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Family / Re: Pulled by echibuogwu(m): 9:49pm On May 05, 2020
On the contrary he’s a very wise person...
UyaiIncomparabl:


You're a bad person.
Pets / Re: My Rott's Naughty Behavior: I Need Advice Please by echibuogwu(m): 7:55am On Apr 26, 2020
You clearly did not train him well, Rott is not a dog for a novice, they require high discipline because they like being the leader and being in control, this dog might bite u one day.
Ishilove:
Dog Lovers, Please I Need Advise On My Rott's Naughty Behavior

I have a one and a half year old Rottweiler named Gift and I don't understand him anymore. We can't chastise him again when he misbehaves because he bares his teeth and growls menacingly at us if we try to spank him for being naughty. He welcomes us when we come home like any loyal, loving pet, but yesterday he shocked me. Usually as we are about to enter the house he playfully holds one foot down so we can't enter, or he jumps on you and hugs you tight so you can't move. When I got back from work yesterday I was exhausted and I didn't have energy for his play so I hugged him briefly but as I entered the house I mistakenly stepped on his right hindpaw.

He howled, left me, and lunged at me, this time to bite me. He actually narrowly missed my arm.

I was mad. I turned and yelled "Gift are you mad?" He bared his fangs and barked at me. Me sef I bared my teeth at him and ordered him to stand down. He growled, me sef I growled back. Do you know this dog kept advancing menacingly at me and barking? I quickly borrowed myself brain and locked the door. Werey dog.

I can't shoo Matilda, my chicken in his presence. He covers her with his body and warns me away. And now, the most perplexing thing is he now marking every where in the compound. My sib came visiting and before he entered the house, he quickly relieved himself outside because he was very pressed. Do you know Gift went to where the dude urinated and peed on top? It has gotten so bad now that Gift entered the house and marked different sections of the corridor and smaller dining area with pee.

Now, I don't know if this is classic Rott behavior or if he is just being indisciplined. I confess we spoilt him a bit because he is such a sweet animal when he is not misbehaving.

How do we discipline a dog that has grown wings? He is well socialised so it's not a case of too much isolation.

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Health / Re: NCDC: We’re Running Against Time With Insufficient Laboratories, Ventilators by echibuogwu(m): 8:05am On Apr 24, 2020
Bro why are u sounding stupid
dederocs:
only 20% of those infected meet their demise.
Health / Re: A Mysterious Blood-clotting Complication Is Killing Coronavirus Patients by echibuogwu(m): 8:01am On Apr 24, 2020
Yeah scary yet some idiots in Nigeria are shouting that the lockdown be canceled
oweniwe:
Scary

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Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 5:07pm On Apr 23, 2020
Ok I’m sorry for the insult, you should know that where’s there is life there’s hop, we shouldn’t put our lives on unnecessary risk, my point is that instead of shouting for cancellation of the lockdown let’s look for a solution to this hunger problem
lebienconnu:



it Is possible for you to express your oppinion witjout insult. Try it and see yourself command more respect. In debates, people with different oppinions rub minds together, argue their points based on experience, knowledge and belief.

Long before the WHO affirmed it, I had deduced that coronavirus will be with us for a long time. The FG has convinced us beyond reasonable doubt that it cannot provide free food for the citizens like USA or UK. if food can be provided then total lockdown is totally justifiable. Did the elders not say that hunger takes precedence over all matter? I would rather risk ontracting coronavirus than watching my kids die of hunger. Life itself is full of risk already.

The elders say "We should put the yam in the fire while we look for the knife". While the scientists are looking for the vaccine we should up our personal hygiene game and continue living our normal life.

This is my humble oppinion.
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 2:35pm On Apr 23, 2020
Bro honestly u are ignorant, did boko haram killed up to 10,000 last year What is wrong with u na and the elites have better chance of surviving this more than you, they can travel out and get the best medical equipment and if they are not allowed to travel out they can get the best here in naija.
GeneralShepherd:



Corona Virus will not kill even half of what Biko haram, hunger, accidents and child birth mortality kills in a year.

The only reason our elites are concerned is unlike the factors I listed above that solely affect the poor, corona does not respect power oe authority.

So let for me, lets open the economy, we the masses have nothing left to loose.

Bleep da government

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Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 2:18pm On Apr 23, 2020
That’s what I’m sayin, we can make the govt provide all these things without stopping the lock down, bro in all honesty Naija don’t have what it takes, Naija is broke, people are shouting economy up and down but our economy have never been good, in fact Nigeria is about to face a terrible recession wether this lockdown continues or not, what we should be very much concerned about right now is survival, how to survive, do you think there will be enough beds to hold the sick people? How about the availability of face mask, people might use theirs more than once or start selling used ones, how about if the infected people without symptoms start selling in the market, you have no idea how easy this stuff can spread and with a country like Nigeria with bad health system, it’s too risky.. how many ventilators do you think we have, how many standard hospitals do we have.i hate Buhari, more than u can ever think but we should be finding solutions to the problem now and not adding to the problem, ending lockdown will only worsen the case, some people don’t even know the symptoms of corona virus, what happens when they get it... think man.
Angelfrost:


Good sir, you still don't want to smell the roses... grin

There is a clear difference between what is ideal (all you keep suggesting) and what is practicable!!!

Your nation is not ready to do any of those palliative approaches to effective lock down!!! Or were you in another nation during the last 14-day lockdown??! You think most Nigerians will bother to take a step out of their compounds if they have all they need to sustain themselves??!

Our leaders have been testing the waters since March... Banking on luck to see them through these dark days. They know as I do know that they can't provide basic necessities for over 100 million citizens for a protracted lock down!!!... Why and how is this so difficult for you to come to terms with?! Do you live elsewhere??!

Even if the virus were killing at the pace or rate of America and Italy, effective lock down still won't be tenable in Nigeria!!! Please, do some research... No need arguing blindly.

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Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 2:08pm On Apr 23, 2020
Leave that guy. He no gt sense.
anigbajumo:



Lol,a cases of just 1,000 in two weeks ago is now over 12,000 is not a spread??

Do u knw wat u are saying at all??
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 1:50pm On Apr 23, 2020
Lol u are a comedian, América had over two thousand death a day last week, so u are insisting we should cancel the lockdown and let people get the virus easily, you are really unbelievable, Italy tried that and see where they are now, US tried that and see where they are now, the only reason why China was able to fight this virus was because they implemented total lockdown and they followed it to the letter, foods can be given to the poor and less privileged for free, foods can be bought online and delivered to your doorsteps, but if u insist on canceling the lockdown then mark my word people will die like fowl, an average Nigerian don’t have access to good medication, an average Nigerian might be having an underlying health issue but may not know it. Be wise guy.
Angelfrost:


Nah... It is not about me. I speak the reality facing this nation!!! There is a limit to how far we can pretend.

Imposing lock down and curfews in the face of unpaid salaries, zero incomes, zero businesses, and zero palliatives, will never work in a third world nation where over 70% live from hand to mouth (Can't overemphasize this enough)!!!

As for Mrs. Gates' words, if she were 100% correct, as you choose to believe, then with a population of over 200 million, infection spread that started since early March (Almost 2 months), viral incubation period of 2-14 days (Max 21 - 28 days), we ought to have started seeing the following by now:

1. Widespread presentation of symptoms among the population (Lagos alone ought to have at least 500 people complaining of mild to severe symptoms).
2. Hospitalizations, especially ICUs, across the nation at an exponential rate (Lagos alone ought to have at least 500 in critical condition).
3. After 2 months of viral spread, death rate should or ought to be at minimum of 6 to 10 %.

I am not a betting man, but if you wish, I can stake you that even if left unchecked, we won't have up to a hundred deaths by June, not to speak of "Bodies littering the streets"!!!... If America didn't have bodies littering their streets at the massive rate of hospitalizations and critical conditions of their infected, how can Nigeria come to such when over 95% of our infected rarely move from isolation wards to ICUs??! That's even the few they have managed to confirm out of the numerous infected since March.

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Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 11:16am On Apr 23, 2020
Lol... it’s quite funny, well u made ur choice. Melinda Gates said there’ll b dead bodies litered in the street of Africa, she’s 100% correct
Angelfrost:


Face reality dear friend...

We are already past all these!!! It might already be too late.

Your leaders will NOT do a damn thing about making lock down easier and effective for all... I sense it is even economically unfeasible to cater for such massive needs!!!

At this point, this nation is surviving solely at the feet of providence... Further lock down will only drive the country into more crimes, civil unrest, and anarchy!!!
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 11:05am On Apr 23, 2020
With pressure from NLC and the people, govt will work on that problem, foods can easily be shared or bought online and deliver to their doorsteps, u want to take ur chances outside, no problem go ahead, but remember this, you won’t be able to eat that food when you are sick, struggling for breath in terrible pains, think about your family too, ur “chances” may also bring the end of them, even with the best treatment given to Kyari he still died, what’s the probability that u will be given half of such treatment, we have unqualified doctors and not enough qualified ones, do you think u will be given adequate attention wen thousands of people begin to fall sick? Don’t compare Nigeria to the US, they have one of the best health sector, if Nigeria case is half as theirs then we are finished.
babyfaceafrica:


There’s a solution to hunger, govt can work on it easily,



Which government?.. This inept government?.. This toothless government?.. There is lockdown in Lagos, Ogun and Abuja.. You government shared more palliatives to kastina indigene.. I will rather take my chances outside than belive in this government
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 10:55am On Apr 23, 2020
There’s a solution to hunger, govt can work on it easily, what do u think will be the solution if the lock down is canceled and the number of infected cases increases, tell me.
mtinfx:


which measures have been taken so far
this lockdown is a ticking time bomb for many
if its only me, i dont have issues with it
you cant keep people hungry for 2 months
either way people will still die

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Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 10:45am On Apr 23, 2020
U are incredibly dumb, First of all malaria is deadlier but it has a cure and very cheap. Nigeria health sector is very bad and won’t be able to accommodate the numerous sick people if this stuff should get out of control, with the high rate of illiterates how many will be able to use a face mask correctly or wash hands regularly, with how congested Lagos is do u have any idea how easy and quick the virus will spread, then with little number of ventilators and high number is sick people, doctors will start making decisions on who to die or who not to die, even people who should have survived will die because of poor medical conditions. Make una use una head na. This is a decision between food and death. My own advice is that govt should provide means where people will be able to get food easily in times like this and the lock down should not be lifted till will start getting good results.
lebienconnu:
Practically, there is no effective lockdown at all anywhere in Nigeria presently. The aim of lockdown is to curtail community transmission which has been ongoing even before coronavirus was christened covid-19.

If we had a working death registry in Nigeria before the disease gained media prominence we would have easily realised that its effect is negligible. 28 deaths from covid-19 complications over a month. Someone should please publish the number of deaths from severe malaria nationwide over the last two weeks.

End lockdown. Make face mask compulsory and encourage people to wash thier hands frequently. Life goes on.

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Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 10:37am On Apr 23, 2020
Guy no talk too much. All these people no sabi anything, if they cancel lockdown now and this thing increase na still dem na go Dey complain.
Vloml222:


The US has tested over 4 million persons. Still their health experts have said until the US have enough testing capabilities to test everyone the economy shouldn't be opened.

Our government is fighting this the wrong way. Either ways, the economy suffers. Lift the lockdown now and we will see the resurgence and massive increase of confirmed cases and because of our poor testing ability, more persons will get infected really fast and same economy you're trying to protect now will suffer more then.

Let's not even forget the current struggle with falling oil prices. If we survive this we have bigger issues to worry about.

My take is, this lockdown should stay until we are sure we can test more persons.
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 10:32am On Apr 23, 2020
Nigeria can, measures should be taken to treat these problems... if they cancel this lockdown under a situation like this then it is finished.
mtinfx:
Nigeria cant survive long lockdowns

the hunger will be massive
and crime will be legendary
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Don’t Extend Lockdown, NLC Tells FG by echibuogwu(m): 10:31am On Apr 23, 2020
The lock down is the best thing... Nigerians are just being ignorant... despite the lockdown the virus keeps increasing, imagine what will happen of the lockdown is canceled, We don’t have the money, we don’t have the health sector to treat this thing, people are going to die.
Mskrisx:
With the lockdown cases are still arising.
If I was in the hem of affairs in the country this would be my suggestions;

1. No interstate movement.
2. Wear facemask or die by fire. (North Korean style)
3. Before you can open your business, you must get tested.
4. Schools cant open for now.
Health / Re: "Bleep Ur Vaccines, No To 5G" - Comments Attacking Bill Gates On Instagram by echibuogwu(m): 7:13am On Apr 17, 2020
U are funny, really funny, Bill gates source of income isn’t only from Microsoft, he has shares in many companies, Berkshire Hathaway included. And it’s funny how people think a vaccine will be the end of the world... I don’t understand
xendra:
I love this, I love that people are waking up and with one voice. I'm also beginning to dislike this man,

he started Microsoft so what? is Microsoft still paying so much that he stays the richest? he most definitely is into something fishy
Fashion / Best Unsolicited Compliments Your Cologne Gave You by echibuogwu(m): 11:27am On Apr 15, 2020
I remember sometimes ago in a bank, I was making a transaction and a pretty lady walked past me, she stopped and told me I smelt so good and asked the name of my fragrance, I was wearing Mont Blanc individuel that day. Have any fragrance of yours given you any unsolicited compliments before, especially from strangers and what fragrance was it. Please share your stories...
Religion / Re: Arch Bishop Samson Mustapha Benjamin Protests Against 5G Network by echibuogwu(m): 10:25am On Apr 12, 2020
annford:





You asked if I made a research on 1G-4G before using it? That's so lame! Weren't those tested? Weren't those approved? They were approved and released to the general public because they were deemed safe for the public. My brother, my younger sister is married to a Radiation Scientist (She too is a Scientist herself) and they both live in the UK. Her husband and a Team of Radiation Scientists from about 13 Countries, did comprehensive tests on the 5G and they concluded that it was 19x higher in radiation than the 4G and 3G put together. A group a Radiologists did their own tests and likened the radiation to that of an X-ray machine but only worse than that. You did a Math up there but that isn't enough. I ask again, If it were right, why install it simultaneously all over the world when we are all on Lockdown? If it were good, why are even scientists opposing it? I do not like dwelling on matters like this. I was in Wuhan last July on official visit and I can tell you that what they're telling you guys in the news that caused this whole thing that actually caused it. My brother, I pray that people come to the realisation of what 5G is all about.
Jesus Christ U are so dumb and ignorant, there’s nothing wrong with 5G, the US is just painting it bad because the technology didn’t come from them, this is a battle of world power and the US is just jealous of how strong China are becoming so they are using fools and ignorant idiots like u to fight them.
Romance / Re: She Broke My Heart With Her Words by echibuogwu(m): 12:41pm On Mar 31, 2020
U made a mistake of throwing urself to her so cheaply now u are regretting it, u presented urself to her as a loser and come on man, nobody likes a looser. Time to step up man
Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

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Religion / Re: Living Faith Creates USSD CODE To Facilitate Offerings And Tithes Online. by echibuogwu(m): 10:38pm On Mar 27, 2020
Whether it has been there for years or centuries is none of our business, the point is why bring up sth like this in times like this.
handelex:
An average Nigerian is just angry and probably frustrated, and as result becomes easily manipulated with any type of news that feeds that emotion.... What the OP didn't state is that that USSD platform has been operating for years now but at this time it suits the church bashing narrative so it's good to bring it up and as usual the ignorant is lapping it all up. It's wisdom not to jump and criticize what you don't have the full knowledge and facts about.
Religion / Re: Living Faith Creates USSD CODE To Facilitate Offerings And Tithes Online. by echibuogwu(m): 10:29pm On Mar 27, 2020
I swear. Na Fela first open my eyes. That guy is my mentor
Postnobill704:

OMG... I wish my great ancestor Fela kuti is still alive to see this.
Romance / Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by echibuogwu(m): 7:06am On Mar 27, 2020
Yh good and wen u give her little space Mk sure u flirt with other gals and let her see dt, she will be jealous
bigt2:
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.


If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.


I have spoken.

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Health / Re: Jack Ma's Donation To Fight COVID-19 Arrives Nigeria by echibuogwu(m): 8:46am On Mar 25, 2020
And u are a stupid thinker, someone is doing what ur billionaires refuse to do and yet u accuse him of sth like this. Why would he want to risk his reputation and name, what will he gain if he sends contaminated materials, you Nigerians are really foolish.
Ecpet83:
You are a good thinker; my brother. How can they be sending gifts from China and our people are not even asking any W H question.
Religion / Re: Coronavirus: Winners Chapel Reacts To Criticism Of Service Held On Sunday 22nd by echibuogwu(m): 12:42pm On Mar 24, 2020
That’s why you are not God and that’s why you are senseless
Mizwisdom:
Atheists are here to criticize, God is their enemy, the Church makes them look stupid so they attack it. God is indeed patient, if I was him I would have dealt mercilessly with them

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Education / Re: Beauty With Brains! Meet Faith, Anambra State University Best Graduating Student by echibuogwu(m): 9:19am On Mar 23, 2020
Oga she no beautiful jare
DaInferno:

how you want make she "beautiful" reach?

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Religion / Re: Coronavirus: Oyedepo Attacks Govt Over Closure Of Schools, Malls by echibuogwu(m): 10:02pm On Mar 22, 2020
Nigeria is not as wealthy as UK. We are trying to control this disease with the little resources we have... if this thing get out of hand trust me Italy go Dey learn for were we Dey
CodeTemplar:
While I favour the idea of remaining at home over the idea of avoidable movements, I think we are ignoring a key aspect of the plague. That's the testing aspect. Test kit in good quantity and cheap rate is needed to help isolate those infected. This is what development is all about. The robustness of society to respond to shock situations with a good balance and not our mansion development we like to boast about.
UK for example is delivering testkits to people and helping to speedily isolate them.
Religion / Re: Coronavirus: Oyedepo Attacks Govt Over Closure Of Schools, Malls by echibuogwu(m): 9:57pm On Mar 22, 2020
I believe you are educated but it’s a shame you don’t sound like it. If something goes wrong today and some of those members are isolated ask urself what Will oyedepo do, probably pray... lol. Will he build isolation centers and equip them, will he employ nurses and doctors, how many hand sanitizers has oyedepo shared. If something goes wrong it is the govt those people will cry to for help, not oyedepo. Now stop saying if I b a man of God
Mishael42019:
It will never be well with all this Islamist on this forum insulting Papa

Was there any mosque in Nigeria that shut its door last Friday?

May it never be well with you people insulting all the men of God in Nigeria

You all will never move forward in life and may all your life be cut shut at your prime

May sudden death locate you’ll that type insult on the man of God on this forum, twitter and Facebook. May all your lives be cut short in accidents and your bodies will be displayed on this forum and all internet sites before this year ends


If I be a Man of God!
Religion / Re: Coronavirus: Oyedepo Attacks Govt Over Closure Of Schools, Malls by echibuogwu(m): 9:46pm On Mar 22, 2020
Oga shut up. We are not Muslims and we have no business with them. Stop comparing yourself with them. The idea to still conduct a church service today was wrong. You can praise God at home, stop frustrating the govt effort to curb this pandemic
Mishael42019:
Christians should stay at home and Muslims you go to mosque and pray right?

Was there any mosque that shut its door last Friday?

You can keep talking it won’t change anything and papa don’t even know you exist.

My judgement will stand on you all

If I be a Man of God!
Religion / Re: Coronavirus: Oyedepo Attacks Govt Over Closure Of Schools, Malls by echibuogwu(m): 9:31pm On Mar 22, 2020
Oga shut up ur mouth and go sleep.
Mishael42019:
It will never be well with all this Islamist on this forum insulting Papa

Was there any mosque in Nigeria that shut its door last Friday?

May it never be well with you people insulting all the men of God in Nigeria

You all will never move forward in life and may all your life be cut shut at your prime

May sudden death locate you’ll that type insult on the man of God on this forum, twitter and Facebook. May all your lives be cut short in accidents and your bodies will be displayed on this forum and all internet sites before this year ends


If I be a Man of God!
Health / Re: Coronavirus: FG Orders Closure Of Varsities, Schools Nationwide by echibuogwu(m): 9:33pm On Mar 19, 2020
RandomVic:


Oga this is a matter of life and death! Not your usual APC, PDP nonsense. Rational governments around the world shut down schools with immediate effect whilst ours was dragging its feet leaving our borders open practically inviting the virus to our shores.
he’s right.. u talk too much.

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Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by echibuogwu(m): 8:43pm On Mar 06, 2020
Aunty move on before it’s too late, live life, give other better people a chance, that guy is just wasting ur time.
Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

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