₦airaland Forum

erad:
What sort of senseless title is this?

It's an insult to the memory of these ladies. Nairaland has really gone to the dogs.

LeopardX:
I'm talking about child abuse here, man.
A child has no agency of his or her own.
At least a woman can walk away if she's had enough. She's an adult.
But a child? C'mon man!!!

I'm very sure you won't stand by and let your wife brutalize a child for any reason. So I believe you're just joking.

Afrah04:
It is high time the Nigerian government empower the health department to commence converting a good number of the male populace to eunuchs to increase productivity, reduce the population, and in turn boost the economy. We have a lot of poor men running around, nothing to do aside having sexual fantasies and distributing their unfortunate seeds, with brain and mechanical power lying idle. Look at the sex statistics and see for yourself the caliber of men that boast about lasting long and tell me what you find. Back to my proposal; poor men don't deserve erection, they don't deserve sexual satisfaction, until they do something better with their lives.

LeopardX:
I believe that husbands whose wives abuse domestic helps should also be arrested and investigated.
Too often, we hear terrible stories of children and domestic workers being tortured inside homes. Recently, reports emerged of a woman who allegedly poured hot water and candle wax on a young child in her care. Such cruelty and evil act does not usually happen in one minute or in complete secrecy. Someone in the house often sees the signs, hears the cries, or notices the injuries.
A husband should not be allowed to simply say, "I didn't know." If a child is being abused repeatedly in a home, every responsible adult in that home should answer questions from the police. If investigations show that the husband knew about the abuse, ignored it, encouraged it, or failed to report it, then he should face the law alongside his wife.
Children and domestic helps are human beings, for crying out loud. A home should be a place of safety, not a place of fear and torture. Holding all responsible adults accountable will help discourage abuse and protect vulnerable people.
Silence can sometimes be as dangerous as the abuse itself.

And since this issue is common place in our society today, there should be a law holding husbands of these women equally responsible for these crimes against children and domestic help.

What do you guys think?

KobolanderSegun:
Me. I just dey laugh at people who mock Peter Obi from moving from Party to Party. I'm laughing because people call him effeminate because he refused to sit in the party and solve the issues of the party

Peter Obi has proven to be so advanced simple minds cannot understand him.

We who have advanced minds understand him easily.

RULE OF LAW

Peter Obi does not own the party he joins so he has absolutely no control over the party. Should he hijack the party ? Should he split the party into factions ?

No this is a modern man and not a thief or a thug. The best thing to do is walk away.

FINDING A SUITABLE PARTY

If you cannot find a party that meets your taste what should you do ? Turn the party upside down to meet your tastes ?

If you go to Mama put and you don't like the food should you start bringing your own spices to cook the food everyone will eat ? Or should you find another Mama put that Meets your standards ?

I hope I have finally broken it down for you.

KobolanderSegun:
It is finished nah.... No be you wey d harras me with." It is finished ".

Gentlesoul2021:
Would you have preferred that I kept arguing during the interview? I felt it was better to respectfully explain my point and then listen to their perspective.

Blunt99:
Seun, it is time to introduce a feature to block keywords.

I need to block the key word "Reno Omokri".

Hezmatosky210:
Am very obsessed with large women. God help me oooo soteeeeeeeh it's even affecting my driving🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
God abegiooo🙏

aydought:
Plus rocks better. Im a very slim guy but likes plus size women. You go see fresh flesh whole wella wella

Gentlesoul2021:
Good day Nairalanders.!!

I had an interview today that sparked an interesting conversation about career growth and employee retention.

The Senior HR Manager questioned why I hadn't stayed longer with my previous employers. Looking at my career journey, I spent 2 years with my first company, 1 year with my second, and I'm currently 9 months into my present role. All three positions have been directly related to the role I was being interviewed for, giving me over 3 years of relevant experience, while the job requirement specified 1–2+ years of experience.

The concern raised was that the company is looking for someone who has demonstrated longer tenure with previous employers and is likely to remain with them for many years.

While I understand that perspective, I couldn't help but reflect on the realities of the Nigerian job market. Many professionals make career moves when opportunities arise that offer better compensation, improved benefits, greater responsibilities, career advancement, or the chance to develop new skills. Such transitions are often driven by growth and ambition rather than a lack of commitment.

In my view, tenure is important, but so are the results delivered, the experience gained, and the value created in every role. A professional's impact should not be measured solely by the length of time spent in an organization, but also by the contributions made during that period.

For hiring managers and HR professionals, especially those recruiting in Nigeria, how much weight should be given to length of service versus career progression, skills acquired, and proven performance?

nairalanda1:
While cardiac arrest does affect the fat people a lot, you can have physically fit or slim people dying of cardiac arrest because of some genetic quirk in the heart

Remember Christian Eriksen, Fabrice muamba and late Marc Vivien foe and late Sam Okwaraji.

Papillo.would have joined their ranks if not for a timely echo cardiogram

erad:
So in your ignorant shallow mind, only big people have heart issues?

Qwikkie:
Ever notice how back pain is like that one annoying relative who shows up uninvited, leaves for a bit... and then just comes back again? You stretch it out, you rest, you feel better for a week or two, and then bam, it's back. Can you relate to it right?

This is one of the most serious issues many people deal with, and honestly, it's frustrating because it never seems to fully go away.

The interesting part is that a lot of people are quick to blame the sitting position as the main culprit. "Oh, you sit wrong, that's why your back hurts." But is that really the full story? Is bad posture really the villain here, or is something deeper going on?

Let's look into it together:
Sitting Position: Guilty, But Not the Only Suspect

Yes, sitting badly for long hours, slouched over a laptop, hunched on a couch, or leaning awkwardly at a desk, definitely puts pressure on your spine. It tightens muscles, weakens your core, and throws your whole posture out of balance over time.

But here's the catch: if sitting position alone was the real cause, then simply fixing your posture should completely cure the pain, right? For a lot of people, it doesn't. They sit up straight, get an ergonomic chair, do everything "right," and the pain still creeps back.

That tells us something important: posture is a contributing factor, not the whole picture.
So What's Really Going On?

Back pain that keeps returning is usually a sign that the root cause hasn't been addressed, only the symptom has been temporarily calmed down. Some of the real underlying issues that often get overlooked include:

Weak core and back muscles that aren't strong enough to support your spine properly

Lack of movement: your body needs regular motion, not just better sitting

Old injuries that never fully healed quietly keep flaring up

Stress and tension, which can tighten muscles around your back without you even realizing it

Repetitive habits — how you bend, lift, sleep, or even walk every single day

This is why just "sitting properly" can feel like putting a band-aid on a deeper wound. It helps, but it doesn't fix what's actually going on underneath.
The Real Takeaway

So, is the sitting position the cause of back pain? Partly, yes but it's more like a trigger than the root cause. The real issue is usually a combination of weak muscles, poor movement habits, and unresolved strain that builds up over time.

If your back pain keeps returning, it's your body's way of waving a flag and saying, "Hey, something deeper needs attention here, not just a quick fix."

Pay attention to that flag.

Everyday247:
Bro didn't write this himself. This is chat GPT slop. He prompted Ai to generate this in pidgin and then copied and pasted.

Rayjay45:
The write-up is about Bukunmi The Preacher.

Na eim make many of my folks in the UK Japada last year because those ones saw him on Tiktok pelu wifey leaving for Naija.

Today, man is in Canada with eim wifey balling