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Online they claim to be 6’0 - 7’1. In real life, many of them are barely over 5’0.

What do you children gain from lying?

Detty December don set.

Nairaland is a waste of otherwise useful time.

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He’ll be back this time next year. Athletes don’t know what to do with free time. They run back to what they enjoyed doing despite their degrading performance.

A large mall with zero clientele. Let’s see how long it will remain in business.

People complaining about the common man. The common man has had a sixty-five year head start to improve his existence. Give him two hundred more years, he’ll still remain in poverty.

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After he said that, the instance of my friend who almost ran mad after he was gifted the seventh book of Moses by his cultist friend

Why didn’t the cultist friend also run mad, abi he was too scared to read it?

People still believe the book has powers? Why not make it the official Bible since it seems more powerful? I’ve read stories upon stories about how it cages souls.

I’m missing Detty December. Why aren’t things structured? Thank God for the final week of the month.

Fidwon:
Lagos nightlife came alive over the weekend as American rapper Rick Ross made an unexpected appearance at a crowded club, leaving partygoers in awe.

The Miami-born artiste, who was in the city for the TAPE Lagos pop-up event, took the stage on Saturday night, igniting the room with his presence. Guests danced under sparkling chandeliers, while the energy on the dance floor reached a fever pitch.

The night’s excitement was amplified by Israel DMW, whose high-energy moves and dramatic leaps caught the attention of fans and quickly went viral on social media.

Although the club played popular Afrobeats hits from artistes such as Shallipopi, it was Rick Ross’ unannounced performance that stole the spotlight, underscoring Lagos’ growing reputation as a hub for international entertainment.

Ross, who had been spotted earlier promoting his Luc Belaire champagne in the city, appeared to feed off the crowd’s energy, keeping the audience engaged throughout his performance.

For someone who claims to gather knowledge here, you’re quick to jump into unnecessary debates like Kobojunkie. I say again; nobody comes here to learn. Feminine boys congregate here because they’ll get punched in the mouth for their views offline. Masculine males are busy in the real world getting things done. The boys you come across online waste their days bickering with females. It’s why they chased all the female members away and now pose as females in order to satisfy weird fantasies.

SpencerForbes:
Hold up, why should he even stop? I might not know Pansophist personally, but I've been soaking up his wisdom with everyone else, especially on the 'redpill' thread since way back in 2018. It’s seriously sharpened how I see the world. Just because you choose to ignore it doesn't mean the rest of us aren't learning. We have different threads for different reasons. If you can't get anything out of it, maybe you should try teaching instead of trying to discourage people who are trying to guide the next generation.

I mean, look around—that kind of discouragement is probably why we have so many feminine dudes nowadays.

Good. Carry on.

lebete3000:
Lmao, I'm not using it for juju na, haba
I'm 85kg by the way

What is your own weight?

lebete3000:
What's your weight please?

Stop trying to educate illiterates in this forum. Nobody comes here to learn.

pansophist:
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Heaven lol

On the macro level, the gender inbalance is inconsequential, because individuals don’t really care about such stuff. only governments and systems that think in terms of tax payers, populations growth, public services etc worry about gender imbalances.

Don’t think that women in Latvia are desperate for men. That is a lie. Relationships generally follows a 80/20 rule, which means that most women are attracted to few men. Female’s mating strategy have always been quality over quantity.

So if for example you have 10 men and 10 women, you won’t have 10 relationships, but probably 2 men dating the rest, while 8 men remain single.

Maybe when the top men are done with those women, then relationships may tickle down to the leftover men, who will then go on to proclaim that they’ve found the love of their life

Of course the ladies might not know they are sharing same men, but it’s the reality everywhere.

The dating market is generally a situation of involuntary polygamy. The top guys have many unsuspecting women on rotation, while the women delude themselves thinking she is in a committed relationship.

Men are not good people lol

Are people starved of attention that they do things like this? A day of celebration turns into one where lowlifes choose to immortalize their actions. Sad.

Watch ISIS or whichever terrorist group of the day claim this as their doing.

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Tragedy Strikes Sydney in Bondi Beach attack as gunmen target Hanukkah Celebration at Iconic Beach

Ten people were killed in the Bondi Beach attack during the Hanukkah Jewish celebration on Sunday. The attack targeted a Hanukkah celebration with approximately 2,000 attendees.

One gunman was killed, and another is in critical condition. Additionally, eleven people were injured, including two police officers.

The shooting occurred around 6:30 PM local time during "Chanukah by the Sea." This event was organized by Chabad of Bondi for families celebrating the first night of Hanukkah.

Eyewitnesses reported hearing hysterical screams as people fled in all directions. Witness Harry Wilson described a horrific scene with multiple people on the ground surrounded by blood.

Video footage captured the chaos. One clip showed a bystander tackling a gunman and wrestling away his weapon. Another showed officers attempting to resuscitate individuals on a pedestrian bridge.

Australian Prime Minister Anthony Albanese called the scenes "shocking and distressing." Emergency responders immediately deployed to save lives and secure the area.

Police established an exclusion zone around Bondi Beach. Specialist officers examined suspicious items found nearby. Two individuals were taken into custody as investigations continue.

He died of diabetes, a failed heart or a protracted illness. Pick one. If he was healthy, which I doubt, it may have been an aneurysm or deep vein thrombosis.

The dead is gone. Let’s celebrate every day we make in life.

One son is gone. Another has relocated. The wife and daughters have moved on. What remains is a man sitting alone behind a gate, cooking for himself, washing his own clothes, watching the days pass without the noise that once defined his life.

But we almost never talk about male loneliness in old age.

Utter nonsense. Who’s to say the situation isn’t one of his making? I had an uncle who had to marry at seventeen years of age to “be responsible” and support his younger ones. Blame his useless father who was a bricklayer with multiple wives and children with zero means to support them financially. Every first two children of wives were saddled with the responsibility of taking care of the other children.

At sixty-five, after being married for decades, raising younger siblings and watching kids grow into adults, the man desired independence. He chased his wife away and started a teenage-like existence. Everything he wanted, he did for himself. He relearned to cook, started fixing electrical devices himself and added a little carpentry to the mix. His siblings all laughed behind his back, however his body benefited from all the chores he performed daily. I was in my early twenties at the time. Me and him had the same physique. He looked better, like someone who ran daily. The only difference was his old face.

Cancer took him eventually. His family stayed by his deathbed, including the wife he once chased. Today, she lives in the empty house. The children chose not to claim any property. They were wealthier than he was.

People are as only as they seem. The man in your story may have chosen an independent route. How will you know when you view him from the outside?

For many men, life slowly narrows: Children grow up. Homes empty out. Visits reduce.

Empty nest syndrome. It happens to everyone. That is how you know you did well as a parent. Nature finds humans disposable after thirteen years of age. It’s programmed for them to procreate at that time then wait for death. Thank God for modern medicine pushing us past eighty.

Fathers, too often, are left behind quietly enduring, saying little, asking for nothing, but feeling everything.

Bullshit. Raise your children well and they will treat you well. Daughters think about fathers a lot. They compete for his attention. Add good jobs in the mix and the man will wonder why he didn’t birth all females.

Sons: Your father may not say much. He may act distant or grumpy. But he wants connection too. He wants to feel seen.

If he doesn’t show it, he wee sleep there.

Because here’s the uncomfortable truth: No promotion, no achievement, no title prepares a man for an empty house.

It happens even if he’s with a wife. Life is not stagnant. If you find it so, you’ve failed as a human being. Many Nigerians stay in their parents’ house till their early forties. They eventually leave to create their own families. Delay is not denial.

She gave you a sign to advance physically. Fear is holding you back or saving you. Naija women are a bag of headaches. Personally, my mind would’ve clocked out regarding her matter.

She must be ugly or fat. Any average looking female would be swooped quickly by another guy.

One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”

How much again?

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If you gain positives from the forum, good. I don’t. This place never taught me a damn thing. Politics don’t spark my interest. I avoid the section by all means.

SpencerForbes:
If nobody wins from debates, why do schools still organize them and assign argumentative essays? The whole point is to learn how to convince—or even confuse—the panel using superior logic, regardless of your tactics.

Personally, I prefer engaging in intellectual, religious, and educational arguments backed by facts, rather than just pushing empty narratives. Plus, some of us are here to drop comments that might actually help one or two people looking for guidance.

Also, let's not pretend Nairaland hasn't had brilliant minds. I could list guys like Pansophist, Martinez23, Harddon, and others. They really contributed to the growth of youths here with solid business and relationship advice.

Finally, regarding the anti-spam bot: does it really stop the toxicity? No. Just take a look at the politics section. The insults are still flying. The bot helps, sure, but it definitely hasn't curbed the menace completely.

What I remember from my time in camp was females passing out from standing for hours. If you want to use them for war, teach them how to handle weapons first. Please, don’t waste anybody’s child. No parent who raised a kid from primary school to university level will want them to fight wars. They could make the choice when the child was a preteen. We have enough soldiers on ground and in reserve to face most crises.

Biodun556:
Corps members part of defence, can be mobilised for war – NYSC
June 4, 2021 4:50 am

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THE Director-General of the National Youth Service Corps, Brig. Gen. Shuaibu Ibrahim, says corps members are part of the national defence policy of Nigeria and can be mobilised for war if need be.

Ibrahim said this on Channels Television’s ‘Sunrise Daily’ programme on Wednesday while reacting to moves to scrap the NYSC scheme which is compulsory for all Nigerians who graduate before the age of 30.

The NYSC boss said, “You can imagine within the short three weeks in the orientation camps, the corps members are moulded. They are like soldiers. You see female corps members blowing the army horn, playing with the military band.

“So, if not for the knowledge, where are you going to mobilise such young Nigerians to train them quickly to put in their best for the country?


“So, corps members are on reserve. They are also part of the national defence policy. Parents should teach their children the spirit of patriotism.”

He said the NYSC was concerned about the security of corps members, adding that this was why they had been advised not to move around at night.

Time will reveal the truth. Many of these Nollywood females live for social media. When/if e hook am for throat, she go cry out.

Ondopress1:
Nollywood Actress Mercy Johnson Finally Speaks Amid Controversy Involving Husband, Pregnant Sidechic

Nollywood actress Mercy Johnson has taken to social media to share a loved-up video with her husband amid viral rumors surrounding her family.

As earlier reported by Ondopress, an unidentified lady recently alleged that Mercy Johnson’s husband, Prince Okojie, bought a mansion for a supposed mistress who was reportedly pregnant at the time.

The woman further claimed that the actress was aware of the alleged relationship but chose not to confront her husband.

According to the narrator, Mercy Johnson allegedly helped the woman find a house help. She claimed the situation later escalated after the alleged mistress lost the pregnancy, leading to the arrest of the house help over accusations of administering a harmful substance.

The lady also alleged that police questioning extended to the actress, but no evidence was found linking her to the incident.

“They even called in Mercy Johnson for questioning, but they didn’t have any evidence against her, so they couldn’t keep her,” the lady said.

She further claimed that Prince Okojie eventually ended the alleged relationship after his wife became aware of it, adding that Mercy Johnson did not publicly react to the situation.

1. Nobody wins nor learns from online arguments.

2. Brilliant minds sparking debates? That must be Reddit. It was never Nairaland. I’ve been here since 2013. Things degraded when fourteen year olds became the majority. However, brilliant debates were sparse. All I remember were kids turning any topic into meetups for fellow males posing as females.

3. Thank God for the spam bot. Those users who kick off with insults have gotten chased off the platform.

SpencerForbes:
Wetin I do nítorí oloún. The funny thing is, I'm not even on social media. And let's be clear: Nairaland isn't social media; it's a discussion forum where you actually go to learn stuff. When you have smart people debating, you're always going to have a little 'disagreeing to eventually agree'—that's how we all get smarter! I really miss the old days when the brilliant minds were sparking epic debates.

Now, it feels like it's just toxic people who jump straight to insults whenever they disagree.

Some bloggers claimed that fans did not turn out, sparking heated debates on social media.

Kobojunkie, SpencerForbes and Illicit types plenty for social media.

The country’s report means nothing. We’ve heard politicians lie without end over the smallest of matters. Let’s see if time will reveal the truth.

Your title should be “which of these will you [stop to] kill even if making love?” That heading gave me cancer. Let me drop it here for reference.

“Which Of This Would You Stop Even When Making Love To Kpai?”

Sorry, I live in a home I clean every other day. Nothing enters.

This man obviously fights with sleep while on the phone. No one can tell me otherwise.

Kobojunkie:
I have never come across such a situation to this day. Also, your statement assumes that parents whose favorites are known intentionally give away hints on who their favorite child is. From my experience, that usually only happens when the parent in question has some serious prejudice against the other kids. For a parent to literally raise one child above the others... that has to be some seriously toxic environment for the other children.

2. If you say so.

The cause boils down to humans. No need for investigations. Our leaders are honestly wicked. They will stop anything which may benefit the common man. People wey japa long ago do the right thing. One can’t tell me otherwise.

She’s likely a virgin by choice. She probably has too many options and can’t tell which want her for a lasting relationship as opposed to knacking her to brag to friends.

Mrexcell:
Very strange to know that a very successful young and beautiful lady like her is still struggling to find a man who truly loves her this life is really not balanced.

If you have all eight hours of working time to post on Nairaland, you are surely unemployed. Don’t deceive yourself.

illicit:
I have a job

You dig?

Zzzzz. Another of one of these topics. Nairaland no dey tire. I blame una wey dey always comment.

It’s the same in Lagos. What is the news here?

DyshApp:
A lady has sparked online debate after claiming that men, particularly in Abuja, are also gold diggers, just like many women.

In a detailed post, she shared her experience since moving to the city, saying she had initially been skeptical of the claims about men seeking women for financial gain.

“It is happening. Before I came to Abuja I didn’t believe it. When they told me Abuja men are this and that I didn’t believe it. I’m not the type to judge till it came to me,” she wrote.

She described how men would ask to know where she lived, whether she lived alone, and how much she had, with the ultimate goal of requesting money.

She added that while women are often accused of spending men’s money, men also engage in similar behaviour, seeking partners to leech from financially.