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A Woman in polyandrous relationship shows off her two husbands and kids

An American woman, Passion Jones has been receiving positive and negative remarks after she posted her two husbands and the sons she has with each of them in a family portrait for thanksgiving.

Jones has always advocated for Polyamory and her marriage to both husbands is a testament of this.

The 31 year old woman got married at 20 to her first husband and only began her polyamorous relationship when she was 30 year old.

She confessed in the Podcast they do together as a Polyamorous couple that she had no idea she would ever want to get married to two men but now she loves it.

Her first husband with whom she has two children together claims he was not forced to do it neither is he jealous as he enjoys the experience.

Her second and most recent husband whom she just had a baby for is quite young and very comfortable with the marriage.

The husbands say they take turns in getting her pregnant, that way, they know who the father of the child is.

2️⃣1️⃣HABITS THAT TURN BOYS INTO MEN

1️⃣Responsibility:

Take responsibility for your actions and be accountable for your mistakes.

2️⃣Respect:

Show respect for yourself and others, including those who are different from you.

3️⃣Honesty:

Be honest in your words and actions.

4️⃣Empathy:

Try to understand and relate to the feelings and experiences of others.

5️⃣Self-control:

Practice self-control and resist negative impulses.

6️⃣Perseverance:

Keep working hard and don't give up, even when things get tough.

7️⃣Initiative:

Take initiative and be proactive in your goals and responsibilities.

8️⃣Time management:

Use your time wisely and efficiently.

9️⃣Good communication:

Communicate clearly and effectively with others.

🔟Problem-solving:

Use critical thinking and problem-solving skills to overcome challenges.

1️⃣1️⃣Resourcefulness:

Use your resources and skills effectively to get things done.

1️⃣2️⃣Independence:

Develop independence and self-reliance.

1️⃣3️⃣Interdependence:

Recognize the importance of teamwork and interdependence with others.

1️⃣4️⃣Creativity:

Use your creativity and imagination to come up with new ideas and solutions.

1️⃣5️⃣Adaptability:

Be flexible and adaptable to change.

1️⃣6️⃣Leadership:

Develop leadership skills and the ability to inspire and guide others.

1️⃣7️⃣Emotional intelligence:

Develop your emotional intelligence and the ability to understand and manage your own emotions and those of others.

1️⃣8️⃣Confidence:

Believe in yourself and your abilities.

1️⃣9️⃣Courage:

Be brave and stand up for what you believe in.

2️⃣0️⃣Humility:

Be humble and open to learning and growth.

2️⃣1️⃣Gratitude:

Practice gratitude and appreciate what you have.

Edet Edem Akpan✍️🏿

CJStarz:
Not tripped by anything Akwa Ibom. Dunno why.

Hmm 😒

Cassandraloius:
Congratulations.

Thanks...🙏🏿

I am happy to announce that I am among the graduands of University of Uyo, Nigeria 26th, 27th and 28th combined convocation ceremonies.

I have been waiting for this convocation ceremony since 2018 while waiting I listened to Banky W song which says "What if I tell you that I have sow seeds that are germinating? So be hopeful, because the God that we serve, do not take us for granted. It will come through that thing you are expecting, it might take a little time, it will come through when the stars align and everything will be just fine. Because when God says yes nobody can say no, God has the final say, no matter what people say and do. Delay is not denial keep waiting patiently, you can triumph through your trials if you just believe so don't give up the fight because God do not sleep, one day you will surely celebrate, He will supply your need have a little faith and see that God has the final say."

On a personal note, I like to honour God and appreciate my parents and siblings they encouraged me and supported me. Without them, my graduation would not have been possible.

It has been an amazing journey and one my fellow colleagues will most likely never forget, we all had one goal in mind and that was to make our mark on the school that we attended and make our mark on the world once we graduate. We all have different career choices but we're all bound by the same common cause and that is to graduate.

In conclusion, I am excited that the school authority found me worthy in character and learning and awarded me.🥈📚🎓🎊🎉

Edet Edem Akpan

CJStarz:
Perfect excuse for failure.

hmm

"No need to cherish luxuries because everything come and go, even the life that you have is borrowed. Because you're not promised tomorrow so live your life as if everyday going to be your last."
~Akon~

"And if my life is for rent, and I don't learn to buy. Well, I deserve nothing more than I get because nothing I have is truly mine."
~Dido~

Do you know that you own nothing and you lose nothing?

If you buy land or buy a house, you have only paid rent for the remaining years you have on Earth. None of them belong to you.
If you buy a car, you have only paid for your transport for the period the car will last or for the period you will last. It doesn’t belong to you.

If you marry a spouse, you have only got company until circumstances or death do you part. No one owns the other.
If you have children, you have only fulfilled the demand of continuity of life until death comes. You don’t own them. That’s why the State still dictates how you bring them up.

If you have money, you have only amassed value to purchase what you want, for your remaining number of years on Earth. The notes belong to the Central Bank.
If you work and retire, your pension is only for life. After your life, it stops.
Even if you eat and get filled, the food in your belly isn’t yours. You must defecate it back to Earth.

The body itself which you cherish so highly, doesn’t belong to you. The Earth will certainly reclaim its bits when the loan is due.
Even the life we live is borrowed and surely will be returned.

So let us not be afraid of losing anything in this life, because we do not own anything here. Two things will surely happen; we will either be taken away from everything we think we own or everything we think we own will be taken away from us someday. It is that day that none of us know.

We boast about our bodies, our houses, our lands, our money, our wives, our husbands, our children, our parents, our everything. But that’s where it ends. Boasting! Ruminate intensely and it won’t be difficult to find out that, we do not own any of those things. We are only availed of them to mitigate the necessary constraints of our sojourn here.

So never lose your head or your cool or your temper or your values or your vibrancy, whenever you think you have lost something because nothing was ever really yours. Not even.

#YouOwnNothingYouLoseNothing
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Dear Kings and Queens,🤴🏿👸🏿

♔Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gold mine you are doesn't mean you shine any less.

♔Just because no one has been smart enough to figure out that you can't be topped doesn't stop you from being the best.

♔Just because no one has come along to share your life doesn't mean that day isn't coming.

♔Just because no one has made this race worth while, doesn't give you permission to stop running.

♔Just because no one has realized how much of a woman you are doesn't mean they can affect your femininity.

♔Just because no one has come to take the loneliness away doesn't mean you have to settle for a lower quality.

♔Just because no one has shown up who can love you on your level, doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs.

♔Just because you deserve the very best, doesn't mean that life is always fair.

♔Just because God is still preparing your king doesn't mean that you're not already a queen.

♔Just because your situation doesn't seem to be progressing right doesn't mean you need to change a thing.

♔Keep shining, keep running, keep hoping, keep praying, keep being exactly what you are already.

God loves you, and He knows your story!🤴🏿👸🏿

BUGOFF:
Good for you. That's the power of consistency and being intentional. Congratulations

Many thanks 🙏🏿

My LinkedIn Post Gave Me A Plate Of Food Worth ₦5000 And A Week Freelance Job.

I like to encourage you to keep on contributing here on LinkedIn, sometimes you will feel like no one is reading or reacting on your posts or articles, but I want to assure you that people are watching you.

Don't give up! Keep posting and keep connecting to new people, someday you will break the jinx and you will get that job and connection you are earnestly looking for.

A few months ago, I made a post about "Change Your Name Or Change Your Way" and it was worth reading by GBfoods Area Sales Manager, so he commented on the post that I should call him, I eventually called him and he took me to a nice eatery where he bought me food worth ₦5000 and we get connected and he assigned me to assist him on a week freelance job which was a Market Storm where new and existing products from GBfoods was on display, sales and merchandise for wider reach to both new and existing customers and consumers.

#LinkedIn
#Post
#Freelance
#GBfoods
#EdetEdemAkpan

Just to say thank you for bringing Equalizer to my screen, seeing the movie was like a real life scenario, like it happening in my hood, QUEEN LATIFAH you were so passionate about helping people, you put all your best to this series. I am waiting for season 4.

[quote author=Hidewell post=126215682][/quote]Many thanks

8️⃣REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD BUILD THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR FUTURE:

1️⃣Nothing Makes Life Sweeter Than Making People Happy.

2️⃣The People You Help Today Become Your Soldiers In The Battle Of Life Tomorrow.

3️⃣To Invest In Properties Is Good But To Invest In People Is Far Far Better.

4️⃣Try To Make Money, But Also Try To Make People Great.

5️⃣Your Greatest Trophies Are The Tears You Wipe Away From People's Faces Not The Wealth You Acquired.

6️⃣Your Greatest Achievement Should Be A Way Of Raising People To Become Achievers.

7️⃣People Will Defend, Honour You And Stand By You When They Realise You Value Them.

8️⃣Don't Let Any one Stop You From Making Others Great.

📌It Is Better To Light A Candle Than To Cause The Darkness.

iwriteall:
Happy Birthday Mr. Edet Akpan
More blessings, More life

How can I get in contact with you sir?

Thanks so much!

Message ELITE AKPAN EDET EDEM on WhatsApp. https:///2348069676906

It's My Birthday! May The Force Be With Me!

🎂🍾🥂🤍👑✈️💰🎁🎊🎉

DEAR MOTHERS 2️⃣1️⃣ THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTERS URGENTLY

1️⃣Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more.

2️⃣Tell her to step into the FIELD, not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD.

3️⃣Let your daughter know that she needs to trade her brain, not her private parts to make money.

4️⃣Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become a rich girl.

5️⃣Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President.

6️⃣Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt.

7️⃣Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men.

8️⃣Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God for a relationship with any Man.

9️⃣Train your daughter that the internet never forgets or forgives, let her know that the foolish post she makes on the internet can depose her from her position tomorrow.

🔟Tell your daughter that time waits for no man, if she wastes her time with a foolish man, she will wake up one day to discover that it is night-time.

1️⃣1️⃣Tell your daughter that life gives back what you give into it, wickedness will be fully repaid.

1️⃣2️⃣Tell your daughter that beauty is not in exposing unclothedness, it is dressing to look like a Queen.

1️⃣3️⃣Tell your daughter that she is a princess and not a prostitute, tell her to dress to prove who she is.

1️⃣4️⃣Tell your daughter that it is a great wickedness to sleep with the husband of another Woman.

1️⃣5️⃣Let her know that married men do not love her, they only see her as an available intimacy gadget to satisfy the animal in them.

1️⃣6️⃣Let your daughter know that the best friend she can keep is God, He can not disappoint her.

1️⃣7️⃣Let your daughter know that beauty without a brain makes one look like a Decorated pig.

1️⃣8️⃣Teach your daughter to believe in herself because she is capable of doing whatever she believes she can do.

1️⃣9️⃣Teach your daughter never to think that wealth is sexually transmitted. Sleeping with wealthy men will only make her a LovePeddler not wealthy.

2️⃣0️⃣Tell your daughter good look does not make a man a good Man. He can have 6 PACKS and be a PACK of trouble.

2️⃣1️⃣Teach your daughter never to be a Runs girl because runs girls normally RUN into trouble.

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DaddyCoool:
You call these deep words. R U ok?

😆

DaddyCoool:
Why only Telegram?
This is some sort of sneaky ad for Telegram, ain't it?

It is...

I tasted all that is sweet, but I found nothing sweeter than good health. And I tasted all that was bitter, but nothing was more bitter than being in need of good people. And I carried both, iron and rocks, but nothing was heavier than debt.

I discovered therefore that life comprises only of two days: A day for you and a day against you. So when it is for you, do not be reckless; and when it is against you, be patient. Because both days will expire!

If you can't be a bridge to connect people, then don't be a wall to separate them. If you can't be a light to brighten people's good deeds then don't be darkness covering their efforts.

If you can't be water to help people's crops sprout, then don't be a pest destroying their crops. If you can't be a vaccine to give life, don't be a virus to terminate it.

If you can't be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, then try to be a nice eraser to remove their sadness. We can only be each other's keeper.

#DeepWordsOnMarble
#EdetEdemAkpan

Take a break if you need to. Take a detour if you need to. But don't quit. You can figure out the way with positive can-do mindset.

Keep spirit up. Let go of mindset that is the biggest blocker of your abundance. Hardships are temporary. Look for opportunities. You will figure out.

Sometimes, taking a break or finding a different path can help us navigate through challenges. It's important to maintain a positive mindset and keep pushing forward.

Remember, difficulties are only temporary, and there are always opportunities waiting for us. Keep going!

#Opportunities
#KeepGoing
#EdetEdemAkpan
#LetsConnectEveryone

1️⃣1️⃣Ways To Know Fake Transfer And Alert:

1️⃣Always know your previous bank balance in your head so that you know if it has added up.

2️⃣Don't use your SMS to check bank alert, don't depend on your SMS because scammers can manipulate the SMS, always check your alert from your bank Mobile app. Also, the alert may be delayed In sms, but your bank Mobile app will show it immediately. Don't depend on SMS, check your balance through App.

3️⃣Open an email with your bank. So that your bank will always send an alert to your email. Email does not show fake alert, Emails only show real alert, so if you don't see the alert in your email. It's fake.

4️⃣If you're a business person. Don't easily trust customers especially your new client when they send money to you except you have confirmed it. Most of these scammers dress nicely and they drive clean cars. You may look at their appearance and think they cannot scam you. My dear it's a lie. They have money but they still want to scam the poor.

5️⃣Don't allow any customer rush you during transaction. Some of them will rush you. Saying they want to attend to a meeting somewhere. Don't let anyone go without confirming your alert. Even if they show you debit alert, don't believe it because most of them will ask for your account number and insert the pin. While the transaction is going on, they will cancel it but the bank will send them debit alert. They will take the debit alert and show you to believe but later the bank will reverse the money to their account because it was a cancelled transaction.

6️⃣When the person that wants to do the transfer ask for your phone number, give the person a phone number that is not connected to your bank. If you receive alert in that phone number, know it's a fake alert.

7️⃣Know how your bank mask account numbers. Some banks will mask the middle digit of your account leaving the last four digits "4563*********5674". Some banks will mask all leaving only the last four digits "*************6743".

8️⃣Pay attention to the message title. Some bank use "Acct" while some use "Acc". And also pay attention to the case your bank uses if it is small or capital letters. Some bank uses "ACCT, ACC or Acc and Acct . So know the case your bank uses.

9️⃣Some bank present credit alert as "CR:NGN545,700. While some uses "CR:N5,000. So know the methods your bank uses and also pay attention to the case if they use small letters "cr" or capital letters "CR".

🔟Fake alert does not come with Kobo. Real alert shows "6000.56" but fake alert only shows "6,000.

1️⃣1️⃣And the last one is that, If you're a type of person that likes keeping bank messages in your phone, fake alert always appear in a different folder. It does not appear in your bank folder or the last message you received from your bank.

#FakeAlert
#FakeTransfer

Dear Parents,

Holidays are here, please take note of the following: child molestation, sexual abuse and rape.
Child predators are everywhere seeking whom to devour.
You do not want to see this happen to your children.
Be extra careful.

1️⃣Know where your children or wards are per time.

2️⃣Leave them with responsible and reasonable adults.

3️⃣Avoid leaving children alone for too long.

4️⃣Apply safety measures in and around the house.

5️⃣Secure your home and be vigilant.

6️⃣Check and understand why your children like an adult and check why some adults repel them.

7️⃣Do not be caught up in this wayward society. Wear modest and decent clothing for your girls.

8️⃣Holidaymakers, don't send your children off to their grannies without helps around. Most Grannies are weak, vulnerable, and not so disciplined anymore. Do not burden them with children's stress.

9️⃣Don't accommodate other children you can't care for in the name of the holiday.

🔟Watch your teenagers.

1️⃣1️⃣Get closer to your children and wards this holiday.

1️⃣2️⃣Keep close, embrace your children, pray, and play together.

1️⃣3️⃣They can watch television but be mindful of what goes into their mind. Most of the time, a lot of accidents could have been avoided.

1️⃣4️⃣Always give them reasons to appreciate life more.

1️⃣5️⃣Encourage them to study this holiday.

Do have a wonderful weekend and a lovely fun-filled holiday.
Please help share🔃 God bless our children🙏🏿

#Holiday #Children #EdetEdemAkpan #LetsConnectEveryone #Share

I am so excited to bag five thousand followers and yes it might not be a huge number for some people but for me it is huge milestone and I appreciate everyone for your time, follows, likes, reposts and comments on my activities on LinkedIn.

I do not joke with my online presence. I am aiming at having a huge online connection and valuable network.
So far, I have met incredible top voices on LinkedIn and I am optimistic that someday I will be among the top voices here.

I will like to grow your network from Zero connection to Hero Connections with just three steps:

1️⃣Like this post.

2️⃣Comment below if you are open to new connections. The first five hundred people who comment will get the most growth.

3️⃣Send a connection request to everyone that leaves a comment.

Everyone is a valuable connection you are one person away from your next big opportunity.

It's time to connect, comment below and experience rapid LinkedIn Growth!

#ThankYou5KFollowers
#ThankYou5KConnections
#EdetEdemAkpan
#LetsConnectEveryone
#LetsGrowOurNetwork

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1️⃣5️⃣ THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW AS YOU ARE AGING!

1️⃣Life doesn't wait for you to be okay. Get up everyday and keep pushing through.

2️⃣Never force anyone to choose you. You'll learn the art to spend time alone.

3️⃣Master your emotions. A calm mind can handle any situation.

4️⃣To avoid disappointment, you need to take people for who they're not for what you want them to be.

5️⃣Everyone will show you who they're, just give them time.

6️⃣You're at peace with yourself when you mind your own business.

7️⃣Ensure you take good care of yourself, if anything happens to you, the world will move on.

8️⃣Nobody cares, work hard to get better everyday.

9️⃣If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and give you a purpose.

🔟Free yourself from the society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

1️⃣1️⃣30 years is too long to sit in an office being told what to do.

1️⃣2️⃣You shouldn't frequently take advice from people who're not where you want to be in life.

1️⃣3️⃣Life's is 100% better when no one know anything about you.

1️⃣4️⃣You become 10x smarter when you quit the news and put politics out of your topics, unless it is your official occupation or it benefits you positively.

1️⃣5️⃣You need to be smart enough to create your opportunities, don't wait for them to come to you.

#EdetEdemAkpan𓃵

On the 20th and 22nd of July, 2023 it going to be Uyo Federal Constituency versus Etinan Federal Constituency as Victoria and Ediomo will tie their nuptial knot.

Dear God, Your greatest command is love to You and each other. You’ve given marriage as a holy relationship that reflects their relationship with You. Show them how to follow your example and set aside their selfishness and pride and humbly serve each other.

Help Victoria and Ediomo to be of one spirit and of one mind and value each other above themselves, looking out for each other’s interests. In the midst of their busy lives, help them take time to love each other deeply from the heart, as you have loved us.

May the love they have for each other be an example to the world of how You love them and gave Your life for them. Amen!Felicitations! #VE2023🎉🎊🌹💍🤍

DaddyCoool:
My answer: there are three sides to every story - yours, his, and the truth.
Well done anyway

Thanks

This morning I told my boss I will not make it to work as I'm not feeling well, the real reason is that I went to another job interview, out of 15 people who applied only two of us, myself and some other guy who were called and we wrote test and we were interviewed and sent to sit in a room awaiting the outcome.

I tried to create some chat, to have a conversation with the guy but his answers were short and I assumed he didn't want to chat so I kept quiet but he really looked nervous, down and sad.

He received a phone call and I could hear that they were yelling at him, the argument was about him wearing his half brother's clothes to the interview, poor guy took his half-brother's clothes to try and look presentable for the interview, his shoes looked torn and dusty, this explains why he seemed so cold, it's nerves, a low-self esteem and guilt. I really felt sorry for him and it was at that time that the manager came to tell us that we were both successful for the interview but unfortunately they only need one person and that's me because I did better than him on the test we wrote.

The truth is he needs this job more than I do, I pleaded with the manager to hire him instead, manager looked suprised and asked me twice if I'm sure, I said Yes then he said okay.

Tomorrow I'm going back to my job and that guy is starting his new job, both we're happy.
I honestly feel so good about myself today may God bless that guy. people are really having it hard out there, let's not be greedy and want a loaf when someone else can survive with just a half.
At this moment I really don't care about praise, people were there for me when I lost my kid, I'm trying to do the little I can for someone else too.
Share this to spread love and inspire.

#IrvinRockStarr
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