SoNature:
Pope Francis didn't ask the priest to start wedding gay couples. He simply said they are free to bless them because everyone deserves God's blessings and he hopes that would make them change their ways. People should stop distorting facts.

Yea. Everybody deserves GOD's blessings. Everybody including mass murderers like Hitler, Ghengis Khan, Idi Amin, Pol Pot, Joseph Stalin etc. What a stupid statement to make. Blessing people in their obvious sin does not make them change rather it encourages them to continue down the path they are on. Blessing people in their obvious sin tell them they are being accepted as they are and that they do not necessarily need to deal with their sin. What the Catholic church should be doing is preaching against governments that are encouraging this behavior and telling the world of the dangers of such a lifestyle and tasking their exorcists with the responsibility of helping these folks heal from their disease.

SoNature:


Believe whatever you like, but one thing is certain: Catholic Churches won't unite gay couples in holy matrimony.

...but you are blessing the people involved in the act...thereby endorsing it...endorsing an abomination. An abomination that led to the destruction of an entire city. What the Catholics should be doing is sending gay folks to their exorcists for deliverance instead of granting them blessings. The Catholic church is sustaining these ailing people in their sickness and disease by granting them blessings.

Antoeni:


https://punchng.com/same-sex-marriage-catholic-teaching-doesnt-change-bishops/

Always cunningly endorsing evil. From literally asking Mary to pray for them to now granting blessings to outright abominations. From monetizing penance, hiding the Holy Scriptures as the Latin Vulgate, criminalizing the existence of the Bible in other languages, obscuring the teachings of the Bible to slaughtering dissenting Christians and scientists, the Roman Catholic church has done it all.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

Oga move your mother and your sister to live with you and the boys. They are boys. They need a father figure in their lives. If your mother is not widowed then ask your sister to come live you and take care of the boys pending when you find a partner that will support you. Oga in your search for a partner don't go and bring the woman that will kill all your children ohh. Shine your eyes ohh. Na fake full outside now ohh.

Hello. Are you still into wooden ceiling business? If yes then I need your professional advice. My apartment is rented and it has a ceiling (not decking). The ceiling is made of a thin material and its insulation is quite bad because it allows a lot of heat in during the day. The landlord will not have me alter his house significantly so whatever I install must be removable with little damage to his property. How can I install a wooden ceiling without removing the old ceiling? Can this be done? I need your advice.

We should be wary when doing large transactions. People seem to have found lapses in our criminal justice system that allow them perpetrate financial crime.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXAKD0TCQnU?si=agrdAI5hH2oOnCfU

Jennyclay:
Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!

You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love . You foolish men must be joking!!

I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!

Shior!!

Aunty!!!! Chai. You are so bitter. This bitterness is worse that cancer ohh. You need the LORD Jesus in your life oh. You said if you can't get "enough" money, sex and true love from your man. How much is ever enough? Will your greedy heart remain faithful to your man if he is giving you 1 million dollars per month but another suitor is proposing 10 million dollars per month? Will your hungry hole be satisfied and faithful if your man give you an orgasm within 2 hours of non-stop sex when another man is proposing to give you 5 orgasms within the same stretch of 2 hours? You say you want "enough" love? What does that even mean? If your man loves you enough to lay his life for you and eventually does so will you remain single for the rest of your life in loyalty and faithfulness to the man who sacrificed his life for you?

You know deep down in your depraved soul that the answer to all 3 questions is a resounding: No! But here you are vomiting bile because an unfaithful lady was caught. You ladies have no reason to cheat at any point in time. If a man isn't good enough for you tell him and end the relationship and then move to the next man but instead greedy souls will go into another relationship without ending their current relationship. Just like the stupid girl in the video you are supporting if she wanted to go to hotel with a man it's her choice but she should first end her relationship but ladies like you are always easily deceived into wanting the best of all worlds.

Miravik900:
I’m literally obsessed with this girl but she just rejected me is just so sad cuz I have fantasized a lot about us together 😢

Very good. I am happy for you. It is a good thing that your crush crushed your fantasy. If she didn't dump your obsessive ass and she realized you are stuck on her she would have exploited your head until you open your eyes.

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,

Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.

A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%

I don't think it is fair to paint every lady in her 30s with the same brush and you must know that there are some 25 year old ladies that already have the history of a typical 30 year old lady...but there are some core truths in your post. If a lady is not ready to be open with her past leave her immediately. Relationships are contracts that are made with full disclosure and if you think your past is too ugly to be known then remain single. Nobody holy pass and no matter how ugly your past is there is someone out there willing to work with you if you are willing to cooperate.

Any professionals with expertise in this area should please suggest a solution. How can I insulate the walls (internally) and ceiling from the outdoo heat. It's affecting me badly.

Trailblazer93:

Hope have gotten. I also need a selfcon in Sabon gari. Anybody that can be of help

I got the apartment in BUK New Site area. @amokeme assist this dude with finding an apartment in Sabon Gari.

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PoliteActivist:


The question is why so many failed marriages and relationships these days. Number one culprit is social media. Not only in terms of trying to hide, but also comparisons of all types, misunderstandings, seeming easy availablility of better alternatives, etc. Marriages on the brink that could have survived before, social media will guarantee they fail.

*Politeness*

If you know your role you will not compare yourself with someone else. Wetin consign steering wheel with brake. Many men and women don't know what they are supposed to be doing in a marriage. It is said that when purpose is not known abuse is inevitable. Social media is just a catalyst and not a cause. Those whose marriage are going fine also have social media accounts and it has been a tool for enhancement for them but those whose marital foundations are already weak due to a lack of understanding of the purpose of marriage and their role within it will easily fail to sustain their marriage. Before social media became a thing marriages were failing. Many of our mothers and fathers who didn't have access to social media basically endured their marriage rather than enjoying it.

PoliteActivist:




You people forget the most obvious reason:
SOCIAL MEDIA!!!
How many times have we read "I went through his/her whatsapp or timeline or emails" ??

*Politeness*

If husband and wife know their role and the purpose of marriage they will not have social media accounts that contain incriminating material. As for me I don't have secrets as far as my wife is concerned and she doesn't as far as I am concerned. She has access to my phone and she knows my history so I have nothing to hide same as me. I nor dey find wetin nor lost and she too nor dey find wetin nor lost. We good. But when you marry community borehole or you marry cheerful giver then you have to worry about what is going on on their devices.

The fast paced nature of modern life isn't the problem. The problem is the erosion of an understanding of the purpose of marriage, the role of a husband and the role of a wife. Many ladies get married for the sake of getting married, as an bridge to financial security or for the sake of having children while men often get married for looks, sex and/or financial support. These flimsy reasons will not hold couples together when they eventually start getting in each other's way. So many either endure as a result of social backlash or they damn the consequences and divorce.

Lukepeter:

The idea is knowing who to be wicked, nice and warm to.

You can't be wicked to everyone, it doesn't make sense; but there are those who you just have to fake loyalty to. Guy no be everything dem go teach you, use your head.

If you have to fake loyalty then you are wicked. Wickedness also includes eye service, fake niceness and fake friendliness. Not all wickedness involve direct and short term harm, some wickedness involve indirect and long term harm. So the OP is technically right. Snakes are more respected than dogs. Fear is more powerful than love. Jesus loves us so we deny Him, reject Him, postpone Him, abuse Him, curse Him, joke about Him, use His name anyhow and do whatever we like but dem no born your papa well make you go insult Ogun or Amadioha for their shrine because you know sey these ones nor get joy...dem bin wan use you for sacrifice before, you come go insult them. From frying pan to stomach.

1nice:

You are wrong.
I am fighting the right battle.
I don't patronize prostitutes, I am speaking against the menace called prostitution; which have cause many to become useless and foolish.

Nobody tells the doctor how to treat his patients, so you can not tell me what to fight for and what not to fight for, except you are busy body that put your mouth on matter that does not concern you.

What is stopping you for fighting for education and price control?

On the contrary doctors do consult with other experienced doctors and take advice regarding how to treat patients particularly when the ailment is a tricky or strange one like the battle you want to fight. Yes, prostitution is a big problem in our society but you cannot win the battle by fighting prostitutes directly. You have to ask what is propelling them into the industry. A lady that has good education, was brought up in a good home and has social capital can easily work at a job where she earns hundreds of thousands of dollars per annum. Who doesn't want to punch a few keys on a keyboard and earn ten thousand dollars per month? Who? Most of the ladies in this profession are there because of the socio-economic choices they were offered. Yes, there are ladies that will do prostitution whether they had a choice or not but we must first clear out the conditions that could force a lady into this dark profession before we launch an all out attack on prostitution directly. This should also be the same for other underground industries like drug dealing, cyber fraud, ritual killing, kidnapping, robbery etc.

Kipaji:
The price of condoms in the market increased and the demand has now reduced.
Prof. Guobe is concerned with the negative externalities on society at large. According to him, this increase in price will yield an increase in the proportion of unsafe in the populace. This could significantly increase the rate of STDs, unwanted pregnancy, and paternity fraud out there.

Prof. Guobe, what can be done to solve this problem? Would you suggest an intervention of the government? Do you think the market (the buyers and sellers) can solve it on its own? Or do you have a third alternative?

There are other factors not being considered. Many believe only single ladies do this olosho business but many married women are also into this. Married women even seem to be more interesting supplier these days because men expect that married women will be wary of getting STDs considering that there is a high possibility of her being caught and she doesn't want to be caught. Unwanted pregnancy due to sex without protection will only be an issue when the married woman decides to get pregnant for whatever reasons best known to her and this will usually come at little to no cost to those who patronize them. Plus men also expect that this set of married women already have a fool, their husband, who is providing for her basic needs and hence such women tend to substitute more leisure for sex work. So, as the price of condoms and sex rise due to the hardship, inflation and exchange rate depreciation, one of the implications of this is that more promiscuous men may substitute more married women and porn for single women in the olosho industry and remain on their currently satisfactory level of utility. The social implication of this dynamic is too mind boggling to visualize.

guobe:
As I went to buy paracetamol at the chemist which cost two hundred naira,my attention was caught by the price of condom and I could not hesitate but snap it.
Condoms are now being sold at 2500,5000 and 7000 naira a pack.
I was like alot of guys will go raw if they are not able to afford it.
Having sex in Nigeria is now very expensive especially for promisquos men.
The breakdown of expenses include condom 3,000,hotel 20,000,olosho fee 50,000,food and drinks 10,000 naira.Total 93,000 naira .
Promisquos men will learn and they will learn the hard way.

You are forgetting that there is another side to this dirty coin. If the demand for olosho drops, the price of olosho too has to drop. Plus you must also know that while the demand for olosho is elastic the supply is inelastic and that is bad news for olosho suppliers. Promiscuous men can always fall back on porn and the millions of exotic women that post their nudes online. So the availability of this substitute makes the demand for olosho elastic and if this demand declines badly the ladies of the night will be forced into other unsafe and uncharted underground industries. Poverty is powerful.

LoveUdie:
1. If you value your health and you want to live long and have a happy home, let your wife always win an argument. Trust me, it's the shortcut I know to peace of mind! Where there is no wood (fuel), the fire goes out!

2. Stop trying to figure out your wife or understand why she does what she does. It's a waste of precious time. Remember that you (Adam) were put to sleep while she (Eve) was being produced? How can you try to understand a piece of equipment that wasn't assembled in your presence?

3. Marriage is about ACCEPTANCE, not tolerance. Make your marriage relationship-driven, not performance-driven. She was NOT created in your image. Stop projecting YOU onto her. Show her the need for change through leadership, not coercion.

4. While a man is rational, the woman is emotional. One (the man) processes via his head, and the other processes things through her heart (emotions). One thinks things through, the other feels her way through things. Facts drive you. Intuition drives her. What she can't FEEL, she doesn't SEE!

5. When sex becomes a weapon, a duty, or an entitlement, it loses its very essence, LOVE-MAKING. It simply becomes another chore like dishwashing which nobody looks forward to doing! Play with her. Flirt with her. Serenade her. Hug. Cuddle. Hold hands. Surprise her. Blow gently into her ears while she is cooking or while you are watching a movie together. Be spontaneous. Being a king-kong overlord in "ze oza room" and puffing and panting like a worn-out locomotive while she wonders what just happened can only lead to frustration. Remember, it is never about the size of the weapon but the fury of the attack! (Decode that!)

6. Go out often. Make regular, unscheduled date nights. Take a bath together. Make room for movie nights together either at home or at the cinema.

7. Remember that ONLY THE TWO OF YOU started the journey together and when the children have jumped the nest, only the two of you will remain. So, keep the bond ALL THE WAY and never drop the ball

8. Impregnate her with VISION. Allow her to dream too. Every woman loves a man working towards a future in which she can feature. Remember, a woman simply means "womb man". She always wants something to incubate and nourish. You give her a seed, and she incubates it and turns it into a baby for you

9. She is your wife, companion, and confidant, not a washing machine, cook, or slave. You can't wear her out with chores all day and expect to 'ride' a functional "bicycle" all night! Impossible! Partners help partners by giving a helping hand where needed, even without being told.

10. Love is not 50/50. It is 100%. God didn't say to love your wife when she is submissive. It simply says to love her as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.

11. Be PRESENT. Don't be at home married to your computer, football game, or your phone for that matter. Listen when she wants to talk. Even when you don't know what to contribute to the discourse, you will soon discover that all she wanted was for you to listen. Your opinion may not even count!

12. If both of you are born again children of God, you are SIBLINGS!!! You have the same Father and the same Father-in-law, GOD!!! Ever thought of that? Treat your wife with the dignity you would accord your blood sister. If you are fond of disgracing your wife in public and calling her all sorts of unprintable names, remember, it wasn't God who named EVE. He created a woman, and Adam gave her a name. Whatever you call your wife, that is what she will reflect on you. If you call your wife a Jezebel, we need to check if your middle name isn't Ahab! Call her your Queen and she will make you her crown! It takes one to find one! When you see the glory of your Father in her, you will be a great Son-in-law too! A wife you don't honour cannot bring honour to.... https://www.gistreal.ng/2023/11/12-decisions-to-make-before-you-marry.html?m=1

Number 1 is madness. Dear married men. Winning or losing argument is nothing. Being right is everything. If you wife is wrong tell her she is wrong and if you are wrong be humble enough to acknowledge that you are wrong. A woman that will not accept that she is wrong is not a wife but a knife.

Number 2 is the height of madness. Dear married men. You must know what your wife is doing and why at any point in time. Adam failed to know what his wife Eve was doing and why at the critical point in time when she was being deceived, so he decided to join her in her stupidity and today the whole world is f00ked because of his negligence.

On number 3, marriage is neither about acceptance nor about tolerance rather it is about complementarity. If you accept your wife, you will accept her shenanigans which can put the whole house in trouble. Tolerating her will build up resentment. This is why before you think of marrying a lady be sure that she is headed in the same direction as you, she complements you, she fits you, she is compatible with your goals and aspirations and she is a core input in your decision function else you go chop suffering like suya.

Number 4 is not a rule you should apply rigidly. Men's rationality and women's emotion aren't binary rather they exist in a continuum. Some men are more rational than other men and some men and more emotional than others. Same for women. Some women can be more emotional than other women and some women can be more rational than other women. This is why complementarity is key in a marriage. You must know your spouse and know how well he or she fits in your life. If your wife is an extreme rational thinker you will do well to factor her into every decision you make and if your wife is extremely emotional you want to consider her guidance with respect to the ethics of your decisions.

On number 5, dear married men, you must know that life will not always be rosy. The OP is just painting fairy tales. Shey na pessin wey just dey return from island to ikorodu after 8 hours a day, 6 days a week, of hectic work with just one meal will have the time for flirting, seduction bla bla bla. Let's face reality. It will not always be rosy. Again, this is why complementarity is key in every marriage. If you marry the bone of your bones, a woman that complements you, she will understand the sacrifice you are making to keep the home running and fine tune her sexuality to provide you with some succor.

On number 6, yes bonding is very essential but do not only bond in the sweet things of life alone, as the OP may suggest, rather bond in the difficult things of life as well. Share your pains, share your worries, share your insecurities, share your wounds, share your past, share your scars, share your faults and share your weaknesses. If your spouse can enjoy date nights in a fancy hotel she should also be there to be a buffer when the chips are down or else she is just another gold-digger.

Number 7 is spot on.

Number 8 should be number 1. Very vital.

Number 9 needs context. One could also say the man is not an ATM machine and the woman should lend a helping hand without being told. In-lieu of what the OP said, I would recommend that both the man and women identify areas where they can support the family and put in their best. If as a woman you can manage the home then do so ungrudgingly and with a sense of purpose and if you get support from your man, all well and good, but don't abdicate your responsibility. Same can be said of the man. As a man, if you can work and generate income for the family, then do so ungrudgingly and with a sense of purpose. If you get support from your wife, all well and good, but don't abdicate your responsibility.

Number 10 needs context. There is an interesting verse of scripture that fits this point: Obey them that have the rule over you and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you (Hebrews 13: 17). Husbands, if you love 100% be sure to marry a lady that submits 100% because if you love 100% and she does not submit 100% you will consistently be fed with grief and your leadership with grief will not be profitable to your spouse or your family. So dear married man, if you are a husband indeed that loves unconditionally, be sure to marry a woman that submits. If she is not ready to commit to total submission then end that relationship.

Number 11 is true. Dedicate time to your spouse and be sure to involve her in your daily routine so that she does not demand of you what you cannot provide.

There is a hidden lie in number 12. If you marry Jezebel she will remain Jezebel no matter how many times you call her Mary the mother of Jesus. If you marry Olosho will be exhibit Olosho vibes continuously even if you keep calling her daughter of Zion. A little leaven leavens the whole lump. Evil communication corrupts good manners. Many men who beat their wives today were made so by the kind of wife they married. Some women can transform an angel into a demon. Don't marry a public toilet and expect she will be your mansion. A Christian sister will not act in a manner that would warrant her husband calling her unprintable names in the public. A Christian sister will not conduct herself in a manner that reminds you of Jezebel. Don't marry Delilah for she will make you a laughing stock before your enemies. Beware of strange women hiding in churches. Their mouth drip with honey and her tongue is as smooth as oil. It is he who hates his own soul that makes the mistake of marrying such women.

Beuberry:
Which kind skit be this?
They even put soundtrack there like Ghanaian movies! 😂
Life's not that hard. The man should see she's now remorseful and he should forgive.
Afterall guys too cheat. That bachelor's eve or night they do, isn't it to fornicate & have sex with their ex?

Is it by force to marry man that cheated with his ex the night before the wedding? It is not by force na. She went to do send-off to the last importer-exporter as a caring after-sales service provider forgetting that her husband-to-be does not eat leftover food. She should go and look for that importer-exporter and continue providing her customer care services.

Obolor123454:
NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

For goodness sake, she is your wife not your unquestionable boss, right? Call her and ask her: (1) whose wedding is she attending? (2) Why is this wedding important for her to attend? (3) How is the person, whose wedding she want to attend, related to her? (4) Where is the exact location of the wedding? (5) What is/are the contact details of the celebrant she knows? (5) How long will she be staying at the location of the wedding? (6) Who is footing the hotel and feeding bills that she will incur if she stays at the venue of the wedding for more than a day? (7) Why did she pick your brother to accompany her and not someone else within her extended family? (8 ) Who is she leaving the kids with and can that person be trusted?

After getting answers to these questions make your decision regarding whether to support her attending the wedding or not. All of this information is not only relevant for accountability but also for security purposes. Remember that if harm comes to your kids or your wife as a result of your negligence or abdication of your role as a leader, you will be held accountable.

Obolor123454:
NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

For goodness sake, she is your wife not your unquestionable boss, right? Call her and ask her: (1) whose wedding is she attending? (2) Why is this wedding important for her to attend? (3) How is the person, whose wedding she want to attend, related to her? (4) Where is the exact location of the wedding? (5) What is/are the contact details of the celebrant she knows? (5) How long will she be staying at the location of the wedding? (6) Who is footing the hotel and feeding bills that she will incur if she stays at the venue of the wedding for more than a day? (7) Why did she pick your brother to accompany her and not someone else within her extended family? ( Who is she leaving the kids with and can that person be trusted?

After getting answers to these questions make your decision regarding whether to support her attending the wedding or not. All of this information is not only relevant for accountability but also for security purposes. Remember that if harm comes to your kids or your wife as a result of your negligence or abdication of your role as a leader, you will be held accountable.

Maynman:
.that's sad.

But does he not have enough grace or your god just didn't want to save him?

He will eventually die one way or the other just as other martyrs before him. The death of the flesh is not what you should be worried about rather it is the second death, the dumping of your soul in the lake of fire, that you should be wary of.

Jeux:
I just read a post on romance section and it got me wondering if a school cert holder can be said to be educated .

Yes. Education is in your thoughts, words and deeds not on a piece of paper. If you need an example, study the life of Srinivasa Ramanujan.

Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.


Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.



The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.





I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.

With these few points of your, you have successfully proven that you are a competent idiot. Your idiocy is big, strong and reliable.

Life is much harder right now. I just got a report from our data collectors who lodged in an LGA provided lodge that their apartment was burgled and the burglars stole electrical fitting (sockets, wire, junction box etc). People are desperate. In 2001 Olu Maintain, in his song "Alo Alo", lamented about the price of fuel, 40 naira per liter. He, in his song, claimed people were suffering. Now the price is 600+ naira per liter. If people were suffering when it was 40 naira per liter then it means people are dying in droves as we speak. I was told that a person resigned his job citing in his resignation letter than his transport fare has taken up almost all of his salary so it doesn't make sense to keep working. If you are living in Ikorodu and working on the Island and you have to budget like 2k for transport to and fro. If you add 1k feeding to that money and do this for 5 days a week, 4 weeks in a month you would have blown 60k by month end. That is someone's salary.

As a Christian I believe in funding the progress of the church through church leaders but these days we need to turn our attention to our neighbors and those who falling behind due to the hardship. Let us be conscious of those around us that are suffering and help them with that seed. What some people need is just food stuff and charcoal to feed themselves and their children.

Our politicians are heartlessly evil. Yet some idiots will troop out to vote for a narcissist that will never feel their pain when the chips are down. We can bypass our politicians and reach out to those who are losing hope.

I wish there was a system to identify and reach those who are struggling so that well meaning Nigerians can reach out to them and render some help.

May GOD make it lighter for us all.

Jewessgratitud3:
A man has planned to run away from his wife and baby after he was seen pricing baby food and diaper and started sweating inside AC after he discovered the prices.

He called his family members right away blaming them for forcing him to marry, that now he's the one facing the heat and none of them is here to help him out.

Now check out the phone the man is using, not up to 4k. Check out his shirt and trousers.. is that the person you think can afford that kind of food? I'm not trying to degrade him. I'm just trying to say, make sure you can comfortably cater for yourself and one more person before going into marriage. This is exactly what the so many men who abandoned their family passed through before deciding to take to their heels.

Marriage is a beautiful thing. let's stop making it look scary and undesirable with our myopic approach. Do it when the time is right not for public commendation or validation cos when you start facing the heat, non of those people cheering you on will come and help you like the man rightly said.

It is this kind of thinking that will keep many many women single forever. More and more men are beginning to realize that women are only useful for making babies and hence if you must marry you must be financially buoyant enough to finance catering for yourself, a woman and a baby. Marriage is not just for populating a society. Marriage is primarily for providing support. If a woman is not willing to be an agent of progress in your life then marrying her will be the greatest, most foolish, mistake you can ever make. Stop marrying curses. Marry blessings. There are many curses walking around with round firm boobs and thick juicy butts with slim waste and nice oval face with full lips.

chxe:
It’s not even a year we handed the country over to a certain tribe and they have turned everything upside down. Very soon everyone would know that the Igbo man is not the problem of this country.

There is no country anywhere remember. As far as the Igbos are concerned there is no Nigeria but there is Ebonyi, Abia, Imo, Enugu and Anambra and I assure you that Igbos are the worst enemies of the Igbos. Na una dey do una sef. Na una dey collect statutory allocation and na the same una dey squander the money.

Racoon:
https://punchng.com/nef-raises-concern-over-state-of-judiciary/

"Recent controversial court judgements pose risk to democracy" - NEF
https://tribuneonlineng.com/recent-controversial-court-judgements-pose-risk-to-democracy-nef/

Imagine these old fools. When the judiciary was used as a weapon to favor them they were as quiet as a cemetery but now that it is the turn of another conman to manipulate the judiciary they are here spouting nonsense. You better calm down and enjoy the market you have bought.

This position is still open. Interested candidates should reach out.

officialwdhtv:
Lady in shambles, after a Chevron-based big boy pretended like he had network problems and refused to pay for their date.

#wetindeyhappentv

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0mUvsSAHuWG2PdfsKouiJdUGZETBT55cyuZRUZ36FsM39e63QcYL4o1Mv5ZaNmQsl&id=100075815328460&mibextid=Nif5oz

Very stupid lady. You didn't feel comfortable going to a guy's house and you didn't refund the Uber money he sent you. What a stupid girl. I pity the stupid man that will marry you in this condition that you are in.