Well the female genital mutilation is one thing parents thought was the best gift they could gift their female children and not knowing they were just creating more harm than good to the kids

Their thought then was "a female child that's not circumcised will be a harlot and they would be feeling constant urge for sex, and might not be able to stick to one husband cause she will be jumping from man to man, but a circumcised female would stay put in one place"

How wrong they were as circumcision has put a dent in a whole lot of females out there, I have a friend that says she just lies like a log of wood when making love cause she doesn't know what shes supposed to do while making love as she has never gotten wet, but with time she learnt to moan even when she's not feeling anything cause she kinda found out it boosts a guys ego cause that makes him feel like hes actually doing something unlike when there are no sounds made by her...

Well seeing a gynecologist would be good..
But I feel like you should take a little time to explore your body yourself and you would be surprised at what you'll find out (same way you find out you get orgams from your boobs being suckled)

You could try getting a pretty patient and willing partner to go on a journey with
A partner that's willing to try things and is quite patient (not all these guys that just want to delve into the sex proper)
Someone that would explore your body with you and who knows you might find other ways to get pleasure..

It's quite funny at the replies people are giving
From getting baseless to downright being useless..

Being A nymphomaniac doesn't generally mean she's been watching porn or have loads of porn or die to the fact that she's not close to God or cause she doesn't read the bible

She's perfectly normal and her constant urge for sex is natural and normal too, but I guess cause shes a female makes everyone to look down on her as being abnormal or harboring some demon inside of her...

The solution relies in her own will to actually want to reduce or stop being a nympho, though its actually hard and takes a whole lot of perseverance to achieve

Being a nymphomaniac is just the body wanting something and the human giving in to the wants
In my own opinion, she should try engaging herself more often with things that'll keep her busy, cause the urge will sure come in if she's busy or not, but when she keeps her head and mind busy, with time the urge to give in to the want of the body will become minimal and she'll be able to control

She should reduce or cut off her sex partners, that way when she's got no one to quench her thirst for sex she'll sure get herself busy with something else and she could constantly take cold showers when the urges delve in

She could busy her day by reading books too,

So basically getting herself busy with work or reading books,
Cutting off her sex partners (though might he hard to achieve but, theres no harm in trying)
Taking cold showers when the urges sets in kinda would help out...

ShitStain:
Chai!...see as the majority of the people in this thread see being gay as something that is normal.chai!.in a few years time you'll start seeing them in their numbers clamouring for same sex right.i see Nigerians on Twitter openly showcase their gayness on the internet and I wonder if we still have anti gay laws in this country.call me archaic,but gay people are sick people.how you go open your eyes see vagina but na your fellow guy nyash(nyash wey u ma sef get o) na I'm u 1 Bleep.or as a girl na your fellow girl Vagina you 1 grind.its a serious mental illness mhen!

I really dont think you needed all these
We just have to accept everyone the way they are wired,
Same way we cant create any human being
Then I think discriminating them for their sexual orientation isn't something we should do
If you've really got to sit a Gay person down and ask how they had come about being gay
Then I feel you'll get to really understand them
They are humans too and they are only living their life the way they were wired to
Peace

Vikkygeee:

Thank you very much for this, this is exactly what I'm thinking, I think we're just going to let them find out in future, knowing how much they love her they won't have a choice and the only person they'll blame for everything is me for not telling them.and I'm fine taking the blame if it means we get to keep her in the family. Heck I have started reading about artificial insemination sef

Hey you really need to calm down there... you're even going ahead to make plans for them already, lols, it's cute though,
But thing is you've still got to sit her down and talk to her, I'm not talking bout telling her off bout being gay, you just have to let her understand things, let her know the journey might not be smooth and savvy as she might be having in her thoughts, and I think you should try to get to know the other lady who she's dating try setting up on how to get to know her and her plans, don't doesnt seem like your sister is living in her own infatuation, try to understand the other person and get to know if they have same goals of wanting to be together forever even through the thick and thin that life would push to them, I'm sure you should be able to detect if she's not being straight forward with you, so have the talk with your sis, get her to understand that your family might not approve of her sexual orientation, but then you'll sure find a way to get them to understand and accept her, pledge your support to her and get to know yer thoughts also, try to understand her quite well,
I wish you all the very best bro
But I must warn you
It wont be easy to achieve all of these

Well I dont see being gay as a curse or anything
I just feel that's the way she feels is right to go through, and I'm sure at her age she should be able to tell her right from her wrongs, you've done your part as her elder brother,
And since it seems like she's not backing out of it, and you had let her know the Nigerian mentality bout such things which I'm quite sure she knows quite well too..

I do feel your support is what she truly needs
Cause she came out true to you and never denied her being gay...

So do try to find ways to settle things
Cause telling the parents and them rebuking everything might lead her to take extreme measures you might at the end of the day regret taking,
And theres always a way out of situations
Like you said theres artificial insemination...
So think it through, support her and do keep checking up on her...

I guess that's the best you can ever get to do as an elder and she'll be forever grateful

My thoughts though

JOACHINpedro:
Secondary school love that year



Then how can a grownup believe in love at first sight?

Lol
If you quoted me right I didnt say I believed she's loved me at first sight

All I said was I wanted to play along to see where she's going with her tricks
Cause that's what I believe it is
Besides
Sheybi na person wey fine and rich girls dey fall in love at first sight with

luminouz:



This is a lie....


No grown ass man would be asking questions like a toddler because one girl wants you...what dafuq is so special in that for you to create a new thread to ask questions. Ain't you ballsy enough to fix this yourself?.

I dont think you've pointed out any solution here though
And besides they said one who asks for the way never misses road
So I was only tryna ask
Someone might've had a similar situation and to know how they settled it and as well for anyone who might end up in similar situations to know how well to go about it sir

luminouz:
Oh Lord!!!

Another mudafvcking lie again this morning!!!


Is Romanceland cursed


Why dafuq are grown ass men wailing like this online?


This is the 3rd mudafvcking thread I will read so early this morning... Dafuq is wrong with y'all?


IS THE SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM NOT OBVIOUS FROM YOUR OWN POST?

If the solution is obvious in my post
Then be so kind and humane to point it out to me
I might've missed it somewhere
Instead of wailing and calling everything you come across lies...
Thank you

bloomstar:
She don get James, na you she want now....

Maybe she saw something in you that you can not even see.. Remember its online someone. You don't even know much truth about here.

See what you will do, for a moment, pause..tell her to stop the joke, that you don't wish to continue. Threatened her with blocking her off, she is causing issues with you and your friend. Be serious about it.

She will stop all those whining, she can't sleep without the thought of u and you believe it?

In conclusion, my brother run for your life. Even the Bible said jaakpaaa.

Seriously me too I'm tired jae
And I been wondering what's it with me that's so special bout me, but she keeps saying theres nothing,
Guess ima have to go with threatening her to scare her off
Lol, she does actually call me by midnight saying she cant sleep, shes just been thinking bout me and all that
And I'm always like ��‍♂️��‍♂️��‍♂️
But I just always go with the flow since that's what I told my friend to do

Ladylite:


Is love so cheap that it can be thrown around like a ball to whomever one chooses?

See better go for prayers, that girl is an evil agent. Something is morally and spiritually wrong. You have something glorious about u more than your friend and she wants it then moves on to the next victim.


Run for your life.

Oh wow
Thanks
I had actually thought bout this too, but I had been tryna waive it aside
And that's more reason I also want to get to the bottom of her point
To know what it is she's really after

JOACHINpedro:
Secondary school love that year

But this ain't secondary school anymore sire

Sorry to bore everyone out this early, just I have run out of thoughts and ideas and i decided to push to my elders on this forum,
Ignore my grammatical errors please, na only 5% of student remain im inside me...

So here's my story

I've got this friend James (not real name though)
So James happened to have a friend they met up online and got chatting, Ada (not her real name too) had been chatting with James for quite a while and they've grown fond of each other, though Ada had to let James know that shes got a boyfriend and she cant cheat on him, and James also told her hes got a girl too (which wasnt totally true) and would just be friends with her, so James did tell me bout her and only told me he wanted her for Friends with Benefits, since that was what was available as he wasnt looking to love currently, so fast forward to some months later, after persuasion Ada traveled to meet up with James, so they were together and James invited Me over to come meet with her for introductions, and I did, said Hi and left, flashforward to some weeks later I got to find out James had fallen completely in love with which was against his earlier promise of just having her as Friends with Benefits,

Here's the twist though
Some days back Ada just suddenly told James she doesnt love him anymore but she wants Me,
Yeah I was surprised too when he told me, but Ada told James blatantly that she doesnt love him despite all his tales of love he's been telling her, but that she loves Me, and wants to be with me, she even went ahead to start a conversation with me and actually told me that she loves me and wants to be with me, much to the dismay of james, he keeps proffessing love to her, but she keeps saying she doesnt love him and it's me she loves, so when she did tell me and James confirmed it too, I then told James we should play along to find out what shes playing at cause it's all but confusing why she would just see me and say shes fallen in love with me and wants to be with me even knowing James is a friend, she keeps telling me she cant sleep at night without thoughts of me, she says she just wants to feel my body on hers and all that

I would've loved to keep up with her (like continue going with the flow) but James is finding it hard to keep up with anything and it's really getting to him cause he wasnt expecting to fall deeply in love with her like this and wants her only....

Question now is
What do I do??
Do I back out from trying to find out what shes driving at cause it's quite confusing
Even if I do, she claims not to love James and would never have anything to do with him
James is crazily in love with her now and doesnt even think straight anymore...


I'll be in the comments section to see what my elders have to say

Well I am not one to judge
Every human has the devil they're trying to calm in them and I guess that was yours and it overtook you,

Twas a good thing you sought her and seeked forgiveness, so I guess you just have to find a way to forgive yourself

Cause that's the basis
.if you do not forgive yourself
The memories will continue to hunt you and might have a pretty bad effect on you...

The man is in no way wrong, at least it was not like he offered something in return for getting the money, and he didnt have to go on his knees to beg, and just because shes his EX means she cant offer help when its needed??
Sincerely some women need to grow up,
At least she got food and shes not eating
Abeg if hungry do her something, then no one would advice her to eat before she'll devour the food.
She shouldn't starve the kids biko

Dude is saying his mind ni...

I wonder the way some human beings think
So someone will just post a number and accuse the person of rape and you'll just carry yourself to goan start abusing the person without even knowing the person or what transpired between them
What happened to "never let your friends enemies be your enemies, they could actually be your helper"

I just hope that some people in life wont by themselves chase their helpers away

Abeg resist the urge to shalaye

Makes me remember some years back, during my I T period, couldn't go to office cause I wasn't boxed up, had to stay home, man was literally drinking Lipton for 2 weeks straight, I had a new pack of Lipton then, used the last money on me to get sugar, I'll literally wake up, boil water and continue sipping my Lipton like it was no man's business, Morning, afternoon and night or whenever I felt hungry,
Lipton was like my life saver then,

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God bless you as help

Well I don't think Bishop Oyedepo is right with his statement due to the fact that
People can still make gathering at home and pray
Is it not this same pastor's that'll always say where 2 or 3 are gathered... God is in their midst

But as we all know
If humans don't go to the market how then will they feed??
This is the same pastor that I haven't heard of him giving out palliatives to his church members or any member of anywhere since the pandemic started, or would he say he doesn't know there's suffering in town??
but he was giving out account to members to pay their tithes into..

Sometimes I really wonder what sort of examples our pastors are laying down and who they really are emulating...

#sigh

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A friend of mine had unprotected sex sometimes last month and two weeks after started seeing some whitish discharges from his privates.. doesnt feel pain like in gonorrhea that comes with excruciating pain when trying to urinate.. he just feels the discharge.. I know this is an STD but anyone have an idea what it's called or possible treatments