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heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Gbadugbakun:
So you office doesn't have AC?

Kalulu44:
Good evening and happy Easter to you all.
Guys, I need your say or contribution to this weird situation at my place of work.

My place of work is a hotel/apartment where people lodge.

Some minutes ago, 3 people (2 male 1 female) wearing white garment came and said they were directed by the owner of the place who's abroad to come and pray.

They started their prayers by placing and burning candles at the 4 corners of the hotel.

Which now infuriated the lodgers who are mostly guys. They came out and started threatening to stop the prayers and put off the candlelights.
It has been pleading upon pleading from me and my fellow workers.
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They're insinuating that the owner of the place wants to take or be using their glory and destiny. As I am typing this now, they have all left their rooms, saying they can't sleep there. Not even one person is remaining, though they have all paid. And will come tmrw to come lay complain to the owners daughter who manages the place but only comes during the day.

According to some of them, they have never seen a thing like that before. And if the owner must do such. She should have set a day aside when we won't take in any lodger and then do whatever prayers they like.
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Honestly, since I started working there this is the first time I'm seeing such or anywhere.
I just pray it won't hinder people from coming to lodge here again.

So guys, what is your thought about this?

KobolanderSegun:
It's amazing that people criticise Peter Obi for his Constant moving from Party to Party.

What people have failed to see is that Peter Obi does not Own the party. Since he does not own the party his ability to influence the party is zero. Ownership determines control.

People say he should resolve the problems of the party that can only happen if the owner and Peter Obi are on the same page which is almost impossible.

The level of intrigue is high so it is best to walk away.


People say he should sit down in one party but if he feels the party and himself are not on the same page he should move on.

Peter Obi is a Legend in the NIgerian Political Space.


Why Peter Obi should keep on Changing Party

I remember when I used to use a black and green sim card to browse they had financial trouble and I wrote to the MD to help out through business strategy they never replied me, I moved to another Green sim card who I had written to the owner in 2007. When that company had browsing challenges in my area I moved to a yellow sim card. Now I'm Happy because I have fast internet.

Peter Obi should keep on moving till he gets what he wants and it is nobodies business how many times he moves.

A party is a means to the Presidency. A sim card is a Means to the Internet . Change your network provider if it does not give you what you want. Change your party if it does not give you what you want.

I'm an Oduduwa so you might think of crying in that bucket you hand out

IamAsiri:
You are sincerely really sick.
Definitely, that's what you are.

I am surprised that you are the "multiple members".

What do I have to gain from corroborating his story? Likes?