mcshegs:
Ebosse !! Oh yes...Hazard has not been making Key Contributions. You must have wished he misses that goal ystday while running towards De Gea.
There are jst two candidates for d POTY gong...Eden Hazard and others !!!

Hahaha. I knew I was going get some sticks for that goal... Naaaah, I actually don't hate hazard.. So I didn't wish for nothing... Anywaysss, I've really thought about it, just MAYBE he deserve it more than the others... but honestly, I still believe Kane did more individual and for his team. But EPL players will be the ones to decide, let's just wait and see.

dicksj93:
who's been most consistent?

What is consistent Running around , dribbling every1 within sight? .. This is Y a player like T.muller will never win the ballon d'or , y'all getting carried away with fancy footworks rather than end product.

dicksj93:
who's been most consistent?

What is consistent Running around , dribbling every1 within sight? .. This is Y a player like T.muller will never win the ballon d'or , y'all getting carried away with fancy legs rather than end product.

mummyson26:

Bros dat doesn't mean, osaze won players of the month award 3 times in his first season with westbrom and he was not consider good enough for the players of the year award

True..... But sentiments aside when U look @ both the personal stats & contributions of players like Harry Kane, De Gea and Sanchez to their respective clubs U may want to reconsider your position on this matter.

Yustash001:
despite Chelsea being on top of the table from match day two....only Diego costa has won play of the month....even Mourinho hasn't won the coach of the month....it's left to them...to give whoever they like...but trully Eden Hazard deserves it...

Go check the stats critically, U might change Your mind about him deserving it. Football isn't just about dribbling and making opponents chase U for 90mins and that's Y some of the most skillful players I've ever seen ( e.g Quresma, Denilson) never got awards.

mcshegs:

The last time I checked, the argument was whether or not Hazard has been making Key contributions and whether or not he deserves d player of year award...so pls stay on the topic and give more cogent reasons why Hazard doesn't deserve the pfa gong.
And I wasn't the one who made the shortlist...pfa has their reasons for not including Fabregas and its understandable.

Every1 on the shortlist (Except Coutinho) deserves the award also!.. They've all done better individual ( The stats speak for themselves) ,.. So Y give it to hazard??

mcshegs:

Wait, are you saying Eden Hazard hasn't been making Key Contributions ??

His magic against Arsenal in the first Leg gave Chelsea the Confidence to win the match.

He provided the assist from which Schurrle scored in the draw against Man City in the first leg.

He won the corner from which Drogba scored in the first leg against Man Utd...and d list continues

In case those ones are way too far for ur memory to recall...when Chelsea were about settling for jst one point against QPR last week, his magic again provided the assist from which Fabregas score the winner to claim all 3points.

And who has taken up the responsibility of both Costa and Fabregas in the Chelsea team since the turn of the year ??

Hazard is playing exactly the way he did in the last two seasons yet both times Chelsea finished outside the top 2. It isn't hazard who's put Chelsea on top the league table... Take Cesc and Costa out and watch CFC struggle to get a 2nd spot... You're a CFC fan ( I guess) yet you r trying make it look like hazard gave more point to CFC this season than Costa ( Or Fab)... CFC are were they are today because of the momentum both fab and Costa brought to the team. Those two players may not be doing as good lately but it was their early contributions that set CFC aside from the rest EPL teams.. U talked about hazard Pen but U 4got it was the unbelievable pass from Fab and terrific control and goal from Costa which killed the game against arsenal!...

mcshegs:

Gareth Bale didn't win a pfa player of the month in 2010/2011 season and didn't even win the league buh still won the pfa players' player of the year award. ( I stand to be corrected)

Any other reason why Hazard doesn't deserve to win it ??

How did You miss the part were I made mentioned of "Key Contributions"... Even within Chelsea without the goals and assist of Diego Costa and Fabregas respectively Chelsea would probably be fighting for a top 4 position ... Not to talk of the contributions of a player like De Gea (Man utd wouldn't be top ten without him and his gloves) neither would Spurs b fighting for a European position without Kane ( Almost Singlehandedly) !!!

mcshegs:

Who really deserves it ??!!
#ThereWillBeHaters
#IsAllowed

Do you even know the meaning of "Hate" ?....


De Gea, Harry Kane, Sanchez and Yes "Diego Costa" too made more important/key contributions to their respective teams! + most (Probably all of them) won @lst a PFA player of the month award.


I still don't understand how fabrePass missed out.



Meanwhile Seun, Ishilove, lalasticlala na crime to put sport post for FP?

I know CFC fans will start screaming hazard left, right and centre.... But a player who's yet to win a PFA monthly award don't deserve a yearly award.

emmatok:


Hmm so true!
The ladies(single or married) are always at the receiving end in a wrong relationship especially when it comes to adultery and fornication.
Men just shine to stuff and walk away

That na because they no wan accept reality!!!... If I b girl Y I go allow one bobo shine my Congo anyhow come give me belle sef join , in the end come refuse to accept the pikin talkless of to marry me?.... When I know say na only curse the bobo go receive Y my life don scatter Kpatakpata

quivah:

....... but if hypocrisy And double standards is thrown out of the window, the level of immorality would be low!........if they were equally shamed in like/close manner as girls.........
...... its not about gender, its about neutrality! it takes two..and they should both be apprehended!

.... the foolish ones think guys can get away with it..

Are You living in Pluto or on another planet? Or U just find it hard to accept reality? Double standards, hypocrisy , racism, tribalism ; we dont need to accept them and give them room to grow but we must acknowledge the fact that they exist and find a way to live with them why searching for an appropriate solution.


When a girl gets pregnant its doesn't reflect on the dude?? Or are U proposing he b chained to the girl for a period of 9months so he would equally be shamed in like/close manner as the girl....


Both be apprehended This is like saying a girl should be apprehended because she promised to go see a guy if he send her money for transportation but refused to after getting the cash... In fact it should be the other way around , ppl should be apprehended for being stuuupid!!!!!



The ones you call foolish are actually proving to be smart.. Like the example I gave.. You and every1 call the dude all sort of names which can't render any sort of damage internally or externally Y the girl bear the burden of raising a child alone... Now tell me again who's the foolish one in the story


Be Smart !!!!!""

Eureka123:


I am trying to imagine same for a guy, whose wife finds out among the guests, there's a girl he has bleeped for years!

How many times have we heard of a guy dumping his GF because she had been promiscuous? ...


How many times have we heard of a girl dumping her BF for the same?

Guys will share jokes and pass a Bottle of Gin if they find out they've slept with the same girl.


Girls will curse, hate and may even fight themselves if they find out they've slept with the same guy.


Fact: Guys will always have the upper hand,the moment ladies accept this fact instead of screaming blue murder and find a way to shield themselves the better for them.




D/L and listen to the song >>>>> Ab-Soul "Double Standard" or better still check for the lyrics online... Then U will get a perfect picture of how it really is.

quivah:
on a more serious note; guys who live with girls before marriage deserves virgins, nothing less.. as you know, girls are the only one to take the 100% bashing and degrading as usual.

I wasn't going to comment on this thread but I just had to after seeing several posts from you and other ladies.

Y'all are getting it wrong! This isn't about BASHing. I was 1 of those guys who argued with other dudes when they Use this statement "Girls have Fish brain" but after joining Nairaland late last year I'm finding it extremely hard to argue against that claim. No offense meant.

It takes 2 right?... Lemme give U a true story. A friend of mine (Female) was dating and f**kin a (married) man costantly, We adviced her against it but she wouldnt listen. She got pregnant n the dude refused to be held accountable. She was faced with 2 choices "Abortion Or Giving Birth".. She went for the latter.

Now, she's solely responsible for the raising of the little warrior Y the dude is no where to be found ( She just graduated) . If only she had listened to Us she could have prevented the untold stress/hardships she's about to experience.

Vice Versa ( A married lady and a bachelor) the lady would still end up on the wrong side of the scale.

I honestly don't care about how ppl live , I'm just trying to say it will b too late to cry when karsala burst.

The smart ones understood the OPs point ( although he went too far with the No bride price ideology) Y the dull ones are trying to play the "Gender" Card. itsokay!

like some1 said earlier "Y buy what U can borrow"

Its not about who's getting the most bashing its about who lose most.. Money can be replace... Certain things can't!...


Be Smart !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

cococandy:
overly recycled.

the recycling makes one question the authenticity.

These things do happen.... I've heard/seen a situation b4 were the daughters accused their dad of raping them (because the mom asked them to) . The man was imprisoned for more than 10Yrs b4 the daughters finally decided to say the truth and beg for forgiveness.


Recycled Or Not this is supposed to send out a msg ...


But You being U can't stand the fact that most guys accused of molestation are actually innocent.... So instead U question the authenticity of the post instead of trying to come up with a possible solution to the problem of the rampant false accusations of molestations we encounter these days.

@ bushdoc9919

The Doc told my Dad he had diabetes, we later got to find out he had cancer. If only the doc knew what he was doing my Dad would 'Probably' still be alive.

bushdoc9919:


Softly, softly....we health workers are not all wicked.

You are actually right... The nicest uncle I have happens to be a doctor.

But the bad *heads* are not making it easy for you guys.. The ratio of bad/good doctors is 15:1 ... Isn't the doctor's no1 responsibility to save lives?? Abi no be some doctors dey carry leg go work for thick African rural communities for next to nothing .....




Fact, most doctors (15:1) don't actually care enough, they don't make the much needed efforts to save lives anymore...



Of course ,most of our hospitals are not equipped to handle some situations but the underperformance of most health workers (coupled with their rigid and rude manners towards their patients) has made it extremely hard for Nigerians not to believe the fault lies with the health workers.

FYI, I think health workers should be paid more than any other profession, but the rude, shocking & nonchalant attitude with which these so-called health workers practice these days I don't think they should get half of what they are currently getting.

bushdoc9919:


Softly, softly....we health workers are not all wicked.

You are actually right... The nicest uncle I have happens to be a doctor.

But the bad *heads* are not making it easy for you guys.. The ratio of bad/good doctors is 15:1 ... Isn't the doctor's no1 responsibility to save lives?? Abi no be some doctors dey carry leg go work for thick African rural communities for next to nothing .....




Fact, most doctors (15:1) don't actually care enough, they don't make the much needed efforts to save lives anymore...


FYI, I think health workers should be paid more than any other profession, but the rude, shocking & nonchalant attitude with which these so-called health workers practice these days I don't think they should get half of what they are currently getting.

Zane2point4:
the op is 100% right in what she is saying , am really suprised at these people defending nigerian health system, I have been to govt owned hospitals and I can conclude here that the problem is not funding but non-challant and untactful attitude of health practitioners themselves, a doctor comes late any time he wants, he never keeps to time if he says he will be around by 12pm give him another 2hrs, or are we to talk about the nurses themselves? abeg we get better problem.

You probably didn't notice, but take a good look again ,those attacking the OP are health workers...

Until just 2% of nairalanders ( who are not health workers) disagree with the OP then we can conclude that the OP is not far from the truth.


As for me (and most Nigerians) we've experienced 1st hand the wickedness of these so-called health workers.

jasper7:
@safarigirl. the thing about statutory rape is this, a kid of 15 years is not emotionally stable enough to make some certain decisions, the older person should know better. No matter how u put it, it's still taking advantage of someone's instability. and to me, it's wrong. A 15year old can be an "Albert Einstein" and still not stable enough to make life changing decisions. There's a difference between being smart and being mature.

Not every 15 looks 15.... i know an 18yr old girl who looks 24 both facially and physically.


I totally agree with you though I believe the blame should be solely on the man if he knew but still went ahead notwithstanding.


I just cant picture myself being intimate with a TEENAGER (19 included)

freecocoa:
Your post is just really sad.

Who am I encouraging? I'm telling you self control is the most important thing here and you are saying I'm encouraging them? I can't deal please.

Even a kid knows self-control is everything..

No! Your words were crystal clear.. You were actually accusing me of 'Justifying rape' for chipping in a little advice.


Well, have fun advising nairaland girls to do what U wouldn't do.


Bye!

freecocoa:
What is all this biko nu? Even if that lady had walked in nakid, it is her right and her body, for feck's sakes have some self control, why don't ladies go about r*ping all the men walking the streets with nothing but boxer shorts on? You think sexy abs can't turn a woman on?

Don't justify r*pe please, men have been seduced by women and they succeeded in resisting, your body is subject to you, exercise control.

Okay, no P... Keep encouraging them...


This is like a dude coming to the core north to scream GEJ for life ( The right to choose right), there's a strong chance of him going home almost dead.


Y do u lock your door b4 going out ... Based on what U wrote up there, if I say u should lock your doors b4 going out u would reply by saying "Don't justify stealing please"...

I hate criminals!!! Rapist, thieves, murderers e.t.c and I believe they all deserve to be punished but I'm not naive , so I don't put myself in a position where I become an easy target.


A 'Post' is enough for the wise.

This rape issue is getting out of hand oh!!!!!!!!! more need to be done about it ..... i think a guy GUILTY of rape should be castrated.



But, ladies una no dey help matters for una self oh... imagine the other night while i was buying something after watching a UCL match (Around 10:30PM) a lady walked into the shop putting on bump-short and a see-through spag top,awon boys 4get wetin dey come buy oh...imagine if rapist dey our midst na just to corner her enter bush remain oh.


Heaven helps those who help themselves.

remsonik:
blame it on the hormones........very bad

Abegiiiii!.. Na she 1st get belle?


If the man give her one hot dirty slap una go dey start to shout brutality everywhere.


Womeeen, always starting iiish they can't finish.

mastillow@gmail.com


Thanks a lot

mmsen:


Again, you are trying to pretend as if that second category (so called "spoiled brats" of female are few.

The reality is that there are more of them around than many people are comfortable with.

Of course, probably 9o% ... But that's not my concern.. I'm interested in the other 10% and how to stop them from crossing the line.

Oga oh, I don come across the disgraceful typical 9ja girl more than I can count but I've also seen the ones worthy of infinite respect...as far as there is still 1% out there then I don't see y we shouldn't talk about them... No b everyday we go dey talk about gold diggers, whor_es and runs girls naoooo.

mmsen:


[/b]I know girls who had their housing, upkeep, tuition and other needs taken care of by their parents but yet still had a desire to utilize their body to get more.[b]

We are talking of the well-trained lady ( not spoilt brats) with self-respect who on a good day will never think of utilizing her body.

Actually, this isn't true.( Speaking from personal experience).. Back then My Fam would always say to me a guy will always survive with little or nothing but a girl would be force to do things ( Mostly indecent ) to survive. Funny enough they were/are right.

tosyne2much:

Guy u try wella for this thread... but i have to disagree with no10... i b catholic we no dey carry bible go church



meanwhile,this should apply to every guy regardless of Age.

Fourwinds:
it is not just my friend alone but all d workers. it is just dat he doesn't attend d church of d organisation. dey employ base on d fact dat u attend deir church. it is d link my friend's dad has with a top personel dere dat helped him dere. so I don't understand y u are narrowing d tithe of a thing as if my friend is being scammed.

OH! well, like i said initially these things happen no doubt but this is a forum and stories are also fabricated for attention.They are just too much loopholes in that guys story,which i mentioned earlier. So you can't blame me for doubting his.

Fourwinds:
I have encountered such before jaree. in which I was ask my religion. a man close to d head told men if I were CCC or a muslim I won't get d job. a friend of mine is suffering d same fate. tithe is always deducted from his salary yet he doesn't attend d church of d organisation.

Which company... My Best friend back then was (still is) a Muslim and I noticed how weak and unfocused he gets during fasting periods.. U don't expect a company which deals in manual labour to employ some1 like that ba? No Pun intended.

Looool, as for that your friend mahhhhhn the company just dey scam that guy ooooh... Wouldn't be surprise if na "Oga @ the top" pocket your friend so-called tithe dey enter.


I'm not trying to dispute the fact that these things happen (occasionally).... I'm just saying from what the OP came up with ( OverKilling his interview, catholics not paying tithe, refusing to mention the company) it is most likely 1 of those Fictional Threads we See these days on nairaland.

veronokoh:
If u are saying the truth what is the name of the company ?

Finally!!! Some1 who thinks like me... This is just another pathetic thread to get attention ( and Probably rubbish the Christian religion too). If not Y is the OP soooo scared of mentioning the company? Its not like he got the job and will get fired for speaking out like this..


Btw, I believe the OP is also lying about being a catholic cos I AM , and we pay tithe in my parish just like every other parish based on research done on this thread by the amount of Catholic nairalanders comments.



As for the 'Tithes' issue ; I know ppl who r barely surviving, orphanages, I have siblings, cousins, friends that are struggling also and I've decided to help them as much as I can ! The GOD I serve is a merciful and nderstanding GOD and will definitely understand if I decide to give 10% or more (Or less, based on my condition at the time) to the ppl around me who needs it than to the church!