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Please know that an act of peace, no matter how small, is an act of hope.
So, creating world peace is no easy task and it continues to be one of the most significant challenges of our times. But there are several things each of us as individuals can do to help create a more peaceful world. Be generous with your smiles. Let someone else go first. Then, I will lose an argument to loved ones. But you are to

1. Take God as All you have
2. Live simply.
3. Help feed the hungry.
4. Erase a border in your mind.
5. Teach peace to children.
6. Be honest.
7. Think about consequences.
8. Commit yourself to nonviolence.
9. Support nonviolent solutions to global problems.
10. Speak up for a healthy planet.
11. Be fair.
12. Think for yourself.
13. Ask questions.
14. Recognize your unique potential.
15. Join an organization working for peace.
16. Be less materialistic.
17. Be more loving.
18. Empower others to work for peace.
19. Support equality.
20. Listen to your heart.
21. Help the poor.
22. Study the lives of peace heroes.
23. Advance the rights of future generations.
24. Be a voice for the voiceless.
25. Be forgiving.
26. Laugh more.
27. Play with a child.
28. Help educate the next generation to be compassionate.
29. Take personal responsibility for creating a better world.
30. Help someone.
31. Clear your mind.
32. Be constructive.
33. Plant seeds of peace.
34. Change a potential enemy into a friend.
35. Be positive.
36. Share.
37. Be a good neighbor.
38. Send a note of appreciation.
39. Tell your friends how much they matter.
40. Say I love you more.

Oby, I don't play with my night. anytime from 10pm is sleep.

lol
shebi d spouse need to have somethng before we go support
D end of discussion na real end of discussion,
african queen
miss world/tourism/model just name am she fit
your earlier decision don change already,trust me
post her pic
bia, dnt u knw carlosein is still single and he never get agent

Wetin the spouse go need again. Abi una no give her support?

If Carlosein say na dat one him go want - no wahala afterall he is my brother and I will demand fro another one. There are many pretty girls in Naija. Just post the pic

holythug:
is anyone goin 2 answer my question

Pls, you guys should answer him now He has not received any answer. A certain Chairman wanted just 3 people to make comments before he could conclude and issue. After 3 people made their comments, the chairman still asked again just 3 comments more. Reason, they had not hit the points the Chairman wanted.

Ebos na how u make profit we wan to dey hear and not loss abeg o.

Na so me I want o but no fit understand wetin come happen again. At times I dey carry my hand jump into loss - entering entering market when doubts full ground couple with distractions.

This wan no b reason y u go disappear for this thread o, because i no gree at all, at all.

Oby, my sister, na good reason o - make I no come see double. Remember, no be only Forex me I dey do.

My mission is, then, to support my spouse, to complement my spouse, to lead my spouse to heaven. This is not easy – you know it better than I do – because we are often selfish and narrow-minded.

So, Viee know the truth na him you wan go bring me wife wey wan change him mind because I dey run marathon loss.   Abeg, post the pic of the person wey you say you don bring for Retired Chief ebos.  Na fair or dark girl wan change mind?  Make I know whether me go make amend or still stick to my decision

My prayer to you all, may our lives be like wildflowers, growing freely in the beauty and joy of each day.

Take, and welcome joy within you:
Showers, flowers, powers,
Hatfuls, capfuls, lapfuls,
Treasures, measures, pleasures,
God’s fear and His blessings
All be yours to enjoy!

Make una pity me o.  I dey get marathon loss o.  My first trading for this year be give me close to 40k profit and the second day was also good but things come later change for bad.  E dey unusual to me.  I no fit understand at all.  Dem come wipe everything even the new capital wey I use start for this year.  Now, I wan deposit another money.  Really mean wetin I dey talk.  A lot of distractions here no be small.  I never experience this kind thing before.  I no come understand my own PH again o.

So, e be like say I go begin go for Holidays where me go dey alone.  I say make I tell una because I go even disappear for Nairaland for a while, den I go resurface after me don recover and hit them back.  Anytime from Monday, I fit begin my Holidays and me no go show face for Nairaland, but make una try carry the thread dey go ahead.

mpossicant!, our brother is too dear to us not even money can put assunder we sure say our brother get d intrest of our biz for heart so dear brother pay up

See as them wan because of money put assunder wey their brother dey and them still dey say not even money.  Brother know the right time to see him sisters and brothers but for now ebos dey sick for money.

we agree sef sey u bi our brother, but agree with me sey some business no dey identify brother or sister.
But make i see if Viee go fit agree to this term.  Viee may be we go sorry for am.  Wetin u think?

So, na money come make you forget your own brother?  I know believe am.   Me no fit do like that to you.  You know, this one na our first biz and if it work out well - subsequent go attract anything una feel like to add.

Viee may be we go sorry for am.  Wetin u think?

Abeg, push the idea, that is nice of you

Ebos u hear am now, play your ball well (settle us wit d pay) then u will see d potential Mrs Ebos  viee i like u jo, u b correct business lady

I wish I can play again like my Secondary school days, but I no even know where pitch dey again.

Carlosein, how u come dey?

Already i don find his missing rip sef but as he dey talk now e bi like say we go review d trms and conditions even further besides d chick wey go ansa Mrs. Ebos na end of discussion and we did it in record time, so d terms must change oooo

But me never see any person o.   I no understand

ebos, we are submitting another quotation,
but dnt worry, your end of discussion go be yours whn we sort ourselves out

Waiting to see the quotation.   Hope,  this one no go be a failure again, and I still dey worry that the 168 hrs has elapsed

because i no wan mak d guy dey mak andrews Liver salt scare for market, i don offer my services free of charge

 

for ebos, i no say ripe paw paw is a no no

I no understand you again o, besides, you go explain  wetin that bolded phrase mean to my fellow Catholics here o   Big trouble you dey find o 

You see what i mean, e don change music sey na just fun e dey take am make because pay don dey involved   ebos! ebos!! ebos!!! na u biko.  You get sense no bi small

  Una be my sisters now, so problem no fit dey between brothers and sisters.  Even if problem dey sey we be human, e go be minor one and we go settle it.  But I no tell u lie, fun still dey.  As for money, e be like say na free una charge   But, if una do good job , den payment fit dey,  e FIT be annually i.e and again if God make am possible. But e fit dey possible. Me I never know

Oby1:
So make u no complain again sey u dey loss 4 market

show o? I go complain now but e no pain me because na my friends and e don tee when we see last.  Again, I not fit say because I dey pursue money come put the money ahead of friends. As them dey visit, me I still dey visit them.  Just like in Nairaland I be don take u guys as friends - Carlosein, Oby, Lawyer, Viee etc and I not fit put money ahead of you guys.    I know there will be opportunity for us all to see one day, the time no matter but make God give us good health and life.

Before I forget, I no fit again put money ahead of our repented critics at least I appreciate their cease fire and I wantam as e dey now.  Before, their hands dey dance for keyboard against Catholic and the thing come annoy me well well no be small- when 200 Popes go say something them no go see that one but when  one (1) Pope talk, them go add and subtract and na that one them go see quick.  Only one Pope comment go overrule 200 Popes' comments.   I no fit explain that kind attack.  Thank God everybody don go rest.

No be only dem they see me, me I still dey see dem too but u no fit be with person every hour. E get time wey only u go dey.

Carlosein,

Abeg don't mind me o.  When I feel like to have rest and free myself a little - I come to Nairaland just for a brief fun.  

The day I will leave this thread may be my final day in Nairaland. Who can tell?

instead you jus de do "countdown to ebos wedding

see dis guy o, abi make I do count wetin?

Where is the girl u guys promised to bring to Ebos as wife?  Countdown to 168 hrs – my eyes still outside watching if any beautiful damsel will walk in introducing herself as the person.  Make una show me the person now.  I now remember one drama we acted during primary school days.  The young man was rejecting every girl that came to him but he never knew that all the girls in the community had come to him for marriage and it remained just a girl after which  no other girl in their community.  However, it was made clear that no man would go outside their community to look for a wife.  So, when he was told that only a girl remain in the community and after which there would be no other girl.  This guy wanted a kind of girl for wife to the extent that those girls that were virtually ok  to him were all rejected.

Meanwhile, as it remained only a girl and the girl in question was no match to most of the girls he rejected and he didn’t know.   They also stated that on no account would any person go back to any girl he rejected.   Now this guy started crying everywhere repeatedly – “please elders and youths show me who will be my wife.” They told him “your wife is coming.”   When the girl finally came, he was shocked and realized that he had married the (near) ugliest girl in the community. This was the consequence of over selection.

Luckily, I ran into the guy that acted that very role this 2007 December after many many years.  I reminded him about the drama and we laughed over it.   

So, wey the girl now?  Me I no ask much, only make the girl dey very beautiful and fair – finish.  Abi, if I no take time I go be like the guy?  Make una answer the question.  My own answer fit be NO.  I no go get like that.

Honestly, my own brother was a victim too. After no to this and no to that his legs (not his heart) finaly said yes to a certain lady he could not believe.  Though, he was not the person I referred to this drama.  The drama also took place years back. Guess he's not happy till now.

Time don reach wey me dey run from Nairaland for anothing thing. see u later, abi no wan browse this Nairaland from 7pm.

I know you fit feed Lion make him dey calm for a while but when him no get food to chop him master don become food be dat. Militant go gree but when dem no see money chop wetin dem go do? Kidnap?

True, you no go tell Mr. Anybody but how about Mr. Militant?

Carlosein:
but make you no go hide for militant base o

Abi o, but thank God the militants dem no fit penetrate where me go hide

What I will do from next week Wednesday is to make it difficult for them to locate the actual place I will be in PH.

My brother - I go say Forex for now just dey spoil my mind.  I have not concentrated well for this year because here in PH  old friends are distracting me a lot. 

I will definitely not make myself available to many of them from Wednesday next week to avoid unnecessary loss which I experienced this week.  Once I concentrate, I make good profit but when distraction starts - I miscalculate and the outcome is always loss.

I know I will make up the loss from next week.

Again, I hope say the person go gree wed for Catholic? This one no dey negotiable at all - na must. Na d things viee go consider too.

Carlosein,

Abi u no see how dis my people carry execute good job for me?

So, na because I no pay anything na him make Oby come spoil Viee mind to review the contract.  Ok o, na now I come understand say if you wan a good job u must drop something no matter how small it may be.  Una give me 168 hrs and just few hours to it una come dey review the contract because the time is no longer feasible to execute a good job for me.  Una don finally tell me say make I continue with my abino wife to be (according to Oby).

just a flash back to Lawyer's comment as stated below:

i come to realise that internet friends will only be internet friends. Its not real and will never be for me.

That one na able Lawyer's comment and I still dey meditate on it but I know u guys are different and are real.

Oby,

Ok o, but if Viee cannot get any before Tuesday, then I wetin I go do?  It den means God wan make I go ahead with the one whether dey around already.  The person no get wahala at all but me dey look if anyone go fit beat her. Again, make she do the screening well o.   But, Viee, where you put the advert?  Abi Sun, Punch or Guardian?  Better all the Newspapers o. But, remember Lawyer o - don't forget ur brother.

Viee, me still dey PH - PH na my second home. na there them born me o and me grow up there.  I dey feel at home for PH but I go still come Lagos after me don go my third home then straight to Lagos.


Carlosein be wan Oby share with us wetin them learn but nothing we see.

Just to see what is happening - made decision not to visit Nairaland by this hour, the time is for another thing.  Another violation.   Get to have enough time with you all tomorrow.

Na my big brother friend o abi, u are ok now?

pls, I'm going out now with someone. See u all later.

Why?

My fault - my failure to control my emotion i.e. violating my rules backfired at me. I should learn how to call it a day when it's time to do so.

if it is the will of God.

Join in this.

hope you are not trying to dissuade me

If you find yourself in the bottom of a deep hole, the first thing to do is stop digging. But I will not stop digging. I hope my statement(s) is to encourage you?

Carlosein:
ebos, hope all's well sha.

praying for you my man .

If you find yourself in the bottom of a deep hole, the first thing to do is stop digging. But I will not stop digging.

Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough. You can now understand me well.

@ Oby,

I could not attend mass yesterday because I was away till 8.30pm - I had to visit a friend and the visit was made during the time of mass. Hope, you put us in your prayer?

Seek happiness more in your mind and less in the acquisition of things. Be so happy in your mind that nothing that comes can possibly make you unhappy. Then, you can get along without things you have been accustomed to. Be happy knowing you have acquired that power not to be negative. Know, too, that you will never again become so materially minded that you forget your inner happiness, even if you become a millionaire.

Suffering and joy teach us, if we allow them, how to make the leap of empathy, which transports us into the soul and heart of another person. ln those transparent moments we know other people's joys and sorrows, and we care about their concerns as if they were our own.

Spread love everywhere you go: first of all in your own house.
Give love to your children, to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbor , Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God's kindness;
kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm greeting.

Funny enough, I'm not happy right now.