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Where is your father?

try to stick around men in your family. as a man you need to develop character, and judging from your texts,i see a big red flag in your future.you are seeking comfort in women who pamper you after another woman broke your little dear heart. hummm. be a man,connect with other men and grow balls.

By blasting your husband on a public website/forum like nairaland, i think you expose the real content of your character.
what kind of advices can you get from posters like all the kids who tried to counsel you in matters beyond their maturity?
most of these kids here on nairaland are just d um b and foolish.they havnt been married,they have no clue about what it takes to stay in a marriage.

i have no respect for people like you,who are so quick to put their marital dirty laundry online and play victim of their own childishness.

if you really need help,talk to a counsellor,talk to his best friend,talk to his folks.

like i said,your thread shows that you are childish and disrespectful.

@ poster, at some point thru your thread i almost thought you are married to a monster,a bafoon. at least that's what you painted him as.

i am glad you are not complaining about finances and sex. so i take it that he satisfies you very well in those two very important areas of a marriage.

to cut thru the chase,i would just tell you to start appreciating your husband. because the way you described him, i would divorce you if i was him.
i would just throw you out of the house.

Its an indication that you are a very serious person.you truly loved him.

use your head and not your heart in this.
what do u miss about him? the physical,the emotional or the financial?

if its the emotional and the financial,then try to reconnect,but if its just the physical,then just hang in there,in time it will fade.

if you really want a relationship with a man or a woman (if u r bi) , then think with your head before engaging your heart. find someone with a predictable future.always seek your welfare and interest first before commiting your heart to anyone.

is he educated? is he financialy capable?
in this religious age,most people are fooled with cliches and prophecies and faith to commit to anyone in the name if" god will provide".

Sooner or later you will realize that nobody gives a crap about you. focus on your life and live to achieve your dream.the world doesnt rotate around you and your identity crisis.

my best advice would be: get your thumb out of your mouth and grow up.you've sucked it long enough

Even if you were given advices,you cant change other people's will and emotions.

if they've been together for five years and he still complains,then let him stew in his own juice.

Its very unwise to confess some stuff especially sex.
confessing will only make it worse. only confess if you are prepared to face the terrible consequences.

most people are happy because of what they dont know.it keeps them going and staying positive in this negative world.

i d rather not tell my girlfriend about my escapades to protect our relationship.
my golden rule is to use condoms and play safe.

can u imagine how disgusted we would be with our mothers if we knew their dirty past before they met our dads? why arent we mad?because we dont know it.

Lol.

thank goodness for the usa

I am a jw

i dont f u ck ,i dont eat p u s sy my only weakness is m as tur bat ion.

i am keeping myself holy for my future wife.
its not easy,but i am managing

Why must we always derail from the topic?

@ poster

thank you very much for a brilliant thread.

open more threads plz