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Because you are a human being, I say sorry for you, you are being played, because you are a girl, I say a big ntorrrrrrrrh, now u feeling what numerous ladies do to men on a daily basis. E dey pain abi

This is hilarious, well maybe they mean a commutal to life sentence. The bible said it in ecclesiasties that when a crime is not quickly punished, the wicked could skew the law and go free. They wasted alot if time on this case, thus blurring evidence. As much as I won't want an innocent man killed, evidence proved this man guilty, thus he should be man enough to face the penalty, by the way I heard he is the new jesus, so heaven awaits

Missmossy:
OP who broke your heart??



Sorry you hear. Sounds so frustrated and hurt. This isn't making sense moreover.

but the female ranting earlier made sense. Women and double standards

Asides the fact this was a perfect response to the silly lady in earlier thread, I will have to point out that all points in both threads are subjective. Not objective in a general population

I just found out my very own friend. My ex roommate got married. This man did court, traditional and church wedding, and never saw it fit to send me an invite. This so called wedding was done in lagos of all places. I intend to revenge though. But on second thought I have raked my conscience as to what I did wrong to this fellow. It just hit me this afternoon.

I walked in on this hypocrite pulling at his peepee with the help of maybe joy or lux soap. I think he never forgave me because I told the boys. I know I was unfair and truly embarrassed him dearly, but this fella was one of these holier than though people. I regard him a hypocrite because weeks earlier to when I caught him, he was all gospel on the masturbation thing when the boys were chatting. He castigated a fellow who without any provocation admitted he likes to mastubari. Anyway after walking in on him, I promised myself I won't tell people, but unfortunately I did. Too bad men of nowadays have amebo in some of us.

This is the singular reason, he never thought it cool to send me a simple invite, like we are quarrelling. Since men don't keep malice I will call him up and talk it out, afterwards I will revenge come this year's end. Will invite you peeps. Sheraton shall it be. Cheers

EnlightenedSoul:
Lol. What are you, the thought police? Of course, he fantasizes about other women from time to time. He's married not dead! And it's not just the bullshyt figure of 60% you quite obviously pulled out from your arse, either - nor, is it, as you blindly opined per the OP, strictly a male practice - but an act squarely 99.999999% of the population, male and female (gasp!), engage in; some of them on a regular basis (gasp again).

If you have a lasting problem with this, or insist on pathetically labeling it "mental cheating and unfaithfulness" as you've done, your insecurities are of epic proportions, and you might also consider that you're perhaps the unfortunate subject of a psychological problem of sorts, needing swift remedy.

take it easy dear, to mention a man's bottoms without provocation is provocative. But I laughed at that oh. Uppercut. Anyway op re edit ur post to include both sexes as madam pointed out. Fact is that everybody does it. I encourage it sef especially the fantasy part, makes ladies approach orgasm faster. Most times those thoughts end immediately after the hoo-ha. By ur analogy my gf is lesbian then. Cos we talk dirty asides gay things. And when the dirty talk isn't happening. Am sure the dirty thoughts are happening. Op take a chill pill oh

Salimmuhammad:
it happned to me too..but mine is in chinese and it took me time to finally get my way through it..i'll make a screen shot of the way u can use it just whatsapp me 08097021409 or i'll post it here

just sent you a WhatsApp message.

. Love the references. Cool

I am not generally insultive to differing opinions, so OP please read your post again. Re-edit Any part that makes u ashamed, and if you realise every part makes you ashamed. Please scream very loud to any available mod. So they delete this thread before it goes public. My bad its already public. Bye bye

larrytorch:
I believe wats affecting Willian is the morale of team... U cud recall that early dz season, he was the only player in chelsea dat was playing well and afterwards his game dropped as he cud av bin affected by the feeling that he is alone.

that's very true. But even at his best this season, he could even do more. To me Willian is more talented than hazard. He runs, stronger, good dribbles, free kicks, set piece. Etc but never really applies himself in the final third to shoot or assist. The general team disposition killed his morale anyway. But conte needs to make him the star of the team. Thus he would Improve his influence in the final third. He is a very good player. Wished my team got him

larrytorch:
buf he's got Willian... I believe he is juz being non challant

even Willian isn't performing as he ought to. He is a far better player than he plays. With his ability he should have better end product. Willian himself needs to play to his potential.

He was ran aground by the special one. The physical stress of the premier league is enormous. Look at the two slavers of last season, who played virtually every game, both are suffering now. I mean hazard and matic. Hazard is still a great player and if given sufficient rest or possibly a better ace to share the burden. He will do extremely well. Am a united fan though, so objective

I got the software at computer village, stored the contents in a new folder, but there is no install setting in the raw file, on searching the Internet, was told the installation Is now done online via steam. I downloaded steam, but they requesting for product key. Please anyone with a product key or reasonable crack to enable me play my favourite game. Thanks for ur help

Get a girlfriend or fiance. But let me clear you on something vital, if you assume my solution will give you peace of mind, then you must have heard me wrong.

Every celebrity or yeyebrity understands the law of see-finish. The more available a commodity, the less value it has, guess it's no wonder rare metals are costly. Unfortunately in relationships, unavailability to ur partner could be a killer in itself.

Then what about availability? Those who are married or have cohabited/cohabiting would attest to a period when you realise it's been weeks since you had sex with boo. The earlier periods when the love was young, you were likely always begging her for sex and she tells tales by moonlight stories (no sex relationship blah blah) soon become long gone. She or he is now with you everyday, likely under same roof, same bed, same discussions, same private parts, possibly same sex style, same routines. Etc. It's very easy at this point to lose the romance in the relationship. Thus it's no wonder that most affairs by couples occur during this phase.

This is a major reason why one must be friends, if not best friends with their boo. Life generally transcends sex and petty romance. It would be surprising to many to hear me say that, an elderly couple sitting on a veranda, possibly not speaking much to each other are enjoying a romantic experience. Rather we should call it advanced romance,. What I am saying clearly is that, a time must come when every relationship slows down to a slower and less romantic pace than it earlier had.

Rather than join the band wagon of cheaters, we might have to redefine romance, we will see romance in small gestures like ( caring, availability, companionship, stability and compliments) rather than romance in the big gestures like (shop rite, boutiques, I phones, public proposals, ceremonies etc).

I am yet to meet a man who could sustain a big gesture type romantic love over the course of a lifetime with one woman. Nor could I find a woman who could do same. The small gesture romance aren't so bad after all. They have a period and season when we must hope in them to sustain our marital bliss, especially when our relationships slow. Cheers

The available is always undesirable, while the unavailable is desirable. Oga when next she pulls, you should push. When next she pushes, standa one side dey look her like mumu. Women love intrigue, that's why the read romance novels, watch telemundo and lastly nollywood. If you are to dobale, nothing for you. She won't find you interesting again. Never forget. Intrigue.. ... And she will forever be pulling and begging you not to push her away. Please send my consultation fee to my mail. Tenk

Stupedinluv:
Pray tell, why do topics that belittle women and our choices make it like the speed of lightening to FP? Not fair. This is injustice.

Men are pampered more on this forum so they feel relaxed and at home but women have to keep running up and down every thread to prove they are not all stup!d. This is injustice.

We have emotions and therefore deserve the same respect metted out to our malefolks.

The administrators should look into this please. This forum was created for Nigerians and the men are not more "Nigerian"

Thank you.

I won't agree or disagree with you, since honesty and fairness has lost all meaning. Women bash male threads when the victim is a male, makes bash females threads when the victim is female. Plus unfortunately men are having more personal bad experiences with women and with the rise in amebo gene in today's men. They gladly open threads to relay their experiences. Females do same. My point is that such shouldn't bother you if it's not reflective of urself. But if it is, then change. Ur men will appreciate. Cheers

I just returned from a ban, a ban for no just cause, I was surprised when I noticed the ban, but what annoyed me most was that the comment attributed to me, was never made by me. I believe this is malicious. Whoever that banned me, must be sick in the head. If this is a personal attack on my person, I will simply deactivate. By the way, my views, topics and comments here are promoting this site and making no kobo for me. If It was a mistake, I thus demand an apology, but if it was done on purpose, to ban my account for a statement or post not made by me, then kindly ban me again. Little minded people

luvmijeje:
I can't argue the bolded words.

better.

luvmijeje:
I know what I'm saying. The hatred is not limited to just tribal thread. If it's just Yoruba vs Igbo thread or whatever tribal thread.... No qualms because all the major tribe are all guilty on nairaland .

But seeing that hatred in threads on economic and security issues that concerns our lives is weaking.

No matter how you hate the President or this country it should never be over our well being.

if I deny that Wat u said about my fellow brothers isn't true, then big shame to me, I wondered that too, apparently it appears the Igbos on this forum are problematic. But I stoll accuse the victim card thing, so far as one doesn't agree with a position shouldn't make one a victim, even as an igbo man, I have been subject to abuse, threats and the likes because I object to the Biafran cause nor cos I refuse to be anti buhari. It's an indoctrination that has become common place. But madam the show of shame observed here doesn't reflect on the true perceptions nor character of the igbo man. We are generally peace loving, money centric people.

luvmijeje:
My issue with majority of Igbos(nairaland) is your hatred for everybody. Your hatred beclouds your judgement. You guys comment from the point of hatred.

Kindly leave my singleness from this discussion.

ok will leave that (singleness) am not searching, the Igbos have been marginalised but most often is that, the Igbos have marginalised their mentality towards playing the victim card in all situations. Guess that's why the lash out. No true igbo man hates another tribe, visit the south East and observe for urself. What you notice on nairaland is people sticking to a stereotype of heckling the other tribe. It doesn't represent reality on the ground. The same hate you accuse is also observed by the yorubas on igbo issues. It's a nairaland malaise madam.

BossKratos:



Yes you were! A very gay case!

gay ke. You can't convert me. Leave me the hell alone. Stop calling me or sending me those love text messages. I am not a gay. Gerrit

luvmijeje:
This is total rubbish! I'm not interested in what causes the fracas but going into people's home to attack them is unacceptable!

Yoruba's thugs will never do that and this not me being tribal. No matter the issue, if they are fighting, they know themselves. You will never see them deliberately killing innocent people.

ur likely yoruba, I am igbo, yet I agree with Wat you said. Even in war there should be decorum. The hausas lack that. To enter a person's home for murder and destruction is taboo. Guess you all see why the Igbos hold the hausa to grievance. They a barbaric. The earlier the south rise in unison, the better for us. We might one day fight another but such a fight will be honourable, like you pointed out. Are u single ma'am?

5years old. I was a case

Lovely, really lovely.

Hmmmmm