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Flangelo12:u don't need to consume anything to go overboard.Life isore spiritual than the average young soul thinks. We are just too careless with our destiny sleep and wake at will thinking we own ourselves and have our lives to live uat the way and manner we want!!!error 409 ! Kolewerk !!dark powers control this earth and untill the young get to understand this ,change and live tomorrow -prepared and always for God, many souls will be lost our to d dark powers |
Menclothing:hmmTP fare not minding ? |
dominique:honor,I need to reopeny first account.what are the steps? Tried the email methods,but I didn't get the head pls |
IamAsiri:hello ma, what is bad will always be bad, despite your generation seem to be upturning evil for good. W all need be well cultured and mannered on in the public pls.For the fact you do not have direct contact with a person shouldn't make you mannerless and careless with words.Words are powerful you sure know that,and the way and manner you manage them depict who you truely are, whatever you have not counting . |
ahnie:the way I see food price hike , though I know north provide food ,but I expect the southern man to really focuse highly on food production too.Do you know the implication of a serious food strike if it comes from the North ?? How are you guys gonna cope ? |
ahnie:Not for now.Giys haven't even started planting yet safe for those that have storage and irrigation system here.BY THIS MONTH ENDING ,we go start.though it's not as expensive as I saw over there .10k !! South oh south .sorry, if I may ask, do you guys really farm over there ?? |
Sucre6:transport cost to those axis are quite head cutting sir.dont ever compare the north to the south when it Comes to food matters.the TP COST OF A BAG OF MAIZE KOW FROM ZUBA TO OYO STATE COSTS 5K?? So how much would be a seller's profit when hor or she delves into this ?? The insecurity on those roads and briberies of all sort for the police,road safety and soldier etc also comes to mind . |
4tomandchi:thank you very much, you took those outta my lips.whay kind of yams are this?? This would majorly serve as seedlings over here o !some shakara people won't even buy this as seedlings from you. 10pieces of stunted yams at 23k ?? Ie, #1,300 per each. I am expecting my transfer to ....anytime from now , just hope God won't take me to states as this ,safe if my income or pay from office would be tripled ,and even at that ,once you are used to getting cheap items from the North,it becomes a herculean task living else were .God no go shame me oo !MADAM AHNIE,PLS DISPLAY THE YAMS YOU BOUGHT AND LET ME KNOW THE PRICE .I need to share this withu fams so we adjust against the journey ahead . |
Kobojunkie:there are Kingdom principles to a successful marriage sir?if marriage is of this earth what about the one that INSTITUTED IT ,IS HE OF THIS EARTH TOO ?? WVEY CHALENGE OF THIS EARTH IN THE CHRISTENDOM HAS THE KINGDOM APPROACH TO SAME.one might not need to be married to make the kingdom ,but benefits acrue to been in a Godly heavens pattern kind of marriage . God has great plan for marriage , He has his intentions and purpose ,so wether it is kingdom bound or not , there are Kingdom principles to practice so as to experience peaceful, joyful ,Gods kind of Home on earth. I just don't want to be on the wrestling arena with people with atheistic view about life ,satanic doctrinal views etc.i paddle my canoe my course |
I respect the christian views of lots of my seniors here.They are sound advice and worthy of note.I quite find it a bit difficult to give sound christian doctrinal solutions to people's issues when they come online. The major reason been that most of the contributors here can't be termed christians (even when most of us tend to attend local congregations,)I really get week and wonder to see young person's make satanic contributions on public forums as solution to some ones heart cry!! and sometimes wonder how some of us were trained .thus, to wage away from bashings of all kinds ,I try talking to individuals privately (thanks to seuns private buttons).but I still chip in (rarely though )for extremely emergency issues. |
Op, you didn't do well o, even if mummy sef dey over run her shows.there are more mature ways to go about this kind of sensitive matter,her daughter ought to have been in the best position to place the issue but since she chooses to be ignorant and very un elighthened about the implication of her mother's action ..Most women can have troubles with sound reasonings when it comes to matters with Thier relatives involved (only the married will be able to largely relate with this ),they tend to be much blinded with reasoning, and go the wrong way in lots of instances.Most married women are like that, Thier bias for Thier relatives can mostimes make them act a bit "foolish/weird",they didnt really mean to want things go that way, but na the individuals involved.IT IS CALLED SELFISHNESS OF LOVE ! |
thesilentman:don't mind that weak soul, how do you go such low with insults on a public forum ??some of us no get sense of decorum both at private and public at all.By Thier fruits we shall identify them.Tje woman is not even your mother and if she is sef, she is over staying her boundaries…she's not showing some restraint in her daughters new home .She is supposed to be very mature about that.No be village marriage o!.Bros sef ought to have relocated out of that territory sefe if the marriage setting is a village to village or intercommunal joining together !! |
Bennytwin:good morning and thank you so much.i shall try some of this techniques ,sure they will do. |
ttomexy:in need of this .Contact ?? |
I have also told her, with the way he is been monitored like this at 7montjs , that means by the time he starts crawling, WE WOULD BE NEEDING TWO MOBILE POLIVW MWN (MOPOL)TO ALWAYS BE AT ALERT OVER HIM 😆 |
Tutu82:we. Are strangers here ,work transfer things ,the culture of the people sef no too match ours ,big daughter goes to school to return back eve hrs but by the time she's back. Mama is already very stressed up.i really pity my love o, I really respect women with what she's going Tru under the stables of this small general !! The boy strength too much, so we both just run shifts ,I just have to join hands with her before the small general makes his mum my hard earned wife runs mad !! I can't be running around to go look for another wife oo, I know what I went through to get this fine one. |
It can quite be tricky .His excuses ain't genuine either,would have expected him to use Sons name or even the original owner of the money .But I wanna ask a question,! WHAT IF HE IS GENUINE,I MEAN HIS INTENTIONS ARE PURE ?is it really wrong for a husband to write a receipt of landed props in his own name simply because the producer of the Said money is the wife ??LET MATURE MINDS GIVE ME A SOUND ANSWER !! were is the place of true love ,maturity ,honesty and faithfulness. Marriage requires ??I FOR ONE WIULD ASK MY SPOUSE TO PUT HER NAME ON EVERY DOCS of the family , I have no single gear over that, what about you ?? |
Tutu82:okay ma'am, it's not been easy sha , carrying your baby and singing all the church songs I know for him to sleep or even take the pap from the feeding bottle !!hmmm... Good experience and funny at the same time(considering my office )but Sha na we two do the job so I see this as an opportunity to bond, be a better husband and father too.Boy is just too hyper active ...his parents lineage are military so I am not surprised.Thank you for the response.mungode dayewa . |
Tutu82:thank you ma'am.first paragraph well understood.will try lecture madam over that .quite surprised that the kids too understand patterns and time table !!. On 2nd paragraph,we notice he eats very little at a time and this can suck intermittently.He hardly sucks for long,(I also noticed the father too does same ,my eating habit hmm..I can't sit down to eat a load at once no matter how hungry I am, I would have to stop by a little and return back to meals again). Thirdly ,his sleep is quite short , say 25-30mins max, and bro wakes up to meal.For days now he doesn't take afternoon naps, he stays wide alert , disturbing the mum to the extent she can't even have time to cook or wash(if there are no helps at home ). I lend helping hands in babysiting as I am a bit good in that area whenever I am at home and sometimes do some men's kinda cooking before going to work,He is just very active and his sleep is quite short ,these are my areas of concern.How can the mum solve this puzzles ? |
Just imagine oo!! Even if he married her over her wealth, she liked him and wanted him abi ??he didn't force himself on her .The easiest way to die slowly and abruptly is to get entangled with a strange woman, ...she will assist you on transition very quickly.men die more in silence while the women can go to the roof tops blaring abuse |
He has been granted bail, and polic asked to conclude Thier investigations under 48hrs, so he can't stay there for more than 5more hrs. Infact the magistrate asked the police to hands off the prosecution...that was a serious blow on them, else they would have messed up seun.But we all must learn to control our temper,wether high or low in the society.Slapping a uniform man on duty (may be)is a No no !, Offence not minidng ,there are ways to handle such.i even heard he was drunk...... If you can harase and slap a public officer in the glare public ,that also means your relatives and wife inclusive ain't safe with you.you really gat bad temper.GO FIX IT BEFORE IT COMES BACK TO FIX YOU !! |
bukatyne:need me to go into details please ? |
JovialJune:you don marry,??I you are not,else, there lots of temperamental ouburst out here that ain't required, other way round ...you opted out of your marriage !!na una worst case scenario be that.ñmarriage is designed to be worked out and not walked out of.Keep your wrong outburst of anger and bitterness out of marriage.Let all parties ensure they are all ready to make the thing work..abuse or no abuse.That man /woman that abused the other spouse tomorrow may eventually become a great role model after sorting out things and working to get the home front right.If all of us carry anger for head like some of una...there won't be homes to look after by now. Grow out and overcome your weaknesses gradually ,that's my language for all wanna be wedded or already IN |
Good Morning Daddies and mumies here.Our baby is 6months plus,a baby boy.My major matter ;he seldomes sleep long, his sleep is max 30minuts and he's already awake.(2) he eats a lot oo!! Thank God my spouse is a bit chubby,else this young man would have dropped down terribly, her shape and size.He sucks alot,we just concluded our EXCLUSIVE LAST MONTH,and already trying out our dark grain(the Fulani type which is the best for kids),but he hardly takes it ,one will have to bring up al the rhymes he or she learnt at pry school before small uncle sips a little amount of the pap.Abeg,what are your advice, I need to him to start sleeping like normal human beings in Africa ooo!my spouse too also need go old sleep .Had to leave one BRM for them to the other room when night vigil became too bearing on me despite I am a clergy my self.How do we get him to start taking the pap well ?? Do we start ADDING HONEY /GLUCOSE ? HOW DE REDUCE D BREAK MILK 24HRS EATING ?? |
JovialJune:aunt calm down, (I no sabi rhema sont titles CALM DOWN )would have tried the lines out for you.I will never advocate for either of the spouse to go cheating or hay wire.And I am far far against divorce of any sort , you hear me ??I am not of that school of thought.My propose is this , if you are not yet mature ,then you ain't ready to be married.if you are not through with games playing , you also are not ready to be married .women have abused the privileges givento them by the UK system and so every lady can choose to opt out of marriage even when it's what can be talked out of.i just hope you sef don marry and you are ever ready to make things work in your home ma ?or you are yet to and are already prepping your self up against the few challenges marriage poses?? |
JovialJune:I don't think that's what I painted over here ...most women want to be loose, just like men , but once it gets to the UK soil, it's mostly the women that Wana break loose , evidences are there on ground . The average man won't like such because of the implications all round on him..we have cases on ground now, where we see women want to claim "half" of men's wealth, some others over 70% ,are those also men's request or wants?the truth is that most women In Nigeria would prefer to live in UK other than Nigeria,and we all can deduce reasons to this aprat from the comfort ,the other major reason would be to exercise matrimonial freedom where "no man would be able to do me nonsense "!! |
JoeEeL: |
Our marriages are subsidized here...a lot of things we claim as right(particularly for the man) over here appears totally wrong in UK and we know the average woman like "freedom of everything"!!and once UK system favors Thier course ,what do u expect ?there's no family member to report cases of misbehaviors to, no pastor (in real sense as most hardly attend church after sometime due to wanting to meet up Bills and satisfy desires) to help settle differences, and because the average woman can be short fused ,u see explosions interms of divorce.Most women over there won't cope with the family life style we manage with over here.So no matter the level of unity , understanding the couple display here in Nigeria, it would surely be tested overtime as they try to settle there, finally, negative influence from friends and other fully settled relatives play the major role here. |
