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realokopi:
What kind of write up is this, bros? No coma, no fullstop
You gave me headache reading this.

I don dey expect your type of person to quote

CallMeGrace:
You are the one dating yourself here.
Can I please ask a question? is she doing anything ,as in working?
I believe, any girl who truly and honestly loves her boyfriend should be supportive and managing with whoever she is dating not spending excessively... I believe you should give a her break, she might not end up seeing someone like you ,and maybe later on she will come back to her senses...

yes she is working and even in school before she went ahead to get the application form I told her that see this journey you are trying to embark on won't be a easy one because where you are working you are not earning much and I'm only trying to assist you why don't you just wait till next year like you should be saving the little you can while I too save the one I can so that by the end if the year we would have had enough that can take you to school and can take care of other things she refused yo listen to me saying this is the opportunity she has she went a head to apply I told her I don't have money she said weather I like it or not all she knows I'd that she needed 40k from me to process the admission I started laughing she was like you must give me weather you like it or not then I told her are you going to force money out of my pocket dhsy be you refuse to listen to me then face what ever comes your way

Chike4all:
Bros,
What you need now is money, not that fool you are parading as girlfriend.
I wonder why you are so weak to dump her since...
This one will cut your life short everyday you two meet.

shes from a home no mother and her father doesn't care it doesn't take me anything to help her without dating her but why trying to use the dating game to use me the worst part she doesn't allow me to make love to her as of recent she started ignoring my sexual desire and doesn't care what pain I'm going through

Dannieln1:
I have nothing to say

Cos mine worst pass this one

really mehn we dey see alot for this women them hand I swear

Then I kept quiet I felt deep down in me that she said I would spend the money any how which means I'm a lavish spender
Fast forward to my nephews birthday I asked her to help me get a cake for my nephew that I won't be chanced to take the cake to my nephew that I'm not too financially buoyant and they sell the cake close to her place her place to my place is just a transport fare of #200 so I begged her then she was like she can't carry cake on bike to my place that there are too much pit holes except I order uber for her I was like uber? No now I don't have these money you are requesting for ok if you can't take bike leave it I would go and get it myself after all its my family not yours I was so angry that so if I can't give you money for uber you won't take the cake to my nephew so I ignored her later she started calling and begging that I should please allow her get the cake she wants my nephew to think she is the one that bought the cake so I told her not to worry to a point her colleague at work was begging on her behalf before I finally allowed her to get it at the end of the day she still took the uber.
Then a week later I called her to come over we went to an eatery I sat her down I analyzed everything she is doing that I don't like to her and enede it with you are making me feel you are with me because of what you are getting with me try to prove me wrong she was mad that I'm calling her a gold digger then k told her how much have you eaten self you've not consumed half of what my ex consumed and I was never drained I'm talking about your actions if I go broke then I told her we need to continue like this without me giving you a dime she refused screaming it can't work and she left so I walk up to her trying to play with her she just ignored me and went home and she didn't call for days later she called back to apologize and she came to meet me to apologize I accepted her apologies now Monday is her birthday and ive used my money to procure materials for my building project since on Sunday she has been screaming her birthday is on Monday I told her I'm broke but God would provide then she continued again on Monday she said the same thing I ignored her. Wednesday she repeat it again then Friday which was yesterday she said Monday is my birthday I ignored her again and I told her I've told you let's see how it goes then after navigating another topic she came back again to that birthday issue this time I was angry and had to scream at her that what was her problem she has been saying this since on Sunday why is she like that then the next thing she said was that I know you would be tires since you've been at work since morning good night and she drop the call
I just smiled and say to myself only if she knew I had a surprise for her now I'm not going to do that again
The worst part she would start checking my WhatsApp messages I don't know what she is looking for

Good day guys
Please I need your advises on this issue on ground please nobody should attack me I know you guys knows how to attack someone
So here we go
I'm currently in a relationship which I started late 2018 after I broke up with my ex
So the relationship is just a year plus now and I have the intentions of getting married to this lady in picture,
On a blessed day I was so hungry so she came to visit me so I told her I was hungry thou that day I was tired so I asked could she help me cook so that we can eat together she refused telling me that she would never cook for me until I pay her bride price but I was like but I do cook for you and you eat and I never asked you to pay my groom price this is just to cook not that I'm asking you to wash my cloth or anything as a very gentle man I stood up went to the kitchen cooked my food myself and gave her to eat out of it after she left I thought of it that but this is the same person in assisting financially and the little favor I asked from her she could not do it?
Then I called her and discussed with her the only thing she could tell me was that she did everything to please him to the point of washing his cousins cloth and she talked about how she hated him because he took her love for granted.
Then I made her realize that remember I dated some one before yiu too despite what she did to me I didn't stop providing your own needs which means I don't care about my past I believe people are different I treated you right why are you acting like this to me.
So i didn't disturb her about anything again ever since then I believe I'm Alone to myself if I need anything I do it on my own I act like I don't have a girlfriend.
To cut the story short
We traveled for a burial so I already made plan on how we would stay and how I would take care of other things when we arrive but the plan didn't go as planned because I fell ill and I needed to go to the hospital so that I can treat my self so I was left with no option than to take from money that was kept aside for the trip,
So after the wake keeping as we were heading to our hotel room we were in a cab so she started analyzing how we would spend so I told her we have to manage what is left on us because there was no much left again
Do the next question she asked was that won't she do make up then I told her that pity me now I've been spending all this while can't you take money from your own pocket to pay the make yo artist I bought cloth for you 7k i still paid for the hotel 12k I still paid for transport and the feeding too and I'm still going to pay for transport back to lagos.
Then she started nagging why do I like to breach plan what kind of person are my I just kept quiet but the expression on the drivers face shows he really felt for me.
So on getting to the hotel room I didn't discuss anything with her I just gave her money to go and get food for her self then I slept off the next morning I don't know where the money from make up came out from and she has been claiming she doesn't have money
I just lock up.
After the burial event and everything we decide to return back to the hotel so my friend whose mother in-law burial we went for called me that he misplaced his ATM card and needed to withdraw and I wasn't with my ATM card so I asked my girlfriend if she has her ATM card she said yes so I sent her account number to him,
So I was using her phone to check for something then boom alert came in my gf has 9k in her account and she claimed she had nothing I showed her the message and told her that but you said you had nothing on you why were you lying to me she said its not her money that if she told me that I would spend the money any how

Dreyton36:
Its a wonderful experience really , especially when you're sponsoring yourself
I had so many thoughts on my head walahi
1. Na me sit down inside aeroplane so ?
2. Na me they use my money fly to obodo oyibo?
3. When will I see my family again?
4. I must not come back without Benz
When I landed omg , I realised that coronavirus cannot even kill us I Nigeria cuz we live in a bedgraggled environment in naija

Abroad sweet abeg, everywhere clean
Hit me up for your sure visas to all European countries
There's also a sure Canada visa application going on
No scam zone

bro please hi me on whatsapp zero8one8nine8five0four2three let's discuss

[quote author=NCANCHAIR post=87144237]Bros

Wait do you run air conditioner on this thing?

creolehunt:
During those 5 years, you couldn't devote even 2 months to learning punctuations.

Your essay is harmful to the eyes and brain.

she never allowed bro and she can cry ehn that tears made me stick around

stupidity:
you people should stop writing “have” as “HV”

That shi is scary Mhen!!

OP you nor well. The girl nor well too. Her ex boyfriend that dumped her for you is smarter.

Lol I swear if I knew I should have moved long time ago

Officialgarri:
Stop going through her Facebook page, stop checking her Instagram photos, you don't even need to watch her WhatsApp status.
Face your hustle and current girl

And
Thank me later

will it be so easy
Let me confess I've been dreaming about her for a while now
But I think if it requires me to block every means of communication I will

Good day guys
There is this girl I dated for 5 years we were suppose to get married before the whole story changed
And we broke up the reason we broke up was as a result if her going to see her ex despite all my complains she never felt concerned and she was pleased satisfying her selfish interest I endured for good 4 years thinking she would change until the 5th year when I couldn't take it anymore at this point I broke up with her the ex she was giving attention ignored her and got married to her best friend I was left all alone to be in pain because I so much loved her and never double dated despite having alot of advances from different girls to date them but I made the whole world know she's mine at the end my peace of mind was breing troubled and I was left with no option than to leave by so doing she went ahead wit another guy to continue having fun so I found out I felt hurt the more this tine I cried hell this was the woman I gave everything she ever wanted materially and emotionally I Gabe attention care I don't joke with her but because I'm bot the type that flex that's the type that goes out just because I was in school and I was working too but I never allow her get hungry there was a day I left my school at ikorodu to go to ojo just to take her to hospital I left school around 7 pm and got there around 9 was there for series of test to be carried out and so she can be treated I left there around 12:30 am to head home at ebute metta risking my life now that its been a year plus we broke up its still fresh to me but now she just ignores me because after all her messes and flirting around she realized she couldn't get a guy like me she started appologising to come back which I refuse that we can be friends and I can't risk my peace of mind at that point I was forced to go into another relationship which is going well now thou everybody has their imperfection.
The day my ex saw my present gf pics she was mad she threatened to fight her if she comes across her I warned her never to she did to a point she wanted me to double DAT which she knows if I attempted to she would win my heart so coz of that I refused so its been 2 years now I always want to talk to her to still check up on her but she kept ignoring me but still call that her ex that made us broke up despite knowing well that they are married and now have a child so I just need advice on how to get over her and ignore her too because its not just easy on me please don't judge me I'm not attempting to hurt who I'm currently with

Good day guys I'm planning to travel out of the country thou I have nd in computer science and I plan to continue my school once I get to any of these countries please advice me on what to do please

Kekereekun123:
ond is not enough for canada express entry. You need hnd. To get a job in uk with the ond is nearly impossible . Learn programming languages that is in demand in europe to enhance job offer prospects .

but I judt wanted to do a professional course on cyber security

Good day everyone please I need infor on how to migrate to Canada or uk and thou I did my nd in laspotech as a computer scientist but I'm not going back for my HND due to the education system in nigeria most things that are being taught in nd was never practicalised
So this discouraged me from going further with HND
So my question now is please if I migrate to Canada or uk can I get a job with my nd cert?
And more over I want to start taking a cyber security course on udemy or edx so please guys your advice is needed please I really need to leave this country and you can also please help me with what it entails to migrate to Canada or UK too

CanadaOrBust:
Go to travel section. Loads of info there. Good luck

bro I couldn't get any info that why I created this thread

Good day everyone please I need infor on how to migrate to Canada or uk and thou I did my nd in laspotech as a computer scientist but I'm not going back for my HND due to the education system in nigeria most things that are being taught in nd was never practicalised
So this discouraged me from going further with HND
So my question now is please if I migrate to Canada or uk can I get a job with my nd cert?
And more over I want to start taking a cyber security course on udemy or edx so please guys your advice is needed please I really need to leave this country and you can also please help me with what it entails to migrate to Canada or UK too

You have a big job to do if you love him

ipeg34yahooco:
Call this number 07057681780 to link you up with an agent that can source it for you

thanks bro

Trust me even with all these women can never be satisfied I did all this to my girlfriend only to find out she still mingles with her ex my opinion its only you that can love yourself unconditionally forget about relationship it sucks right now I'm fxxk up been down for some days now coz of pain thank God I'm getting over it

No problem but as time goes it develops

Good day nairalanders please i need a dry land around badagry axis or sango with a budget of 300,000 or less please help

Is it possible to have a girlfriend and she doesn't find you her boyfriend of 5 years which she claim she loved so much sexually attracted to her?
Girls ooooo please come and explain

Where is your office address

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Cclalasticala

good day house please does anybody have experience with ren money target savings please share your experience

please elaborate more

hakeem4:
using masonry. Eg blocks

please what is mansory about

hakeem4:
if you want a less expensive but beautiful house you can build it without columns using masonry. You could pm me for designs

its 4 bedroom and i havent bought a land yet but will do that this year

marooh:
Question for u?

What type of house (4bed room etc)?
Did u have a land?

After answering those above questions...

Back to biz....


You have to start small small.

1. Buy trip of sand (N8000) and 5 cement(N20,000).

2. Call for block mould...(N10,000)

3. You help with water.

Total spend 38 to 40k...

Then use the 20k and buy food stuff in bulk..

Repeat the above mentioned for 5months then start planning for foundation...

Hope it helps

good day nairalanders happy new year to everyone iin the house
please i need an advice i am 24 year old i work i school and ihave some responsibility on me such as taking care of my mum becausee of her condition she doesnt work she is an elderly woman and i have a sister too who lost her husband and she has kids and she is being maltreated so we all stay together she is currently not working
my new year plan was to get a plot of land and start building but all this on a 60,000 naira salary please help me how can i save to build my own house i want to get married before 28 and i dont want a rented apartment even if its mortgage i dont mind thanks