
This is the one man behind the fulani islamic agenda

Kaduna1stson:
We must get our access to the sea from the middle of Lagos and ogun

TheClown:
Why would any right reasoning Nigerian Christian say he doesn't believe this? Is it not happening already? Please don't be foolish! Even you can't predict future, can't atleast observe the past and the present? Nonsense!

I'm a northerner and a Christian, if we disregard this revelation, we are not worthy to be called sensible human beings. What have we not suffered? Is there any reason not to believe it? Don't be foolish!!!!!!!

naijaking1:
Useless MBO operatives.
After stealing credit for projects starts and almost completed by previous administrations, why don't you thank him for the MMIA airport, Lagos, the Cocoa house Ibadan, and First Niger bridge?
Oh, don't forget how Baba built the Kainji dam, Yankari games reserve too!

vanunu:
Uncle Lai, the govt should expel the British ambassador immediately, we can't take this.

Mikehot:
Boko Haram playing reverse psychology

It is more believable to believe pantami is a Terrorist since his Co Terrorists were ready to be his alibi seeing his ties about to come out

Ask yourself why is Boko Haram not threatening the defense minister who controls arms that affect them

Why is Boko Haram not threatening the minister of finance who controls the banks or cbn which houses funds they need

Why pantami the minister of communication?

If Boko Haram is so much in a Muslim Northerner case either clapping or insulting just know that such person is their own


Btw isn't it a contradiction that buhari that was once Boko Haram negotiator is appointing someone that is supposedly hated by Boko Haram?