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PoliticsRe: Wike: In PDP, We Don't Make Promises And Start Giving Excuses Like APC - Wike by efeteb: 8:04pm On Mar 01, 2021
If only Governors can be swapped, we would like to swap wike with the governor of the brother state to Edo. Roadmaster and we nor see road
PoliticsRe: Imo North Senatorial Seat: Supreme Court Dashes Ararume’s Hopes, upholds Ibezim by efeteb: 3:56pm On Feb 05, 2021
Ok
PoliticsRe: Abuja Court Reinstates Pondei-led NDDC Interim Management by efeteb: 1:02pm On Jan 21, 2021
How
LiteratureRe: His Neighbor's Wife by efeteb: 6:41am On Dec 12, 2020
Very powerful update, but too short. Thanks for this piece.
SportsRe: Ronaldo's Sister Posts Photo Of Messi Kneeling At Her Brother's Feet by efeteb: 1:52pm On Dec 10, 2020
Really
LiteratureRe: Super Sweetheart Of The CEO Daddy! A Story by efeteb: 7:24pm On Nov 12, 2020
Please kindly send me the link if you can


efeteb2@gmail.com

Thanks
RomanceRe: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by efeteb: 5:57am On Oct 30, 2020
Silentgroper:
Lol. I remember lola dat yr. We were never in a relationship bt in her delusions, she thought we were, cuz her momma nd my momma be calling her my wife. Bt dat one no talk xay mke i no chop kpekus. Time reach, i tell am, wa dz thing we wey dey do, mke we define am, she xay bt we ar dating na, i b lyk 'u nd wuya#u' tell am" go nd luk 4 ur own bf oo. She vex comot. I no send am.
lata lata sha, if she con see me wit oda girls, s¢,,£he go dey hala nonsense dy quarell wit dem chik. Me vex go confront am xay wetin dey sup na, shey bomb dy her head ni. Babe con dey yarn me bcuz i chop kpekus, xay na only she go have me. O boy me start 2 dy fear unto d girl na cele babe, mke she no go run white candle package on top my mata. Naim me dy do jeje until dem pack comot area. I don happy die. E tey small, naim one gel see me dy waka con talk xay 1n of her friend wan c me xay i luk familiar. I ask am her friend name she xay na lola. O boy my heart nearly cut. Naim me japa o
TravelRe: Rare Photos Of The 1980 Soviet Air/Seacraft Abandoned In The Capsian Sea by efeteb: 7:46pm On Aug 27, 2020
Nice
LiteratureRe: His Neighbor's Wife by efeteb: 5:53pm On Jul 30, 2020
Blast
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RomanceRe: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by efeteb: 5:41pm On Jul 30, 2020
ekaF:
It all sounds like victim-blaming

In point 2 you called her naive but somehow on point 1 she knew what she wanted. She's naive but according to you she knew to look for 'maturity' in point 5

Point 4 suggest that her love for him is based on him meeting her expectations. That's a dynamic no man should be comfortable with

For point number 8. The past is all he really has to judge her. The problem is not her misdeeds but the personality of the person that committed it. The example you gave is moot because a certificate is proof of the existence of something but op is clearly not convinced of the existence of her sudden change.

Besides, if she was right, why did she feel the need to beg him.
I can see you only read what I wrote to reply me, not to understand what I said.
RomanceRe: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by efeteb: 5:35pm On Jul 30, 2020
Tonyblaize and Hardyzah thanks for your matured opinion. Most people feel that life is only in one direction but they forget its give and take. Some persons are just here to express their frustrations as advice when they are still eating ''mama thank you''. Life is beyond the rantings of exurberant teenagers that feels they understand life because they are privy to data and can type.

My guy man up. You will look back at this post someday and smile.
LiteratureRe: Sugar Binding by efeteb: 12:44pm On Jul 24, 2020
Very good work. Can't wait for more
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RomanceRe: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by efeteb: 11:04am On Jul 23, 2020
If you can see this, you really missed the point of her altitude then. She really liked you but immaturity on your part made you to miss the pointers.

1. She expected you to be bold to tell her what you want in verbatim but you where busy jumping around her, her only response is frustration which is shown in different form, she choosed rudeness to you which is a normal.

2. She brought you to her group out of naivety, to sample their opinion. Bashing you was done to save her face, if you are not accepted by the group.

3. Bringing you to her group was also to let your sister know she is on your matter. Since a girl can be toasted by many boys, but she only discuss the one she is interested in extensively.

4. I can see genuine love from her. Since after the sex, she has been showing you so much love. This is because you finally behaved as a man by meeting her expectations.

5. Treating her with hatred still goes to show that immaturity is still in you that made her despise you earlier. When you fight for something, WINNING your WARS, should compensate for the battle you lost. Her former behavior were you battles on this war.

6. You can be older in age than her, but that is different from maturity. A smart 16yrs old girl, has the maturity of a 24yrs old boy. Women always respect maturity.

7. I can tell from your story so far that you still liked her. Marrying her is not a mistake since you are the problem here. Holistically look at my points and see. These are some of the story you will share in your marriage later. There are still more that can be deduce from your story but let me stop here.

8. Finally, judging people with their past when the present is better is wickedness. If your employer choose to pay you with your primary or secondary school certificate when you have a BSc is that not witchcraft. That is what you are doing.

Show Maturity before you go into marriage. In marriage there will always be conflict of interest but maturity is what makes your conclusions okay for everyone.

She didn't do anything to you. Be matured
RomanceRe: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by efeteb: 10:56am On Jul 23, 2020
If you can see this, you really missed the point of her altitude then. She really liked you but immaturity on your part made you to miss the pointers.

1. She expected you to be bold to tell her what you want in verbatim but you where busy jumping around her, her only response is frustration which is shown in different form, she choosed rudeness to you which is a normal.

2. She brought you to her group out of naivety, to sample their opinion. Bashing you was done to save her face, if you are not accepted by the group.

3. Bringing you to her group was also to let your sister know she is on your matter. Since a girl can be toasted by many boys, but she only discuss the one she is interested in extensively.

4. I can see genuine love from her. Since after the sex, she has been showing you so much love. This is because you finally behaved as a man by meeting her expectations.

5. Treating her with hatred still goes to show that immaturity is still in you that made her despise you earlier. When you fight for something, WINNING your WARS, should compensate for the battle you lost. Her former behavior were you battles on this war.

6. You can be older in age than her, but that is different from maturity. A smart 16yrs old girl, has the maturity of a 24yrs old boy. Women always respect maturity.

7. I can tell from your story so far that you still liked her. Marrying her is not a mistake since you are the problem here. Holistically look at my points and see. These are some of the story you will share in your marriage later. There are still more that can be deduce from your story but let me stop here.

8. Finally, judging people with their past when the present is better is wickedness. If your employer choose to pay you with your primary or secondary school certificate when you have a BSc is that not witchcraft. That is what you are doing.

Show Maturity before you go into marriage. In marriage there will always be conflict of interest but maturity is what makes your conclusions okay for everyone.
CrimeRe: Kaduna Attack: Kidnappers Demand N900m Ransom by efeteb: 7:40am On Jul 15, 2020
Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Leave Amaechi Alone - APC Faction Threatens To Burn Down Rivers State by efeteb: 5:42pm On Jun 22, 2020
grin
PoliticsRe: Victor Giadom Faults Ajimobi’s Appointment As APC Acting National Chairman by efeteb: 5:14am On Jun 17, 2020
Yawa
HealthRe: Did Any Chinese Doctor Invited To Nigeria Contract Coronavirus? (Fact Check) by efeteb: 6:29am On Apr 18, 2020
;D6
HealthRe: 100 Chevron Employees Suspected Of Having Coronavirus Secretly Quarantined - SR by efeteb: 5:22pm On Apr 15, 2020
This is fake news. They are not suspected victim, its a program to ensure everyone going back to offshore are free from the virus.

Compulsory and monitored quarantine.

Offshore environment is isolated. If there is a mistake of allowing one person with the virus into their installation, with airspace shut down,it will be very disastrous.

Note that not only chevron is quarantining, but other multinationals oil companies. Presently, most hotels on PH are occupied by people going through this process.
LiteratureRe: My Madam And I (part Two) by efeteb: 10:55am On Mar 26, 2020
Well done.
PoliticsRe: Abba Kyari Reportedly Sick, Suspected Of Contracting Coronavirus - SR by efeteb: 5:10am On Mar 24, 2020
Mixed emotion
LiteratureRe: Opay Is Bringing Freedom And Security To Everyone In Nigeria by efeteb: 4:24am On Mar 15, 2020
grin
PoliticsRe: Sani Ibrahim ‘Unseats’ Emmanuel Ibediro As National Organizing Secretary by efeteb: 10:11am On Mar 14, 2020
grin
LiteratureRe: My Madam And I (part Two) by efeteb: 3:00pm On Mar 12, 2020
You got me hooked to this story. Very tight storyline. MORE
PoliticsRe: PDP Ward Congresses: Dickson Urges Party Leaders, Supporters To Support Diri by efeteb: 1:44am On Mar 07, 2020
grin
CrimeRe: I Prefer Sex With Small Girls – Married Man, 50, Opens Up by efeteb: 12:58pm On Mar 06, 2020
shocked
LiteratureRe: My Madam And I (part Two) by efeteb: 2:01am On Mar 06, 2020
Good work, very good work. The suspense is wow
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LiteratureRe: My Madam And I (part Two) by efeteb: 4:11pm On Feb 20, 2020
Action just as I like it. cool cool cool cool cool

Good one op
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PoliticsRe: Patience, Goodluck Jonathan And Obasanjo At Udom Emmanuel's Father's Burial by efeteb: 5:09pm On Feb 15, 2020
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TV/MoviesRe: Fashola: Nollywood Movies Promoting Money Rituals, Encouraging Kidnapping by efeteb: 7:31pm On Feb 09, 2020
kiss
LiteratureRe: My Madam And I (part Two) by efeteb: 3:41pm On Feb 09, 2020
Captivating
LiteratureRe: Married And Single (18+) by efeteb: 1:02pm On Feb 09, 2020
You just dey let bad bad things dey happen to good good girls abi?

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