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ehix89:
Maturity is of the mind, some minds just refuse to grow up......I might not be n my 30s but u can barely see me spew trash online, you dnt go on insulting pple @ random, spew nonsense nd exhibiting nuisance of oneslf cos its a faceless forum, d globe is very small nd some of our pix r dwn dr......be wise

Well age isn't the yardstick for mature behaviour. You nature and nurture has taught you to show decorum whether offline or online. Please continue in such ways. Posterity judges the wise and the foolish, and pays in full measure. Guess I should seek like minds to always converse with since the other set make me irritated by their Internet trolling and bullying

firstking01:
well said, but left for me alone i know how to manage people and their way of life, imediately i stay with you for few minutes i can decipher the kinda person you are and suit into your life perfectly well that even when you start manifesting your negative side it won't affect me...and plus, you must keep an accomodating heart to welcome and swallow tantrums cos they must come, esp in this romance section...this is my strategy and it has been working for me both online and offline

I post on this forum, cos it's a reminder in future of my mental capacity and idealogy. It's like a picture am piling up and saving. To have read posts where I responded in kind to abuse is so shameful. I intend to desist from such behaviour. Thus why I had to inquire the age bracket here. Through its pretty low and I should not be involved here by my findings today. I could read and laugh like I always did. But to join issues and denigrate myself to a level of shame. Is not the character to be observed in me. If I became president in this type of government where there is witch hunting. I will be impeached if truly one e warrior could link me to my hateful or quarrelsome character. You see its Wat is left after our displays that is the result via which our entire display is judged and scored. Anyway u more accommodating than I. Like an earlier thread I posted. I am very hot tempered. Guess I zoom off since this place is a mess for my type.

krattoss:
one thing u need to understand is that their are different categories of human beings..+++ this is a free world.

so live by it or u quit.

guess it's a jungle afterall. Maybe if we cursed ourselves now, it will be part of the fun according to you. Life has lost all decorum. When I attend tech conferences, I insist on a revamp of the security model. Yet just as I have observed on this forum. No technological approach can solve this malaise. If you ban them, they get another account and continue. It's a human thing. Anyway I intend to quit the thread posting on this section. It's beneath me.

ibedun:
I know you people very very well. Other Nigerians are slowly beginning to understand and deal with your endless chest beating. Refugee! I dare you to go live in your ancestral land for 6 months, just 6 months!!!

hahahahahaha read my chest beating post. Enugu and aba are there. Learn some geography of ur nation. Those should be in the south East. If I built it, I likely lived there or will live there. The problem with kids like you is that. Your horizon about ur own country is very narrow. You could have gone abroad sef, but still ur horizon is narrow to think as an igbo man I won't be happiest in Enugu compared to the slum called majority of lagos.

firstking01:
yua funny,,,,this is the best section on nairaland i swear, ask seun...here, there's unlimited fun but inother not to see the negative side of romance section dnt take all you read here to heart

you see I am a mentor to people. I mentor people academically, psychologically but not spiritually because am not very spiritual. One thing I have learnt is expression. People must be able to express themselves. Someone could have am opinion and you see the attacks on such a fellow. This fellow could be a shy person who sought to mingle on a faceless forum. The attacks and bullying he receives could push such a fellow to depression. I know I have blown my top once or twice here, but it's a shameful thing to do and make a habit. Even those who throw jibes could be doing it to let off their own frustrations. But there are people who have become cyber bullies. Plus their perceptions about life results in people posting fallacies which future generations could read and be mislead. You see I agree it's fun, I read most times and when I feel like I share a story in the first or second person reflecting fiction or true life experience meant to teach, relax or humour. People should stand up for cyber bullying. You could make a post and from no where someone throws a jab. For no damn reason. It's not a good way to converse.

layzie:
Thanks for the remarks.

But I'm a guy

no wonder, woman no fit reason like that. Haba. For the first time I thought a woman has finally gotten men afterall. Which means the world is about to end. Goodday bro

firstking01:
I think it's 16 cos i can remember vividly when one teenager came here and said he's 16 and his gf is 13 they did it but she didn't bleed, and the idiot was asking us why

really such happened? I think from today I will be done with this section for good.

ibedun:
Bloody liar. Give us hard facts like the address of your house so we can verify your claims. Igbo and mouth?

and when I do that the price of fuel will reduce or you are ur fellow theives and land grabbers could find your way to my house. I surely will pass for ur cheap temptation. You believe or not believe. Ur headache child

FlawlessRebirth2:
.SHUUUUUUU



YA STILL NEW IN THE GAME





FOR-GERRIT

should have viewed ur profile before responding. Silly me. Good day

FlawlessRebirth2:
.OK

abeg who u be for the film?

what film if I might ask madam

Greene66:
Put that crap of yours on Craigslist.

You are fvcking cheap and broke. Let's get down that road. Bring your bank statement for the past 3 months let me bring mine. Let's see who's got it.

Ranting on nairaland doesn't make anyone lesser than anyone. Posting worthless trash like this your thread doesn't make anyone different from anyone. So yeah I'm gonna tell you I'm a kid yes but what I've achieved now, you that you are 40 you are yet to achieve it.

Come on man, let's see what you got.

ok. Will respond to you soonest. Since you are very sure of ur achievements

It could be a ponzi scheme, but truly no investment is risk free. This is a quick method of generating fund for entrepreneurs, if effective the same money can be turned around in a period for other winners. The model of implementation should be made open and transparent. This will help people understand the inner workings of the initiative. 10k, 20k or 25k no be beans. One must be carried along. Guess for an roi of a year, the business must be highly productive with little start up time

Greene66:
Lol show me your bank statement let me show mine. Then allow other nairaland members compare who has made it better. Because you are a landlord you think you have made it. Place your house for sale I'll buy it. Broke nigga.

You are dumb as fvck.

I doubt you want to go down that road. I truly doubt. If and when my doubts are cleared, we might consider your proposition. In the mean time. Grow up, internet isn't where men show bravado. If you were mature you will know that.

Greene66:
Op your thread is bullsh!t.

You that you are old and mature, this Sunday afternoon you are on nairaland? See this op sha.

Have you resolve issue with your Tennant that refuse to pay since October? You are on romance.

You are the man abi. You should be in Family. After all you are the one who want to evict his tenant because he is not faithful to his wife. Since you are that good.

The age bracket is 2 - 6 oya, hug transformer and get the fvck out of here.

Punk!

a perfect example of what I am saying, search well and this young man is a jambite, a student, a corper or a recent graduate. You never see life. You don't understand the point of good human relationships. In this day and age of nairaland and other social media. 70% of Nigerians use it as a forum to be updated on news and latest events. When there is nothing on the politics section , we come to romance to while away time. Anyway one day you will learn manners. Cheers

Strahovski1:
Op,

You are now the adult huh? Explain to us please. You are now the man whilst the rest are the kids yes? Everyone is free to rant as much as they want as regard anything.

Besides the age bracket here is and should be 18 - 26 anyone beyond this should be in Family section. That's the #Fact. Especially the ladies.

As for you op,

Happy Easter

mature people never rant. They discuss, they disagree, they discuss some more, they never rant. And if truly this section is btw that age bracket you posted. I really should not be here. Really really should not.

Happy Easter to you too.

I have posted issues here and sometimes have gotten mature responses. The issue I have is with rantings. I intend to ask this question on all sections I frequent with intention to abandon sections plagued by kids.

I remember when the young man started this forum, we used it mainly as a jobsite. A friend got her first job via here in 2006 or thereabouts. I was a guest all through despite the fact the forum was pretty mature then.

As of today, it's filled with wannabes and Wat hurts most is when the person arguing or insulting you in one thread, open another thread to complain about jamb or the university. Then I realise I need not be here,

I need a mature audience, mature arguments, mature information exchange and debates. Someone said the romance section has an average age of 22. And if that's true, too bad.

Abeg Wats the average age in the romance section

tpiar:
So you have multiple houses but decided to rent a rat habitation elsewhere.

You can lie o, you seem to be an expert at this.

exactly am a very good liar. Go and collect the world cup you won. While I am looking at you in pity.

tpiar:
Mr, if you are asked to explain how, as of Nov 2015, you were renting a rat filled room outside Lagos, and then by March 2016, you own property in Lagos, you should be able to clarify this.

How is it possible you can afford property in Lagos but cant get reasonable accommodation outside Lagos?

I have more than one house in lagos, more than one in Enugu, aba. And the one that will hurt your heart the most. ONE IN THE ALMIGTHY ABUJA. work hard and be better than me. That's all I say to you. If you had sufficient education you will know that aso rock could have rats as well. Plus if you read the post you reference very well. It will answer the question you are posing. Kiddo your future will be bright too if you took ur life seriously than wondering about the truth or lies in someone who witnessed the bicentennial and doesn't give a damn about ur opinions. By the way if I could lie here of owing houses, I could also have lied about renting a rat infested home. Don't forget am a liar and a broke ass nigga living on the streets. So chill and enjoy ur day.

layzie:
Does it matter?

yes it matters. If truly you are married. Then your husband is a true definition of a man despite his faults, and you are a good definition of a woman despite ur faults. He taught you well. For the very first time on this forum have I read an objective mature analysis by a female. You understand the inner working of the male brain and it's accompanying ego. Go and read ur response that made me mention you. Then you would know why am proud of u today. Kudos

tpiar:
You are the one saying you rented a room which was filled with rats.

Have you forgotten?

I dont know how you will say you're a landlord in Lagos but renting a rat filled room in another town.

Keep in mind the fact that Lagos is more expensive than most places in Nigeria!

Mr man I told you to go study hard. Whether I am a pauper or a home owner isn't ur business. Face ur studies and God willing you will be greater than me. Happy easter

udumosam23:
Op, I don't know your faith, but I believe you can help him. call him in, advice him base on what you knew ( before the rumors), find out from him his reasons for present behaviors, pray for him if you suspect he is charmed.

you don't need to be a pastor to cast out a foul spirit, just pray in the name of Jesus.

Well yoruba people listen to their elders, so I have advised the woman who told me to get in touch with elders whom she has seen around him. Hopefully they will speak to him. Since I don't stay in town, I don't wanna come off as a gossip. So I rather not confront him so his wife doesn't get wind of what people know

greggng:
You re very stupid and arrogant landlord. I know for sure igbo landlords re very understanding and I don't like the idea were u put it as if blood doesn't run in them...only money. I am an igbo landlord too and I ve a yoruba man as a tenant who had some financial challenges two years after living in my house. For one year plus I never bothered him and the family. I prayed for him so that people won't think my house brought him bad luck. Today he has 3 cars and he never misses out on rent. I don't listen to hearsay mind your business and pray for them and I know God will favor them and that translates to regular payment. God bless you

read ur posts and see the immaturity in it. In one sentence you are abusing me on what u don't know, on the other angle you are blessing me. My reference to igbo is to key into the well known belief to ensure people understand my major interest is in my money and not his life issues. Did I tell you I worried him despite all the months he owed? Did I reduce my service to his flat? Well if you believe am all you said. Then it's on you. You don't know me or my story, so it's ur opinion bro. Goodday

darlenese:
In that case I think u should serve him a quit notice to awaken his sense of reasoning , but pls don't quit his family ,
My dad once had an irresponsible tenant like this man , and when he gave him quit notice , the man absconded and left the family , the wife and kids stayed for anonther year without paying rent , and my mum was assisting them with food stuff and other things they needed , until she eventually got a job. .

my fear exactly. That's y I was confused in the first place. Didn't want to make a decision that would turn the abandoned family to a bigger burden on me. Anyway have made up my mind to evict him come October when it's one year. Thanks

To those who feel am pock nosing. I have houses, I have tenants whether ins home rental or in office rental. But yet where I am currently based and work I am a tenant. I could not evict without considering the human angle. I was patient cos of the economy. He is a family man and I believed he will one day pay. He gave birth to his three kids in my home, so I doubt he isn't enjoying any blessings from my home. Thus I can't Maltreat him simply cos he is late a few months in this economy affecting us all. But to hear us is cavorting with another woman, spending the night there, owing me, while paying the rent of this other woman. Is very upsetting.

My choice I prefer he changes and pays me. He is a good tenant. I loaned him money to secure a half plot of his own land at ijoko. I earlier thought he was developing his own home while owing me. Only to be informed of his behaviour.

My post has received its due advice since yesterday I posted it. I have listen and taken a decision. To them kids here claiming they know me and my rat infested home.

Face your studies. One day you will be better than me. Happy easter. Bye

EgunMogaji:
Why do you continue with this morality BS?

It's none of your bizwhacks. Your only concern is your rent.

You're just a larinlodu stop trying to form Pope.

by justification of being non sentimental, he is owning since last year, I still service his flat. Should I evict him in this economy? I have more than one house with tenants, but where I work currently am a tenant there. So oga a tenant is also a human being. And I am trying to be human and shoe compassion. I have ignored the fact he hasn't paid because of the economy. So am not being religious or sentimental

darlenese:
Oga Landlord stop listening to gossip! Haba

Do u believe everything u hear, a bad belle tenant told u something which is suppose to be a gossip and u believed him .hook , line and sinker

I have visited twice and found him not at home especially as I had to rush his twins to the hospital late in the night. On enquiry did his wife tell me he never sleeps home cos of business. As far as the wife is concerned she doesn't know where he sleeps. I only added one and two together to realise, he lied. My factor here is the cash not his life style

I have no home according to people here, I might live on the streets according to others, I could own even more than one house as the case might be. This is an open forum where opinions are freely given.

To those who have said something meaningful, the tenant of mine, is a produce buyer and hustler. He met the woman while purchasing produce. My informant is an in law to the woman in question who also is an attendant in my piggery farm. So I see no reasons for doubting her story.

My major concern in this issue has been clearly about my rent. If I never got info about him paying the rent of the other woman. I won't bother as I don't survive on that rent and give him alot of laxity since I don't live permanently in lagos. Work takes me out. Anyway like I said earlier, his personal life isn't my business and this neighbour has been a good tenant for 4years he has lived with me.

tpiar:
go ahead.

for your mind, you are all that.

ok Mr detective.

tpiar:
why are you always "catching" people?


here, you "caught" a masturbator:


https://www.nairaland.com/2983905/ever-been-caught-caught-someone


here you caught gays:

https://www.nairaland.com/2938409/hypocrisy-homophobic-people-like-me


here you caught a witch:

https://www.nairaland.com/2985351/really-thinking-involved-witch-confused

here you caught a gluttonous female:


https://www.nairaland.com/2913850/how-handle-gluttonous-female

hopefully I will catch you too with the skeleton in ur cupboard and relay the story here.

layzie:
Op:
Since u have been doing it and OK with it, y are u making him say please this time?...when u have been doing so without him saying 'pls' and will still do it whether he says 'please' or not.

If he concedes and says pls, how is he sure that u wnt make that a condition for doing it going forward? Or even extends the condition to every other thing...sex, food etc.

That's y he doesn't want to say it...before he turns to a beggar in his own house

He is not a baby and im sure he knows to pet u or say pls to you. Dnt just make it a condition, like if u dnt say pls, u are not getting bla bla bla

are you married?

tunergy:
House Wives don't have any Business doing all these things to their Husbands. It is the Responsibility of the Sweet Sixten Sussies out there. Let the Wife cook and clean the house during the day, when the Husband comes he will reward them with hard rod in the bedroom. That's all the wife wants.

Let the Sussies massage and tickle and clean the ears and scratch the back of Baba Nicely.

:-)

exactly brother. Those sussises won't be asking the man to say please to a little romantic gesture. Later they will wonder y men cheat.

EnlightenedSoul:
Seems your man really likes getting ear attention...

OP, I have an experiment for ya. Stick your tongue in his ear. I'll let you figure out the mechanics of how you're going to do that in his current state of Mopey McAngryface, but if my assumption is correct, forget asking, he'll whimper, and maybe even beg, such that you won't recognize the man before you.

bad gang. You sabi wassup