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Programming / Re: Job Description For A Cybersecurity Analyst by ebijimi7(m): 10:06am On May 25, 2022
I'm currently taking a cyber security course...
I'm following
Music/Radio / Re: Which Of Dagrin's Songs Do You Like Most? by ebijimi7(m): 4:34pm On Apr 23, 2022
Most of you didn't know Dagrin had a younger brother that's currently hot go and watch out for Trodd
Programming / Re: Fellowship At The Bulb: What Is It About & join the Software Engineering Program by ebijimi7(m): 2:38pm On Apr 02, 2022
I'd like to apply for the data science course too but I just have only nd and I didn't go for nysc can I still be admitted?
Romance / Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by ebijimi7(m): 3:56am On Mar 27, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
this write-up is not love. You are looking for who to dominate and control.
as a man if I don't dominate and control my woman haven't o lost it as a man?
Oh I should allow a woman toss me around?
Come of it man it doesn't work that way even bible said it woman respect your husband and husband love your wife .
So you have the right to see it the other way, it doesn't affect me
Crime / Re: Gunmen Kidnap Corps Members, Pregnant Woman In Kogi, Demand ₦60m Ransom by ebijimi7(m): 3:18am On Mar 26, 2022
The yoruba Muslim are the lowest and foolish set of humans I've know all my life I'm a yoruba man also but I never supported buhari right from time but the ones that supported when I asked them a question that why did they support buhari they gave lame and stupid reason most of them said because he was a Muslim can you imagine how dumb this people are
ZombieTERROR:
undecided

we never had it this bad

what yoruba Muslims saw in Buhari is what I can never understand.. was it jazz or just hate for the South South. i shudder

For them to be promoting another old Londoner in Tinubu shows clearly that this is not ordinary.

Believe me, they are not having it easy just like the rest of us.. no light.. ASUU strike.. massive unemployment.. inflation.. etc
then why suffer yourself to spite others
majority of the people supportive Buhari on this forum are yoruba Muslims not even northerners..

what's exactly is going on?..

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Romance / Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by ebijimi7(m): 3:10am On Mar 26, 2022
TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,
brother let me tell you the story of my life..
You see ehn that angel you know and can predict is better than the one you are about to meet.
My ex was a sturbon girl and I broke up with her just because she doesn't listen to me I felt I would get someone better... yes of course I did I got someone but guess what,
She pretended for the first 9 months I was boasting I have seen someone better than my ex and my ex was crying that she wants me back that she would do what ever I wanted I told her no way I've gotten someone better than her.
Brother immidiately we dated for a year I started seeing strange attitude which my ex never had at first I thought I could cope that nobody was perfect but the more I stay with her the more I'm loosing my mind.
1.She doesn't appreciate any thing you do for her she feels it's her entitlement
2. She doesn't trust me
3. She talk down on me
4. She was beginning to take over the masculine responsibility and making me her wife (bro like she was commanding me to do this and that)
5. If she wants something it's either I get it for her or she fight me
6. If I borrow money from her she would insult me with it
7. She doesn't vibe with me
8. She is so serious and I play alot
9 . When I was with my ex I wasn't secretive but with her I became extremely secretive because she would discourage you on any plan you had
10. She started dragging position with my first and second love(mum and sister) thou I immediately let her know where she belong
11. She carry Christianity for head but her heart is black

I became scared and got so uncomfortable around her .
I started telling her I'm not being treated with love I know how much I was loved from where I was coming from
So I met my ex since she wanted me back just like I wanted her we both broke up with who we were with and few months into the relationship I felt loved again and was spoilt with gifts because when I was with her before we broke up I took care of her but she has this appreciating spirit in her like if you can break your back for my happiness I would go extra mile to make you happy
She showered me with gift while my ex never both any gift foe me but instead she rather collect and pretend like she had nothing and still fight me if I can't provide anything.
So bro I won't say much but learn from my story
Nobody is perfect look at the Arras where she is good at and you guys should work things out she actually loves you everybody wants to be loved even we men too wants to feel someone loves and care about us

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Programming / Re: My Experience Learning Cyber Security by ebijimi7(m): 9:28pm On Mar 21, 2022
I was actually using vmware
Thanks bro.
Programming / My Experience Learning Cyber Security by ebijimi7(m): 2:07pm On Mar 21, 2022
Good day guys,please I took a course which is cyber security but on the long run I noticed for you to be very good at protecting yourself and loved ones from being victim of hackers may be like identity theft and hacking of bank accounts and pulling down of websites, I discovered you really need to do a little of ethical hacking, which I'm now doing but I used my windows hp laptop core 17 but the virtual machine and the khali Linux operating system installed in the virtual machine to allow virtual environment for hacking has been over working my processor there by making my laptop go off frequently because of the heat and workload on processor
Please can you recommend a good pc for ethical hacking?
Thanks.


And please don't mind my sentences and way of composition
Thanks
Properties / Re: Sand Filling Needed by ebijimi7(m): 11:42pm On Mar 14, 2022
Pictech:
How many tonnage do u need, land size old and budget?
how much is 30 tones
Properties / Sand Filling Needed by ebijimi7(m): 7:04pm On Mar 14, 2022
Good day guys please I need someone legitimate and real that can supply me sand filling at isiu ikorodu lagos and please also tag your price and phone number this is currently urgent
Thanks
Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 7:07am On Jan 28, 2022
Owologbo:


why did you leave the first one?
she was just trying to grow up and always prove to be sturbon but above all she is kind and good hearted but I felt I would meet a perfect woman since she was the sturbon type, and me too I was trying to grow up, not until I met this recent girl that dealt with me ..... I miss her so much � now I learnt nobody is perfect except God
Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 12:24pm On Jan 27, 2022
mystery22:
Op are you that ugly that you have to literally be this foolish to be with a girl...
oga everything na about look?
You guys need to start thinking outside the box....
I have 6 different girls begging to be with me but I ignored them because I was her mumu...
But now I wise up and dump her ass fine boy like me
Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 9:33am On Jan 27, 2022
Another thing she did that made me sent her packing was the fact that she tried to take the place of my mum and sister which was very annoying, I already saw the signs that if I get married to this kind of person I would loose everything like I would loose my family and friends because she would restrict me from seeing them or look for a way to frustrate them and prevent them from coming to visit me,
I saw someone mention that I'm a type of give that barely gives out money to guys, well bro I'm a very easy going person and I can give out anything, the money she asked me to return it was my friends that sent me money to use pay her up and it was because I'm always there for them too.
So back to my ex story �
There was an incident that happened one day we travelled to abeokuta foe a burial I already made arrangement for hotel and everything I sent her money to buy cloth that she would wear for the occasion while I wear the one I already have so she asked me to pay for make up I said OK, so unfortunately when It was time to travel I fell sick do I took money from that money I kept for the ceremony to add to what I have to treat myself, so we embarked on the journey we got to abeokuta on getting there we went for the wake keeping and the following day was suppose to be the burial, so after the wake keeping we were going back to our hotel room while I was driving she started asking about the money for make up I told her what I have on me is not much again we have to manage it till we get back to lagos that she should take money from her pocket to do her make up,
She started shouting that why is it that I use to breach plan why are my so inconsiderate she shouted and shouted but I kept quiet without saying a word, until we got to our hotel room I ordered for food for her and I also took a little and I took my drug to went to bed,
The next morning we stated preparation I don't know how she did it she called her friends that stays around abeokuta because she grew up there so she called them they came around and did make up for her, so I didn't bother asking so after everything we drove off to the venue and after the event ended my friend called me that I should place hang around that he wants to send money to my account and withdraw using my atm so I told him I'm not with my card he should send it to my gf account, so me and my gf was in my car she left her phone and said she wants to urinate so when she stepped out an alert came on her phone and my friend said he wanted to send 10k but when the alert came in what I saw was 30k which means she had 20k there before so I challenged her why was she lying that she had no money, she then said it was because if she had told me that I would spend the money lavishly I felt really really bad then I asked her that if I spend for you it's not lavish but if I give to people it's lavish spending don't worry I understand.
Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 9:13am On Jan 27, 2022
Das1mama:
Op my man, when i was going through your story i discovered some two key words which are being ignored and are more vital for any relationship to be healthy which are Pride or Ego and Love..... For the Pride or ego everyone has it but more domicide in women, they earlier you know the better, pride comes with anger, selfishness, jealosy and above all Greed and kills faster than d most dangerous of any known virus which you know because it lives in human meaning an inbuilt, the earlier you tackle it believe me things will start working without streess, and the Love i believe you still very much love her sincerly but pride won't allow u do the normal things... You are d man follow your heart and speak some sence into her and make it work. You have the keys to unlock every mysteries in your relationship.
i tried to buy gradually I lost interest in her I've tried to make it work but her character I can't stay with such
Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 9:21pm On Jan 26, 2022
So we left the church and continued with our love life, fast forward to when she wanted to go to school, I told her that she should hold on and work yo gather some money then I would assist her to add to what ever she had.
So she went to make enquiry and she got a school which is very expensive, I told her to look out for another one that its too expensive that to pay for that fee its going to take a one year salary of hers with out putting food on her table, I thought I've advised her, she grumbled and said this is her chance, I told her but it won't make sense for you to be working and won't be able to buy cloth or food for your self you need to think about this too.
Before I knew what was happening she went behind me to collect form for the session, she now called me and said she has done registration for the school that she need to pay acceptance fee of 40k that she needs it from me, I laughed and told her that does she know what she was doing?
She got mad and told me she doesn't care how I'm going to get the money she just need 40k from me which I objected and said its never going to happen you took decision on your own now so why telling me now when it got to point of payment, to cut the story short I don't know where she got the 40k from so she paid and that one was off the ground now it got to the payment of school fee out of 90l for the first semester she was able to raise only 50k so I payed 40k so they can allow her write the first semester exam, that one was off the ground then we continued because I loved her so much and I don't know what she had in mind so I continued taking care of her, so the second semester exam is here out of the balance if 80k she only has 40k so this period I borrowed loan to sort out some family issues that was on ground at this same period my phone was stolen, like I was phoneless and it made my job not to go well, so I was able to raise 40k so I called her she came to my house then counted the money and gave her and told her you know with this money I can get a new phone but I won't because you are in urgent need of it and if you don't pay your fee you won't be allowed to write exam so take, then she went ahead to pay her school fee, so after paying her fee the following week is her birthday which she knew the 40k I gave her was the last penny on me so I was surviving because I bought enough food stuff at home, so the day before her birthday she called me and said next week was her birthday that I won't do anything for her birthday so I told her that babe calm down now I just paid your fee are you not considerate even when you know I don't have anything left on me why are you like this ok when you finish your exam we would go out for your birthday, the next statement she made was that ever since we have been dating what have I done for her ..?? I was disappointed and felt hurt by the statement then I reminded her that a year before I did something and the year that followed that year I still did something, then she was like ehn but you are not doing anything for this year, so I told her your school fee was the reason why I'm not doing anything this year, so we ended the conversation.
The following day her course mates bought her 2 different cake do I called her she told me then I jokingly told her to bring my cake home, then she repeated the same statement in front of her friends again that what have I done for her and they were murmuring on hearing that this time I was more pained and just hang up the call on her and that moment I totally lost interest in the relationship because I felt devastated,disappointed and felt used by her and it was only when I started dating her I fall into depression so many times because i can't tell her my problems she won't help she has never bought even singlet for me ever since we were dating and I would do anything for her this issue got us separated for months she then went to my pastor to report me so I narrated everything to my pastor he too was disappointed in what she did so he told me not to allow anybody frustrate me and focus more on my life that was how I dumped her and I washappy being alone than being with her.

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Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 8:50pm On Jan 26, 2022
teddybarz:
I guess she is using u. . . Na sense u nid to gather. . Apply sense bro. . Check 4 life b4 dating naija babe. . .they can be frustrating. . Same time borinG
that what I told her that she never loved me she was just using me
Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 8:49pm On Jan 26, 2022
So before the relationship started crumbling, we were good I introduced her to my pastor and family and friends they all loved her my pastor counselled her, she has dated 2 guys before I met her she treated them well they cheated on her according to her and she said her last ex was not caring and is not responsible so I did my investigation and later found out her ex was caring but later he stopped caring for her, but my mind tells me he stopped because of her character.
So things wasn't going well between us after a year of dating because of her attitude towards money, she complained every now and then she keeps nagging anytime we talk she start shouting and she kept going to report me to my pastor because she felt he can use him to penetrate me, she kept doing that , she told me she wanted to make her hair I told her I was broke she should make her natural hair, she said she was going to borrow me money from her pocket then later I would pay her back I begged her that she should please don't put me in depth because there is one depth on ground which I'm still trying to clear, just because I made that statement she avoided me for 3 days she refused to talk to me.
So she had issue where she was staying then she remembered me and called me that she wants me and her to go see my pastor which I followed her and after getting there she narrated her experience and also talked about me of how I've been behaving towards her then my pastor asked me to narrate my part which I did , then my pastor told her that you prayed for a caring man right?
She said yes and my pastor told her that God has given you what you wanted after going through hell in the hands of your ex boyfriends she smiled and my pastor used the story of isrealites for her that it was lack of trust that made them not to get to the promise land, that why is she doubting me with all I'm doing
So instantly I told my pastor to help me tell her to forgive me that she is angry with me so my pastor begged her to forgive me and I didn't tell my pastor why I'm asking for forgiveness

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Romance / Re: Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 8:28pm On Jan 26, 2022
Totilopussylick:
Hellfire is real
we know bro
Romance / Why Does Some Girls Act Like They Are The Assistant Jesus by ebijimi7(m): 8:25pm On Jan 26, 2022
Good day guys, I'm not here to bore you with a story of mine, I just have a little question which is why do some girls act like they so much love God and work to please God but have a very bad character?
Fine fine fine!!!, im actually not against worshiping God because I myself I'm a Christian but there are so many things wrong with our sisters in the ministry which is not working on their attitude, infact I once dated a girl that act like she loves God so much and I once dated one that doesn't carry worshipping God on her head but sincerely she can pray abeg and she does call me every night to pray with me infact things were going well with me and she has a good heart she can give out anything to make people around her Happy and she is everly ready to support you in what ever you do and she is loving ., but this sister in ministry is selfish,greedy,inconsiderate lack understanding and will still talk you down when you are planning on something that would benefit your life and she would still get mad if she wants something from you and could not provide for her, she came and there was a day I asked her that ever since we've been dating have you ever prayed for me ?
She said no she only does intersection I felt bad thou , and another thing I noticed was that she spent 3 days in my house she used to tell me she prays in her own house but when she spent 3 days with me she didn't even tap me to wake me up for morning devotion....
I got fed up of her attitude thou there is a statement she made that hurt me so bad so I asked her to allow me go that I'm not being loved that I know how much I was loved and cherished from where I am coming from, she got mad and furious and asked me to refund the money she borrowed me that she doesn't care how I was going to do it, that she has already prayed to God to scatter us and before she made me make the decision of not marrying her I had a plan to go and do introduction with her so I can officially marry her do I was waiting for her to finish exam, so on hearing that I should send her 20k just because I said I wanted a break up I was mad and was like was this not the same girl I paid her school fee, and the funniest thing was that I bought the phone she's using she made sure she collected her money which I sent back to her that night, she later called back and told me not to see her as a bad person, I told her no that I'm not seeing her as such , she only collected her money she borrowed me.

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Autos / How Did You Get Your First Car by ebijimi7(m): 1:55am On Dec 19, 2021
Hi guys good day, I know we all want the good things of life such as a house, a car,food in the store and also a good woman in our life,
So in view of this I've come up with something similar to this thread which made front page few hours ago and that is https://www.nairaland.com/6883671/how-did-get-money-build


So guys let's share our story how did you get your first car
Mine-; I played Nigeria centenary lotto game back in 2015 with just #100 I was lucky to win a brand new Hyundai accent �.
So guys that means I sctuallly bought a car worth millions with just 100 naira airtime credit.

So guys let's keep the gist rolling
And moderator please help make this a front page material.
Thanks.
Education / Re: Justiceforsylvester: Shutting Down The School Not Enough, Kanayo Tells Lagos Gov by ebijimi7(m): 7:38pm On Dec 04, 2021
Foreverdope:
Let justice be served irrespective of who's involved.. This is manslaughter & it a minor cry
that not man slaughter but a pure murder
Romance / Re: A Supportive Ex Or A Greedy And Non Appreciative Girlfriend by ebijimi7(m): 7:29pm On Nov 23, 2021
slickycee:
Are you sure you need a relationship right now !
Obviously you haven't learnt much from your previous dating experience

I pity that your Ex that loves you .
I'm sure when you're free from problems and troubles, you'd remember she's not your type , she too like party and sort.

OP do whatever you like, but be prepared to face the consequence
definitely bro

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Romance / Re: A Supportive Ex Or A Greedy And Non Appreciative Girlfriend by ebijimi7(m): 7:29pm On Nov 23, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
You're just ending this your current relationship and want to run back to your ex. Take some time to be by yourself or must you jump from one relationship to another?
my dear you won't understand the feeling of how sweet you were being treated where you were compare to where you are bring maltreated
Romance / Re: A Supportive Ex Or A Greedy And Non Appreciative Girlfriend by ebijimi7(m): 7:27pm On Nov 23, 2021
Jflex07:
You paid a girls school fees of 150k?. You SIMPly made a stupid decision... Carry your cross man.
lol I broke up with her man
Romance / Re: A Supportive Ex Or A Greedy And Non Appreciative Girlfriend by ebijimi7(m): 7:27pm On Nov 23, 2021
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool D PLACE way u TALK sey U collect LOAN to pay her SCHOOL FEES, NA der I stop to de READ..

OP NA THUNDER GO FIRE U..
Women wey u no MARRY or PAY 4 der HEAD, Na em u just de MUMU up n DOWN..

Na people like una de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my old KALA 4 FREE... WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO 1 GET SENSE. WTF MAN
Ogbeni we are cheerful giver it no affect us but we want someone that loves us not for what we give but who we are
Romance / Re: A Supportive Ex Or A Greedy And Non Appreciative Girlfriend by ebijimi7(m): 7:25pm On Nov 23, 2021
chatinent:

I really didn't understand this tho... and really didn't understand the rationale behind the breakup.
She eas stubborn and doesn't listen to me if I talk to her

What did you do?
My brother the only thing I did was to love her at a point in time she made a confessional statement by telling she doesn't want to be easy on me because of what her exes did to her and I was like do I have to pay for other peoples sin despite the fact I loved you and you know it s
Oh..


What is going on here?[/quote]
Bro she doesn't love me but I loved her

Why is all your aspirations directed to borrowing money, loan, and food? Odikwa somehow o.
Bro you won't understand all this happened between a space of 2 years I had a building project I was working on and she knew me to be a very gentle person I don't like trouble there was a day she said I'm too calm for her liking that she loves someone who gives it to her hot hot that if the guy shouts at her she would shout back and things like that I don't do them bro we are not just compatible I know, she even told me that I care about my family alone just because she wanted to get a gown I told her I don't have any more to spare because I invested my money on my building project that even if I would give her fund that I have to take care of my mums need and that of my sister,in hearing this she got mad and said its always about my family alone I don't care about her

Unrealistic quote. The devil is still the devil.[/quote] Lol bro is there any decent girl out there now 90% of them are hoelosho or is it about the married women that cheat this days without the fear of their husband ?

I will advise you choose who fit dey borrow you without complain since it is a point of joy.[/quote]
Not that I won't return money borrowed common bro if you get married can't you seek assistance from your partner ? But the situation here is I seek she gives then she attack me to collect it back

Did you say you paid ₦150k for a wife or did I read girlfriend? [/quote]
Bro I was drunk in love I did it without feeling remorseful I was responsible for the action I know what I was doing that why since she displayed how unappreciative she is I withdrew my emotion love and care because I felt she is using me

Please meet Cele people
I'm a celestial before I left the church .[/quote]
Romance / Re: A Supportive Ex Or A Greedy And Non Appreciative Girlfriend by ebijimi7(m): 7:22pm On Nov 23, 2021
chatinent:

I really didn't understand this tho... and really didn't understand the rationale behind the breakup.
She eas stubborn and doesn't listen to me if I talk to her

What did you do?

My brother the only thing I did was to love her at a point in time she made a confessional statement by telling she doesn't want to be easy on me because of what her exes did to her and I was like do I have to pay for other peoples sin despite the fact I loved you and you know it s
Oh..


What is going on here?
Bro she doesn't love me but I loved her

Why is all your aspirations directed to borrowing money, loan, and food? Odikwa somehow o.
Bro you won't understand all this happened between a space of 2 years I had a building project I was working on and she knew me to be a very gentle person I don't like trouble there was a day she said I'm too calm for her liking that she loves someone who gives it to her hot hot that if the guy shouts at her she would shout back and things like that I don't do them bro we are not just compatible I know, she even told me that I care about my family alone just because she wanted to get a gown I told her I don't have any more to spare because I invested my money on my building project that even if I would give her fund that I have to take care of my mums need and that of my sister,in hearing this she got mad and said its always about my family alone I don't care about her

Unrealistic quote. The devil is still the devil. Lol bro is there any decent girl out there now 90% of them are hoelosho or is it about the married women that cheat this days without the fear of their husband ?

I will advise you choose who fit dey borrow you without complain since it is a point of joy.
Not that I won't return money borrowed common bro if you get married can't you seek assistance from your partner ? But the situation here is I seek she gives then she attack me to collect it back

Did you say you paid ₦150k for a wife or did I read girlfriend?
Bro I was drunk in love I did it without feeling remorseful I was responsible for the action I know what I was doing that why since she displayed how unappreciative she is I withdrew my emotion love and care because I felt she is using me

Please meet Cele people.
I'm a celestian before I left the church
Romance / A Supportive Ex Or A Greedy And Non Appreciative Girlfriend by ebijimi7(m): 2:57pm On Nov 23, 2021
Good day guys,
I'm not here to bore you with my story, so let me go straight to the point.
All my life I've dated several girls if I'm not mistaken I've dated atleast 6 girls,but then I was still a boy catching fun,but now I'm growing up and want to have my family, so I dated 2 girls recently which I can say I was committed in the relationship, the ex I dated was for years but things got rough along the line I sent her packing in which she never stopped loving me which I know so because she was the only lady I dated in my life that pampered me with food attention,support,motivation and she loves my family and respects my family too so, we got issues because she was in her teen age, that was around 19 to 22 so she has the mentality of going out to have fun like visiting places go out on tour but I wasn't available to give her all that because I was in school and was busy running around to get my life fixed, so she had never had any boyfriend before I met her infact I was the one that took her virginity ut made me love her the more,but things wasn't going well between us when she was being distracted with fun that comes out of going out I told her life is not about fun sometimes you need to plan your life, she ignored me because of her ignorance so we broke up and everybody went their way, I met another girl we started dating things was going smoothly at first then she switched to beast mode she started frustrating me if I need help I can't ask her, if I'm down she walk over me, I invested in a business to surprise her but the business didn't work as expected making me to loose money I felt bad so I said let me share my sad news with my partner, she attacked talk me down insulted me and call me a kid foe loosing money, ever since then I keep all my secrete to my self and only tell my friends,if she wants something I can go extra mile for her but the moment I can't give her what she wanted she is going to fight me and talk to me any how it got to a stage I told her where I was coming from was better than where I am I don't think you can be a good wife I borrowed money from my gf yo sort out some emergency bills she fought me to collect her money back just because I told her I wasn't interested in the relationship, I know I'm so stupid because I collected loan to add to what I have on me to pay her school fee so they can allow her write exams but I got paid in evil, she insulted me and ask her to send her money that I used to sought out bills because once she collects her money she doesn't want to have anything to do with me for the rest of her life, how much is the money ?
Ordinary 20k but she forgot I coughed out over 150k to pay her school fee, it just didn't end there she went ahead on whatsapp and blocked me in one words my ex girlfriend came to my rescue and assisted me to pay part of the depth I ran into because of one ingrate now I'm even scared of going further to look for another girl to date because I don't know the kind of character she would possess, and I believe the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.
In order words I'm thinking of taking back my ex, so guys what's your opinion please
Insult can come in also
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Properties / I Need A Single Room(face Me I Face You) Or A Room Self Contain Of 200k by ebijimi7(m): 8:31am On Nov 21, 2021
Good day guys
I'm a single guy I have a project I'm working on at ikorodu, I'm building my own house so I'm trying to cut cost by all means so I can further the project I want to leave this apartment where I'm staying I'm paying 400k annually and I'm only earning 80k per month aside this there are still other things to take care of like utility bills and feeding so please guys if you can help me out to get a single face me I face you apartment or a rooms elf contain not more than 200k annually round this same area I would be greatful please guys help me out thanks.
Business / Re: CBN Spends N58.6 Billion To Print 2.5 Billion Pieces Of Naira Notes by ebijimi7(m): 1:30pm On Nov 05, 2021
Jostoman:
Nairaland people e shock you? grin can you imagine using 58.6billion to print 2.5 billion Nigeria government with comedy series.
i swear brother na how I just dey shout since I see the healine

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Romance / Sometimes Ex Are Not Evil by ebijimi7(m): 1:07pm On Oct 15, 2021
Good day guys, I broke up with my ex sometimes ago that was like 3 years or there about, so we dated for 5 years before breaking up and everyone moved on with their life, so as we were on our different relationships, we were both being served punishment from our current partners.
At first I broke up with her and was happy I found someone better than her, in that relationship I was happy because I felt someone I've met was calm and understanding but, 1 year after I started seeing a strange attitude in the girl, attitude of like getting angry with me over the pains her ex caused her, and also trying to use me, she also had the entitlement mentality of me doing every damn thing for her, and if I don't do it she would get mad at me and pick up quarell with me, I ran into depth and alot of things weren't just working out and she portrayed herself in a way that I can't confide in her, I try to tell her my problems instead of assisting me she would rather attack me, she was happy I was sob I wasn't happy in the relationship I felt I was in a boundage, I gifted her many things but she has never looked at me and buy me ordinary boxers fine, I know she doesn't have I understood and yet she is working, the only thing she got for me was small chops when we were dating and that was when I was angry with her, so she needed to do something to apologise so she went to bring me small chops I appreciated it thou because I'm not an ingrate, so I tried so many times until I finally discharged her and we broke up on breaking up with her she blocked me on all social media and also blocked my friend and family. and my ex on the other hand was going through alot in her relationship too, she has been with different guys just to see if it would work out but they rather cheat on her and make her feel bad and my ex was a girl that when I was with her I enjoyed myself it was fun all through because we play alot and she showers me with gift, and she had a good soul that when she entered my life I noticed the changes but, when I was with the other girl I got into so many depths that it was my ex that came to my rescue to help me pay them up despite the fact we are not dating.
And now she is begging me to come back so we would continue from where we stopped.
I told her I needed to think about it, she said since the both of us are not in a relationship currently we can make the best out of it this time .
And on the other hand I'm scared of going to start another relationship with another girl because all of them are almost the same thing that if I'm even lucky not to meet someone worst, so I feel its better to just pick up someone you know you can endure her attitude and enjoy life once she is supportive caring and loving every other thing doesn't matter.
So I'd like to hear you guys opinion please.


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