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Ororocelemi:
You see she is getting pressured that her friends within the age range are getting married, pls run away from her. I had similar toxic gal some years back, she want use pregnancy hold me and always going out unnecessarily.
If you are not the outting type don't date any girl that likes "we outside" kind of life it's a recipe for disaster and for no reason should she complain about your blood sister buying food stuffs for you abi she dey mad?

Stand your ground now and quarrel with her seriously, let her know she must be under you and abide by your rules.

Before thinking of marriage stay with her in the same room for at least 3 months, then you can decide if she will be a wife for you or not.

Good luck bro

Fiscus105:
You urself not ready for marriage yet, you are still a mummy pet going by one sided information you give o, you want to marry a lady, yet the lady not mature and wise enough to stock food at home, but your sister, which wife will accept that oga? Who knows so many ways you are being acting like Mumu, which making her behave like lunatic too.

And most importantly, because of your being too soft to handle a woman, it seems she has taken control of the leadership at home.

illicit:
Let her buy the food stuff, are u a baby?

Why does your sister have to buy such for u? She is right on that, when u guys marry your sister will keep interfering in your house because you lost your mum and she is looking out for you...

Not every woman is comfortable with that, especially this your kind of girl, make she no go beat your sister one day, na you go avoid such

Remember that ur sister is a woman too and all they want is to control u,now they are competing for who get ur mumu button pass

Ur wife suppose get am pass ur sister, let her buy food for her husband...

Set limits

On the other ones, I no get say but try sort this one

illicit:
Let her buy the food stuff, are u a baby?

Why does your sister have to buy such for u? She is right on that, when u guys marry your sister will keep interfering in your house because you lost your mum and she is looking out for you...

Not every woman is comfortable with that, especially this your kind of girl, make she no go beat your sister one day, na you go avoid such

Remember that ur sister is a woman too and all they want is to control u,now they are competing for who get ur mumu button pass

Ur wife suppose get am pass ur sister, let her buy food for her husband...

Set limits
No bro my sister is not controlling me I was single for a year plus after I lost my fiancee to death in 2022 so since then I have no woman in my life my sister has Bern the one helping me get food items I cook at home and sometimes she woukd cook and ask me to come and carry it home and keep in my freezer so ice been used to it but she coming in now to feel she can just disconnect us is never going to be easy and also we are just 2 my mum gave birth to bo father no mother no family members trying to help so we just look out for each other.

On the other ones, I no get say but try sort this one

Oluromantic:
Is she employed? Does she have a job? It is not compulsory that its the guy who must initiate going out, she can too.

She must be really young. Her controversial nature especially to your sister whether your sister is at fault or not already spells that she's not ready to be a wife material let alone for marriage so that should guide your decision about whether you will marry her or not.
Even her dad knowing the kind of daughter he has he keeps telling me to be patient with her

BTW who tell you say 7 months don ripe to say na person weh u wan marry be this. See don't let women push you to what you're not ready for. They will always want it fast but don't be cajoled. You need more than 7 months to know many things she's keeping from you character-wise. Good luck!

Sirchiboy:
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How old are you?

NeeKlaus:
If she has all these sterling qualities that you mentioned and ticks all the boxes for a good, feminine woman, then what is your problem?

As long as you are certain she didn't rack up all those body counts through a lascivious lifestyle (hookup and the likes), then I don't understand what your grouse is.

Good qualities trump whatever past she had, as long as the past wasn't intentionally reckless. She was just a victim of her affections.

Just ascertain if she still has any connections with those Exes (because of Okafor's Law). Tell her to cut off ALL her Exes and when you are sure she has done that, move on with your relationship and don't lose a good woman.


There's nothing in the streets, I tell you...

Olamila:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/8-things-women-do-when-they-are-in-love/

confidant:
It also happened to me.
Go to a photo studio. Tell them you’re using it for immigration. Use the soft copy sent to you from the photo studio to upload. If it still doesn’t go, leave it and try again at some other interval.
Mine finally went through.
I also think the immigration officials would prefer you coming to their office..

immortalcrown:
1.
Yellow Fever vaccination card.

2.
Letter of invitation from your host in Kenya (purpose of travelling). You will present this before you can get visa.

3.
Visa

4.
Passport.


That's all.

frank317:
I lost my mum in 2010 to terminal illness... Still wish she is around to see my kids.

I also lost the girl i intended to marry in 2013... This was more tragic cause she died in a car accident few hours after we apoke on the phone and i told her i will call back. I loved her but she went just like the wind. Married now and love my wife... I still miss her smile.
Hmmmmmmmmm

vanbonattel:
Did I expect anything different from you blackmailing me emotionally? I didn't expect anything better.

Such cannot happen to me because am not as careless as you. If the parents didn't want you, you should have had enough sense to leave the poor confused girl alone.

annford:
can i have your number, please?

BaEnki:
Sorry for your loss my dear friend. It’s a pain you have to leave with forever, this kind of pain doesn’t go away to be honest with you, I’ve experienced it & still experiencing it.

May God heal you with a worthy replacement for them all.

vanbonattel:
A broke guy told you he took the girl to hospital and it didn't improve, and you still can't decipher that he most probably took her to a quack?

This generation doesn't use their brains.

Such a pity.

talk2hb1:
So You Can’t Cope with that?
Is either you let her lie or you accept the bitter truth.

Their past does matter because they will judge you by their past, which is unfortunate!
But their is a common ground, if you still wants to keep her. At least you have upper hands now, and you can use it to your advantage.bro she is very supportive
Negotiate on your own terms if she will agree to them, I just believe you are better off.
If I am to negotiate these will be my terms:
1)No Simping, if their was before no more
2) bring something more tangible to the table beyond your vjay and b**bs
3) ….

Anny69:
Agreed, you're stupid.