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Family › Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by eckersley: 8:57am On Oct 04, 2016*

Family › Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by eckersley: 8:39am On Oct 04, 2016*

@taiiremide.
Hy bro.
Nowadays, I don't log on to NL let alone comment on topics like this cos one cannot ascertain their authenticity.
I blv majority of them are fabricated to drive traffic to the site.

Assuming your story is not one of those [no offense meant], here's my take:

1. Beware of advice from kids who know everything abt the internet and little/nothing abt LIFE.

2. The solution to your predicament is not in a paragraph of 'advice'.
It's a TOTAL CHANGE IN LIFE STYLE.
it's a process that will take at least a month to see tangible results. And many more months to gain total control of your life, wife [if you still want her back] & family (even hers).

3. The path I'm advocating will equip/empower you with tonnes of valuable information so requires a good deal of reading from you. You'll hv to invest a minimum of 1-2 hours daily in reading for the first month.
U can put in more time during weekends.

Business › Re: Withdrawing From Domiciliary Account by eckersley: 5:48am On Aug 07, 2016

stagger:
OP, let no one deceive you and do not listen to some of those people who say you can't withdraw USD. They obviously do not have domiciliary accounts and do not know how they are currently operating.

I have both a USD and GBP account with at least three banks in Nigeria. You can withdraw your money sent via international wire in foreign currency. I have withdrawn from my USD domiciliary account like THREE TIMES this week. I have been part of those who have enjoyed the fall in the Naira. Imagine pulling out $1,000 and going home with N380,000 after paying a visit to the mallams. Sweetness galore.

Feel free to send the money to your sister. She should simply walk to any GTB account and withdraw her money in dollars. Period!

Will contact you before trying this.
Tx

Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage & Her Son Jamil In Cute New Photos by eckersley: 5:59am On Jun 21, 2016*

Maxineng:
They are a lot of people without fathers doing very fine. A mother's love is all a child needs

One of the greatest psychoanalyst, physiologist, medical doctor and psychologist disagrees with you. Listen:

I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.
Sigmund Freud

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Politics › Re: I’ll Do Everything Necessary To Secure Oil Facilities In Niger Delta — Buhari by eckersley: 7:30pm On Jun 01, 2016

AngryNigerian:
...including resigning if shove comes to push, ehkwa?

The correct phrase is:
When push comes to shove

Thanks

Politics › Re: Troops Invade Boko-Haram Arms Factory In Borno (PICS) by eckersley: 10:03am On Mar 03, 2016

I'm still looking for the factory. Someone, kindly, help wt an electron microscope

Politics › Re: Bomb Blast In Benin by eckersley: 10:56pm On Feb 02, 2016

Elections are around the corner and the PDP will do anything to make the APC appear incompetent
What a shameful route to descend

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Romance › Re: 11 Things Your Wife Needs From You But Doesn’t Want To Ask by eckersley: 11:50am On Jan 29, 2016

Respect

No matter what, she needs and deserves your respect. You’ll never see eye to eye with your wife on everything, so don’t drive a wedge between you determining who is right or wrong. If you have a disagreement, hear her out respectfully. Your wife wants you to listen to her ideas and give them serious consideration. Dr. Amy Bellows says, “Respect allows you to accept another person’s point of view whole-heartedly.”

Intimacy

It’s true men typically think of intimacy in terms of s*x. Women generally view intimacy as an emotional closeness. Take the time to meet her need for intimacy by steps as simple as enjoying a hobby together. Therapist Fran Fisher offers couple exercises to recharge your emotional intimacy. The good news is, when you work to improve her idea of intimacy, your idea of intimacy will improve as well. It’s a win-win.

Two minutes of undivided attention

While women tend to multitask well, men are often good at focusing on one thing at a time. These qualities complement each other. To make this difference work for your marriage, take time to focus on her when she is talking to you. First, look up from what you are doing, and second, listen. Really listen. Don’t just pretend and nod your head. Focus your attention on her and what she is saying. There likely will be a pop quiz on the information later.

Secret signal

Coaches can communicate with their teams from the sidelines. Take a page from his playbook and come up with a discreet way to say, “I love you” and use it often when you’re in public.

Confidence

Even if you consider your wife to be your equal in every way, she needs you to be strong and confident. Warning: Don’t confuse this as overbearing and brutish. A study in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

showed that men who are confident without being arrogant are more attractive to women.

Shared vision

The adage is opposites attract, but the truth is that common goals keep a relationship strong. Setting and achieving goals keeps both partners engaged in the marriage and helps to see past the immediate obstacles that will inevitably come your way.

A dynamic relationship

The middle years of a relationship can feel like treading water. But, like floating in the ocean, you’re still moving. If you don’t make an effort to grow together, you will find yourself drifting apart. There is no standing still.

Spiritual leadership in your home

Whether religious or agnostic, women are, by nature, more in tune with spiritual matters. This means you have to work at keeping up. If your wife attends a worship service, go with her without complaining. Initiate the invitation to pray together at home. In their book, The Soul-Mate Marriage: The Spiritual Journey of Becoming One, authors David and Lisa Frisbee outline the importance of both partners being spiritually invested in the relationship.

Your shower gel

Her sense of smell is keener than yours. There’s a reason shower gel marketed toward teen boys do so well. Hint: It’s because teen girls — and women — like the smell of a just-washed man.

A best friend

Though you may golf with your buddies every now and then, she needs to talk to her best friend everyday. She needs a bestie who listens to her, who opens up to her and who she can talk to everyday. Acknowledge her need for a best friend and give them time together. She also needs you to be the best friend she can trust. You don’t have to abandon all manliness, but taking a few steps to become her best friend will go a long way.

A good laugh every day

Laughing releases endorphins. We love people who make us smile. Express your affection in silly ways. Be playful in your relationship and have fun together. In the words of actress Joanne Woodward, “$exiness wears thin after awhile and beauty fades, but to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that is a treat.”

A little indulgence every now and then

Every once in a while, she just needs a break. Take time to give her a little royal treatment. A nice foot massage, dinner out, or a night in reading a good book may be all she needs to rejuvenate her mind and get the rest and relaxation she needs.

Travel › Re: 5 Reasons Why Couples Should Travel Together by eckersley: 9:46am On Jan 15, 2016

kobonaire:
I don't fly with the mamas of my kids because ...
a) If anything happen, at least their mamas still de
b) They too like to pick expensive things at duty free

I almost never log onto Nairaland anymore.
But did so to like your reason (a)

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Politics › Re: #letsblamegej Now Trending On Twitter (pics) by eckersley: 8:11am On Dec 22, 2015

There aren't even up to 300 tweets on this garbage and you SCREAM trending

#Tragic

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Crime › Re: Man Rapes 24-year-old Facebook Lover At First Meeting by eckersley: 2:35pm On Dec 21, 2015*

Guys be careful. This is the fad now.
I DO NOT CONDONE NAY ADVOCATE PREMARITAL SEX IN ANY OF ITS SHADES.

But shd you decide to engage in it here is a tip for you.
Pertaining to consent in the second image, hv ur second phone/device capable of recording audio hidden somewhere in the room.
I say a second phone/device cos she might want to 'view pics and videos' on your primary phone.

[Actually she just wants to make sure your phone isn't recording shd she intends to get u in trouble later]

As you discuss with her, ask relevant questions like her full name, it's meaning (not in an interview style oo), tribe, AGE etc ).
The morning after, call, CHAT and TEXT her telling how you enjoyed her company, the sex and hope to see her again.
She'll definitely tell you the same.

Screenshot the conversation/chat/text and burn the audio file and screenshots to a cd, password it and hide it.

Don't leave these media files in your phone cos, in connivance with the police, your phone will be the FIRST TO BE HARD RESET/FORMATTED to remove any evidence that might exonerate you.
But you got back up.

ONCE AGAIN, I AM AGAINST PREMARITAL SEX.

Q: But why give this advice, someone might ask

A: In medicine, even if you're a pious/moral doctor, you still have to advise unmarried peeps to practice safe sex (e.g. use a condom, i.e. protect themselves)
Pardon my typos: I use swipe to type

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Culture › Re: Cultists Hijack Corpse Of Ife High-Chief, Omisakin by eckersley: 8:40am On Dec 20, 2015

The gods must be ~~CRAZILY~~ broke

Romance › Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by eckersley: 9:41pm On Dec 17, 2015*

LordAdam:
OP, you do not owe the lady anything.

Girls live on guys money all the time and leave with the signature statement, "he is not right for me."

So I do not understand why guys can't do the same.

Any money spent out of love is CHARITY!

@OP, if you do not want to be with her for the rest of your life, do not marry her, even if she has donated a kidney to you. Marriages consummated out of pity or unreal obligations are the worst versions of hell on planet Earth.
-Lord

Objectivity at its finest.
I had fumingly said if after the 2nd page I do not see such an objective reply, I would close the thread.

What a relief to see this line of thought.
If the sexes were reversed, you wud hv heard comments like:

Every relationship mustn't lead to marriage.

You did it for love

Marriage is not by force

Did the sex and company she provided you not outweigh the LITTLE you've spent on her
[As if the pleasures of sex aren't mutual]

I hardly log on nowadays to comment due to the dense fog of prejudice over this forum.
Folks don't reason their way to an answer.
They FEEL their way to it.
Tragic.
The death of logic and reasoning

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Family › Re: Court Dissolves 18-year-old Marriage Over Incest by eckersley: 9:34am On Nov 16, 2015*

Estharfabian:
....And i thought i've Seen Everything!!

Weirdos just Keep Rising Everyday....

The Mother Should Be circumcised! Again! And Again!

Buh[b]seriously, How Old is This Boy? If he's Up to 16..Then , The blame should be On Both parties[/b]There's Obviously more to this story!

But if a girl/daughter is up to 16yrs old and the man/father is 40 and above, the girl/daughter should SHARE in the blame, right?
( not to mention the pointers to spiking the victim's drink)

I usually avoid debating with females cos a philosopher and personal experience hv taught me LOGIC doesn't reside in the female brain but in their v...

You statements buttress that point

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Crime › Re: Paris Shooting : ISIS Mentions Nigeria by eckersley: 1:55pm On Nov 15, 2015

psucc:
They are emphatic on Sahara and that implies North. Let them have what they bargained and sort after - if Jonathan wins, we will make the country ungovernable for him.

1. How many times will it repeated before bigots will know who truly threatened to make the country ungovernable?

2. Bigots write blinded by hate/bile while idiots egg them on with likes and shares

Read the truth and set your souls free
https://www.nairaland.com/1355454/guardian-newspapers-regrets-article-buhari

https://www.nairaland.com/2021241/fact-it-pdp-promised-make

Properties › Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by eckersley: 10:12pm On Nov 11, 2015*

flywaterbo:
Thank you kind sirs for you caring remarks, I indeed appreciate. I know he knows he is wrong and sent me a mail last night as I mentioned earlier. In the agreement he wants me to acknowledge the 700k on the agreement so he can pay me. I am not even signing to that because that would defeat my purpose of ever getting full fees.
Am just trying to be careful and wise unless I make up my mind to go for 700k, but for now. Sighs.
But I have his signature and acknowledgement on my agreement, am just wondering what it would cost to get to court and see help I need, would it ware me out? Would it take for ever?
That Nigerian slothful fashion in approaches like this is what am pondering on

Download and DEVOUR this book:
To be or not to be intimidated by Robert Ringer.
I said to DEVOUR this book in 3 days and see the mistakes you hv made in the real estate biz and avoid future ones

Second, don't worry abt the cost of litigation, the judge will award that to you at the end of the case in addition to your 5%.
I.e. the defendant (scammer) willl pay the fees of your lawyer

Third, do not listen to the kids here on NL who haven't worked/earned a dime all their lives.
Hence 700k to them is like their annual income.

Fourth, you seem to know very lil abt real estate. Buy lots of Nigerian and foreign books on real estate. You don't really need a lawyer, be it senior or junior. The knowledge from these books will enable you draft loop-hole proof agreements and help you survive in the vermin-infested world of real estate and biz generally

Voraciously read that book in less than 3 days.
You'll know the line of action to take.

You're palpably scared already. I can feel it as i type.
Stop all communication with that fraudster so you don't reveal ur weaknesses any further.

Get a lawyer to serve him immediately and all future communication should be between him or his lawyer and yours.

Should he agreee to an out of court settlement, paying your legal fees will be part of ur new terms of settlement aand your FULL 5% as well.
Anything short of that, see him in court.

Ignore my typos as I use swipe to type

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Crime › Re: Robbers Rape Newly-wed In Lagos After Attacking Community by eckersley: 7:54am On Nov 10, 2015

What kind of IQs do the residents of this community possess?
The valuables and cash being stolen from you on a regular will suffice to pay a security firm/outfit

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Politics › Re: Mohammed Adoke Recommends CCT Chairman’s Removal, Prosecution - Thisday by eckersley: 8:04pm On Nov 09, 2015

xwolverine:
Lalasticlala, Seun please correct this wrong headline

LALASTICLALA.
The headline is still MISLEADING.
The headline shd look this:
Former AGR RECOMMENDED ..... During Gej administration.
Not recommends as tho it's a fresh recommendation

Politics › Re: Mohammed Adoke Recommends CCT Chairman’s Removal, Prosecution - Thisday by eckersley: 7:12pm On Nov 09, 2015

free2ryhme:
The title misleading
It should be "former AGF"
Haba!

LALASTICLALA.
KINDLY CORRECT THIS DELIBERATELY MISLEADING HEADLINE

What is Nairaland turning into. A sensationalist forum?
He is FORMER AGF.

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Phones › Re: MTN Just Won't Stop. (screenshot) by eckersley: 7:04pm On Nov 09, 2015

mediachirps:
Mumu...Mtn is not responsible for any of these messages. Am into short code service, that's our own job.

You don't have to commit a crime in person to get a sentence.
MTN is COMPLICIT in this offence for allowing such msgs thru their gateway.
All they have to do is set a SPAM filter.
ASK ANYONE ABROAD if that's how they are spammed and harassed with such msgs.
I strongly blv MTN & other telecoms get paid by for letting these msgs through their gateways

Finally, you k make ur point without insulting anyone

Crime › Re: Woman Brutalizes 15-yr-old Maid, Slashes Her With Razor Blade (pictures) by eckersley: 2:27pm On Nov 09, 2015

May we know why only the first names of both diabolic teen-mutilating sisters were mentioned?
If they were men their full CVs and PICTURES would be on public domain.
Welcome to gynocracy

Phones › Re: "MTN In Moves To Change Nigerian Management Team Over N1.4trn Fine" by eckersley: 4:22pm On Oct 29, 2015

eagleonearth:
if not for the popularity and engagement of my line which have lasted for over 11 yrs, I would have ported a long time ago.

You need not bother.
Go to the office of the network you now wish to be on their network, say Etisalat, with the SIM certificate of ur Mtn line.
You'll be ported/moved to the new network and STILL RETAIN YOU EXACT OLD NUMBER.
Ur recharging and all subsequent activities will be on Etisalat or whatever network u choose.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Sordid Experience As A Female Lawyer Job Hunting. by eckersley: 6:45pm On Oct 16, 2015

judedwriter:
Oh well, judging from your pic, I can say you are attractive but unfortuunately in naija, attractive ladies both attract good and bad guys 2gether. As a pretty gal, guys would always be attracted to u, whether u are single, engaged or married.
You have to diffrentiate the good from the bad; not all guys r like this.

Your aesthetic judgement is abysmally poor.

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Family › Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by eckersley: 8:13am On Oct 06, 2015

chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

Hy. Impotence or erectile dysfunction is different from infertility/sterility.
Generally defined:
Impotence is the inability of the man's thing to stand hence he cannot do the do with wifey while
Infertility is the inability to get pregnant and can occurs in both males and females.

So a man may be impotent but fertile (get a woman pregnant e.g via hospital assisted means)
But a potent and infertile man may be able to do the do with his wife 100 times daily but cannot get her pregnant.
Read up details here
http://www.impotence-guide.com/impotence-vs-infertility.html

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 12:13pm On Aug 16, 2015*

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 8:18am On Aug 15, 2015

Tolzeal:
Can someone give me a good Head to head website

sportstats.com
Statsarea.com
Soccerway.com

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Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 7:20am On Aug 15, 2015

klens:
which one is Rball in 365?

That graphical representation that shows you the ball movement and statistics of a match.
Corners, slots on target, possession, dangerous attack, etc.

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 7:18am On Aug 15, 2015

vboss:
They said bonanza win has fast payout ....since on Thursday I did payout I have not see the money
[b][/b] bonanza win please credit my account o
Since on Thursday morning...or is this scam?

EFCC must hear this.

Is your payout so humongoous its going to burn a hole in their pocket?
Hv you written v to both EFCC and Bonanzawin?

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 6:46am On Aug 15, 2015

@bluerat
green anyway.
Na so, na so.
According to Kiss Daniel.
This NL page is not good for inplays at all cos it doesn't auto refresh

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Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 6:31am On Aug 15, 2015

@bluerat. How do you come up with your inplay tips? Do you check H2H or what?
Cos that North Geelong warriors H2H is 1-1 wt no first half goal

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 6:24am On Aug 15, 2015

centlevi:
pls which foreign bookie accept Nigerians without verification or perhaps with minimal verification requirement?
pls someone shud pls answer me

marathonbet

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by eckersley: 6:20am On Aug 15, 2015

BlueRat:
remove? Not really...freeze? I totally agree. They re starting to Bleep up

An example
MEXICO: Primera Division - Apertura
02:30: Veracruz - Querétaro 2:2
Half time this game was 2:2 and they had it.
Thereafter it disappeared

Now this game is on
Glenorchy Knights. 1-9 Northern Rangers
Last week they played 16-2.
While 365 had it, this fake site deliberately left it out.
Their ploy was just too catch new customers.
Nothing beats 365. Rball and cash out options are noni

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