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waistaa:
ok o make I accept,although there is truth in that but becareful make she no catch u,she won't have d brain to accept such.

thank you dear. Understanding people dey here oh. Thought it's all hypocrites. I dey hide am wella cos she has a temper truly if she catches me na life time of black mail and close marking, asides the wailing and scratching with me on my knees swearing it was devil's work. I don't wanna lose her respect for me. Y am I this bad.

swtbiddy:
She was kidnapped in OAU staff Quarters this morning. A boy was kidnapped also in the same manner 2 wks ago by d same guys

are u sure. I was there all through today as the strike action left me stranded. Wish I saw them e Don tey I punch person

nawtibownie:
There's nothing like "good unfaithful men" oga!! To avoid the heartaches and psychological stress, try your best possible to be good. I know its not easy tho' but you guys should learn to always say 'NO' to the devil. Ahahn!!!

lol at NO to the devil. Nne that angel called Satan has the speed dial of my little eddy which causes the devil's work of unfaithfulness. I am good in every other way o. Ask my gf. Except the aforementioned. You see the good unfaithful men ish

waistaa:
....anything like good unfaithful men? Its like a sweet-bitter biscuit

of course na. Some unfaithful men can still be good men or u of the opinion that the unfaithfulness rots the whole package? Bitter sweet biscuit is still biscuit oh or is now wood. I am a good man biko though unfaithful

hatux:
Baby, can i ask you something?







Do you really love me?

exactly, even if u do love her u would feel the question an intrusion and likely na big lie dey follow that statement such as I do, I swear

hatux:
Baby, can i ask you something?







Do you really love me?

exactly, even if u do love her u would feel the question an intrusion and likely na big lie dey follow that statement

Allureoftheseas:


But I don't get with that question

Oh I forgot marine girls don't ask that

please drop the contact information of the little mermaid anytime u see her so I can keep in touch through WhatsApp. Abeg under the sea what likely network is there hope not empty hen

Add me up on BBM 52ca10af. If u in ife oh. Would love to know ya. Have a great day

Cutehector:
Looooool

My heart skips wen I"m askd dat tooo..


Startn to think abt all d wrongs I hv done only for her to reply wit "pls can u send me recharge card"


Imajine.

hahahaha. I have not slept well since last night, I hope it's the airtime. For the first time I will be grateful it's the airtime. Please let it be airtime. Amem

waistaa:
Op u too guilty die,so this kain statement dey make your heart reach rio

before nko. It's heart wrenching. I haven't slept well since last night have been pondering, what does she know, what doesn't she know, did she say all she knows, haba this heart attack isn't fair. Stop doing this kain thing to good unfaithful men. We could be extinct soon

That moment she taps or pings u, and u think all is well only to hear "baby can I ask u something" or "baby answer me truthfully" what is it with bae and nagging me for God sake . Why do I feel dread or guilt when that statement is made, are there not better ways for these beings to say what's bothering them than that suspenseful opening statement mostly said when at the initial stage of pulling some under garments for some mid night see saw or after finishing the exhausting rumpus and a brother gat to sleep. We love u ladies but stop it, just stop it. Stop making initial statements that makes me think u have finally found out about my cheating ways or baby mama. Still on still, love u all despite though my bae specifically

It's pretty boring in this town without knowing many people, though with OAU and other institutions am still bored, will love to make new friends, holla at me here. Happy Sunday

enoqueen:
We will put it behind us and move on.

Though it will always hurt each time I remember but am gonna love my child more.

These days, no matter how careful you are or how hard you work to raise your kid, shits happens.

rightly said but it's harder to forget when some people use that to score cheap shots on u and ur family whenever issues come up they say u talked or behaved like that which isn't surprising cos ur daughter did so and so

andromida:
She can't pay forever for something she did that many of their kids are doing they just didn't get caught. Ok yes maybe ignore their tantrums till I get out of there whether by getting a job far away from them or marriage.

They were even paraded. If I were the woman I can't let people make me live in shame for my lifetime it's just too hard. As for her Father who refused to forgive her he hurt himself carrying such a heavy heart to his grave and leaving his daughter with guilty shame I don't see anything he gained by being so unforgiving.

I will think where did I miss it? But then I will forgive her and myself and we move on even my friend I will have to forgive but our relationship ends.

u have a forgiving spirit. U spoke truth though. I wonder y I never forgive nor forget. Guess it's me.

soopamom:
How old was this child at the time? Ever heard of statutory rape? The father should have blamed himself for not protecting his daughter and for not raising her in a manner that would have made her at least confident enough in his love to have approached him with the info. Instead he is after his stupid pride and what people were saying behind his back.... Mitschewwww

the lady might have been around eighteen and I think the fathers friend was an aristo to her or something like that. The point is that people saw their escapades and it became known that she sleeps around worse off with a family friend who was the fathers best buddy. The story got to the parents through church gossips and or grapevine methods, fact is that the family was a laughing stock around that period so u should understand their pain. Rumour has it they were caught and paraded naked by the relatives of the man's wife

andromida:
If i were the cousin i would abandon the kindred sef. Who are they to judge or shame me?

if u an igbo lady u did know u can't abandon your kindred even though u cam ignore their tantrums, the girl is still single and will still need her people with respect to marriage customs and others. By the way this issue is similar to a sex tape scandal where everyone judges the victim and treats her like a leper

Yadoctora:
Why is anybody feeling ashamed on behalf of the foolish girl and the perv. The girl should be ashamed of herself.
She could have been contented with what she had, could have worked hard for her own money. Unless hrr Father is the irresponsible type who never catered for her, he can share in the shame.

u know people can be judgemental. It's the shame of the girl but so far others know the story and can tease a father about that whenever they like, it would make any parent ashamed

Cutehector:
for sleepin wit my daughter? Can I forgive him? Mehn its a hard one.. Buh as they say, time heals all wounds..

hmmmm. Surprising response from a Nigerian. U really must have a good heart. I can't forgive even on the day of rapture

alberto2k:
[color=Teal] Well. . . you'll blame the parent for not bringing her up in the Ways of Lord.



but whatz your question really?

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who would u be more angry with, your daughter or ur friend

Cutehector:
I will blame myself.. Why? Because as a father, I'm suposed to cater for her needs.. It will be a shame to me when she goes out beggn for money when her father is very much alive and working. Wherebey the father is incapable of providing for their daughter's needs, they go elsewhere to seek for financial assistance either from boyfrnds or sugar daddies..

so technically you can forgive your friend afterwards?

If you found out ur university age daughter slept with ur age long friend for money at a time in the past and people who knew mocked you with that meetings and gatherings, which feeling will hurt the most, the friend's betrayal or your daughter shaming the family name. PS a cousin is hated in the kindred cos of this, the father died never forgiving her

freecocoa:
The fact that we disagree doesn't give you the right to call me names o, stick to what you believe and leave me to mine, it's that simple.

am not uncouth. Read my post again dear. Never called u no names. I spoke generally of a mentality malaise plaguing the black man which I attributed as the foundation of ur response to the subject matter. No insult PS we just exchanging opinions on a subject matter. Cheers

5minsmadness:
Interesting.

I have a sister and i havent seen her nake3d 'plenty times' and we live under the same roof. In fact I have NEVER seen her nakid since she attained puberty. Its all about maintaining personal boundaries.

The op is right to be disgusted at his friend's behaviour. first of, a brother's natural inclination is to protect his sister from all sorts, esp maligning boys that want to sex her but will most likely not marry her. its an instinct thing. Secondly its sex, it should be private. I know my sister has a boyfriend but it will be a cold day in hell before i consent to him shagging her in the next room when he knows i'm there and aware and awake. Its an insult to her and an insult to my person.


Or in this age of freedom to do sh1t, maybe i'm just being old fashioned.

I have a lot of respect for ur reasoning. It's very sound, non judgemental and understand where am coming from not the miyagi wannabe freecocoa