₦airaland Forum

CHoccolaTE:
Of course the way society has evolved has made both males and females change but men on Nairaland cannot be logical or rational, always complaining endlessly about women as if men are good, they are raised to be misogynistic and to overlook/justify immorality from males.

The way men attack women and direct hatred to them one starts to wonder whether it's not the same males that are 90% criminals and killers and sociopaths terrorizing society. But they cannot address their fellow men and tell them to be well behaved. Na women their power reach.

Clowns.

take it easy bro

we wey no get,how we go do na

Leshurr:
You are in the wrong section op. If you like explain yourself from morning till night, most ladies here will still bash and insult you anyway
romance section is where the sensible folks are and this topic fits in better there

lol, thank you. I just wanted to go hard and versatile on the topic rather than the normal love romance stuff

Gerrard59:
How did you come about the figure? What study was conducted to support it? Or is it from the Bureau of Imaginary Statistics?


You advise them to look for jobs but na the same men go wan sleep with them before offering one with a meagre salary of kpata kpata 30K. Nigerian women are only learning from the acts committed by their men. Last I checked, yahoo yahoo is far worse and a criminal act than prostitution.


BTW, you should not let a citizen from a fellow sh!thole country speak bad about your women. It is your duty to protect their interests.

I understand u bro,I try to protect their interests but this is his 10th year in this country. Sometimes u just get tired of everything

LadyTianna:
Dear Op, women are a direct reflection of their society. Look at the country we live in. I am in no way justifying prostitution, but you will admit that the Nigeria our mothers and grandmas grew up in is long dead and buried. Today we have a society that is so fixated on corruption and evil. You people keep repeating that women should get jobs. I agree, but where are the jobs? Where's the money to buy job slots?Where's the capital to start businesses when the average Nigerian can barely afford 2 meals a day?

Every single day, Nigerian women this, Nigerian women that...what about our men? The so called nation builders at the helm of affairs. Are they making any attempt to make the country better in order for the women to be more morally upright? As long as Nigeria remains what it is today, both men and women will keep doing despicable and less than desirable things to earn money

I appreciate the fact u didn't bash me but came up with some reasonable points. I'm not in any way saying there are no good ladies out there. I admit the fact our political heads have failed us long ago but that doesn't justify going into bad acts.

Nowadays good girls are hard to find, ones that will tell u genuinely that they love u,its just for material and monetary gains most are in a relationship. They now got this 'see finish ' attribute. Scam is very bad and I will never support it but most ladies are being used for rituals because of their quest for money. I got a friend in ph (a lady), I admire her a lot cos she is beautiful and she works hard (sells all manner of hair / ig~ queenadanmawigs) babe is doing very well . If u see the amount of time she spends online working, u just got to wish for something like her in the future.
A man needs a woman that will always tell him how close he is to success, steps to take and ladies we have now..........no way

bigjackass:
What really happened to the men/future husbands?
Everyone is just trying to survive.
The average naija guy is also a scammer or aspiring scammer. The one that have not thought of it will still pick money that doesn't belong to him if given the chance. Most married men with little money to throw around patronize runs girls or side chicks just because they can, not that thier wife is poor in bed or not a slay queen too. Live your life and judge no one.

not judging any1 broda but u no go marry?

Mstick:
Really?! But Russians and Americans are not the ones that need VPN even to buy baby things from some stores online.

You still had to blame girls? So who patronizes the prostitutes? Is it not men??

Learn about demand and supply.

Your ex left you for a Yahoo boy?! Do you want women to tell you about their ex that left them for a richer lady?

You think it's only women that leave their partners because of financial gains

u r a lady sef

seankafor:
Oh boy, me I no dey judge any person..

Life no easy, you probably don't know the story of a girl that chooses to venture into prostitution..

All hustle na hustle for me, I no dey judge..

Each aboki with him kettle

all hustle no be hustle, I for carry gun for naija as I no see job na

Mstick:
What Happened to our guys? How come Nigeria is on top of world scammers list? I was in Ghana last month for a seminar and majority of the male "students" are into scam hoping for maga to pay, some even go as far as ritual killings.

bro Nigeria is not top of the list ,Russians, Americans and co are into scam and all that. scam is very bad no doubt but where the money for scam dey finish on = girls . My ex left me for a G cos he has money and all that ,so these ladies prefer a scammer than a honest being.

RisenPhoenix1:
Feminism happened. It taught them that it is better to be an independent prostitute than a dependent modest housewife.

And they accepted the teaching. So did most men.

So modern woman arose from the ashes as a result.

lolz....feminism

ibkayee:
So you're justifying what I mentioned all for the approval of ladies

Nothing tangible even mentioned, like capital for a business/investment or something so maybe I can even pity you small (not that it excuses it)

And you have the guts to be lecturing others?

aunty we ain't fighting but do u fall into any of these stuffs mentioned... if u do ......... think

u sleep with men for money, y cant u get a job and earn money.... u see this life wetin u see,we go wear.. u don dey wear am already just tell me of its ashoke or etibo you are wearing right now

ibkayee:
I hope you have a nice writeup for the yahoo boys, ritualists and men engaging these ladies too

Why do you guys think you have a monopoly on 'bad' behaviour lmao rubbish

u guys are the cause na ,if I tell u say I be graduate and I dey find work but I no get money ... u go gree? or if I tell u say I be cleaner for market square, u no go delete my number?

Been reading some comments on this platform and I can tell u I get scared anytime I think of marriage or falling into a relationship . What really happened to our girls?
I'm not tryna sound like a holy person or I dont enjoy being crazy at times but there are times in your life you need to tell yourself the truth and act a lil decent. If you are familiar with most of these new live video chat applications, you will be marveled at the rate Nigerian ladies show off their body to the world . like I earlier said , I'm not a holy person but it beats my imagination that some of these ladies have serious dates,some are engaged, some are mothers and some are willing to get married in the future. the crazy truth these ladies dont understand is 85 percent of guys that wanna get crazy with you and spend on you wont want to spend the rest of their life with u. I was a live chat earlier this week ,a lady between the age range of 25 - 28 was just saying all sorts of crazy stuff and flaunting her body. Is it money that pushes them to do all this stuff on social media .
Here in Abu dhabi,70 percent of Nigerian ladies engage in prostitution, u really need to hear what my colleague( Afghanistan ) feels about our ladies. I asked one sex worker if she doesn't want to get a job here she was like she makes the money the company pays in a month in a week. This lady in question has a guy in Nigeria oooo. I came to the final conclusion that I ain't searching for a Nigerian to date over here.
entitlement mentality is crazy especially when our women make it sound like they are supposed to be provided with everything and live like its heaven on earth. Women build houses,women buy cars, women own companies too. It's not only a man's world when it comes in term of spending. I cant say what happened to our girls but our mothers were very hardworking, supportive,loving and understanding and sincerely my mum made see life from a positive angle that ladies can also make it big. Our mothers never advertised boobs they never had Facebook,Twitter or video chat apps but they always Carried a trademark of decency.
Please ladies money is important (very) but dont make it seem like your life revolves around it. I could remember a movie (acrimony ), 80 percent of our ladies wont go through what that lady went through. love is not only enjoyment, love is tough ,love is enduring, love is pain in addition.... please our ladies make una try abeg...

covid 21 please stay far away

no good news dey ever commot from Nigeria ?

nice one ,oya nairalanders wey reason say him for buy her land cos him na billionaire son make una show

I dey rock my Samsung Galaxy Note 9

lwkmd, u for buy me sweet or lollipop cause this your story too sweet,infact e fit cause diabetes...
u don see small pikin na!

believe social media at your own peril, this na the car wizzy first son mama dey pull. I ain't got a whip or a car but social media go cause wahala for this life ooo

sorry fineboy

nwanne use Frank edohos option,walk away

if I wanna get married, my woman is gonna be an exercise freak. see as this lady looks fit at 52.
most ladies dey complain say husband dey cheat ,why wont he cheat when u have refused to look fit,loose little flesh

educative

when I think of our Government, I'm outta words. A country rich with resources but cant handle her resources corruption is the order of the day,unemployment, security and crime. I used to pray for Nigeria but mannnn I ain't praying no more for this country . even covid 19 ,they see it as an Avenue to loot .

just be prayerful bro,I wish u the best.
death couldn't hold Jesus captive so grab this job with faith and await a testimony. peace

send them to school ,no
follow a guy that's got a future, no
ready made guy,yes
Yahoo guys,yes
the way I'm scared of naija girls rn ehhh,seems like I'm gonna just get married for marriage sake cos fake love is everywhere looking in the air..
RIP dear...

Macktaob:
How am I sure you'd finish going through my application docs for the Dubai visa, if you can't read a post through?!

its allowed !!!!

Raalsalghul:
How far with the job search?

found 1 bro,thanks for asking