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Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by Chidecmail: 7:44pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
proxillin:Your not ready to settle down yet, men have seen worse than this.When your grown this won't be an issue to you. |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by emillysmigael(f): 7:56pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
ugofulfilled:It is a matter of choice... If you were to be my brother; I'd say "Let her go...". Except you love too much to let go!!! |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by debbydams(f): 8:53pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
daniwilson789:I replied your mail |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by Angelinastto(f): 9:27pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
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Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by Angelinastto(f): 9:27pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
Joshforeal:Make I drag you nao |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by Joshforeal: 10:20pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
Angelinastto:Lol |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by ekaF(f): 3:55am On Jul 24, 2020 |
efeteb: It all sounds like victim-blaming In point 2 you called her naive but somehow on point 1 she knew what she wanted. She's naive but according to you she knew to look for 'maturity' in point 5 Point 4 suggest that her love for him is based on him meeting her expectations. That's a dynamic no man should be comfortable with For point number 8. The past is all he really has to judge her. The problem is not her misdeeds but the personality of the person that committed it. The example you gave is moot because a certificate is proof of the existence of something but op is clearly not convinced of the existence of her sudden change. Besides, if she was right, why did she feel the need to beg him. 1 Like |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by ugofulfilled(m): 6:36am On Jul 24, 2020 |
emillysmigael: Ok. Thank you. I accepted her back which I think it's an expensive right thing to do. What do you advise that I do now. |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by LeoFish92(m): 7:15am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Angelinastto: By the way |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by hardyzah: 8:56am On Jul 24, 2020 |
Good day bro,I went through a situation similar to this your story but at the end I still be the champ,four years ago there was a girl I like in particular she worked in a supermarket,I expressed my feelings to her but for her to reply me in reasonable way if she didn't even agreed to date me she and her friends would just be embarrassing me and my colleagues anytime we passed their supermarket for over 6 monnth so I decided to go on my own way and not to pass in front of her working place again. Like a year later she is the only one left in the supermarket still working there because all her friends had gone on their own separate ways,so I used to go there buy some stuff even atimes I went there the way she would still attended to me were not normal that would lead to exchanging words sometimes. One night I thought she was in good mood so I asked her why didn't you being online like before on messenger and she replied me that she had been busy but she would came online that day,when I reached house I sat down in front of my house pressing my phone I checked my messenger I saw her online and chat her up she responded to me in a way that I liked,we talk about so many things and as we are doing that something just came to my mind telling to do it again so I gave it a try and used the medium to re-expressed my feelings and intentions to her and she replied me to met her the following day evening and I did that still said those words on her presence and she agreed to date me. On dating each other I detected some qualities and features that I have been wanted in a woman's life,we keep moving I presented her to my family and they gave me a go ahead,now the babe we are talking about is presently living under my roof and she had gave birth to a set of twins for me. Bro my I advice to you is that since you loved her since day one and perhaps her friends could be the source of the altitude she was given you back then,because for me I don't see any genuine reason for you to treat her bad for all what you said she did to you,you know how these our girls behave in the first place now and I think this is a pride for you because anytime you have any discussion that pattern to you guys past you will just remind her that does she remembers how she used to treated you but now she is now under your roof serving you breakfast before you go to work |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by krushdripper(m): 2:55pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
Mypeople2:We should just forgive & forget while they keep toying with our hearts & emotions like they have none? Now I dish them what they serve & some extra anytime possible, you should too & any other real guy reading. funny enough, it produces the result you were seeking with your so called love & care though those results don't even entice me any longer, they ain't worth shit to me anymore. |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by ToniBlaize: 12:22pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
But wait ooo... Do you know marrying her issa bigger disgrace to her? Think about it.... She, later marrying the same guy she said she will never let so close....who be the Dog wey go back go chop shit now?.... Think about it... You ain't the only one having funny feelings here... She may probably have to live with that for the rest of her life... And lets also talk fact...if you leave her..you will miss her... Leaving her will be a mistake, if ur other babe was any good you won't even have allowed her come in btw or so close to you...one way or the other, she's part of ur world now...and weada you like it or not, despite her imperfection or ur hate for her...The better Part of you still loves her,like really do.... If you let her go now... Chances re 6-12months later, you will end up being the one begging, offering to buy her lunch and taking her to dinner just to mend that bridge...You liked her from the onset, there's already one bridge, one Gap, You personally need to work on..if possible take therapy...don't make the mumu mistake of making it two bridges...Even God have forgiven you for worst..who come be you nah....�... let it go bro...You don't know what you have in her until you set her free...Love is not simple or Complex either...nah we dey make am that complicated... Nothing good comes easy,chances are if she didn't get to fall for you the hard way, you both won't have been here... Then she was childish,Now it ur turn to be matured,there's no guarantee that whoever comes next won't do worst,and it even becomes bad when you have settled down with such a person...So why not go with a devil you can actually relate with? For the fact that you can still remember the good times,and the first times...shows you love her...nah ur stubborn nature no wan gree... She break ur TV? She break ur glass door?? She don slap you b4?? She fight you for public?she pursue ur bro or mama comot for house? Bro those re the kinda women some men sleep next to everynight and still say i love you the following morning.... I don't see anything wrong marrying this babe if she don repent...some scenerio re just a stepping stone to something great.... If she no digrace you now...may be you for never discover ur actual worth...just saying�� 1 Like |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by chyket(m): 9:21pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Chisomhustler:I wanted to respond to this but realised that you seem to still be an undergraduate and coincidentally I left the University in 1992 so I understand where you are coming from. 1 Like |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by efeteb: 5:35pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Tonyblaize and Hardyzah thanks for your matured opinion. Most people feel that life is only in one direction but they forget its give and take. Some persons are just here to express their frustrations as advice when they are still eating ''mama thank you''. Life is beyond the rantings of exurberant teenagers that feels they understand life because they are privy to data and can type. My guy man up. You will look back at this post someday and smile. |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by efeteb: 5:41pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
ekaF: I can see you only read what I wrote to reply me, not to understand what I said. |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by ekaF(f): 11:24pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
efeteb: I understand why you would think so. What a lot of you men forget is that we women are very manipulative and selfish. I know two people that have gone through something similar. They were warned, these guys made excuses for the ladies thinking that they had changed. today one is divorced and they other is separated despite the fact that there are children involved. Hopefully you now understand why I'm so passionate about things like things. |
Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by Magnoliaa(f): 1:57pm On Jun 01, 2021 |
Found it. Poco, I swear, you are a. Lmaooooo. Alfa mail, alfa mail, na who you wan con marry? Naija girl.
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Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by rockog: 8:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
DaddyRochie1642:My advice to you is, though I don't know how to say it or to express it. But you need to seriously and passionately superficially and in conclusion try and powerfully and completely. Sey u understand now. Stick to my advice. Thank you |
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