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So beautiful, I wish my son to be able to speak his language someday I have been teaching him.

How old is the relationship,?? Too much of everything is bad from being too possessive to being insecure Whic leads to obsession. Be careful his type can commit suicide for a relationship.

I'm a woman and currently in your wife's situation, you made sex boring for her, don't blame her rather blame your self, she needs more affection than sex, pay attention to her mind not her body she is Good woman like me, give her a break she will come around women tend to get tired of sex especially when is frequently demanded, improve in your romantic lifestyle, like I Said I'm currently having same issue more affection towards her will solve the problem not by divorcing her.

The problem is the mode of teaching, the message is Good but the messager used a wrong method of passing the message, call the attention of the Sunday school teacher let him or her do the corrections kids believe what their teachers say than parents but 4 yes is too tender to digest that.

[Exactly my advice to him I'm a woman and understands his wife very well he made sex boring to her. quote author=Administration1 post=125675819]From what you wrote up there, I can deduce that you're a boring man. You think it's all about food, clean and money, ogbeni, when last did you take your wife out alone? Have you asked her, if she drinks Smirnoff ice or something, if you don't do alcohol, have you considered that she might be the type that drinks, but she is respecting you since you don't .

Oga, go and and spice to your marriage and watch it bounce back to life.[/quote]

I'm a woman and currently in your wife's situation, you made sex boring for her, don't blame her rather blame your self, she needs more affection than sex, pay attention to her mind not her body she is Good woman like me, give her a break she will come around women tend to get tired of sex especially when is frequently demanded, improve in your romantic lifestyle, like I Said I'm currently having same issue more affection towards her will solve the problem not by divorcing her. [color=#006600][/color] ote author=ADURA123 post=125671601]Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...[/quote]

waynetee:
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well said.

Go to a rehabilitation center you will be fine. uote author=Trying2BeStronG post=124445456]Good evening guys. All I am about to say right now is true and based on what is currently happening in my life. I am a vibrant 28years old guy, completed school, has worked good jobs over the years, spent some couple of years abroad also.

However, something seems to be killing me deeply which is BETTING. I started since the inception of bet9ja and have grown over the years to become a staunch addict. I am so addicted to the extent I constantly used my salaries and even went to the extent of taken several loans to play bet. I try to balance between my salaries and the debt I owe.

I left Nigeria and travelled abroad, all through my stay abroad I could not save a dime due to betting even as I was earning a very cool salary. Recently I came back to Nigeria and I arrived to stay at my parents place for like 2 months and you know what, I came back with barely nothing . I have now taken my addiction to an extent of even taking money from my mum and sister's bank account to fund my betting lifestyle only for me to lose all this money with no means to refund them back.

. Tonight my mum called me to talk about the money and I truly felt so bad, we all know how sharp the words of African mum can be. I don't know what to do anymore, maybe I am being possessed or I am having a spiritual attacks I can't really say. I just can't get it straight anymore.


Honestly, I have been feeling depressed and having mood swings recently to the extent of even contemplating suicide but I am trying to stay strong. Instead of committing suicide I am planning to leave the house without notice and move on with my life somewhere else. I have failed my Family woefully .[/quote]

Ekitibiased:
This is the common bait now

We just don't tell ourselves the truth - People pay so much to go and do this ...WOW

Bank employees helping people with POF are definitely making a killing no doubt

very good write up.

[Exactly. quote author=georgeakins post=124389150]

Forget that craps!
What of those who don't have mothers and are doing well financially?[/quote]

Cut down her financial supply, that's the only way to save her, she is only useful to them cos she can provide financially to them pastors. Buy her food stuff and send little or less money act fast she's been Brainwashed. I'm talking from experience. And watch out the moment she stop bringing in cash to them the pastor will stop relating to her and nothing will happen to anyone.

I thank God your okey but will still advise you to visit the hospital to make sure your not bleeding internally. That car was wrecked. Badly.

Just Give this facility few years you won't recognize it again it will be in it's dilapidated state. Is3not about building it maintaining the structure is the key.

Use Riboflavin. Aka as Vitamin B2 it's like Bcomplex. Don't swallow it hold it down in your mouth over night. Do repeatedly you will be fine.

God bless you for saying the truth .

Dear nairalanders,

Please what is the current price of cement in your area ?

Bet Naija

3mil

Still available?

Is this car still available?

2 million

2 million

Future criminal

2 million

Giv her space you killed the urge .you men are fond of having sex with your wife and not making love wht do you expect you have killed d libido already start thinking of something new ,show more affection .she is feeling jst being used I hav bn there.pray you will b able to bring her up again cos is not easy.

Nice one hop men are reading DS.

2 mil

Elder Stanley Okoro

2mil

1,750,000

dear husband you are the cause of her problem your approach to sex is not good to her .you don't make love to her you rather have sex with her which is very wrong make love and don't have sex with your wife change your attitude show her affection your selfish to her you only care about your feelings weather she enjoys it or not is not your concern that's why she loosed interest in both you and your sex .I'm a woman and married for years we hate to have sex we love to make love romance her , send her love messages accept that you have not bn doing well call her pet names I bet you you will rekindle her love life if she is happy you will b happier and above all communicate with her to find out weather anything is bothering she might be depressed she needs your attention .may God save your home .

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