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joseph1832:
Yea she does, the rest are just individuals with raging hormones... That's why they can never debate without adding progesterone to it.

MzNelly, I got an itch, and you gatta scratch it. LMAO.

daretodiffer:
Who is bringing manhood to disrepute? You are so clueless!

the manhood of a man could be brought to disrepute if he isn't respected and treated like a man. Whether rich or poor, he must be treated like a man. It's the same respect I though feminists should be preaching instead of equality nonsense. Shey u noticed I didn't respond to ur insult, don't take it as weakness.

MzNelly:
I am in love, honey.

Doesn't change my views on feminism...

if you are in love with a fellow girl, then I understand, but if it's a full blooded man you are in love with, he could be a lesbian.

First thing I do to all women in my life, is to reset them to factory settings. How come bae never did that.

But on a serious note, if truly u gat a man that accepts all these craziness, you must be very beautiful be that, or the man is nuts. Because the sacrifice is much. Please keep him tightly and closely and make sure wedding bells ring, his type aren't many, though I doubt women will wanna snatch his type

MzNelly:
I am in love, honey.

Doesn't change my views on feminism...

if you are in love with a fellow girl, then I understand, but if it's a full blooded man you are in love with, he could be a lesbian.

First thing I do to all women in my life, is to reset them to factory settings. How come bae never did that.

But on a serious note, if truly u gat a man that accepts all these craziness, you must be very beautiful be that, or the man is nuts. Please keep him tightly and closely, though I doubt women will wanna snatch his type

joseph1832:
Madam to set the premise for a debate, why don't you tell us or give us the definition of feminism?

of the whole crazy lot, MzNelly seems to have better reasoning, so no insults to her or harsh words while we await her definition of the concept. It will help us properly thrash her and her cohorts.

MzNelly:
Eddygourdo, it seems even you don't know what feminism is.

Well, don't waste your time praying for me..
Just keep praying you jam a feminist gf/wife.... your life will be a whole lot better than it already is .

hahahahahaha, remember I told you earlier, no decent woman of age talks feminism. It's a cult following for the young and coming.

The women I am likely to encounter should prove their worth to me as individuals, not sexist views . But if they try to bring my manhood to disrepute, I will wash them down to their rightful place.

Don't forget the most important sound in the life of a woman, while u wasting ur time on an idealogy for kids..... Tick tuck tick tock tick tock.

The more it sounds,

the more beauty wanes,

the more male attention reduces,

the more the skin gets less taut,

the more the eggs are finishing monthly,

the more merry Saturdays for the so called foolish women who prefer to put men in their rightful place,

the less ur opinion about anything has meaning to you or those around you

And lastly, the more you realise this world always moves and remains constant while moving. Thus ideologies are confined to personal opinion

Wait till you truly fall in love. You will sing a new song

theEYe21:
Guess you are speaking from life experience. So sorry if you, your father and your brother has been maltreated by women. My regards

so sorry to you to whose mum, sisters and urself have been maltreated by men. So sorry. My regards

sonOfLucifer:
Educate yourself. There have always been African feminists. Read up your history. Google ABA women riots. Ignorance isn't funky.

hahahahahaha imagine the delusion. You choose to interpret the aba women riot as an act of feminism. Hahahahahaha. God forbid bad thing that ignorance rules the land. Please that Is a very subjective analysis, so kindly analyse further the premises your conclusion was based on. Please relay that to feminism. Hahahahahaha. Nurses in imo protested recently, since it's a generally female dominated Job, I believe it was an act of feminism too. Oga speaking grammar and quoting secondary school history isn't an enlightened argument

[quote author=MzNelly post=43704785]Heals me?

Lmao, sweetie I'm not sick o.
I'm hale & hearty...

And my ideas make me a better person, as well as the people around me better.... the people that matters.[/quote) you really need to change your friends, they aren't bringing out the best in you. True change oh. Not buhari change. If only you would one day realise your strengths as a woman and use that to Acheive greatness, instead of fighting to be men, , having a mentality psychology refers to as the missing penis syndrome. You a nice chap. Will still pray for you.

sinaj:
Lwkmd



Iz diz a retreat? Lol

if only I was where you are, I will seize ur phone till you write an apology to me 50pages long.

Don't tempt me though, one can never tell. By the w'ay I don't make it a habit of fighting with women, be it physically or online. So stop annoying me biko. Last I checked am a peace loving man. Or teen whichever suits ur highness

theEYe21:
So you are saying your mother is kissing your fathers feet and putting her in her place? If you have a sister or a mother, you wouldn't allow any man to treat your mother or sister the way you described, unless you don't cherish your mother or sister.

don't u have a father or brothers, do you want them maltreated? By the current band of dangerous women running amork with crazy ideas on equality. A load of nonsense and ingredients

MzNelly:
okay sweetie, I understand.

better, see how we ended peacefully. I pray God heals you from this ideas you have, asides them you could be a darling. Have a great day

sinaj:
lol why did u have to post like I hit u xo bad lol




U just proved me right again about u spewing trash like a teen



When next u want to pass a message or point across, u don't have to use derogatory words like u wana have a combat with me lol


No be fight na.


With a nice point, I will either concur or criticize.

here we go again with delusion. Now you know where nice point are abi. Ur head don dey correct. Simply because of am online forum. Everybody has a voice. Listen lady, I don't wanna be vexed some more especially by you. Your ideas are skewed with respect to ur sex and their limitations. Let me be in peace. Women are greater and stronger than teen men Like me. Ur uncles mate. I agree. This is ur medal . Please go away biko

MzNelly:
All I'm hearing is:
"You are beneath me, stay beneath me. Stop trying to fight it. You are a woman for your reason-for your bréasts and ass... just use that to get ahead and everything will be fine.
Don't argue, don't protest"

*sigh..

We still have a long way to go

asides it true, we complement each other. A captain is just as good as the Co pilot. But somebody is the Co pilot.

Mark my words, feminism will never take root in Africa. Even in the western world, it's all a mirage. Western media propaganda

MzNelly:
See, I understand where you're coming from...

But times have changed.
I suggest you get with the program.

Who would know better about the times. Me at my years of life experience or you still starting out ur life.

Embrace your womanity, you haven't perfected the art of being a woman completely, talk less of taking on the role of a man.

It will be a square peg in a round hole. That's the simple reason men disagree with it. If men Competed with you women on the same level. You would never win anything.

That the truth. Everybody has their role to play, that is why everybody blames a man for hitting a woman, even though she hit him first. Because she is a woman.

If we were equals, guess they should fight well well. Shebi they are the same.

Please just know it deep down, that u haven't known it all yet. Many things to still learn, before u form a life opinion

MzNelly:
Nothing other than 'liberating', because that is the main deal...

We (women) have been slaves to men for a long ass time...
It's high time we change that..

And you guys can jump on board or keep on wailing and gnashing your teeth..
that won't stop feminism....

talking to me about age, like if I grow older, I'll be okay with people blaming a girl for being rapéd instead of arresting the guy, like I'll be okay with being paid less compared to a guy,
like I'll be okay with staying at home and cooking/cleaning if I get older, like I'll be okay with being treated like a second class citizen if I get older...

don't be silly, mister!
as long as most men continue to be stupïd, feminists remain..

oh my God. Ha. You never see anything.

Where do you school, what are you studying, what did u have for breakfast, where have u visited, where dioyou see urself in 5years.

Please my dear, which of this was a first choice, where you are schooling now or Wat u ate studying or the grades you got recently, was it what you hoped it will be?

What is ur own contribution to the general scheme of things, maybe u assume stamping ur feet at ur future boss will make them review ur salary above the scale to match all the men

Maybe when u flash ur feminists Id card, your imaginary husband will start doing all the home cleaning while you watch the news. Hahahavaha

Na Wa oh. My dear life happens, and life will happen to you irrespective of ur views or sense of belonging. The world is an open sphere for all to thrive, but we know deep down that not all animals are equal.

Even amongst women, you can't out Acheive them nor have a voice in a female gathering talk less of men. The only reason women survive in the world of men is simply because we regard them as women and not as equals.

Lest to equal population struggles where we are all equals, women of today will go extinct. You could use females in sports as a perfect analysis of the point.

Women who know they are women, who don't struggle with men, use their womanness to climb the ladders of greatness in many fields, while the feminist women learn life the hard way when you struggle with men as equals. Because we aren't.

Bigger brain things. You seem a nice lady albeit a deluded one. You might be studying law if am not mistaken

MzNelly:
Oh Jesus, paragraph! paragraph, mister!

You still haven't told me why feminists scare you...

Actually, being a feminist is very liberating, if you ask me..
You know your rights and don't take shït from nobody..

Don't plan on changing anytime soon, too

see, it doesn't even matter...
if "well brought up African ladies" interest you, then it's all on you.
Your call...

guess just as I suspected, you have no response asides the "liberating". Anyway such issues are idle banters. Time differentiates everything. It's time that will prove to you how inconsequential your existent, opinions and idealogy is to the general scheme of things. Then you will learn why other wiser people who existed long before you decided to dobale and enjoy their lot. Goodday

daretodiffer:
When you were my age, you haven't achieved half of the things I did.

Now FVCK off

dumbo. This is an open forum, and I take ur challenge. Please upload with evidence ur achievements and I will do same. Would be good. Dullard, you achieved? Hahahahahaha. Please post evidences and stop deceiving people. Unless u meant ur waec result was an achievement.

daretodiffer:
Bleh, your 'wisdom' nauseates me

I asked you a question oh madam. Answer it. Please educate us on a personal level ur achievements as a feminist. I wanna prove your delusion publicly

MzNelly:
see, please... paragraph your sentences
you're straining my eyes...

and stop bringing age into the issue on ground cos you have nothing useful to say..

read it slowly you will understand, age is very important dear, am sure 5years ago you weren't a feminist, today you are one, and likely in five years from now you might not be. So let's talk educative. What are your achievements thus far as a feminist and make a comparative analysis of these achievement with those of a normal well brought up african lady. Who according to ur idealogy is foolish

sinaj:
xori I dnt giv a p***k bout ur age.

It wnt foot ma bill u get.

Ur chronological age could be 60, but ur post hinted dat u gat a mental age of 19.



Lest I forget, respect is earned!

oh shut up, to a fool, words of wisdom is folly. Do you get why u didn't understand it now? U are inconsequential in my existence and like I have said, beneath me. So you get to earn nothing from me. You assume the ability to hold a crazy view and shove it down the throats of the deluded is wisdom? My dear guess it's all beauty and no brains. Now get off my mentions.

daretodiffer:
Another gibberish

this drunk child has come, madam as a feminist. Please list ur achievements thus far, I will a comparative analysis with that of the normal well brought up ladies on this forum

MzNelly:
puh-lease

I know guys and girls way older than you are that believe in this cause....
you're just scared, abeg
and I understand...

what man doesn't want his over bloated ego pampered by a woman and won't get scared when a woman decides to be her own boss and fvck whatever bullshït he has to say?

seeing as you never responded to my question about ur age, then I am very correct. In 5years time, you will be surprised and ashamed of the views you hold today. There is nothing wrong in a woman being an Acheive, being her own boss, or whatever she likes, but there is everything wrong in a woman feeling she needs to bring down men to be her own boss, the real bosses who are men don't bother with women nor their opinions which is exactly as I view deluded children who run around screaming the feminist cause. More than ten years ago, I saw people screaming it, and yet tens years after the same women are bowing to men. Licking his toes and doing so in sometimes abject poverty. Wait toll ur fruits are ripe before you call it eatable. The views u hold are inexperienced views and like I told you no right thinking woman bothers her head with such nonsense. Don't forget that while you wanna climb ur so called ladder of success, you will be on ur knees some of the time sucking off the useless men. What a relief. So called wise women are single, childless, alone, sometimes rich, sometimes poor, and once in awhile she will still bend down for a man to do as he pleases on her body. Most time just a ordinary man, worth nothing in the male community. Word of advice, be patient till u grow abit. Then you will have better sense of judgement

sinaj:
Perhaps wen next u wana post, u shud put ur Date of Birth, xo I will know how matured u are

no need for that, I can give you a hint, if you graduated from the university at least 6years ago, I had gotten a doctorate when u graduated. Do the math. Though that's out of point, respect opinions you too pretty to be silly and disrespectful. Add something to ur character young lady

MzNelly:
oga, why are you scared of feminists?
does the idea of lording it over a dumb woman who won't counter a word you say appeal to your misogynistic self more?

I can't be scared of deluded people nor would be be worried about an idea only the immature project. No lady of good age believes that nonsense. It's a mantra for kids who believe there is something to gain in being opinionated. Maybe the day you begin to realise why despite its a man's world yet women are more celebrated (mothers day as opposed to fathers day) you will understand the trait that your mother's possessed that warranted such acclaim. Maybe you could open a post on nairaland and survey the number of men and women who believe the feminism nonsense. Please add their age too. Your views about life can only be perfected by experience which is parallel with age. How old are u dear. Wats ur level in life university student maybe? If yes. Then am not surprised

LORDSAMURAI:
@OP SHE IS AN EXECUTIVE LIAR, U DNT HAVE TO BE CONFUSE, HER PLAN IS TO ACT GOOD AFTER SIX YEARS JUST FOR U TO C HER AS A GOOD LADY AND GET MARRIED TO HER ALL BCAUS U DRIVE A POSH CAR AND LIVED IN EXPENSIVE HOTEL ROOMS, THAT WAS WHY IT TOO HER SIX YEARS TO SHOWFACE, @OP SHE IS A BITTTCH THAT IS AFTER UR MONEY, I WILL ADVICE U TO TRY AND FORK HER AND DUMP HER FOR THE BIITCH THAT SHE IS OR JUST DO AWAY WITH HER ASAP.

bleep her again? God forbid..... I hope she is just a liar. I don't like spiritual things. I don't understand them

Strahovski1:
This is Voodoo man.

If you are in Lagos go to Illupeju then call me I will hook you up with one of our priests. He will tell you everything.

Pm me.

Bro I really need help, you really know a way?

Leriebloom:
Maybe she is just a professional liar. You wld b suprised.

I pray she is just lying oh. I have been thinking of plenty things. Let it be she is just lying biko. I have learnt a big lesson sha

MzNelly:
Unnatural & satanic?
You sound unintelligent.

Feminism isn't about wanting to be men...
Lol, at least read up about it before making a fool of yourself.

Sorry oh, biko Wat is feminism all about then. Abeg school us since you have read it.. .... Delusion is really an opium of the ignorant

sinaj:
U just typed like a typical teenager bro!

No wonder they say a lady is stronger at heart nd endure pains than men.



Do u knw the no. Of heartbreaks nd disappointment an average girl gets from u guyz?



Do u know the amount of time most guyz av wasted in the life of an average girl


Yet you won't see dem lamenting on social media but rather they swallow their pain nd still wallow in their pride.



But rather u guyz will be the one cursing everything in skirt wen u get disappointed.
Opening threads here and there.


It's xo childish bro!

Pls grow up!

teenager you say. Hahahahahaha you are a clown without costume. Madam, go talk to those who open threads, last I remember I made a post. Didn't know u keep scores on ratio of heart broken men to women. And by ur score it's apparently Wat you claimed. Biko swerve, the idea of calling ur elder a teenager simply because you are incapable of making a logical argument of ur point is silly. Bold that word "elder" it's will help ur manners when next you wanna rant at me. What I said is Wat I said. And it hold true as the word of God. If you don't like it, then you know where to keep unwanted opinions

Take the period back 6years ago, I was almost concluding my post graduate program. Due to the fact I worked out of town, I usually lodged in hotels whenever I need to see my oga at the top. Most nights were boring as I hadn't much friends. Anyway a buddy of mine who took pity on me decided to hook me up with one lady, from phone calls, to chats and the next night she was in my hotel room. I hate driving at night because of these useless sars peeps, yet we drove to a nearby town to eat cat fish and ohmpa ( star lager at that time). I was happy I had company to talk to, plus she is a head Turner. Very beautiful, and buxom. I was hoping she didn't intend to sleep, till all doubts were cleared when she insisted we get take out for late night reboot of energy. I immediately regretted my decision, plus the consequence that I will cheat on my then gf. Anyway no to look silly, we retired and did all the evils humans can think of. By morning she told me my fee was 20k. I almost ran mad, I inquired if she meant 20k for her dowry. Anyway since I slept in a posh hotel and drove a nice car, if she started Ashewo trouble, I have it all to lose and nobody will believe I don't have the money to pay, in welling tears, I paid her. This was supposed to be a Roger for one useless oga at the top I wanted to settle before my final defence (the man was a devil).

Fast forward to last year, I got a WhatsApp message from this lady, apparently we still had our contacts, she still knew my name, we started talking, we chat often. Around January this year when I travelled. She came to see me, I had already kept her money sef, but to my surprise, she was like " I don't drink" " I don't normally visit men in their hotel rooms" " please let's meet in a public place am not comfortable in that secluded room"
I thought this was another style, maybe role playing. Till she carried her bags, entered okada and zoomed off. I never called till I arrive back at my Base. She started texting me " who do I think she is" " that she has never been with a man before and I shouldn't have gotten angry at her" I made sure I read properly. I tried to inquire where she was six years ago, incase I was in a dream then. She confirmed she was in town running her admission as well as pre-science. I had to ask the question "so dear you are a Virgin, please swear to God" and she told me "yes". There is nothing, no orifice I didn't explore that day. Since I couldn't take this deciet anymore, I had to confront hr and she said yes she came then, but we didn't do anything. That I should look for who I gave my hard earned twenty thousand. That she loves me, and I should stop talking or seeing her as a lovepeddler. I have been confused ever since, is it dat she forgot? Is it that I was drunk and gave out my money in a drunk dream? And yer it disappeared in real life, was it that she is just a witch who was likely in a trance when we met and really can't remember. What the hell happened to me for christsake

sinaj:
I guess u wud say same to ur sister huh

please don't bring that sister blackmail to my side, when you ladies display ur wickedness similar to the OP sex mate, do you all forget you have brothers and fathers. Na only men suppose remember say dem get sister abi. Do a survey on nairaland, 95% of the men and boys here will admit to being victims of such a fabulacious experience. At least she wasn't told any of the pictures where his cousin from the moon.