Kobojunkie:
same way I can call you out on your every attempts to use the name of God to sell what are your private delusions as His Truth, right?

If you accept that these ideas are yours then why the attempts to hide them behind the many mentions of God's name?,

Your feeble attempts are laughable you can call any thing any name but you cannot tell me how to construct my ideas.

armadeo:



You shouldn't always believe what you read. This is impossible for anyone to say so brazenly. I'm actually awaiting the rebuttal from the hospital management.

It would still get to FP.

Well, I am inclined to believe the victim. This kind of madness can happen in Nigeria and has happened multiple times.

AlphaWolf27:
Oga that one na husband and wife issue.

Whatever she does not know how to do easily before you marry her, she will not know how to do it easily after you marry her oh. If her ROI is negative before you marry her her ROI will not suddenly become 80% after marriage.

Kobojunkie:
1. You can add your thoughts and opinions without dragging God's mention down into that cesspool. .

I can drag the name of anyone provided the name is not yours, your father's or your relatives'. My ideas are my ideas and if you are not the person they are directed at you lack the moral high ground to decide how they should be crafted.

othermen:
Take advantage of the boy?? The boy took advantage of a sane environment. But I think it’s just terrible to cheer the family’s misfortune. The family could have erred, and their inactions or refusal to use their influence in the past, may have cost lives, that they should deserve our utter contempt- but we shouldn’t mock them nonetheless.

Of coz, they are likely to understate the consequences when discussing with him, but let us assume they didn’t and instead, they explained to the boy very well, what the long-term effects could be.

Of coz, there shouldn’t have been any monetary incentive, but I think many would be willing to support such a request, with cash or other supporting incentives. (A crime ??)

Let us assume, the family that needs a donor thought so too.
For the donor, could the monetary or other incentive be more propelling or compelling at the onset? Let us assume it was.

His kidney was going to be yanked, he wouldn’t give that without a promise for exchange of another reward. Let us assume the boy was naïve, and he was underpriced.

If he wasn’t underpriced, and the supposed donor wasn’t short on intelligence. Could the donor experience decisional regret? Of coz he could. In fact, recent studies on decisional regret among donors, indicate that younger age and lower education are predictors of regret.
So regret was an item and when it was time for the procedure, it became more stark. So stark, that the ‘affective’ theatrics couldn’t help; of coz, he knew that it was only because of the transplant, that anyone cared. Such reflection on the expectation of care can be sufficient to create an utter dissonance and complete turnabout.

After this, the Ekweremadu’s probably couldn’t keep him any longer, the promises of reward or the reward given were withdrawn; he is to return to wherever or whatever condition he was from, with his kidney. They were probably others as well, putting pressure on him, invested in all of it, with a rebuke for the boy.

So, what could he have done? Now, we know he is not likely returning to that condition he came from and he’s still got his kidney. In a year or two, his family would be with him in the UK.

Was Ekweremadu naïve and exploitative? Perhaps. Was he an organ trafficker? Then, he must be foolish as well to have decided to have the transplant in a standard hospital in the UK, and not in Iran or some shady place, where the donor’s consent is not required.

Errrrmmmm you realize that the location where the kidney was donated is the same location where the transplant will happen. The Ekwerenmadu's would not want an Iranian hack transplanting the kidney to their daughter's lungs so they chose the UK hoping to leverage a Nigerian doctor. I am sorry but Ekwerenmadu's deserve what hit them. The could have gone the official route and spent the actual amount of money required but they decided to cut corners and now they are in the corner that they cut for themselves.

AlphaWolf27:
Why must she have a conversation about his finances. Is her account better than his.

A good woman will enrich her man. The conversation will be about growing the penny in his bank account into a fortune.

Kobojunkie:
See as e enter storyland mode!

Op stop drinking the coolaid served up by these liars abeg! They enjoy using God's name to perpetrate lies with which they enslave others with. You have been a slave to religious meaninglessness for long enough. It is time you start living your life.

Everyone is a slave to their thoughts because all deeds stem of ideas and thoughts so you have practically said nothing. I have stated what I believe and I have added my belief to the pool of choices that is before the OP and I believe you have done the same. What I don't understand is your unwarranted and unrewarded belligerence towards my view points. Let the OP decide which idea or thought she will like to be a slave to because I can see you have already chosen a master.

ebukajay184:
A Nigerian man, Oghogho Sunday, has taken to social media to accuse a student doctor of causing the death of his wife during childbirth at a government-owned hospital in Edo state, IGBERETV reports.

A post he shared on Facebook read;



https://www.facebook.com/100008371326086/posts/pfbid02uh4YE4p62fGpc5wxyXopMJacUVcwvok1xjcGgL4sSyMZET8xZTeughr5feSmNJEHl/?app=fbl

https://igberetvnews.com/1444312/student-doctor-caused-womans-death-childbirth-edo-photos/

Righteousness exalts a nation but sin is a reproach to any people. When 80% - 90% of the people in the land are negligent, careless, lack morals, disregard ethics, uphold profit above all else, pervert justice, lie, steal, wicked, unruly and without conscience there is no evil that will be lacking in such a land. Imagine a doctor reporting his gross negligence and boldly telling a victim that he can never get justice. Nigerians are the architect of their own sorrows. A land of impunity, evil, lies and utter wickedness. A land filled with people who claim they believe in GOD but are capable of evils that will shock atheists to the marrow. So sad.

HanisahZuwy:
It has been like that even before I broke my virginity and I just broke my virginity recently, even though I regret it. So, I don't think that's the cause.

Check your state of mind. If you are being stressed it could age you fast.

HanisahZuwy:
I don't know why I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.

The stress from too many joysticks can make a woman age faster. Getting pregnant and aborting multiple times will age you faster. Living the fast life, drinking alcohol, smoking weed and generally having a toxic attitude can age you faster.

Banbulu:

Oh yes. Who you send money to as a man determines your self esteem. If you frequently send money to tissue papers like the lady in the picture you lack self esteem but if you send money to worthy women of character you are a business man.

Bvlgari:
Ladies...You asked your guy for 50k & he gives you his ATM card to go withdraw, then you find 60k in his account.

How much will you withdraw?

https://www.instagram.com/p/Crwnvq6PQ6S/?igshid=ZWIzMWE5ZmU3Zg==

A wise lady will withdraw nothing and have a deep conversation with him about his finances but a stupid lady will withdraw the whole 60k dump his ATM card in the dustbin and move on to the next victim.

Prestar:



SOURCE https:///lady-weeps-bitterly-consumes-bullet-after-her-boyfriend-served-her-breakfast/

The breakfast must flow...she must have dished breakfast to others so let the breakfast flow make everybody get sense.

mankan2k7:
As far as it is not happening in Nigeria, it is okay.

Dude have you heard of nuclear winter? E go reach us last last.

Aonkuuse:




https://dailytrust.com/kaduna-electric-how-soldiers-beat-up-our-staff-over-disconnection-of-kebbi-barracks/

Total animals. Imagine the animalistic response. If you knew it was dangerous to leave the barracks in darkness why didn't you pay up or revert to prepaid billing after all electricity must have been budgeted for in the federal budget. Imagine animals. They believe everything must be resolved by violence. No strategy, no self respect, no honor...just plain animals in uniform with gun. No wonder they sit and watch the country being plundered by politicians. Their mates in the 60s would have initiated a coup but the army has been reduced to a herd of animals with an IQ of 10.

nkemjacob2:
Tell us how you feel. Do you like your current job

Work is disutility. I just wish I could just happen on 10 million dollars pere...I go rest for 1 year fest.

Campee98:
There's this girl I met about a year ago in school, we became good friends, I helped her out a lot whenever there was need.
Some of my friends thought we were romantically attached.....
But we were not... Besides, the girl always said she is not gonna date yet, and she is this holy gal.

There was a day she came to meet me, and she saw another girl with me....
She kinda got angry, and said I shouldn't be getting to be with a gal in a private place so as to avoid fornicating, that's how she said it....

But I kinda valued the advice, but it wasn't easy keeping to what she said...

So, she also met me with anoda gal again....
So she kinda flared up, refused to talk to me, told her friend about it, soon, rumours were spreading about me( am a guy that is generally popular), very soon, she called me and adviced me again........

But since then, she has always been saying I hurt her, but has never told me what I did....

Sometimes later, we fell out with each other, and any time she had the opportunity, she always kinda attacked me verbally and behaved as if I was her sworn enemy......
But I didn't mind all that... ...
I just can't keep grudges.

So recently, she has suddenly been behaving kinda friendly, and even sent me happy birthday wishes during my birthday ....

What do you think this gal wants??

She is blurring the lines of the boundary between you and her so that she can play your head like ludo. Ladies exploit men who do not or cannot clearly demarcate boundaries. You have to let her know the facts that (1) you two are not in a relationship (2) she has no right to police you (3) you see her as a friend since that is how she sees you too. The moment you define boundaries, the schemes fall apart. She will immediately realize that she either comes clean with her intentions or stop her shenanigans. This rubbish behavior is a tactic to keep an insurance policy just in case her green-lighting a superior guy does not succeed. She can date without getting sexual and she can court without getting sexual. Don't let any lady use you as an insurance policy.

Funkyswagzz:
Its about 3 months i broke up with my ex so i decided to go on adventure to find another lady i want to call my girlfriend. So i had to connect with more than 5 different girls locally and outside my state. So far i have invited 5 girls to my house that i like within this month of April. Out of those five girls i decided to pick 2 that are good march to me. Basically i though about how I've spent so from April 2 to 29 and i came up with roughly 130k. To some it might not be much but i think it was worth it cos i found two beautiful souls i will choose to marry. I cant put my eggs in one basket again and this time i will make it snappy cos theres no time to waste. By August or September i will propose to one of them. Guy wish me luck🤞🤞

Investor! I hope you know that as you have decided to not put all your eggs into a basket, those ladies may be playing the same strategy on you. You may be the second, third, fourth, tenth or twentieth guy on their list. Small time "beautiful souls" go turn to "fear woman ohh, fear woman, I fear who no fear woman".

Sunnyshinylight:
MouthAction is now the leading risk factor for throat cancer

Over the past two decades, there has been a rapid increase in throat cancer in the west, to the extent that some have called it an epidemic. This has been due to a large rise in a specific type of throat cancer called oropharyngeal cancer (the area of the tonsils and back of the throat). The main cause of this cancer is the human papillomavirus (HPV), which are also the main cause of cancer of the cervix. Oropharyngeal cancer has now become more common than cervical cancer in the US and the UK.

HPV is sexually transmitted. For oropharyngeal cancer, the main risk factor is the number of lifetime sexual partners, especially MouthAction. Those with six or more lifetime oral-sex partners are 8.5 times more likely to develop oropharyngeal cancer than those who do not practise MouthAction.

https://theconversation.com/oral-sex-is-now-the-leading-risk-factor-for-throat-cancer-204063

Den go hear. After wrecking their lives they will now be looking for one decent man to marry. After slurping over countless rods that have been dipped in countless latrines they will now be looking for the nzuzu that will pay bride price for rubbish. May GOD deliver this generation.

kyber:
So a friend of mine introduced me to this mad combo for bedmatics omo I doubted at first but I decided to give it a try since my Padi no go lie give me.

I used it and my girl was begging me to stop,I thought she wanted me to continue omo this girl bit me o.
She was sore and she left . So I had to go carry okpo just to release.

I got one okpo Sha so I paid her for part time, after much talk and do and sucking and knacking I finally cum after 45minutes .

Ladies and gentlemen that is my testimony

Pictures below

One idiot go try this nonsense na...before you know it e go turn "fufu and milk" challenge. May GOD deliver this generation.

Testiebobo:
Most tribes in Nigeria demands that a man should be older than is spouse(wife), in order for d man to gain respect from his wife. But in my own case, am seriously in love with a very pretty lady that is 5years older than me, and am ready to spend the rest of life with her. But my culture does not support dat even my family. And dis lady is very loving, beautiful, sexy and a great cook etc. And I can't afford to lose her. Pls what can I do?

What you call "very loving" could just be passions. Beautiful? Beauty is vain. Sexy? There are hundreds of thousands of ladies out there that are super sexy. Great cook until she moves in as a wife and starts complaining about how tired she is and why you should get a cook. See as e dey sweet you. You go marry based on sexiness, beauty and cooking and return here to lament about one thing or the other. Team Hakimi.

IyaTola:
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He needs to go for deliverance ohh. Serious deliverance. This is what should have happened before he married the lady. She needs to be separated from her spiritual family or else things will get worse than it currently is.

All these one sided stories that lack the full context could be misleading. We need to hear from the other side.

Dogalmighty17:
I am the Lord DogAlmighty. Let me make a suggestion to you. Your wife is not around. She will not be for some months. You have an empty house. Should the house stay lonely?

Lo! Behold. Right in your locality are areas where you can access some daughters of Eve. Bring them home and provide them shelter for the night. They will also keep you company. Whatever happens between you people will be added benefit. A man takes advantage of every opportunity. Use this time wisely.

See demon that crawled out from the pit of hell.

AsomStructures:


Even the bible said its not good for a man to be alone... God knew that a man would need a companion that's why he made women. Omo see en we need to celebrate these women especially the good/submissive ones

Seconded bro. We really need to celebrate, reward and honor our good wives. They over deserve it. In a world where 7 out of 10 ladies are marine spirits you need to celebrate the 30% that are good and submissive. This would encourage more ladies learn from the few.

doggedfighter:


I agree 💯 with you that the lecturer is absolutely wrong.

But in Nigeria justice is hard to get reason my parents will always tell us to try as much as possible

to avoid things that will put you in some kind of situation because things that are easy to get in many places are hard fought battles here.

I hope you understand my position.

I am female and will never support assault.

Very correct. It's sad though that it is this way in our country.

mrrandomguy:
In general, the option of divorce makes men and women, especially independent women to be more irresponsible in marriage.

That's is why in my journey to find a spouse I was wary of ladies who had divorce as an option of first resort. The problem is most men and women don't discuss with their intended spouses. They get carried away by the romance, outings, etc and they judge their intended spouses based on their romantic experience and not insights from real discussions.

doggedfighter:
I am happy seeing the comfortable seats they're seated on . It's a rare sight in our universities.

All the students are still wearing their uniforms wonder what she went to do and why she doesn't have her's on. Why appear in mufti at that time ?


Looks like it's medical sciences.
Uniformity creates order and discipline. Rules must be obeyed and ethics adhered to.

Agreed most students can test your patience but then on the part of the lecturer there are better ways to handle this issue.

Slapping shouldn't be part of it.

We are too physically abusive as a people.

Assault comes too easy for us especially when in position of authority.

It's a sad !!

But it is so wrong. A uniform can be changed with ease but the traumatic effects of physical abuse may not be addressed easily. This man is not academic at all. He is just another frustrated being venting on an errant student and he should be disciplined for his toutish behavior. Only criminals and touts use physical violence to address issues when there are other approved disciplinary measures.

Kobojunkie:
1. (1) Abeg stop using God's name to deceive the OP. All the many people in your churches (2) who believe they had their so-called purpose in life figured out yet still ended up married to monsters in marriage-- Osinachi comes to mind-- nko? She set as provider and Helper and world heard how she became food for worms before her old age.

(1) It is none of your business how I use God's name. There are many out there using God's name as they please for purposes noble and ignoble. We all will be judged for our positions so please before you attempt to mark my script let God mark it first because He set the exam. Stop making a fool of yourself and quit your ad hominem culture when you cannot properly fault opposing thoughts.

(2) You rushed to bring up the Osinachi case but in your puerile hastiness you did not hightlight that she remained in the marriage after several attempts by friends and family to get her out of the marriage. She remained in that marriage by choice and her fate was her choice. And when your fate is your choice, I don't call or see that as a tragedy. In your foolish haste you also did not prove that Osinachi had a purpose. Anyone can sing and be a worship leaders, it does not make it a purpose for her. You don't know Osinachi and I can guess that she did not divulge to you how she defined purpose for herself.

(3) Op, no dey let these ignorant folks deceive and delude you with lies wrapped around their many mentions of the name of God. Open your eyes to see the many examples out there that continually invalidate the delusions these people try to feed you. God is not a God of delusions or lies

(3) This presumptuous fool declares herself right. You are no more than a pseudo intellectual masquerading as someone of value but has no qualms with quashing opposing thoughts and perpectives. I cannot see the world through your lens and neither will you through mine yet every perspective is an option that the OP may chose to explore in her pursuit of truth.

(4). Marriage abandonment/divorce rates among religious folks particularly Churchians exactly mirrors that of the unbelievers. Even your pastors with their many submissive wives are not immune to the very same marital problems faced by those in the world to the extent their children grow up just as equally traumatized as children raised in abusive homes outside of religion. Stop gorging yourself with these lies you wrap around the many mentions of the name of God and stop spreading these delusions to others abeg!
(4) Your foolishness on full display as usual. According to word of the Lord to Paul, both men and women are given commandments that they need to adhere to to sustain marriage and marriages fail when one or both parties to the marriage fail in their responsibility. That a wife is submissive does not make the marriage sustainable and that a man is loving and sacrificial does not alone sustain the marriage. Marriage needs the combination of a loving husband and a submissive wife. However, in your puerile haste to reveal your foolishness, you didn't see how I mentioned the responsibilities of both parties in the marriage.

Dear OP. The ball is in your court. There are many voices in this world (1 Corinthians 14:10) and they are all talking to you now. I pray you are able to make the right decision and enjoy a great marriage.

AyamGod23:
This is the exact truth about me no lies,
i am a young guy 26 years, 5ft 11, weight 69kg, bmi 21.
i currently work in Lagos as storekeeper and never dated before please
i need a girlfriend who is fun and interesting to chat with, i am cool and likeable guy actually i don't have age preference for a girl.

please if you are interested indicate. thanks


in case a girl is reading this and feeling shy my mail is ayamgod23@gmail.com

Are you ready to pay 250k bride price?