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HealthRe: Man Dies Hours Before His Flight To The UK For His Masters Programme by eben97: 10:48am On May 21, 2023
Flangelo12:
Sure he didn't consume something?
u don't need to consume anything to go overboard.Life isore spiritual than the average young soul thinks. We are just too careless with our destiny sleep and wake at will thinking we own ourselves and have our lives to live uat the way and manner we want!!!error 409 ! Kolewerk !!dark powers control this earth and untill the young get to understand this ,change and live tomorrow -prepared and always for God, many souls will be lost our to d dark powers
FamilyRe: Original Men Clothing And Accessories Lowest Wholesale Price by eben97: 10:42am On May 21, 2023
Menclothing:
We deliver worldwide for a token
hmmTP fare not minding ?
EventsRe: Father Wipes Off His Daughter’s Makeup On Her Wedding Day (Video, Photos) by eben97: 9:28pm On May 19, 2023
dominique:
There's nothing modest about aggressively wiping off make-up from your ADULT daughter's face on her own wedding day. It's her special day, she wants to look different, leave her the hell alone! Comparing your six year old daughter to the bride is totally out of context.
honor,I need to reopeny first account.what are the steps? Tried the email methods,but I didn't get the head pls
FamilyRe: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by eben97: 6:42pm On May 19, 2023
IamAsiri:
You are calling someone a weak soul but you don't mind speaking ill of OP's MIL. And the OP exclaiming "that's harsh" did not know that his so-called outburst/insult meted out on the poor woman was harsh.
hello ma, what is bad will always be bad, despite your generation seem to be upturning evil for good. W all need be well cultured and mannered on in the public pls.For the fact you do not have direct contact with a person shouldn't make you mannerless and careless with words.Words are powerful you sure know that,and the way and manner you manage them depict who you truely are, whatever you have not counting .
BusinessRe: My Adventurous Trip To A Local Village Market In Delta State To Buy Yam Tubers. by eben97: 2:44pm On May 18, 2023
ahnie:
Yes,why not?
the way I see food price hike , though I know north provide food ,but I expect the southern man to really focuse highly on food production too.Do you know the implication of a serious food strike if it comes from the North ?? How are you guys gonna cope ?
BusinessRe: My Adventurous Trip To A Local Village Market In Delta State To Buy Yam Tubers. by eben97: 2:40pm On May 18, 2023
ahnie:
Potatoes right now are expensive down south,maybe cheaper up north.
Not for now.Giys haven't even started planting yet safe for those that have storage and irrigation system here.BY THIS MONTH ENDING ,we go start.though it's not as expensive as I saw over there .10k !! South oh south .sorry, if I may ask, do you guys really farm over there ??
BusinessRe: My Adventurous Trip To A Local Village Market In Delta State To Buy Yam Tubers. by eben97: 2:37pm On May 18, 2023
Sucre6:
Those yams are very pricy, with 10k or less you will get better yams in Mararaba orange market a market in nasarawa sharing boundaries with Abuja, that's where I buy my food items
transport cost to those axis are quite head cutting sir.dont ever compare the north to the south when it Comes to food matters.the TP COST OF A BAG OF MAIZE KOW FROM ZUBA TO OYO STATE COSTS 5K?? So how much would be a seller's profit when hor or she delves into this ?? The insecurity on those roads and briberies of all sort for the police,road safety and soldier etc also comes to mind .
BusinessRe: My Adventurous Trip To A Local Village Market In Delta State To Buy Yam Tubers. by eben97: 2:31pm On May 18, 2023
4tomandchi:
Are these cassava or yams?

Here in the North if we harvest this sizes of yams we we use them seedlings for the next farming season.
thank you very much, you took those outta my lips.whay kind of yams are this?? This would majorly serve as seedlings over here o !some shakara people won't even buy this as seedlings from you. 10pieces of stunted yams at 23k ?? Ie, #1,300 per each. I am expecting my transfer to ....anytime from now , just hope God won't take me to states as this ,safe if my income or pay from office would be tripled ,and even at that ,once you are used to getting cheap items from the North,it becomes a herculean task living else were .God no go shame me oo !MADAM AHNIE,PLS DISPLAY THE YAMS YOU BOUGHT AND LET ME KNOW THE PRICE .I need to share this withu fams so we adjust against the journey ahead .
FamilyRe: Explain This Thing To Me by eben97: 9:26pm On May 17, 2023
Kobojunkie:
No one who believes in Jesus Christ is even supposed to go around giving what you like to refer to as "Christian" advice to everyone else. Why? Because not everything has a Kingdom-of-God scope to it. For instance, in His Gospel, Jesus Christ made very clear that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God meaning that your "Christian" marriages, "godly" husband/wife, "Christian" home, etc., ideas have nothing to do with Him. In addition, when it comes to your issues in marriages you are to leave His name and mention out of it. undecided

If you are truly against the satanic and not simply biased against those of probably different denominations or whatever else, start by ridden yourself of these views which are equally antichrist. undecided
there are Kingdom principles to a successful marriage sir?if marriage is of this earth what about the one that INSTITUTED IT ,IS HE OF THIS EARTH TOO ?? WVEY CHALENGE OF THIS EARTH IN THE CHRISTENDOM HAS THE KINGDOM APPROACH TO SAME.one might not need to be married to make the kingdom ,but benefits acrue to been in a Godly heavens pattern kind of marriage . God has great plan for marriage , He has his intentions and purpose ,so wether it is kingdom bound or not , there are Kingdom principles to practice so as to experience peaceful, joyful ,Gods kind of Home on earth. I just don't want to be on the wrestling arena with people with atheistic view about life ,satanic doctrinal views etc.i paddle my canoe my course
FamilyRe: Explain This Thing To Me by eben97: 8:53pm On May 17, 2023
I respect the christian views of lots of my seniors here.They are sound advice and worthy of note.I quite find it a bit difficult to give sound christian doctrinal solutions to people's issues when they come online. The major reason been that most of the contributors here can't be termed christians (even when most of us tend to attend local congregations,)I really get week and wonder to see young person's make satanic contributions on public forums as solution to some ones heart cry!! and sometimes wonder how some of us were trained .thus, to wage away from bashings of all kinds ,I try talking to individuals privately (thanks to seuns private buttons).but I still chip in (rarely though )for extremely emergency issues.
FamilyRe: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by eben97: 8:22pm On May 17, 2023
Op, you didn't do well o, even if mummy sef dey over run her shows.there are more mature ways to go about this kind of sensitive matter,her daughter ought to have been in the best position to place the issue but since she chooses to be ignorant and very un elighthened about the implication of her mother's action ..Most women can have troubles with sound reasonings when it comes to matters with Thier relatives involved (only the married will be able to largely relate with this ),they tend to be much blinded with reasoning, and go the wrong way in lots of instances.Most married women are like that, Thier bias for Thier relatives can mostimes make them act a bit "foolish/weird",they didnt really mean to want things go that way, but na the individuals involved.IT IS CALLED SELFISHNESS OF LOVE !
FamilyRe: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by eben97: 8:12pm On May 17, 2023
thesilentman:
that's harsh!
don't mind that weak soul, how do you go such low with insults on a public forum ??some of us no get sense of decorum both at private and public at all.By Thier fruits we shall identify them.Tje woman is not even your mother and if she is sef, she is over staying her boundaries…she's not showing some restraint in her daughters new home .She is supposed to be very mature about that.No be village marriage o!.Bros sef ought to have relocated out of that territory sefe if the marriage setting is a village to village or intercommunal joining together !!
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by eben97: 9:38am On May 17, 2023
Bennytwin:
Kudos to you. Keep helping your darling wife.

Try this, whenever he seems sleepy,keep him flat on his tummy. Babies sleep a little longer on their tummy than their back.

Also,stop using a bottle to feed him pap,try and switch to a cup and spoon; measure his normal milk volume,add milk or whatever you want him to drink the pap with,then add little pap to the made mixture so that the pap is flowing,not very thick,give him with spoon. After 30mins,give him water.
Allow him to play or rest,then rock him to sleep. Babies tend to sleep more on very full stomach.
I hope this helps.
good morning and thank you so much.i shall try some of this techniques ,sure they will do.
FamilyRe: House Clearance Sales, Abuja Only. by eben97: 7:35pm On May 16, 2023
ttomexy:
A full set of original leather chair for sale
Location: Sunnyvale
Price: 200k
in need of this .Contact ??
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by eben97: 7:25pm On May 16, 2023
I have also told her, with the way he is been monitored like this at 7montjs , that means by the time he starts crawling, WE WOULD BE NEEDING TWO MOBILE POLIVW MWN (MOPOL)TO ALWAYS BE AT ALERT OVER HIM 😆
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by eben97: 7:23pm On May 16, 2023
Tutu82:
You have said it all.

When you sing all the church songs and run out add your tribal songs plus nursery rhymes from when you were in School.

Raising a child is no joke and am proud of you,mum must be too.

Is there a relative to help besides we yourself?.You sound a tad stressed especially when you said considering my office.
we. Are strangers here ,work transfer things ,the culture of the people sef no too match ours ,big daughter goes to school to return back eve hrs but by the time she's back. Mama is already very stressed up.i really pity my love o, I really respect women with what she's going Tru under the stables of this small general !! The boy strength too much, so we both just run shifts ,I just have to join hands with her before the small general makes his mum my hard earned wife runs mad !! I can't be running around to go look for another wife oo, I know what I went through to get this fine one.
FamilyRe: This Married Woman Needs Your Advice by eben97: 7:17pm On May 16, 2023
It can quite be tricky .His excuses ain't genuine either,would have expected him to use Sons name or even the original owner of the money .But I wanna ask a question,! WHAT IF HE IS GENUINE,I MEAN HIS INTENTIONS ARE PURE ?is it really wrong for a husband to write a receipt of landed props in his own name simply because the producer of the Said money is the wife ??LET MATURE MINDS GIVE ME A SOUND ANSWER !! were is the place of true love ,maturity ,honesty and faithfulness. Marriage requires ??I FOR ONE WIULD ASK MY SPOUSE TO PUT HER NAME ON EVERY DOCS of the family , I have no single gear over that, what about you ??
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by eben97: 7:05pm On May 16, 2023
Tutu82:
Yep kids understand patterns and time table and the sooner you start the sooner you can rest.

Be happy he is active that is a good thing.
Well done daddy,and you are co parenting too not “helping” as the child belongs to you both.

There really is no magic formula and the puzzle does not have a solution just a bit of tips here and there to help.
okay ma'am, it's not been easy sha , carrying your baby and singing all the church songs I know for him to sleep or even take the pap from the feeding bottle !!hmmm... Good experience and funny at the same time(considering my office )but Sha na we two do the job so I see this as an opportunity to bond, be a better husband and father too.Boy is just too hyper active ...his parents lineage are military so I am not surprised.Thank you for the response.mungode dayewa .
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by eben97: 6:00pm On May 16, 2023
Tutu82:
Good Afternoon.

Try to establish a routine before sleep time for,example a warm bath plus baby massage then story time and a cuddle.Baby will get used to it but if you do different things each time they tend to get confused.

Also after the meal do you burb till you hear gas escape?.I only ask as you said he eats plenty it can be quite uncomfortable and then he cannot sleep.

I do not know how normal human beings sleep but i can advise that you do not give your baby honey till they turn one year old.
thank you ma'am.first paragraph well understood.will try lecture madam over that .quite surprised that the kids too understand patterns and time table !!. On 2nd paragraph,we notice he eats very little at a time and this can suck intermittently.He hardly sucks for long,(I also noticed the father too does same ,my eating habit hmm..I can't sit down to eat a load at once no matter how hungry I am, I would have to stop by a little and return back to meals again). Thirdly ,his sleep is quite short , say 25-30mins max, and bro wakes up to meal.For days now he doesn't take afternoon naps, he stays wide alert , disturbing the mum to the extent she can't even have time to cook or wash(if there are no helps at home ). I lend helping hands in babysiting as I am a bit good in that area whenever I am at home and sometimes do some men's kinda cooking before going to work,He is just very active and his sleep is quite short ,these are my areas of concern.How can the mum solve this puzzles ?
CelebritiesRe: Saint Obi's Marriage Took Him Away From His Friends And Acting - Zik Zulu by eben97: 5:39pm On May 16, 2023
Just imagine oo!! Even if he married her over her wealth, she liked him and wanted him abi ??he didn't force himself on her .The easiest way to die slowly and abruptly is to get entangled with a strange woman, ...she will assist you on transition very quickly.men die more in silence while the women can go to the roof tops blaring abuse
PoliticsRe: Police Arraign Seun Kuti In Court, Seek Order To Remand Him For 21 Days by eben97: 5:04pm On May 16, 2023
He has been granted bail, and polic asked to conclude Thier investigations under 48hrs, so he can't stay there for more than 5more hrs. Infact the magistrate asked the police to hands off the prosecution...that was a serious blow on them, else they would have messed up seun.But we all must learn to control our temper,wether high or low in the society.Slapping a uniform man on duty (may be)is a No no !, Offence not minidng ,there are ways to handle such.i even heard he was drunk...... If you can harase and slap a public officer in the glare public ,that also means your relatives and wife inclusive ain't safe with you.you really gat bad temper.GO FIX IT BEFORE IT COMES BACK TO FIX YOU !!
FamilyRe: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by eben97: 11:59am On May 15, 2023
bukatyne:
Marriages are subsidised here?

😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂
need me to go into details please ?
FamilyRe: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by eben97: 11:58am On May 15, 2023
JovialJune:
Enough with the bs gaslighting and ad hominem

Women didn't abuse the privilege of any system, they left abusive marriages because they can, same way men leave too. Women didn't divorce themselves, their husbands also agreed to end their marriages.
you don marry,??I you are not,else, there lots of temperamental ouburst out here that ain't required, other way round ...you opted out of your marriage !!na una worst case scenario be that.ñmarriage is designed to be worked out and not walked out of.Keep your wrong outburst of anger and bitterness out of marriage.Let all parties ensure they are all ready to make the thing work..abuse or no abuse.That man /woman that abused the other spouse tomorrow may eventually become a great role model after sorting out things and working to get the home front right.If all of us carry anger for head like some of una...there won't be homes to look after by now. Grow out and overcome your weaknesses gradually ,that's my language for all wanna be wedded or already IN
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by eben97: 10:53am On May 15, 2023
Good Morning Daddies and mumies here.Our baby is 6months plus,a baby boy.My major matter ;he seldomes sleep long, his sleep is max 30minuts and he's already awake.(2) he eats a lot oo!! Thank God my spouse is a bit chubby,else this young man would have dropped down terribly, her shape and size.He sucks alot,we just concluded our EXCLUSIVE LAST MONTH,and already trying out our dark grain(the Fulani type which is the best for kids),but he hardly takes it ,one will have to bring up al the rhymes he or she learnt at pry school before small uncle sips a little amount of the pap.Abeg,what are your advice, I need to him to start sleeping like normal human beings in Africa ooo!my spouse too also need go old sleep .Had to leave one BRM for them to the other room when night vigil became too bearing on me despite I am a clergy my self.How do we get him to start taking the pap well ?? Do we start ADDING HONEY /GLUCOSE ? HOW DE REDUCE D BREAK MILK 24HRS EATING ??
FamilyRe: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by eben97: 10:26am On May 15, 2023
JovialJune:
Oh so you want Nigerian women to keep taking nonsense from men as it use to be in Nigeria abi?

Nigerian men exercise marriage freedom with their cheating and the rest right here in Nigeria, then take same freedom outside, why is it that you all get pained when Nigerian women also exercise same marriage freedom in a country where equality is the watch word? You want women to remain slaves instead of being free right?

The Nigerian system allows the men chase their wives out with nothing after divorce after building a household for years, nobody bats an eyelid, all of you see it as normal and not being evil right?, western world recognise that as far as the marriage is legal and binding, whatever is attained in the marriage belongs to the husband and wife, and will be shared equally or unequally as the case may be, but in your head the right thing is to leave the wife high and dry abi? that to you is being fair, just and sane? You think it's only men that get to part ways with half or more of their money? No woman has being in this situation before and ongoing?

The way you guys regurgitate same bile as if enlightened makes one see you all as below par, sincerely.
aunt calm down, (I no sabi rhema sont titles CALM DOWN )would have tried the lines out for you.I will never advocate for either of the spouse to go cheating or hay wire.And I am far far against divorce of any sort , you hear me ??I am not of that school of thought.My propose is this , if you are not yet mature ,then you ain't ready to be married.if you are not through with games playing , you also are not ready to be married .women have abused the privileges givento them by the UK system and so every lady can choose to opt out of marriage even when it's what can be talked out of.i just hope you sef don marry and you are ever ready to make things work in your home ma ?or you are yet to and are already prepping your self up against the few challenges marriage poses??
FamilyRe: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by eben97: 9:49am On May 15, 2023
JovialJune:
Again, why are you making it seem like divorces are women's fault?
I don't think that's what I painted over here ...most women want to be loose, just like men , but once it gets to the UK soil, it's mostly the women that Wana break loose , evidences are there on ground . The average man won't like such because of the implications all round on him..we have cases on ground now, where we see women want to claim "half" of men's wealth, some others over 70% ,are those also men's request or wants?the truth is that most women In Nigeria would prefer to live in UK other than Nigeria,and we all can deduce reasons to this aprat from the comfort ,the other major reason would be to exercise matrimonial freedom where "no man would be able to do me nonsense "!!
Christianity EtcRe: Does Your Church Still Preach About Hell Fire, Holy Living, Rapture, Eternity? by eben97: 9:08am On May 15, 2023
JoeEeL:
[b]All what uve wrote here, with all due respect, is ... some sense and not much sense.

Number 1, If you say there is attack on TIV in Nassarawa state, trying to pursue them to Benue state back, then why are there attacks in Benue state too?

Number 2, If you think there is attack focusing on TIV, then why are there attacks in all parts of the country?you dont need to respect me , but I do ... You. I am not from any part of that section of the country, I reserve my investigations, observation and reality on ground since you don't even belong to that area neither understand dynamics of Nigeria history, your hate won't also help you see what's on ground and be able to point out reality .U even don't know who you talking with in the first place, and your "Igbo kanu matter you brought here indicated who you truly are .I am not a bigot but stand for a truely peaceful and progressive Nigeria...plas Carey your bitterness and annger out of my territory, kanus matter is quite different from what we have here in d middle belt .I ow u no further explanation since u don't even know what's truely happening here

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Number 3, so you don't know TIV are indigenous to not only Benue, but also Nassarawa and Taraba? You nigerians are quite disgraceful, I have to be blunt here. Why do u people tend to always rely on the states created by Nigeria to form opinion about people and where they come from and their indigenous lands? How can you trust such a fulani-controlled crooked country like Nigeria? No wonder some of you believe Igbos are indigenous to only 5 states or that Yorubas are only sectioned to South West.

Number 4, and finally, when they are done with the TIV, they are coming for you! It won't be long that you people will understand what Nnamdi Kanu was calling for and many of you mocked him but when the repercussion boomerangs, it would by then be too late!
FamilyRe: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by eben97: 10:27pm On May 14, 2023
Our marriages are subsidized here...a lot of things we claim as right(particularly for the man) over here appears totally wrong in UK and we know the average woman like "freedom of everything"!!and once UK system favors Thier course ,what do u expect ?there's no family member to report cases of misbehaviors to, no pastor (in real sense as most hardly attend church after sometime due to wanting to meet up Bills and satisfy desires) to help settle differences, and because the average woman can be short fused ,u see explosions interms of divorce.Most women over there won't cope with the family life style we manage with over here.So no matter the level of unity , understanding the couple display here in Nigeria, it would surely be tested overtime as they try to settle there, finally, negative influence from friends and other fully settled relatives play the major role here.

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