₦airaland Forum

Really? Even number four? Biko I don't spend my money on women. When olosho dull everywhere.

How did the fulani kill ten thousand in a single night, except they deployed a nuclear bomb. I wonder how some people killed able bodied men and women in a single night to a tune of 10k. Oga go and count the dead again.

Please don't advice them na, there are some of us who benefit from their self deception. U wanna ruin that beautiful moment we say "baby just let me put the cap" .

Hahahaha, he must have visited oshogbo at one time in his life time, the grass he smoked there never cleared from his eyes it seems. Toobad

Hahahaha. I laugh like this whenever I see a victim of women cock and bull stories. 7years of washing the car, while other non loving men drove it. God please bless this world with more car washers like the OP. I have a fetish for sleeping with people's gfs. Lmao

Kondomatic:
He will regret his folly after meal.

Na so. If only he had Gotv and watched animal chanel sometimes, he would have learnt not to attack from that angle. Anyway rip to him

Since she is a lovely lady, I suggest you get her to drink 4bottles of oohmpa, tell her it's is blood tonic. When she is drunk and asleep, use the nearest Bic to shave that disgusting thing she has on the chin. Wear her nice cloths too. When she wakes up, tell her angel Gabriel has done it again. Tenk

amtaken:
Is there any man here who has slept with a house girl or a house girl who has slept with her boss or someone else in the house?

Let the confessions begin now!

you are just looking for the trouble of housemaids and husbands.

Don't you have any houseboy confessions you might wanna tell us dear?

Is this for real, or photoshade

The lion impaled on the horn, will die in two or three days. He was stupid. Forming James bond

daretodiffer:
No one is crying foul. I know that men and women are not the same. We are not designed to be the same.

Do you work in a bank?

I am sorry but I find the bolded very hard to believe, In fact I don't believe it. There is no way to determine that.

I will beat you oh. How do u find it hard to believe. Do u think the organisers of sports are stupid that they never pair female and males

So you are telling me that, a tennis match between Serena William and novak djokovic, wouldn't end in bloody murder on Serena?

She will be beaten blue black even if she plays him 20 times. Mind you this is a female world champion, who could beat up at least 2billion other men if paired with her.

This is proof that we never ever the same.. Sweetheart you just have to admit it that every sex has their roles and areas of comparative advantage

I don't work in a bank now, but I worked in one for about 5years, from 2005 thereabouts

U wanna work in a bank?

TheNonce:
Your formulated story is pure hogwash! All this your bush flogging makes no sense! You probably belong to the unit of those with "pass" hence your obsession with "class"!

With all due respect, sharrap and swerve! Lmfao!!!

e pain am. Lol

sonOfLucifer:
Oh, yeah, the problem is with my interpretation. Your analysis is an objective one, mine is subjective. Good one. The ignorance that pervades the land indeed.

glad you saw reason. Go read more bro.

daretodiffer:
I am supposed to believe you based on what? Even if I believe you, don't you think it is gender bias to give her that job because the interviewer believes that since it is rare to come across women with first class, the ones that do must be treated like eggs. This same logic applies to female engineers in the western world, they are paid more than male engineers

Aside from that, the other reason they will give her a job is the same reason they offer minorities jobs in the western world. Regardless it is what it is, a bias!



Life is not easier for girl children. If female scholarships is what it would take to make more women embrace economic independence, so be it. How many women apply for these gender neutral scholarships anyways? Does it mean that we do not have women who are more intelligent than these men? That should have been a research topic instead of creating numerous female scholarships. They are not me!

My parents advised me to find a way to balance both lives (Thank God for them) but my society have told numerous times to be careful. You wouldn't see that because you have no idea what that does to you. So when I say, we still have a long way to go, I really mean it.

so I guess since it favours women, it's a good bias, I know when I was born and we had either more or sane number of girls in my class.

Please where is the girl child education issue. Asides in the north, please where else do we have such problems. Amongst children hawkers, is there a greater ratio of girls to boys?

Please my fact about the job placement is based on the fact I have been working over 12years. And that is post graduation. So I understand that world dear. Please I was only modest to tell you the girl got a first class. Infact she got a second class lower. This is evidenced in banks especially marketers and other jobs

The minority bias you mentioned is a defined class and not a bias per see. Every body knows about it and it only applies to few opportunities. The one I am talking about is an unwarranted bias towards females that isn't based on any reason. Why should she be treated like egg. Why not through competition. Let her prove to be better than the man.

Baby let me crush you and let's argue it if necessary. Are you aware that anything in this world, the best in it is a man. Of course a woman might beat plenty other men. But there will be a man who will beat the best woman. This could be observed in sports even the less physical ones.

The women teams could beat up many male sides, but I doubt there would or could be a female team, that could defend a half against Barcelona, even if mourinho coaches them

Does that now mean the quality of female sports is poor? Far from it. It's at top level. But men and women aren't same and can't be place on the same yardstick

In some areas men are at an advantage, and in other areas women are at an advantage. It's just how the world works. No need to cry foul

Swissheart:
Different stroke for different folks.....but then na BB sure pass

baby are u a bb

daretodiffer:
I didn't say I was going to read it.

you are a bad girl with a sharp tongue, but I disagree you are rude to ur email box. An email box that didn't annoy you, you will just keep malice with it and ignore it's content.

Kai nyarinya, you are strong hearted. You need love urgently

daretodiffer:
You don't get it.

Women might do the same to other women however when it is done with a gender bias, it becomes an issue.

I agree that growth is individualistic however you cannot deny the fact that your gender and colour are factors that will affect your growth

can I now educate you on something you haven't experienced in Nigeria yet.

Do you know that in this our yeye Ashewo country, if a guy has a first class, and a pretty lady has a first class, and they go for the same job, the girl has a higher probation getting it than the man.

Let me make it worse, if a guy has a first class, and the very beautiful girl with long legs and figures eight has a second class upper, do you know these Ashewo men called bosses, would still favour the girl. All in the name of building brand image.

Despite that, did you see men starting a movement? We are only laughing because the trend has reduced the marriage able age pool of available men, yet increasing the women pool.

My dear, with regards gender, life is easier for women in this world as opposed to men. Go online and browse girl child sponsorship scholarships that abound, then Google male child.

So dear, the feminist views aren't based on current events

daretodiffer:
You do that anday watch me move it to the bin

look at you, we are all very good writers, there will be no love song with a better lyric. Just change for better and see, the love letter will be worthy of a golden frame, to remind you each day that, we dared to differ

daretodiffer:
Victim cards ko victims cards in

Like you are any better, they have to love you too despite your .

my what, you haven't changed, to curse nice handsome men is inside ur gene. Haven't you dated a real man before? You really need to.

That will forever remove the cursing tendencies in you forever, check am na.

daretodiffer:
You cannot finish me. You no fit. Just like lezz, you can't think outside the box.

If his arguments are strong, then I have to question your reasoning faculty.No offence Bro.

I won't dance with you mo.rons like I used to do. I am trying a new me

Well I noticed you have reduced your cursing. Reduce some more and I will send u a pm, with a well written love letter from lezz. Me, Joseph etc

joseph1832:
LMFAO! Who takes a girl who only dwell on fiction serious?

Lezz, ftboy eddygourdo, postman this moniker have constantly accused me of fucking/chasing married women, I've constantly asked her to tell me the married woman who I've chased/bleeped, but she continues to keep mute about it.

Tell me if this girl isn't living in a dream world where fiction is her reality?

Tell me daretodiffer, who is the married woman I'm chasing or who is the married woman I've fucking, speak now or forever hold your peace and live in the abyss of fiction.

she might be referring to potifah's wife. Please tell her it wasn't ur own Joseph, plus you are a Virgin

daretodiffer:
If it is a female flaw, then you must admit that the women in your family are very goof at it

I won't lie, yes they are. But I still love them. Cos that's women's way and my job as a man is to love them no matter wat

daretodiffer:
Asking not to be called a who.re or a b1tch for airing my view is bringing disrepute to you?

Asking not to be thrown outside the home because my husband is angry is bringing disrepute to you?

What about asking for your fidelity, for you to do your own share in the home, for you not to view me as an agrressive b1tch when I happen to be your manager, for you not to question my womanhood when I fail, for you not to tell me that at the end of the day I am going to end up in a man's kitchen etc




I did not insult you. You don't expect me not to call you out when you talk about what you do not know. You bring my womanhood , my bring to disrepute when you claim that wi do not know what I am talking about.

ok dear, point made, what happens when the second person in your narrative isn't a man. This time is a fellow woman, would you play the feminist card also of not backing down? Especially in the work situation. The points you gave are also experienced by men, with respect to infidelity and airing our views, this thread was a rebuttal of an earlier thread, yet all women call the men here sissy for airing their views, men ate subject to abuse in the home and when they complain their voices are dwarfed, therefore if for these reasons men begin to see women as the enemy, the enemy that must be subdued to exert our masculinity. Women would find hard pretty difficult or don't I think so.

What I am saying is that, any movement that intends to grow by stepping on other views, seeing enemies in other sexes. Is a doomed movement. If men stood up and assured ourselves, you all will be extinct. But God forbid should our wives and mothers be extinct.

Thus we will rather preach respect. Respect for the role of a man in society and respect to the role of women in society. The growth of anybody is not a sexist issue but individualistic

TheNonce:
.... .....




What the _fuck is this dude posting?

that is why people graduate with different classes, the people on first class and second class have understood the post and given their opinion, it's not surprise you couldn't comprehend the post cos of ur class. Thanks for ur contribution. You have been noticed

joseph1832:
Of course they'll be injured, what else can they do apart from rant when they've been made to swallow their shallow mindedness.

They even took the ranting to seun and said "Nairaland Is Anti Women". Some of these women are always the architects of their own woes.

They will give you bullsh1t and feel good and very okay about it, but when you give them that same bulls1t they gave you, they'll go on rampage and rant till thy kingdom come.

exactly, it's a female flaw, always playing the victim card and worse is that they never see the hypocrisy in doing so. Too bad

MzNelly:
Lol, pls don't insult my boyfriend to make your point.

He is more a man than you or any other guy here is or ever can be. He isn't a misogynist and thankfully wasn't brought up with a Nigerian background.

You know what, it's pointless overstretching this point.
I'm a feminist... and I don't only have a boyfriend who adores me that way, but friends as well as parents.

So your opinion as well as any other guy on here is irrelevant.

on a second thought that is off topic, please don't play ur boyfriend on a comparison collusion with men that will dwarf his manhood and sense of existence. Biko keep him at his level and face the issues here. U haven't seen me or most guys here and you compare us with the boy, not even man you are dating. Oya back to topic. No vex

MzNelly:
Lol, pls don't insult my boyfriend to make your point.

He is more a man than you or any other guy here is or ever can be. He isn't a misogynist and thankfully wasn't brought up with a Nigerian background.

You know what, it's pointless overstretching this point.
I'm a feminist... and I don't only have a boyfriend who adores me that way, but friends as well as parents.

So your opinion as well as any other guy on here is irrelevant.

didn't insult ur boyfriend hon. It was a satirical response, cm on I just praised you that you are reasonable. Why u wan fall my hand. You better than this. Check am na

This lezz of a guy, your mouth bad gan. Take it easy with daretodiffer, these arguments sharpen reasoning and hopefully hers will be. She is very stubborn though, I think she is doveda too. She can argue and cuss for Africa, the fact she hasn't cursed you it's possible she crushing, so take it easy on her. Remain small for me to finish her when she answers my question