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Travel / Re: I'm Having Issues On The Nigeria Immigration Website by ebijimi7(m): 9:42am On May 01
confidant:
It also happened to me.
Go to a photo studio. Tell them you’re using it for immigration. Use the soft copy sent to you from the photo studio to upload. If it still doesn’t go, leave it and try again at some other interval.
Mine finally went through.
I also think the immigration officials would prefer you coming to their office..
Thank you brother but you know I have to start the processing and get to a stage before going to immigration office
Travel / I'm Having Issues On The Nigeria Immigration Website by ebijimi7(m): 8:09pm On Apr 30
Good day guys please I'm having serious issues trying to renew my passport although applied for my passport in the year 2016, and now it has expired but I've been having issues trying to renew my passport each time I punch in my passport ID it shows invalid passport I'd bow I'm stucked between trying again or registering afresh
Please help me guys
Travel / Re: Lagos To Demolish Landmark Beach Resort For Coastal Road by ebijimi7(m): 11:18am On Apr 06
Tearing down a tourist destination in lagos is not a good idea at all what happened to other beaches
Celebrities / Re: EFCC Arrests Bobrisky For Naira Abuse by ebijimi7(m): 9:01am On Apr 04
Why put her in a female cell she has shim truly left the brotherhood to sisterhood, the person above me is mentally deranged

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Travel / Re: Documents Required To Travel To Kenya by ebijimi7(m): 4:22pm On Jan 16
immortalcrown:
1.
Yellow Fever vaccination card.

2.
Letter of invitation from your host in Kenya (purpose of travelling). You will present this before you can get visa.

3.
Visa

4.
Passport.


That's all.
Thank you very much please do you have idea where I can get yellow fever vaccination card?
I'm in lagos
Travel / Documents Required To Travel To Kenya by ebijimi7(m): 3:54pm On Jan 16
Good day guys, please I met the love of my life online which happen to be a kenyan and she has agreed to sponsor my visa and flight she asked me to get all the documents required ready so I can start processing to meet her up in Kenya please guys I need your help on what to do and documents to get aside International passport
Family / Re: Should I Be More Selfish? by ebijimi7(m): 3:33pm On Dec 30, 2023
I'm in same position as you my brother what I did was source for more income stream don't leave your brother stranded bro if your brother can be grateful the only way he can pay you back is by becoming successful and also assisting you too when he finally gets a job and talking about assist he should be more interested in your kids success too
Romance / Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ebijimi7(m): 12:41pm On Nov 23, 2023
frank317:
I lost my mum in 2010 to terminal illness... Still wish she is around to see my kids.

I also lost the girl i intended to marry in 2013... This was more tragic cause she died in a car accident few hours after we apoke on the phone and i told her i will call back. I loved her but she went just like the wind. Married now and love my wife... I still miss her smile.
Hmmmmmmmmm
we have similar experience I lost my mum 2022 lost my fiancee October 2023 I'm still yet to get over it it feels so lonely and disheartening I'm still finding it difficult to put myself together.

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Romance / Re: I Feel My Life Is Crumbling by ebijimi7(m): 9:58pm On Nov 22, 2023
vanbonattel:


Did I expect anything different from you blackmailing me emotionally? I didn't expect anything better.

Such cannot happen to me because am not as careless as you. If the parents didn't want you, you should have had enough sense to leave the poor confused girl alone.
oh! It's now me blackmailing you, do you remember thear you mentioned that I killed my fiancee?
I don't blame you, they said you don't know how painful death of a loved one can be until it happened to you but I know one day you would surely experience it, that even if you actually do love the person, do you know how much I spent when my mum was in the hospital before she died ?
In which exactly a year after my fiancee died if I pray this should happen to you it would look like I'm cursing you but I'm so sure it would get to your turn and I pray it happens within a short interval just like mine too, do you know the pain of loosing 2 of the most important people in your life in a short period of time?

Fine the mother might not want me ofcourse I don't have anything to do with the mother and at no point in time did I asked her to disobey her mother, please be guided and use your head and stop saying things from your own head and feel you are right because you know nothing here and you speak like a fool too because you just displayed your level of foolishness

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Romance / Re: I Feel My Life Is Crumbling by ebijimi7(m): 6:06pm On Nov 22, 2023
annford:


can i have your number, please?


Send me a direct message to my mail
Romance / Re: I Feel My Life Is Crumbling by ebijimi7(m): 6:05pm On Nov 22, 2023
BaEnki:
Sorry for your loss my dear friend. It’s a pain you have to leave with forever, this kind of pain doesn’t go away to be honest with you, I’ve experienced it & still experiencing it.

May God heal you with a worthy replacement for them all.
thank you brother I hope I find peace soon
Romance / Re: I Feel My Life Is Crumbling by ebijimi7(m): 6:03pm On Nov 22, 2023
vanbonattel:


A broke guy told you he took the girl to hospital and it didn't improve, and you still can't decipher that he most probably took her to a quack?

This generation doesn't use their brains.

Such a pity.
you guys will just sit at the comfort of your home and spit rubbish I pray you experience the same pain I experience so that you too can spend on your money on medical bills and know how it feels like if after spending I go broke and she bounce back i woukd be happy but here I am after spending and the family spending theirs too we spend over 5 million naira to revive her and she wasn't responding to treatment and you are there sating rubbish may this occurrence happen to you too. You said I took her to quack do you know it cost 50k for bed space in that hospital per day? Go and do research about the hospital called awesome grace and come back here to continue talking your trash

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Romance / I Feel My Life Is Crumbling by ebijimi7(m): 11:42am On Nov 22, 2023
Good morning guys

I'm tired of this life I'm living in the last few years I've actually had to battle with depression, I'm a guy who just did his 30th birthday few months ago and it's really making me feel bad I'm in my 30s no wife no child, now let me tell you what has been happening in my life.

I stayed in my family house with my mum until I clocked 27 years so I got my apartment although I had a building project of 3 bedrooms flat and 3 unit of room and parlour self contained and 2 shops in front which I was actually building for my mum so she can enjoy her privacy, my plan was to surprise my mum on her 60th birthday with the said house but my mum died at the age of 57 which is september 2022 after spending all the money i had on her hospital bills and took loans judt for her to be fine,I'm still not over it yet and I now had a supportive girlfriend who was with me and my sister in the hospital in 2022 and when my mum died she was beside me she cared for me and doesn't want me to think about what happened at times when I'm down thinking about my life she would show up and tell me baby let's step out I don't like you in this mood she was actually helping me to get over my mums death,

then early this year my girlfriend and I got a shop for her so she can start making money for herself too so we were cool everything was going well until she feel sick in June and at this moment I was just pulling myself together with her help now she is sick I started getting scared because I remember how my mums sickness started I tried not to cry as a man but I couldn't hold back the tears when we were in hospital she would held my hands and tell me baby don't worry I would be fine please stop crying,

at times I hide myself to cry because I don't want her to see me at a point in time she wasn't responding to medical treatment and this is the same girl I've engaged only to do necessary things next year so she can move in with me and we start living as a couple later on after going to churches and seeking spiritual assistance every where we were told she stepped on poison and we need to act fast me I'm a yoruba man that was born and brought up in a white garment church and my fiancee was an igbo girl and a deeper life church goer which she later stopped going because that was her mums church, after everything I told the mother that can we take her to my church so that she can be fine because d

I'm not comfortable with the fact that she kept crying she is feeling pains all over her body but the mother didn't listen to me so I approached the shepherd if there is anything that can be done if she's not brought to church?

The shepherd said its only when there is physical contact with her that he can help her be better again.

because they projected needle in her body and the whole thing started from where we went to get shop for her, so after talking to the shepherd, he said I should tell the mother that he would come to the house to do prayer and spiritual work in that house they are staying that even the house is haunted too, apart from the shop so after relating this to the mother she refused,

I understand you can force your believ on people but atleast let's save the life of my wife to be, at a point in time my fiancee started hiding to call me, She kept telling me that I should please come and take her away and she wants to come be with me that she doesn't like the way her matter is being handled by the family.

After the mother refuse to allow us come to the house to pray for her, I took some things to her to use bath after spending so much money the mother seized it from her and ask her not to use it because of where it was coming from, she couldn't because her mum has been the one bathing for her and helping her because the pain was intense she couldn't walk, everytime I think about the pain I would almost run mad,

the last time I saw her I went to her house because ofcourse I used to go and see her every weekend and go with provisions at a point too I was asked to stop bringing anything for her, I felt bad but I never mind my own was just for her to be fine so on that day I went to her house I never knew that would be the last day I would be seeing her, then she looked at me and smile and asked me why do I love her?


I told her don't worry get better I would tell you why then she smiled at me and looked into my eye and said babe you would leave me

I told her never I wasn't going to do that because when I was down you were the only one I'm seeing why would I run away when you need me too,

I told her not to worry that she would be fine then she asked me to help her get up which I did then she hugged me thrice and continued non stop then I asked her baby are you OK?

She smiled and hugged me again.
So it was time to leave then I told her I was going she said when I get home I should call and this was on a Saturday, so I got home and called no response, then on Sunday I called she picked but I can feel the pain in her voice she couldn't talk for long then on Monday night she died,

my instinct kept telling something is not right, so I called the mother she told me my fiancee was asleep I said OK I would call the next day, then her friend from Ghana called me and was crying on phone so I asked what was wrong she said nothing that she eas just checking up on me I said OK and i asked if she has spoken to my fiancee she said yes so i told her to be fine I ended the call but I was restless as I was bothered what was going on,

then on Tuesday around 6:20 am my fiancées elder sister text me that my fiancee is dead that message dis organised everything in me, instantly had uncontrollable tears rolling out of my eyes even as I type this I still find myself crying she was suppose to celebrate her 27th birthday October 12 which in same month I celebrated my 30th but through out the month of October till this moment I'm still filled with pains and tears.

every day I wake up I cry because its not been easy on me at times I feel like just ending it all she was the only woman that has gone extra mile for me to see me happy I can't even move on.

my life is shattered I'm broken hearted I cry everyday and I find it difficult to forgive myself for not taking her away when she wants me to and I felt I've betrayed her and neglected her when she wanted me,

I had sleepless nights because of her move from hospital to hospital in the middle of the night went broke again I've really suffered and I hope I find peace soon cry
Romance / Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by ebijimi7(m): 9:55am On Sep 07, 2023
talk2hb1:

So You Can’t Cope with that?
Is either you let her lie or you accept the bitter truth.

Their past does matter because they will judge you by their past, which is unfortunate!
But their is a common ground, if you still wants to keep her. At least you have upper hands now, and you can use it to your advantage.bro she is very supportive
Negotiate on your own terms if she will agree to them, I just believe you are better off.
If I am to negotiate these will be my terms:
1)No Simping, if their was before no more
2) bring something more tangible to the table beyond your vjay and b**bs
3) ….

Romance / She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by ebijimi7(m): 7:57am On Sep 07, 2023
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed

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Romance / Re: I Am Stupid by ebijimi7(m): 4:07pm On Jul 26, 2023
Anny69:
Agreed, you're stupid. angry
lol calm down and give me an advice
Romance / Re: I Am Stupid by ebijimi7(m): 3:56pm On Jul 26, 2023
Romance / I Am Stupid by ebijimi7(m): 3:52pm On Jul 26, 2023
Good day guys
I made the worst mistake of my life and I think it's affecting me now
I have a girlfriend I dated for 4 years before we had issue she was 22 years and I was 25 so she doesn't listen to me she kept communicating with her ex although it got me angry and I broke up with her while her friend got married to that her ex she begged me to come back I refused until 2 years after I decided to listen to her then I found out she had dated many guys close to 10 guys why I was with just 1 girl until I started having issues with her so I decided to question her because I disvirgined her and she doesn't like a protected sex after interrogation I discovered she had 1 abortion and I try to man up and accept the fact that it cannot be changed so once in awhile it gets into my head but the one that got into my head recently I collected her phone to help her repair it then that was how I came across the chat with one of her ex that got her pregnant all the nude they shared how they zucked each other and how she went ahead to abort the baby and she was still asking the guy if he wanted the baby and how the baby would have been a year old although she said she no longer communicate with the ex and I discovered she has blocked him and was telling the guy to stay clear that she is married now.
This got me angry and furious although she told me she had abortion but not full information of what happened then I called her to challenge her then she said I'm always using her past to hurt her because I kept saying it and the mother was there and she heard everything and the mother got angry that I disappointed her because she wasn't expecting such from me the mother never knew she did abortion until the convo I had with her then the mother was mad at me that she never expected such from me and the mother is a churchy type of person so she got angry ad said if not for my mother that died she would have blocked me from calling she and her daughter I felt bad that I messed up everything and tht ishoud not have said what I said and she said I should return her daughter's phone and everything belonging to her daughter including her things in my place and since that yesterday I've been begging the mother and it's now looking like she doesn't want me to talk to her daughter any more and I plan to marry her very soon I'm 29 and I don't know where to start from I have been down because I love the girl she made a statement that I felt bad for she said why does nobody loves me I felt broken it's been 24 hours now I've not heard from my gf im sticker in between moving on or wait if anything can be done......

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Family / Re: A Friend Of Mine Denied His Mother In Front Of His Friends Cause Of Shame by ebijimi7(m): 11:03am On Jun 21, 2023
Freshtruth:
I Have this friend whose mother sell roasted corn and bolle(roasted plantain) the mother called me and narrated what happen this is own son pretended not to know her because he is with a group of girls and guys that day when the car he enter with his friends stop buy to buy roasted corn. She saw her son inside the car and she was like 'kelvin wetin u dey inside person motor' the young man was shy and had to deny that he is not the one I confronted him. Continue..
taht boy is mad his is even better the mother was selling corn my own mum was a cripple and also sells soft drink she raised us and I never denied her until her last breath on earth I wish I can still have her back nothing on earth will make me deny my mum nothing she was a good mother

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Business / Re: Seeking Financial Assistance To Fund Forex Account by ebijimi7(m): 1:39am On May 23, 2023
ReneAsia:
Dear Forum Members,

I am writing to humbly request your support and financial assistance to fulfill my aspiration of funding my Forex trading account. I believe that with your generosity, I can embark on a path towards financial independence and success.
Let me provide some background information about myself and why I am seeking your help. My name is Irene, and for quite some time, I have been deeply passionate about the world of foreign exchange trading. I have diligently studied the intricate dynamics of the Forex market, honed my skills through extensive research, and invested countless hours in acquiring the necessary knowledge and expertise. Despite my dedication, I have found it challenging to gather the funds required to start trading in the Forex market. Due to personal circumstances and financial constraints, I am unable to allocate the necessary capital to open an account and begin my journey as a Forex trader.
This is where your support can make a significant difference. By providing financial assistance, you have the opportunity to empower an ambitious individual like myself to pursue their dreams and potentially achieve financial stability. I genuinely believe that Forex trading can be a life-changing opportunity for me, and I am committed to putting in the hard work and effort required to succeed.
I understand that financial assistance is a substantial request, and I want to assure you that I do not take it lightly.
I am open to any suggestions or feedback you may have regarding the funding process. If you have concerns or questions, please do not hesitate to reach out to me, and I will gladly address them.
I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to the entire Forum for considering my request and for the support you provide to individuals like me who are striving to improve their financial circumstances. Your kindness and generosity can help transform a mere aspiration into a tangible reality.
Thank you for taking the time to read my plea. I look forward to any assistance or guidance you can provide. Together, we can create opportunities and make a positive impact on each other's lives.
My CR number with Deriv broker is CR2814835.
With utmost gratitude,
Renny.
Oga go and get a prop firm account
Religion / Re: I Cautioned My Pastor To Stop Mounting Marriage Pressure On Today by ebijimi7(m): 11:11am On May 19, 2023
Yours is better my own pastor I'd telling me the girl I'm currently dating is not my wife thou she has her own flaw but girl could go out of her way to make sure I'm fine na him person say make I leave her
Politics / Re: Rotimi Victor Rhodes-vivour Foundation Endorses Sanwo-Olu For A Second Term by ebijimi7(m): 9:12am On Mar 03, 2023
This cat fish account that was created in less than 24 hours
Family / Re: I Eventually Got My Mum A Car Gift On Valentine's Day by ebijimi7(m): 9:27pm On Feb 17, 2023
Congratulations mama I wish my mum was alive I built her a 3 bedroom apartment to mark her 60th birthday which is in 3 years time but she died last year September she couldn't even live in her house now she is lying 6 feet below in that house I cry anytime I thought of it because she single handedly raised me and my sister and my dad was no where to be found now after her death he is coming close to us knowing well that we built for our mum
Romance / Re: I Would Be 29 By October And I'm Loosing My Mind by ebijimi7(m): 10:19pm On May 30, 2022
Juliusmomoh2:


how did you pay ? . I got declined anytime I want to pay
due to cbn policy your daily limit is $10 anything above that just get someone out of Nigeria to pay for you or you use paypal
Romance / Re: I Would Be 29 By October And I'm Loosing My Mind by ebijimi7(m): 9:26pm On May 30, 2022
JeffSA:
The easiest way to decrease your chances of making it in life is increasing your responsibility when your financial strength hasn't increase.

The same girl will start complaining when you can't cater for your immediate family.
No go kill yourself with too burden cos you are still very young and once you get married.

U will start having kids immediately cos the society will pressure you into doing that when they will start asking if your wife is okay and why she is not pregnant yet.

The formula is decrease your liability and invest in assets. Building a house now when you don't have any saving or good source
Of income for me is not a wise decision cos will never sale that property if thing goes really bad.

Self development by Saving up for business or learning a course with that money would have been the best thing to do because you can easily build that house within a year if you have good source of income.

Now the house is not finished, all the money you would have use for self development tied up there and no money to continue and you are thinking of getting married.

Even though you said you got three years left to finish the house, that money would have been channel in a better way to help you grow financially and build a good house in a short period of time.
I'm learning a skill and I'm no just idle I'm also saving to start affiliate marketing
Romance / Re: I Would Be 29 By October And I'm Loosing My Mind by ebijimi7(m): 9:21pm On May 30, 2022
henryligit:
You can still pick up as a man but first you have to conquer yourself
I was feeling depressed earlier this year
Just like you..but all thanks to qnet

So if you can work here in Lagos
Heat me on 07066198170
Or if you Know any of your friend that is working in quest international company you can still call that person for help

bro are you on WhatsApp?
Romance / Re: I Would Be 29 By October And I'm Loosing My Mind by ebijimi7(m): 5:00am On May 30, 2022
otipoju:
Take this advise as one from a big brother.

Take it very easy. Dont rush into marriage when you are not ready. You are 28 now. Ill advise you to wait till you are 34 to 35. Sort out yourself first. If the girl wants to leave PLEASE let her leave unless she is coming to add serious value to you.

Sort out your mum first and go learn a skill that will earn you much money to ADEQUATELY cater for your family when you start having kids.

Are you still interested in the networking course?
Thanks bro currently taking a cyber security course on udemy

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Programming / Re: My Experience Learning Cyber Security by ebijimi7(m): 4:04am On May 30, 2022
uche393:
virtual machines slows PC's, but I saw a video where Khali Linux apps were installed on a win10/11 PC. that will be much better. I Will be buying a desktop i7 16gbram 250ssd desktop soon.
Windows are not really good for the job because they are vulnerable
Romance / I Would Be 29 By October And I'm Loosing My Mind by ebijimi7(m): 3:57am On May 30, 2022
Good day guys, I've been on this forum for a while now and I've learnt a lot from you guys via threads here on nairaland.
To cut the story short and not bore you, I'm a 28 year old guy and will be 29 by October knowing that I've finally grown to be an adult is really getting me frustrated and depressed because of a lot of responsibilities that comes with it,
Although I've been a hustler from a very tender age (16) I had an irresponsible father who doesn't care about me and my sibling instead of him to take care of us with the money he made he would rather spend that money on woman. Leaving my sibling and mum to starve.
My dad had only one chance to turn my life around when I needed him most, he refuse to help me, because I went for a scholarship exam when I was in school and I was among the lucky 10 that was picked and I was offered to come and learn networking for a token fee of #50,000 naira then instead of the normal 450k but my dad refuse to pay telling me he doesn't have money, I cried and begged him to please help me my dad kept saying he doesn't have money and this happened immediately after I finished my ssce exam then, now my dad said he doesn't have money but that year he abandoned me and my mum and sibling at my grand mother's house because my grandma built her own house, for years we didn't hear from him or get to see him.
My mum would call and beg him for money for food he would curse her , later we found out he was living with another woman and he got another apartment for 300k and this same man said ge doesn't have money to sponsor me for a tech skill I wanted to acquire. So when my dad was not ready to help I had to seek for a job to take care of my mum and sibling because my mum business went down and we were not having anything to eat, so I got a factory job I would work from 7am to 7pm even with that machine almost chopped off my index finger I still had to go to work just for my family to eat my mum kept crying and calling my dad, he ignored us and for God so good he opened a way for me and got a better job offer, I gain admission in yabatech I wanted to pay 75k for school fee I had 50k my mum begged my dad to borrow me 25k that I would refund it, my dad shouted at my mum that he doesn't have anything to give to me if he doesn't pay his rent first[b](omo I regretted coming to earth through that man)[/b].
To cut the long story short, I am getting depressed because I'm still staying in my granny's house and I want to leave but I'm currently building for my mum and I want to build mine too and get married but the pressure is much because I feel I'm running out of time and my girlfriend is on my neck that we should get married (although she has been very supportive) but I felt I don't have time on my side again because now I need to rent an apartment and also finish the house I'm building for my mum but I'm not earning much and all these on a mere salary of 60k I'm really frustrated and if I should get an apartment while building its going to slow down the progress of the building and I really want to gift this to my mum for her 60th birthday which is in 3 years time (that woman deserve to be happy I love her so much) and I also needed to get married and start having my children adult hood is not easy
Please I need you guys advice as I'm getting really frustrated.

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Programming / Re: Job Description For A Cybersecurity Analyst by ebijimi7(m): 10:06am On May 25, 2022
I'm currently taking a cyber security course...
I'm following
Music/Radio / Re: Which Of Dagrin's Songs Do You Like Most? by ebijimi7(m): 4:34pm On Apr 23, 2022
Most of you didn't know Dagrin had a younger brother that's currently hot go and watch out for Trodd

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