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Good day guys, I'm not here to bore you with a story of mine, I just have a little question which is why do some girls act like they so much love God and work to please God but have a very bad character?
Fine fine fine!!!, im actually not against worshiping God because I myself I'm a Christian but there are so many things wrong with our sisters in the ministry which is not working on their attitude, infact I once dated a girl that act like she loves God so much and I once dated one that doesn't carry worshipping God on her head but sincerely she can pray abeg and she does call me every night to pray with me infact things were going well with me and she has a good heart she can give out anything to make people around her Happy and she is everly ready to support you in what ever you do and she is loving ., but this sister in ministry is selfish,greedy,inconsiderate lack understanding and will still talk you down when you are planning on something that would benefit your life and she would still get mad if she wants something from you and could not provide for her, she came and there was a day I asked her that ever since we've been dating have you ever prayed for me ?
She said no she only does intersection I felt bad thou , and another thing I noticed was that she spent 3 days in my house she used to tell me she prays in her own house but when she spent 3 days with me she didn't even tap me to wake me up for morning devotion....
I got fed up of her attitude thou there is a statement she made that hurt me so bad so I asked her to allow me go that I'm not being loved that I know how much I was loved and cherished from where I am coming from, she got mad and furious and asked me to refund the money she borrowed me that she doesn't care how I was going to do it, that she has already prayed to God to scatter us and before she made me make the decision of not marrying her I had a plan to go and do introduction with her so I can officially marry her do I was waiting for her to finish exam, so on hearing that I should send her 20k just because I said I wanted a break up I was mad and was like was this not the same girl I paid her school fee, and the funniest thing was that I bought the phone she's using she made sure she collected her money which I sent back to her that night, she later called back and told me not to see her as a bad person, I told her no that I'm not seeing her as such , she only collected her money she borrowed me.

Hi guys good day, I know we all want the good things of life such as a house, a car,food in the store and also a good woman in our life,
So in view of this I've come up with something similar to this thread which made front page few hours ago and that is https://www.nairaland.com/6883671/how-did-get-money-build


So guys let's share our story how did you get your first car
Mine-; I played Nigeria centenary lotto game back in 2015 with just #100 I was lucky to win a brand new Hyundai accent �.
So guys that means I sctuallly bought a car worth millions with just 100 naira airtime credit.

So guys let's keep the gist rolling
And moderator please help make this a front page material.
Thanks.

Foreverdope:
Let justice be served irrespective of who's involved.. This is manslaughter & it a minor

that not man slaughter but a pure murder

slickycee:
Are you sure you need a relationship right now !
Obviously you haven't learnt much from your previous dating experience

I pity that your Ex that loves you .
I'm sure when you're free from problems and troubles, you'd remember she's not your type , she too like party and sort.

OP do whatever you like, but be prepared to face the consequence

definitely bro

InTheCloudySky:
You're just ending this your current relationship and want to run back to your ex. Take some time to be by yourself or must you jump from one relationship to another?

my dear you won't understand the feeling of how sweet you were being treated where you were compare to where you are bring maltreated

Jflex07:
You paid a girls school fees of 150k?. You SIMPly made a stupid decision... Carry your cross man.

lol I broke up with her man

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram D PLACE way u TALK sey U collect LOAN to pay her SCHOOL FEES, NA der I stop to de READ..

OP NA THUNDER GO FIRE U..
Women wey u no MARRY or PAY 4 der HEAD, Na em u just de MUMU up n DOWN..

Na people like una de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my old KALA 4 FREE... WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO 1 GET SENSE. WTF MAN

Ogbeni we are cheerful giver it no affect us but we want someone that loves us not for what we give but who we are

chatinent:
I really didn't understand this tho... and really didn't understand the rationale behind the breakup.
She eas stubborn and doesn't listen to me if I talk to her

What did you do?

My brother the only thing I did was to love her at a point in time she made a confessional statement by telling she doesn't want to be easy on me because of what her exes did to her and I was like do I have to pay for other peoples sin despite the fact I loved you and you know it s
Oh..


What is going on here?[/quote]Bro she doesn't love me but I loved her

Why is all your aspirations directed to borrowing money, loan, and food? Odikwa somehow o.
Bro you won't understand all this happened between a space of 2 years I had a building project I was working on and she knew me to be a very gentle person I don't like trouble there was a day she said I'm too calm for her liking that she loves someone who gives it to her hot hot that if the guy shouts at her she would shout back and things like that I don't do them bro we are not just compatible I know, she even told me that I care about my family alone just because she wanted to get a gown I told her I don't have any more to spare because I invested my money on my building project that even if I would give her fund that I have to take care of my mums need and that of my sister,in hearing this she got mad and said its always about my family alone I don't care about her

Unrealistic quote. The devil is still the devil.[/quote]Lol bro is there any decent girl out there now 90% of them are hoelosho or is it about the married women that cheat this days without the fear of their husband ?

I will advise you choose who fit dey borrow you without complain since it is a point of joy.[/quote]Not that I won't return money borrowed common bro if you get married can't you seek assistance from your partner ? But the situation here is I seek she gives then she attack me to collect it back

Did you say you paid ₦150k for a wife or did I read girlfriend?[/quote]Bro I was drunk in love I did it without feeling remorseful I was responsible for the action I know what I was doing that why since she displayed how unappreciative she is I withdrew my emotion love and care because I felt she is using me

Please meet Cele people
I'm a celestial before I left the church .[/quote]

chatinent:
I really didn't understand this tho... and really didn't understand the rationale behind the breakup.
She eas stubborn and doesn't listen to me if I talk to her

What did you do?

My brother the only thing I did was to love her at a point in time she made a confessional statement by telling she doesn't want to be easy on me because of what her exes did to her and I was like do I have to pay for other peoples sin despite the fact I loved you and you know it s
Oh..


What is going on here?
Bro she doesn't love me but I loved her

Why is all your aspirations directed to borrowing money, loan, and food? Odikwa somehow o.
Bro you won't understand all this happened between a space of 2 years I had a building project I was working on and she knew me to be a very gentle person I don't like trouble there was a day she said I'm too calm for her liking that she loves someone who gives it to her hot hot that if the guy shouts at her she would shout back and things like that I don't do them bro we are not just compatible I know, she even told me that I care about my family alone just because she wanted to get a gown I told her I don't have any more to spare because I invested my money on my building project that even if I would give her fund that I have to take care of my mums need and that of my sister,in hearing this she got mad and said its always about my family alone I don't care about her

Unrealistic quote. The devil is still the devil. Lol bro is there any decent girl out there now 90% of them are hoelosho or is it about the married women that cheat this days without the fear of their husband ?

I will advise you choose who fit dey borrow you without complain since it is a point of joy.
Not that I won't return money borrowed common bro if you get married can't you seek assistance from your partner ? But the situation here is I seek she gives then she attack me to collect it back

Did you say you paid ₦150k for a wife or did I read girlfriend?
Bro I was drunk in love I did it without feeling remorseful I was responsible for the action I know what I was doing that why since she displayed how unappreciative she is I withdrew my emotion love and care because I felt she is using me

Please meet Cele people.

I'm a celestian before I left the church

Good day guys,
I'm not here to bore you with my story, so let me go straight to the point.
All my life I've dated several girls if I'm not mistaken I've dated atleast 6 girls,but then I was still a boy catching fun,but now I'm growing up and want to have my family, so I dated 2 girls recently which I can say I was committed in the relationship, the ex I dated was for years but things got rough along the line I sent her packing in which she never stopped loving me which I know so because she was the only lady I dated in my life that pampered me with food attention,support,motivation and she loves my family and respects my family too so, we got issues because she was in her teen age, that was around 19 to 22 so she has the mentality of going out to have fun like visiting places go out on tour but I wasn't available to give her all that because I was in school and was busy running around to get my life fixed, so she had never had any boyfriend before I met her infact I was the one that took her virginity ut made me love her the more,but things wasn't going well between us when she was being distracted with fun that comes out of going out I told her life is not about fun sometimes you need to plan your life, she ignored me because of her ignorance so we broke up and everybody went their way, I met another girl we started dating things was going smoothly at first then she switched to beast mode she started frustrating me if I need help I can't ask her, if I'm down she walk over me, I invested in a business to surprise her but the business didn't work as expected making me to loose money I felt bad so I said let me share my sad news with my partner, she attacked talk me down insulted me and call me a kid foe loosing money, ever since then I keep all my secrete to my self and only tell my friends,if she wants something I can go extra mile for her but the moment I can't give her what she wanted she is going to fight me and talk to me any how it got to a stage I told her where I was coming from was better than where I am I don't think you can be a good wife I borrowed money from my gf yo sort out some emergency bills she fought me to collect her money back just because I told her I wasn't interested in the relationship, I know I'm so stupid because I collected loan to add to what I have on me to pay her school fee so they can allow her write exams but I got paid in evil, she insulted me and ask her to send her money that I used to sought out bills because once she collects her money she doesn't want to have anything to do with me for the rest of her life, how much is the money ?
Ordinary 20k but she forgot I coughed out over 150k to pay her school fee, it just didn't end there she went ahead on whatsapp and blocked me in one words my ex girlfriend came to my rescue and assisted me to pay part of the depth I ran into because of one ingrate now I'm even scared of going further to look for another girl to date because I don't know the kind of character she would possess, and I believe the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.
In order words I'm thinking of taking back my ex, so guys what's your opinion please
Insult can come in also
Thanks

Good day guys
I'm a single guy I have a project I'm working on at ikorodu, I'm building my own house so I'm trying to cut cost by all means so I can further the project I want to leave this apartment where I'm staying I'm paying 400k annually and I'm only earning 80k per month aside this there are still other things to take care of like utility bills and feeding so please guys if you can help me out to get a single face me I face you apartment or a rooms elf contain not more than 200k annually round this same area I would be greatful please guys help me out thanks.

Jostoman:
Nairaland people e shock you? can you imagine using 58.6billion to print 2.5 billion Nigeria government with comedy series.

i swear brother na how I just dey shout since I see the healine

Good day guys, I broke up with my ex sometimes ago that was like 3 years or there about, so we dated for 5 years before breaking up and everyone moved on with their life, so as we were on our different relationships, we were both being served punishment from our current partners.
At first I broke up with her and was happy I found someone better than her, in that relationship I was happy because I felt someone I've met was calm and understanding but, 1 year after I started seeing a strange attitude in the girl, attitude of like getting angry with me over the pains her ex caused her, and also trying to use me, she also had the entitlement mentality of me doing every damn thing for her, and if I don't do it she would get mad at me and pick up quarell with me, I ran into depth and alot of things weren't just working out and she portrayed herself in a way that I can't confide in her, I try to tell her my problems instead of assisting me she would rather attack me, she was happy I was sob I wasn't happy in the relationship I felt I was in a boundage, I gifted her many things but she has never looked at me and buy me ordinary boxers fine, I know she doesn't have I understood and yet she is working, the only thing she got for me was small chops when we were dating and that was when I was angry with her, so she needed to do something to apologise so she went to bring me small chops I appreciated it thou because I'm not an ingrate, so I tried so many times until I finally discharged her and we broke up on breaking up with her she blocked me on all social media and also blocked my friend and family. and my ex on the other hand was going through alot in her relationship too, she has been with different guys just to see if it would work out but they rather cheat on her and make her feel bad and my ex was a girl that when I was with her I enjoyed myself it was fun all through because we play alot and she showers me with gift, and she had a good soul that when she entered my life I noticed the changes but, when I was with the other girl I got into so many depths that it was my ex that came to my rescue to help me pay them up despite the fact we are not dating.
And now she is begging me to come back so we would continue from where we stopped.
I told her I needed to think about it, she said since the both of us are not in a relationship currently we can make the best out of it this time .
And on the other hand I'm scared of going to start another relationship with another girl because all of them are almost the same thing that if I'm even lucky not to meet someone worst, so I feel its better to just pick up someone you know you can endure her attitude and enjoy life once she is supportive caring and loving every other thing doesn't matter.
So I'd like to hear you guys opinion please.


Thanks

Almost same features with Samsung galaxy A12 and that why I love my Samsung its only a zombie that would splash such huge amount of money on phone

I know this guy now, he is one of the top Nigerian Internet marketers they call him kabiyesi,along side with others like Thomas Gabriel, Don nick which is dead now and more others like that or could he be that he was kidnapped because he is making alot of money and showing off same on social media �

Seems no fresh thread in nairaland again why will the admin pull out a 2018 post in 2021
And the price of materials for building has sky rocketed in the past few years

ugodson:
We Nigerians did not know what we had till we lost this Man.
Like myself I didn't believe bubu will treat us like dis. I voted him now am regretting

if you voted him in 2015 you are forgiven but if you put him back in 2019 thunder will locate you

Good day guys Please does anybody know how much it cost to visit lekki conservation centre and to have a maximum fun over there I'm thinking 30k won't be enough to have fun over there and I'm going with a female friend which happens to be my birthday mate so I want to make this one a memorable one anybody that can help please?

jaxxy:
“The Richest Man In Babylon”.

Read it.

OK thanks bro

jaxxy:
If I recommend you a book that cud literally and practically solve ur problem will u read it??

yes please

HUSTLER001:
If you earn less than 100k and you reside in Lagos and single,better start preparing for life in the village because reality is beginning to set in and I need not say much about that and yes,to your question,check well those people earning less than 40k and living in Lagos are spirits.

lol

Greatness87:
There are some questions I need to ask before I can tell you how to manage your resources and save
1) How much do spend on transportation monthly
2) How much do you spend on feeding and other expenses monthly

My dear I don't spend in transport my place if work is a Stone throw from my house and I do buy food stuff monthly and put in the house but the economy this days is just something else

Good day guys
I'm a single guy but I have a family to carter for, and that's my mum and sister.
The problem is I earn 80k in lagos and I don't know its just not enough for me
And I'm not paying a rent I live in family house.
Can someone please tell me how to manage my resources because very soon I would want to stand alone and start my own family.
Thanks.

In order words let's welcome ios peeps to android world because this innovation go spoil work for holosho and as for the political aspect omo that's like taking away freedom of speech and na this kind thing dey sweet buhari for blokus

mascot345:
Any good Engineer or builder in the house. Can #2million finish a 2bedroom bungalow with the current cost of building materials in our country today.

bro don't let them scare you with huge amount they are mentioning here I'm also building a 3 bedroom bungalow along side with 3 unit of self contained and 2 shops in front of it, if you look at what they are mentioning in regards to the money you would be discouraged but I'd advice you every month invest 100k or 50k in the project, it might take time but you would definitely get there.

At a point in time I felt I can be free around her I ventured into forex without telling her with the mindset that once the money starts coming in i can give her more of what she wanted
But I lost the fund because of greed
So I try explaining to her sge cut me short and told me why would I lost such huge amount of money when I'm not a kid I felt disappointed and ever since then I stopped telling her about what I'm going through even if I'm dying I don't say a word I just isolate myself till I'm able to recover.
She enjoys the relationship while I'm enduring the relationship and this I've said to her many times,
Now I posted a status on my WhatsApp status telling people that I've put a smile on their face in one way or the other to pray for me so most of the people who prayed for me are females while there are few males
She go angry again for ladies praying for me and she her self say the status and she didn't pray for me, only for her to message me on a voice note telling me she is keeping evidence,
I got furious and was like evidence of what
She kept quiet and asked me to forget about it

Along the line I lost interest in the relationship I felt telling her is the best thing
So I called her to come over we discussed and u told her my mind but she got mad and talk any how to me and she borrowed me 15k a week before the day I told her I needed to be left alone .
She got angry and asked me to pay her up that night we are breaking up that she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again and that I should look for a way to pay her up that night she doesn't care how I would get the money she wants to see her money, I begged her to give me atleast a week so I can put myself together to pay her up she said Godforbid that it's this night so I called in my friends they all came through for me I paid her up she now said I've destroyed her that atleast I want her to go into prostitution and that she would go in with full force and nobody would stop her and she even mentioned the guy that was her course mate ,that if not that she is older than the guy she would date him that the guy understand her better.
I told her no problem all the best.
Then a week after the break up she sent me a picture of pregnancy test result showing that she is pregnant double line for that matter ooo.
She knew I don't like abortion so she threatened me that she would abort the baby because I've rejected her because of her health and the baby involved we got talking again I asked her to do another pregnancy test 1 came out negative the other one came out invalid I told her that to be very sure we have to go to the lab to do blood test
At first she refused she I forcwd her to the lab the result came out negative and we were asked to come back next week for another test so as to be sure if it's positive or negative.

She made this statement in front of her friends and a guy asking her out in school I felt so bad I broke up she came back to apologise that she would kill her self on me if I don't accept her back so I accepted her back but this time I refuse to give her something because she said I was never there and she is the very jealous type my friend's sister did birthday I posted her picture wishing her a happy birthday but instead my gf git mad that I posted the girl and this is a girl that she knows at first she tries to read All my WhatsApp messages which I stopped her from doing because I have so many female friends which some are course mates and some are friends of friends so she warned me never to have female friends I told her these people were here before you but I didn't go for them instead I came for you why won't you trust me

[/b]Continuation.....[b]
So after the second day she called that she was sorry for everything that happened so I forgive her and we continue dating.. but this time her attitude was hidden and she played along but no matter how hard she tries to play along her attitude still surfaces in one way or the other and she is a very jealous person.
So I took care of her provided for her buy her gifts surprise her with a lot of things coz I felt she is my girl I have to take care of her so she doesn't go get all these things else where, so she collected them.
But the day I needed help from her I borrowed 30k from her to use take care of her because she needed somethings so I ran into depth along the line so I paid up but I felt I should share the good news with babe....
She attacked me telling me that why are .y not paying her her money or is it because I hers I was hurt by this statement I ask my friends to assist me to pay her up that night.
So fast forward to recently when she wanted to pay her school fee I assisted her but she made me feel bad after paying her school fee of over 100k and she insulted me by telling me what have I even done for her in this life just because I refuse to but her a 5k cake

Good day guys
I'm in a dilemma right now,
I have a girlfriend in which we have been dating for the past 2 years
I met her july 2018 and asked her to be my girlfriend by December 2018 after I broke up with my ex just because my ex was so confused she doesn't know what she wanted and my ex was just 21 as at that time and this age group phase is what most guys here call that hoeing phase��, so back to the story as I was narrating, so I met this girl we started our journey everything looks so perfect she was gentle,calm,obedient,respectful.
So when I saw all these qualities I felt Gof has compensated me with someone better than who I left just because I had good heart and good intentions towards my ex,
So the love story was interesting and sweet, I spoilt my girlfriend with gift, money and surprises because I was happy I found love again, but I wasn't too convinced she can be as sweet as she is is making herself look,
So one day I called her and tell her that "baby is this really your attitude or you are just pretending" she told me uts her real attitude and that's how her attitude is like that she is not pretending I felt relaxed after hearing that.
Lo and behold after 6 months of relationship and after pretending for 6 months the beast in her surfaced
And that is when we started having issues.
And what are the issues?
Issues like me promising to help her out with some funds but if I can't make it up to her just because something else comes up she would flare up scream at me shout at me telling me I breach agreement and plans without even asking me for the reason why it happened.
This continues like this until I called her to come see me let's hang out.
From which during the hang out I asked her a question that do you really love me?
She said yes,
Then I went further u told her that the way you are doing when it comes to money in this relationship you are making me feel like you don't like me but you are just after my money .
On hearing this she got mad and left my presence then I ran after her to meet her that she doesn't have to do that, but she didn't even mind me and she went home in anger then that same day I started calling but she refused to pick my call and didn't call me back so I made up my mind that if after 3rd day no call from her I would end the relationship.