Sophyrocks:


And if all the guys in her bbm or nairaland all want s.ex in the relationship nko? what will she do? Look lets be real here cos ure not been real. very few guys will date a lady without s.ex or even date a virgin till marriage. Im sorry o. but i still dnt agree with you o. My own is: You want virgins as a man? then stop asking for s.ex. Simple!! You cannot keep asking different girls for s.ex expecting all to say No. Some will say yes depending on high/low they rate their moral values and it would be st.upid to blame her after sleeping with her. Its f00lishness to do so. If you dnt ask for something you wont get it. Its blatant hypocrisy when you keep sleeping with girls and then you come to nairaland and start preaching. practise what you preach.

EOD.

1st of, my point was never about virginity n U know .. The problem I have with this thread was ppl trying to "blame the other man" for their inability to say NO. A word even my 5yr old nephew don't have problem saying.


2ndly, U've Obviously made up your mind about guys being evil. I honestly hope u don't hate guys. For u to talk about being realistic n then saying "and if all the guys want sex nko" seriously?.... I know that not all the girls in a strip joint are whores and that's being real.. Not every1 who goes to church is righteous , that's being real... Not every1 who contest for a position in a community care about his kinsmen, that's being real.... So for u to come here n talk about every guy want sex just shows u belong to the " Every Guy is the same" School of thought.. I can type from now till next year but it wouldn't matter you've made up your mind.. If a wife cheats then the husband must have done something wrong, if a woman castrate her husband then the husband must be cheating, if a wife stabs her husband then the husband must have been maltreating her n she couldn't take it no more.. That's how u think... Well, Good luck with that.


A friend of mine back in school never had sex then ( @least that was what he told me) because according to him he could lead to distraction... N I know of a dude who just turned 30 , who's scared of sex in a relationship because of the "unwanted pregnancy" situation n who's always talking of marriage... If In the mix of all the excitement around me I still find ppl like this then I'm sure anywhere in the world u could get a person with these same traits... like I said earlier , u already have a thing against guys... ManUtd match done start.... Well, have fun



EOD

Sophyrocks:


So what will you say to guys who make s.ex a condition for relationships? or havent you heard ladies who decide to keep themselves complain of guys leaving them simply because of the 'No s.ex' rule in relationships? Even double dating because of that? Be truthful to yourself. Are you trying to say guys are free to ask but its the job of ladies to say No? why must a guy ask a girl for s.ex? Why must guys use it as a condition for a relationship? Then when these ladies remain single because of this, you people will shout "Go and Marry" when all the men with them wanna do is 'chop and clean mouth'.

Be very honest because you are not. Guys should stop the asking and ladies should close their legs. Both genders have their role to play. Date wthout s.ex then you can find virgins. its very simple. But i trust their blokos not to agree.

Yes I've heard and SEEN too but when a lady sleeps with a guy not because she wanted to but because he threatened to dump her she needs to see a psychologist to help her work on her self-esteem.. U must have heard the saying "They are many fishes in the river " it actually work both ways. Y will a girl allow herself to be manipulated by a guy when all she needs to do is as little as paste her BB pin on nairaland n watch guys drop over themselves just to say "Hi".there must be a guy somewhere among them with a good intention. Trust me , all guys r not the same.

Heeeeellll Yes!!! Guys r allowed to ask just the way girls r allowed to ask for recharge cards n stuffs.. Its left for the girl to say no just the way I'll tell any girl asking for recharge card n stuff "NO"

Na my right to ask, Na your right to say No <<<< Artiste " Lagbaja" song title "Gra Gra"


This kind of remind me of being young. Driving with dad , always seeing something I like , always begging him to buy it for me , always getting the same answer "No" (99% of the time). Even when I know the reply will most likely be No I never stopped asking and hoping. Its Human Nature!!


Meanwhile, this marriage of a thing don dey cause too much wahala sef oh... I wan marry I wan marry.. U rush in U rush out. Divorce everywhere... Most ladies go as far as turning a blind eye to a violent man, get married to him n expect him to change after marriage. OYO

My advice to both guys n girls alike is "Be yourself, Don't let anybody manipulate you." The more U stand Your ground,love yourself n believe in Yourself the more respect n love He/She develops for U<<< This too is human nature.

Sophyrocks:


You dnt criticise non -virgins so why did u make it a gender thing? You may have a permissive view on things and think everyone should act anyhow they like not minding if others are afffected but not everyone is like you. The Oriticise non -virgins so why did u make it a gender thing? You may have a permissive view on things and think everyone should act anyhow they like not minding if others are afffected but not everyone is like you. The Op is condemning the ladies and the person you quoted is saying it takes two to tango which is absolutely true so you clearly do not understand the person you quoted. That was why i expatiated on what she said. Boko haram will continue to be criticised as long as what they are doing is wrong. You will continue to criticise cheating because its wrong.

Exactly! The person I Quoted like u stated "said it takes two to tango".. And that right there is deflecting the blame to the next person available.

Its like a graduate going to rob a bank , getting caught and then blaming the government for not providing jobs. We know we live in a shitty country with irresponsible leaders but is that enough excuse to do a thing like that?.... Saying something like this "the government didnt provide a means of income for me so I had to go rob a bank" <<< How does this sound to you... This is exactly the same thing as saying "If he hadn't ask I wouldn't have had sex with him".. ... For crying out loud no be Juju he put for tongue dey ask u naoooo... No be by force!!! The word "NO" still exist and maybe if more ppl use it we will not be having this little discussion ATM.




Meanwhile I noticed the constructive criticism n it isn't fair @all considering the fact that u barely know me. Not cool!!! ... The fact that I was brought up to believe in the concept ( still do) of freedom doesn't mean I don't have a moral standard!

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Meanwhile, just checked your profile. Sam smith gay? Never knew.I thought as much though,The way he behaves and all. It Doesn't change the fact that "In the Lonely Hours" is the best da*mn album this Year!!!!!.



Nice pro pic by the way .

Sophyrocks:


This is not about gender equality or discrimination. This is just plain common sense. If more guys are free to sleep with lots of girls, please tell me how virgins will still exist? If your goal is to disvirgin as much girls as possible from their teens, will virgins increase in number? You cannot start a fire in a bush but turn around and start lamenting and asking why there is fire in the bush. Calculate it well. Its common sense.

I never said MORE GUYS ARE FREE ( OR SHOULD BE ALLOWED) to sleep with girls ( whether Virgins or not) as they like. I simply asked a question "Can You Live With It?.....

I've been in a lot of relationships yet I've never double-dated once n will never! Y? Because I can't live with it.


The problem with most ladies i see here on nairaland is they come online to say how they feel the society should be like but yet when its time to act they all run for cover.

U see a guy sagging walking a mile without touching is short once ( Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying sagging is cool) then u see a Girl rocking a low-waist Jean with a string trying to pull d jean up every 10seconds ( Y wear it if U're not going be comfortable)




CommonSense Or NoT



My Point: its not about how it should be ( Fantasy) its about how it is (Real) ... On that post you quoted I never criticised non-Virgins + U will never catch me criticizing Girls ( Loose or not) on Nairaland or anywhere else. If they can live with it, No Problemo!.

Tallesty1:
I went to their house when everyone was inside.





Pressed their doorbell and ran away.............

Looooool.... Best Revenge, Hands down!!!!!

VickyyB:


If u dnt kip ur virginity, how can a girl keep hers ?

As much as I believe in the saying "What is good for the goose is good for the gander" I also know that's not the case in the society we live in today n I've accepted the fact about life.


Gender discrimination, Racism, tribalism e.t.c are here to stay no matter how much we try to fight it. Its just the way it is.

U may be wondering what point I was trying to make (above).
Its simply this ; A guy can actually have sex with 15 ladies in a month n talk about it publicly ( with pride) but can U ( a lady) have sex with 15 guys in a month n talk about it PRIVATELY with friends ... U get my point now? As much as we try to fight for gender equality its NEVER going happen. A girl losing her virginity just because her twin brother lost his is foolery of the highest level.. If una continue with this whole " that guy do am so I fit do an too " attitude na una go wound oooooh!!!

BlackTechnology:



Obj where is our $16b


Thief= Liar

And some blank head SW youths believe a thief like Obj

No wonder SW is full of mud houses

You ever heard the saying "the easiest way to catch a thief is by putting a thief in-charge"..


Stop acting naive . . . who do you think can tell us more about what's happening in aso rock? A Christ embassy pastor based in Lagos or a thief who few years back was dining with thieves" .


Well, I guess we now know who the blank head is here. Joke's on U bro

Since they dey try hide the truth from us ,theres a simple solution to all this .


When Record labels keep pushing an artiste album release date back what does he do? He simply "leak it on the internet"



OBJ get enuff money he shouldn't care about sales... He can just use one of his boys to carry out the "leak" through PDF n ePubs.





If asked he should simply say "it wasn't me" in shaggy's voice.

tosyne2much:


Na so nooooow

Guy guy guy noooo try am oh! This no b the period to sick at all . Na dis Xmas period wey d gbedu wan start proper naim u wan sick .. Hope this no be pattern to make madam take an easy on your wallet this period ( illness = No hustle = No fund = No spending)


Anywayssssha, On behalf of every 1 who couldn't quote on your diary thread WE are saying GET WELL SOON. 1luv

Op what about "Kerewa things" ? Because the kind skills and styles girls dey come up with these days I no come understand again oh.... Omooo they don scatter we FRENCH boys waist finish oh!!!

bigtt76:
Does he think that a broken SIM cannot be replaced? Guy na mumu shaaa

Una go just come online dey curse ppl wives n husbands anyhow.... I don't know y these ppl still seek for advice here.


@op there's something you're not telling us.. This your post isn't complete yet.. A guy wouldn't just wake up in the morning n ask you to break your sim just like that!.

MzNelly:
I love cartoons, that don't make me immature.
The list isn't......quite accurate.

.

"Quite accurate" is an understatement. This List is complete BS.


@op, just the way u say watching cartoons is a sign of immaturity that's how some girls will say playing video game is a sign of immaturity.


I LOVE cartoons as much as I love movies ( good once like justice league ,mulan & Hotel Transylvania) , I'm craaaazy about games, I'm a football fanatic , I party 1c in a blue moon , Use to be a fan of BBA , hellll yeah! I even watch telemundo once in a while!.

If this is being immature then I see myself being Immature forever! *its my life *

AfricanApple:
I agree with u but have u forgotten that
1. some men tells their wife not to work (don't most of u want submissive woman?)
2. no matter how independent u are, a workload of two people dat has become that of one person will be tedious to handle

1. Forget all these "submissive" internet talks..trust me, No1 wants a zombie for a wife...

2. You're right. But the problem is most of them don't even try to make an effort towards being independent no more. Hence , the saying "I don't need a good result I'll marry a rich man"... In fact, when u really look closely u will see its not the men actually holding the women back these days its the women who just want to sit in a saloon all day.

AfricanApple:
..... most of them have the notion that when they die, the wife marries another man and maybe spend the money for the new family. imagine!!!

Its not just a NOTION.. We've seen this happen several times. Body no be firewood. I expect a man/woman to get married ( couple of years or more) n keep on living after the death of a spouse. If the woman ends up getting re-married to a wrong guy what do u think would happen to the late husband kids and siblings


That's Y the next of kin should always be the "Mum"..

merieam16:
He can use anybody he likes,he gat his money...moral lesson wife should also work hard 4 her money so wen d so called husband dies, she doesnt suffer

Thank u joor..




These are the kinds of thread that make guys scared of marriage.. An ambitious lady wouldn't care about next of kin or properties.. U realize how much this things don't matter when you're independent!!...

tosyne2much:
[i] I grew up with the mentality that short people are overly-aggressive and over compensate for their height.. My observation is based on my encounter with them. Though there are individual reasons why they are aggressive but below are my observations

Note - I'm not generalizing

Reasons Why Short Dudes Are Aggressive

1. Because Other Guys Believe They Can Snatch Their Girlfriends [/quote]

I believe I can snatch any1s girl ( this isn't about height but confidence.. N I also know any dude can snatch my girl! With Girls these days we no dey know finish.

[/quote] 2. Too Much Emphasis Is Placed On Tall Dudes [/quote]
True!.. Ask me what my dream girl should look like I'll say "Eva Mendes or Jessica Alba" .... "Enjoy Your Mind-Trip ( Fantasy ) but don't trip on your mind... Girls go on a "Mind-trip" every time... Its allowed
[/quote]
3. Ladies Make Them Feel Less Of Themselves [/quote]
Most low self-esteem PPl (not just ladies) try to make others feel less important to make themselves feel important... Again this has nothing to do with height.

[[/quote]b] 4. Telling Them Their Children Will Be Short [/b] [/quote]
Hmnnn ... This is a story for another day.
[/quote]
5. They Don't Want To Be Intimidated [/quote]
Common maaaaan.. Really? .. Do u like being intimidated..
[/quote] 6. Fear of Being Cheated On [/quote]


[/quote] 7. People's Perception Towards Them
A Yoruba adage says " a short man is a troublesome person".
<<<<< another Yoruba adage " wetin an elder sees sitting down a child cannot see on top a tree" ... I've seen so many Silly ogogoro elders (pardon my french) arguing about Chelsea and man Utd.. Makes me wonder if it wasn't some1 high on ogogoro who came up with these adages.


[/quote] 8. Because They Are Not Happy With Their Stature [/quote]
95% of humans believes they deserve more than they have.. Height, Money, Skills , ... Most ppl find excuses to be depress these days. A tall person will find an excuse to be unhappy (some even go as far as blaming GEJ for every misfortune) .. This doesn't count.

[/quote] 9. Because They Are Less Rated [/quote]
U think so Put Aki or Paw Paw on 1side n a 6ft tall dude on the other side..guess who's going get picked?... Ppl don't rate height.. Ppl rate success.
[/quote]
10. Because They Are Sometimes Not Considered huh?....

Feel Free to Add Yours
[/quote]

Guy u want to talk about AGGRESSION right?.. U watch football right??..... Diego Costa, zidane , Balotelli , Suarez .... Last time I checked these dudes aren't short... B4 u come up with a thread u should do a bit of research... Don't just jump on a everything.( like every1 else).


U have some really good top 10 threads unfortunately this isn't 1 of them.

Ishilove:

5'5. Any height above 5'5 is tall!!

Yea. For a girl. I'm 5'8 and that's short to me.

Really tho' girls subconsciously don't care about height.. Just the way guys subconsciously don't care about b*oobs and A*ss too and that's y most ppl end up with the exact opposite of their dream Girl/Guy because really we (Humans) don't care , we just want to be loved..


The only reason we " set standard" is to boost our self-esteem n make us feel and believe we r special.
So if u ask me what my dream girl should look like then I'll say "Eva mendes Or Meegan Good" just the way I expect the ladies to say "Idris Elba n Christiano Ronaldo"


Na so the thing goes!!.

@3cycle Whats Your definition of tall Im 5'8 n I consider that to be short!

Ironically, 90% of girls I've gone out with were taller than me (Funny thing is I don't go after girls with height JUSt "A*ss ) ... My last is almost as tall as Brooke Shields

So when girls (short or tall) talk about height I just laugh because subconsciously they don't really care about that..


I've been there, I've done that n I know its never about height but CHARISMA ( most ppl would call it swag)


N the talk about Short guys having inferior complex is one of the Greatest Lie out there.

As a guy i actually blame guys for every misfortune they experience based on the female species.

Most Nigerian ladies will say "lets be friends" Knowing U can NEVER be just friends with some1 U're attracted to.. Y they don't want to give a brothr the "kpekus" theyve also decided to give a brother the "Hopeless Hope" condition making Him believe there's hope and taking advantage of the brother by constantly demanding his services.." Phil, My bulb is bad can u help me fix it" , " Phil I want to get a new phone I need 2k to complete it, can u help me pls, that's what friends r for right?"... "Phil my friend is coming to town can u help me pick him"...


Well, I would have like to continue but Xmas Carroll ppl don show my house oh... December 1st n they don come already... Na was ohhhhh!

Na FIFA I blame sha... making empty threats since the beginning of time!!!.. Y can't they Just ban us for like 4yrs already? !!!.... All these confused ppl will have to find another avenue to make money then.

abiolag:
I don't know how to open zip file that i downloaded with my phone.I will appreciate the assistance of the house.God bless

Hello... Good evening. I don't know if u eventually got a solution to this problem. I'm experiencing the same problem and I'll totally appreciate it if u can put me through.


Thank you

Being Nice & Being Foolish are two different things.. Don't get it twisted.

Being Nice is seeing a girl u know walking by,saying just hello n letting her walk pass.


Being Foolish is seeing a girl u know walking by, saying hello, walking towards her , help her hold her bags, & escort her to wherever she is going to...(& then walk back home ALONE).

Aprime:
The article is more like “Disadvantages of being too nice to a lady you're romantically interested In”... and not just every Woman. +_+

Of course not every woman (Even those you're romantically interested in) behave like that.. All humans are NOT the same.


But trust me, ppl taking advantage has nothing to do with romance... I'm 1 of those guys who never send Recharge card to a girl I'm interested in( to avoid given her a wrong impression) but I have no problem doing that for a friend... I was sending card to my female COUSIN ( as much as I could afford to).. Then she started demanding for it almost Daily... Doesn't this count as trying to take advantage because I was being too nice

Maybe one day Seun will finally realize how important the "Dislike" button could be.

freecocoa:
Notice how most of the men here are making it about slapping A MAN not even about the violence? the gender she slapped is more important than the SLAP, issorite.

Ray did... No1 tlkd about violence, just how a guy shouldn't beat a lady.

Fact is , ppl don't give a F about violence, a guy slaps another guy n its suppose to be OK, a girl slaps a guy n its suppose to be OK... A guy slaps a girl n it is WAR.

I'm pretty sure the lady believed nothing was going to happen to her. Wellll, This is Nigeria!!! Where BS aren't allowed.

4llerbuntu:



This question is asked EVERY FOOOKIN page on this thread. USE THE SEARCH NA...

Was looking for a solution so I decided to search this thread ( for the 1st time ever) . instead of going through the 100+ pages hoping to find something that may not be there, I decided to take a much easier route by "Asking". Good thing you turned up. Thanks for that.

Meanwhile I just D/Led the Root file manager only to find out that the files u asked me to check contains nothing (0.00MB). .. Any,way, thanks for your time.

Help some1!!


i have 8GB in my phone, i have movies,musics,ebooks,apps e.t.c on my phone. The problem is ,from my logical calculations I've used less than 6GB yet i have less than 500MB storage space remaining. I'd clean my cache ( and deleted thumbnails) several times. is there anything else i can delete which wont affect the smooth running of the phone?

ivyy:


Within 48 hours?
Wat rubbish
Get back that fone if you can especially since your still in dept for it.


And pls guys be watchful of golddigers

I'm a guy and I hate gold-diggers but truthfully I hate STU*PID people more!!! Dude borrowed( to pay MONTHLY for a year) 130Gs to buy a phone 4 another person( Gf , BF , cousin ... It doesn't really matter who) that was an extremely stupid thing to do!!!... Welllll, a Stu*pid person is a stu*pid person, thats just the way it is and d way it will remain.I'm sure he will do it again if given a chance...